Soooo SOL men...Whats the Fascination..
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me personally im to old to be cummin in a girl's mouth.
Is it displeasure? I don't think so. I know women who love to swallow. I think its more mental than anything. Like I said earlier, they would be pissed if we abandoned ship once they started to cum.
I'm referring to the hesitation and "reasoning" as displeasure. If the texture is so bad, it still only lasts 10 seconds at max. Are you not willing to undergo 10 seconds for your man?
Lonestar...Princess C...
I saw this pic, thought of this thread and immediately thought of you two.
Let it sink in for a minute!
I saw this pic, thought of this thread and immediately thought of you two.
Let it sink in for a minute!
LoneStar29
Banned
Oh it's like that Andey?
Edit: Ok wait it sunk in
Edit: Ok wait it sunk in
whats good PC
She doesn't have to swallow it for me...just continue to suck while I'm cummin'. Doing that will cause me to almost pass out anyway, so when I come to...I don't care what she did with it.
This is why I said its mostly mental. In addition its really not about swallowing. Some women run for the hills just as your about to cum, that is the problem.
The real deal is some black women are sexually selfish. As men we are expected to perform sexually and we must be good at it. We are expected to do whatever you ask of us, even control the activities in the bedroom. An we have no choice because if we don't you women will seek someone who will. 
As for the thread title it should've read, "What Excuse Can I Come Up with to Disappoint and Frustrate My Man." I say that because of the smorgasbord of "Why I Won't Excuses."
Lonestar it's not what you heard about disrespecting women. The name calling you refer to does exist but that's not coming from real men and I think you already know that.
Onyx LMAO @ "I dont spit.... It's un-lady like I catch and play w/ it..." .....Playing with it is ladylike?
But its not really about that either. But I like the way you think.
PrincessC your early comments got my stomach twisted. Snot?
Followup your sig indicates you have no problem being on the receiving end but yogurt has nothing to do with the thread title.
On a personal note for me I could care less. At one time it did but not nearly as much as it once did. I don't want you ladies thinking I'm trying to steer your comments or views on this matter.
As for the thread title it should've read, "What Excuse Can I Come Up with to Disappoint and Frustrate My Man." I say that because of the smorgasbord of "Why I Won't Excuses."
Lonestar it's not what you heard about disrespecting women. The name calling you refer to does exist but that's not coming from real men and I think you already know that.
Onyx LMAO @ "I dont spit.... It's un-lady like I catch and play w/ it..." .....Playing with it is ladylike?
But its not really about that either. But I like the way you think. PrincessC your early comments got my stomach twisted. Snot?
Followup your sig indicates you have no problem being on the receiving end but yogurt has nothing to do with the thread title.
On a personal note for me I could care less. At one time it did but not nearly as much as it once did. I don't want you ladies thinking I'm trying to steer your comments or views on this matter.
LoneStar29
Banned
Possibly if I trusted him enough ... what about you PC???
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@ the men not listening to us ... I mean you asked a question ... we answered honestly and you're gonna tell me "no that's not why you don't do it ... it's cuz you're selfish"
What was the whole point of asking if you feel you already know the answer Anyway ... that attitude definately wont get me to swallow but whatever cuz I'm sure ya'll will just move onto the next woman who does anyways cuz it's soooooooooo important
I agree with you Lone. If it's such a dealbreaker, move on, since there are soooo many women that will do it.
To answer you though, I've never been with a guy that cared that much about swallowing, so I've never faced this problem. If I loved him and that's what he wanted, I probably would without hesitation. Love is the operative word though...can't just swallow for any random guy.
Hey Shaddy
To answer you though, I've never been with a guy that cared that much about swallowing, so I've never faced this problem. If I loved him and that's what he wanted, I probably would without hesitation. Love is the operative word though...can't just swallow for any random guy.
Hey Shaddy
Bingo
You don't wana swallow, big deal, I'll nut in your purse while you're asleep.
LoneStar29
Banned
You're exactly right. It's not about her swallowing, cause I could give less than a fuck about that act, it's about her NOT swallowing, and what that says about us, and more specifically her.
Not even bruh. Men exert enough "dominance" during sex, maybe for some men, but not all. Probably the same men who talk shit about broads that swallow.
i mean...whats the point?
that's like saying i fucked my girl all day.....for what?
what's the point?
u gonna do it all over again?
PC im sick
that's like saying i fucked my girl all day.....for what?
what's the point?
u gonna do it all over again?
PC im sick
I think I've been corrupted.
I mean, I've grown accustom to a chick that don't mind swallowing. I believe in giving it my all when I'm in the bedroom.
My problem with the women that don't wanna swallow is this. How do you expect a man to be open to new shit with you, if you limit your actions?
How you going to *deep down inside* want a man to eat you until you cum, then fuck you until you have a multiple, but you don't wanna swallow his nut? I mean, every woman wants that good experience. However, a lot of women do not want to work for it.
I mean, I've grown accustom to a chick that don't mind swallowing. I believe in giving it my all when I'm in the bedroom.
My problem with the women that don't wanna swallow is this. How do you expect a man to be open to new shit with you, if you limit your actions?
How you going to *deep down inside* want a man to eat you until you cum, then fuck you until you have a multiple, but you don't wanna swallow his nut? I mean, every woman wants that good experience. However, a lot of women do not want to work for it.
Oh, puh-leeze, man.
Stop giving women false answers.
It's all about submission and dominance of will.
What possible purpose does SWALLOWING CUM serve besides twisted psychological gratification? Sex alone is not enough. