Sprewell: $32,000 a month child support !!

[femmenoire]

Stupid ass should do what I did, get custody of your kids .. you frakkin reject.

Fuck sayin "It's cheaper to keep her."
Fuck sayin" If you knock her up blah blah blah."

Why the fuck do so many of you men think it's cool if she basically tells you how to raise your kids? And the only thing you have to say is damn i gotta pay child support!
Fuck that, Dont be scared to go after joint/full custody, just make sure your game is TIGHT!!!!! TIGHT!!! TIGHT!!!!.
Basically she gets ten points for being a woman and another 20 for being able to carry them mofos for 9 months.
Judges still seem to think woman are Weak willed and can't take care of themselves so add in another 20 points.
Best thing to do when your 50 points behind is to play up ALL the support structure, family relations, friend relations you have. Make sure you can pick them mofo's up from schooland be there to help with homework, take they lil asses to practice band camp whatever. NEVER MENTION WEEKEND ANYTHING!!!NEVER MENTION WEEKEND ANYTHING!!!NEVER MENTION WEEKEND ANYTHING!!!NEVER MENTION WEEKEND ANYTHING!!!

ONLY speak about weekedays, then you play up how good of a mother she is and shit like that fucks judges heads up. Luckily me and my baby mother didnt have to go thru this, Since it was determined that I would be able to best provide and support my child.

That's because most men don't want to do the job full time. They can't commit to what I mentioned in my previous post.

There are lots of fathers in the world but very few committed dads.

Personally, I think more and more women should give full custody to the dads. You see how many dudes will rethink that.

 

[VegasGuy]

his estranged girlfriend $32,000 a month in child support

For a GIRLFRIEND??

I thought he was married and got this but he wasn't even married to her? No wonder women flock pro ballers. With the right nutt, she could retire.

-VG

 

[Crown&Coke]

Really? Do you have kids? If so, do you take care of them?

Wake them up, bathe them, get them dressed, feed them, take them to school, make sure their school lunches are taken care of, pick them up from school, help them with homework, feed them again, bathe them again, spend your quality time with them, put them to bed?

Do you take them to soccer, football, baseball, ballet, music, martial arts, and other forms of practice?

Do you take them to the doctor when they are sick? Stay up 24 hours when they are in need of monitoring? Do you clean up their vomit, spit up and bowel movements when they don't have the control? Do you do their laundry, including ironing and folding?


Or do you just buy them a game or a dvd, throw a ball at em once in a while, kiss them on the forehead and call it a day?

Niggas kill me.

I understand what you saying but paying 32,000 a month still doesnt make sense. Like one guy said in this post, there should be a cap on child support cuz its gettin crazy how much some of these guys have to pay. What if a judge told you that you had to pay an outrageous amount of money a month for child and your babydaddy aint working and he just sittin there living more than comfortable off of child support.

 

[Sir Good Drank]

Jesus I'm Fucked!!!............................................................................ No Shit?

 

[femmenoire]

I understand what you saying but paying 32,000 a month still doesnt make sense. Like one guy said in this post, there should be a cap on child support cuz its gettin crazy how much some of these guys have to pay. What if a judge told you that you had to pay an outrageous amount of money a month for child and your babydaddy aint working and he just sittin there living more than comfortable off of child support.

If he is taking care of my kids the right way, he is working 24/7.

Why do you think alot of white men don't have their wives working? They ain't tryin to go there. That is a HUGE undertaking.

Being yelled at by their bosses is still easier than facing the responsibility of being a true and committed dad.

It's exhausting. And you brothers always want to chalk it up as some easy task. Maybe that's why y'all so quick to not use protection because for the most part, sistas let you off the hook.

 

[Thick Johnson]

Fuck him and his problems.

He's in a better position than 95% of this board.

Play it smart and that will not be a problem for him.
I thought it was based on income. They might just
be gettin him back for choking P.J.

He should learn to nutt on a bitches back or get
head for the finale....dumbass.

If a bitch can leave and take half what is the
real incentive for her to make it work?
If she has kids then she has residual income.
Even the dumbest laziest of bitches cant fuck
that up.

 

[JUju2005]

Jesus I'm Fucked!!!............................................................................ No Shit?

 

[Tazirai]

That's because most men don't want to do the job full time. They can't commit to what I mentioned in my previous post.

There are lots of fathers in the world but very few committed dads.

Personally, I think more and more women should give full custody to the dads. You see how many dudes will rethink that.

I think it should start WAAAy younger Fem, I gotta blame parents on this one specifically mothers. If our society has tons of single mothers, it's up to them to change things. Teach boys while they are growin up to be fathers and dads, not sperm donors. Keep they lil asses away from family friends who laugh at them for wanting to be there for their kids. If you do have a father in the house then the plan needs to be enforced to where your daughter AND son learn what it's like to be a parent.

My daughter is 12 and I refuse to hide anything from her, Her brother is ten and stays with us a good part of the year even though he isnt mine. His father died, So i put it on myself to make sure He will know what it means to be there for his kids.
More than just monetarily to. It's gotta start somewhere, the home is just as good a place to begin.
Teach em young, thank god for both my Dad's and my Mom.

 

[femmenoire]

That's funny you should say that.

Perfect example is a black couple on Dr. 90210 who run a plastic surgery practice in Beverly Hills. Both are doctors, both bring home alot of dough. They often have the same patients.

But the wife is the one getting up feeding the children and getting them ready for their day. She does this and still works. The father, he spends maybe an hour with them. He comes home and still expects dinner when his wife done got off work with his ass. They don't have a nanny.

So she got 2 jobs. Gimme a fuckin break.

The men I know who are truely committed to being a father, don't complain about that shit at all.

 

[femmenoire]

I think it should start WAAAy younger Fem, I gotta blame parents on this one specifically mothers. If our society has tons of single mothers, it's up to them to change things. Teach boys while they are growin up to be fathers and dads, not sperm donors. Keep they lil asses away from family friends who laugh at them for wanting to be there for their kids. If you do have a father in the house then the plan needs to be enforced to where your daughter AND son learn what it's like to be a parent.

My daughter is 12 and I refuse to hide anything from her, Her brother is ten and stays with us a good part of the year even though he isnt mine. His father died, So i put it on myself to make sure He will know what it means to be there for his kids.
More than just monetarily to. It's gotta start somewhere, the home is just as good a place to begin.
Teach em young, thank god for both my Dad's and my Mom.

I agree wholeheartedly. But I come from a household where my Dad was just as much a part of my upbringing as my Mom was. So he knows how hard it is.

I have a friend who has 2 kids with his baby momma. One day he decided he wanted to move and he wanted his kids with him. So he asked the mother of his children to move as well. But she was in nursing school and could not commit to that. There were arguments back and forth about how he was just going to sue for custody and be the sole provider, yada, yada.

She said fine. Take them.

Only 2 weeks later he was like, we need to work something out.

 

[Crown&Coke]

Paying 32,000 aint making up for him not being there. Its just making the mother rich off of his money making him a benefactor, not a father. Didnt they say he couldnt have contact with the kids too? That nigga need to get custody or something or the money need to go to a trust fund or something. Not just all to her.

 

[killacash]

Really? Do you have kids? If so, do you take care of them?

Wake them up, bathe them, get them dressed, feed them, take them to school, make sure their school lunches are taken care of, pick them up from school, help them with homework, feed them again, bathe them again, spend your quality time with them, put them to bed?

Do you take them to soccer, football, baseball, ballet, music, martial arts, and other forms of practice?

Do you take them to the doctor when they are sick? Stay up 24 hours when they are in need of monitoring? Do you clean up their vomit, spit up and bowel movements when they don't have the control? Do you do their laundry, including ironing and folding?


Or do you just buy them a game or a dvd, throw a ball at em once in a while, kiss them on the forehead and call it a day?

Niggas kill me.

Be serious...


It would only take like 400-500$ every week for groceries about 600$ a month for clothes and shoes and a grand for any health/school/dentist etc. Thats nowhere near 32g's a month. Thats way unnecessary

 

[femmenoire]

Be serious...


It would only take like 400-500$ every week for groceries about 600$ a month for clothes and shoes and a grand for any health/school/dentist etc. Thats nowhere near 32g's a month. Thats way unnecessary

In what life?

Please don't say you have kids.

 

[Tazirai]

I agree wholeheartedly. But I come from a household where my Dad was just as much a part of my upbringing as my Mom was. So he knows how hard it is.

I have a friend who has 2 kids with his baby momma. One day he decided he wanted to move and he wanted his kids with him. So he asked the mother of his children to move as well. But she was in nursing school and could not commit to that. There were arguments back and forth about how he was just going to sue for custody and be the sole provider, yada, yada.

She said fine. Take them.

Only 2 weeks later he was like, we need to work something out.

LMAO at your friend.. We as men need to be made Aware of the way of caring for and mainting our kids. One thing I learned about my gender is when we are alone a man is King, we know how to do damn near everything. put us in a relationship.. add kids.. Men turn to . We need the training at a young age Badly.

 

[killacash]

In what life?

Please don't say you have kids.

My pops did it with 5 kids. I want you to calculate 32,000 at the children expenses. I'm ready to laugh

 

[12dahead]

that "so called" jesus pic. oh my god! LOFL!

 

[femmenoire]

My pops did it with 5 kids. I want you to calculate 32,000 at the children expenses. I'm ready to laugh

I know people raising 6 kids with less. That's not the point.

When you have more, you do more. That is the point.

 

[hanginbals]

He should of put a pat pending on those "Sprewell" rims

 

[SupremoDivino]

That's because most men don't want to do the job full time. They can't commit to what I mentioned in my previous post.

There are lots of fathers in the world but very few committed dads.

Personally, I think more and more women should give full custody to the dads. You see how many dudes will rethink that.

Thirty-two thousand dollars is too much money. Five kids is a lot; but that's more money than anyone would EVER need to run a household.

Let's just say you have some greedy ass kids, and you spend one-thousand dollars a month on food. Let's also say your kids have to have new clothes ALL THE time(Let's put 1, 000 dollars per kid, per month. Ha!) Utilities .... let's just say you don't know a damn thing about conserving energy, and your utilities come up to about 2000!

NOW!

Let's say all of her family live in another country, and their phone bill, because of international calls, equal up to 2, 000 per month.

Let's tally this baby up....

Wait...

She drives a gas guzzler, and have to drop 900 dollars per month in gas....hmmmm....

Let's total this motherfucker up...

...............................$ 10, 9000. 00.

Now, anybody whose EVERY run a house .. know that it doesn't take 10, 000 dollars per month to run a damn house. As for the headaches she has to deal with for taking care of the kids....

....well, that's not something Sprewell should have to pay for. She opened up legs, and ultimately has to suffer the consequences for such. Sprewell has to suffer, as well - it's not easy to give 32, 000 dollars to a woman you probably hate, PER month. Most single mothers, if they didn't have to worry about money, they wouldn't have as many problems. I know he's not there, but that's not going to change. He's paying out the butt for his stupidity, how much more should they he be penalized? We don't know both sides to the story, so to just see her as the victimized, single-mother .. is assuming a bit too much. Even IF her monthly expenses equaled that insane amount I tallied up; she still has 21 grand to play with, PER month.

This is ludicrous, to say the absolute least.

 

[femmenoire]

Thirty-two thousand dollars is too much money. Five kids is a lot; but that's more money than anyone would EVER need to run a household.

Let's just say you have some greedy ass kids, and you spend one-thousand dollars a month on food. Let's also say your kids have to have new clothes ALL THE time(Let's put 1, 000 dollars per kid, per month. Ha!) Utilities .... let's just say you don't know a damn thing about conserving energy, and your utilities come up to about 2000!

NOW!

Let's say all of her family live in another country, and their phone bill, because of international calls, equal up to 2, 000 per month.

Let's tally this baby up....

Wait...

She drives a gas guzzler, and have to drop 900 dollars per month in gas....hmmmm....

Let's total this motherfucker up...

...............................$ 10, 9000. 00.

Now, anybody whose EVERY run a house .. know that it doesn't take 10, 000 dollars per month to run a damn house. As for the headaches she has to deal with for taking care of the kids....

....well, that's not something Sprewell should have to pay for. She opened up legs, and ultimately has to suffer the consequences for such. Sprewell has to suffer, as well - it's not easy to give 32, 000 dollars to a woman you probably hate, PER month. Most single mothers, if they didn't have to worry about money, they wouldn't have as many problems. I know he's not there, but that's not going to change. He's paying out the butt for his stupidity, how much more should they he be penalized? We don't know both sides to the story, so to just see her as the victimized, single-mother .. is assuming a bit too much. Even IF her monthly expenses equaled that insane amount I tallied up; she still has 21 grand to play with, PER month.

This is ludicrous, to say the absolute least.

Who said she was a victim?

And how is this a penalization?

After all you broke down, there's still unforseen medical costs, the cost of schooling (you know he can't send his kids to a regular school), and don't forget about the college fund and life insurance for each child. Wait, don't forget the indulgences every parent spends on birthday parties and holidays.

Don't sleep. Kids cost.

 

[SupremoDivino]

Who said she was a victim?

And how is this a penalization?

After all you broke down, there's still unforseen medical costs, the cost of schooling (you know he can't send his kids to a regular school), and don't forget about the college fund and life insurance for each child. Wait, don't forget the indulgences every parent spends on birthday parties and holidays.

Don't sleep. Kids cost.

I've NEVER known anyone to need 20 thousand per month to take care of a household. The total I came up with was for the sake of showing how ludicrous it was to give someone THAT much money. Kids may cost, but if they cost THAT damn much, who would be able to afford having them?

I don't know anyone, with five kids who makes nor needs 10, 000 dollars per month, let alone 20 - and that would still leave her with 12 thou...if it were 20.

Man, I can't expect you to understand, 'cause this is clearly a battle of the sexes issue. You know damn well kids aren't THAT expensive.

