The fact that a child randomly punched someone in the face contradicts the opinion that the parents raised him well.Oh. In other words, this is what is known scientifically as, blaming black parents before knowing the facts.
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The fact that a child randomly punched someone in the face contradicts the opinion that the parents raised him well.Oh. In other words, this is what is known scientifically as, blaming black parents before knowing the facts.
The fact that a child randomly punched someone in the face contradicts the opinion that the parents raised him well.
Que, in addition to the fact that the child randomly punched someone in the face, there is also the fact that it was a child.It means that some young teens/adults punched someone and until we know what the facts are, we don't know who to blame for their conduct, other than themselves.
It means that you reflexively blamed black parents without facts to support that conclusion.
Are you a black parent ???
It's just easier to not blame the person who instilled the values.I grew up with many well-raised children that did stupid things. Those things embarrassed both the children and their parents, but the parents were not to blame, the children were. Some of those had become involved with bad elements and some of those did stupid things because they wanted to be viewed in a certain light by others. Blaming black parents, without a factual basis, is just as wrong as blaming racism, without a factual basis.
To insist upon blaming black parents, without some factual basis suggesting their culpability, is suggestive of some kind of hate of black parents.
Are you a black parent ???
Obviously. I was taught the difference between good or bad, and I didn't violate it no matter the various circumstances a child finds himself in. This isn't the same as always doing the right thing.
Better question: Were you raised well ???
It's just easier to not blame the person who instilled the values.
And after 12 years of us being on this board together, it's on purpose if you don't know something about me.
Obviously. I was taught the difference between good or bad, and I didn't violate it no matter the various circumstances a child finds himself in. This isn't the same as always doing the right thing.
I cited facts, they just weren't important to you.You shouldn't blame anyone, without some factual basis for doing so. Why would you anyone blame the parent without knowing anything about the particular parent-child relationship![]()
Yes, my "ideological bent" that people shouldn't go around initiating the use of force against others, whether it's with a fist or ballot box. God forbid that becomes a moral standard.Obviously? Perhaps. You could be a Black Cereal Killa, for all I know. But it does appear that you have a penchant for judging, without the facts and you have a propensity to pigeon-hole people based on your own ideological bent.
Yes, my "ideological bent" that people shouldn't go around initiating the use of force against others, whether it's with a fist or ballot box. God forbid that becomes a moral standard.
First of all, we're not in agreement regarding the initiation of force. Every other post on this board should be evidence of that.We're in agreement that people shouldn't go around initiating force against others -- but why you would support blaming other than the perpetrators, without proof, is just amazing.
First of all, we're not in agreement regarding the initiation of force. Every other post on this board should be evidence of that.
And as long as the perpetrator is a child, it's the norm to avoid putting all the blame on them. Whether it's by charging them as juveniles or expunging their records at 21. They generally don't face the same consquences for their actions that someone 40 would face.
You're the one conveniently going outside the norm by putting all the blame on the kids.
I don't know how I'm getting bent out of shape since I've already pointed out your blame and mitigation in an earlier post. I acknowledge their crimes while pointing out they are children which is why it shouldn't be promoted they are totally at fault for their actions.Okay, "I" believe its is wrong to initiate force without some provocation or justification. But you're free to believe differently.
You appear to be confusing concepts here: ]Blame (or, criminal responsibility) and Mitigation (or, a consideration of the factors which influenced the criminal conduct, which may lessen or relieve the charge or the punishment).
Very basically, if you commit the criminal act, you will be blamed. If you were suffering from some mental defect, if you were of a tender age, or you were influenced by someone or some circumstance -- those might be mitigating factors influencing what you might be charged with and what punishment might ultimately be meted out.
- From the "Knockout" articles above, it appears that some young people (the term children may or may not apply) struck some unsuspecting victims causing harm. Who ever threw the cowardly punch, committed a criminal act; and
- The "Knockout" story that I read above didn't provide any details about their upbringing, so it would be pure guess or surmise at this point to make any judgment at all over what may have influenced their conduct, hence, at THIS stage, saying racism or failed parenting was a factor -- is just plain conclusion not based in fact.
But, if you say their parents are at fault here, that's fine with me. But don't get bent the fuck outta shape because I disagree with blaming the parents without some proof of their failure.
If you don't see how this is wrong; then you probably just don't want to be right. But that can happen when you're pigeon-holing.
...I have an extremely hard time assigning blame to children. The severity of which a child screws up is positively related to the percentage of adults that has failed him in life.
Black parents and adult family members need to get right to fix the gun-toting black youths.
With that being said, my Harper High School post in the Chicago version of this thread, shows that "being in a gang" isn't as simple as the 80's era Crips and Blood dynamic.
That radio story revealed many a people that were shocked that their little angels were in a gang because it didn't fit the gang colors or even choice-based molds.
The game has changed and kids are trying to deal alone because adults haven't kept up.