I say all the kids needs should be met; not have the mother be rewarded for being nothing more than a sperm dumpster. She's going to benefit from being a damn cum dumpster, but Sprewell isn't going to benefit, at all. Their isn't much balance...

Any woman dumb enough to have that many damn kids, in this day is age, is probably someone who'd spend ungodly amounts of money in clothes, and shit that lacks any value once it leaves the store.

Edit: You talk about unforseen medical expenses: Whose to say 32 would be enough to cover those expenses? What will she do then, get the judge to hit him up for more money? You can't charge for the unforseen; so why even bring that into the issue. Give her 15 g's, and if she can't make it work with that, that she needs a course in how to use her money...

 

[Thick Johnson]

I bet you anything she celebrated with friends over
this shit. They was high fiving like shit. And you
best fucking beleive she went shopping.

Regardless its a victory and she came the fuck up.
No woman on this earth is gonna say that is too
much money besides the women in his immediate
family and whoever he is dating at the time.

Simple as that.. Shit like this is taken as a personal
victory for females everywhere and its incentive for
many to get met get laid and get paid.

 

[SupremoDivino]

Point Blank.

A woman get's to live luxuriously for accomplishing the tremendous feat .. of landing a dude with money, and gettin' pregnant by him. She's going to live BIG TIME, 'cause five kids don't need that much money per month.

This is a joke. Better his wallet than mine, tho'.

 

[JohnJuan]

It always trips me out when men bitch about this. They don't bitch about what they spend on their children when they are with the mother, so why bitch about it when you're not with her. They are still your children and still deserve the best you can give them.

Would you like for your kids who once had their own room and all the toys they can play with, to go back to their moms living in a modest house wondering what the hell happened and why aren't they living the same?

He said he had kids to feed, not kids to take care of and that is HUGE job in itself, especially if you want them to be raised right. Homegirl is probably doing all the work. Most of these men that bitch, don't even know their child's favorite color. Hell don't even know their child. Who is raising them then?

And it must not have been that bad to knock a sista up 4x. Where is your self-control? Isn't anyone afraid of disease?

oh just shut up!

 

[femmenoire]

oh just shut up!

Awwwww.

 

[HeathCliff]

Welp, he did say his kids gotta eat

 

[afroyale]

Since they aint together no more, she shouldnt benefit from his money. He is paying child support, not paying for her support too.

Smart man.

 

[afroyale]

That's because most men don't want to do the job full time. They can't commit to what I mentioned in my previous post.

There are lots of fathers in the world but very few committed dads.

Personally, I think more and more women should give full custody to the dads. You see how many dudes will rethink that.

You're a goddam fat ho!! Bitch go wipe that cum off your ugly face.

 

[afroyale]

In what life?

Please don't say you have kids.

Please post a hypothetical household budget for a family of three (1 mother 3 kids).

Kids don't cost that much to raise. If it were, a lot of us wouldn't be alive today -- heck, the human race would've been extinct a long time ago. The feminists have done a great inflating the value of female's reproductive resources.

 

[femmenoire]

You're a goddam fat ho!! Bitch go wipe that cum off your ugly face.

Hush gay boy.

 

[afroyale]

What's your salary? Now, pretend you had to take a HUGE chunk of it and hand it to some nigga you're not in love with, not married to and hate. How would you feel about that? Oh, and if you don't pay him your ass goes to jail... but a running tab is still being kept by the government.

Child support is slavery and debtor's prison (http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=debtors+prison&btnG=Google+Search) which btw was supposed to be abolished a long time ago.

 

[Thick Johnson]

What's your salary? Now, pretend you had to take a HUGE chunk of it and hand it to some nigga you're not in love with, not married to and hate. How would you feel about that? Oh, and if you don't pay him your ass goes to jail... but a running tab is still being kept by the government.

Child support is slavery and debtor's prison (http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=debtors+prison&btnG=Google+Search) which btw was supposed to be abolished a long time ago.

This is the wrong argument to have with a woman.

 

[alexw]

lets total up the costs Femm

because baby, in this thread you have lost your damn mind

the most expensive cost for these children is schooling

most private schools are on par with college tuition

so lets say that is 25k x 4 = 100 grand

lets say she pays a mortgage( i doubt it)= 40k a year

food and clothing ==== 25k

and 25k is greatly exaggerating this need

private trips, classes, and other extracurrulicar activities = 50k

that adds up too = 240k

which I greatly exaggerated all of the damn numbers

now spree is ordered to pay 32k x 12 = 380k

thats an extra 140k she does not need

and you know damn well shes banking that mans income

plus she definetly has a nanny and other assistance

and he still has to care for his children when they visit him

fuck you can run a small country with 380k a year, no damn kids cost that much

if they do, she needs to budget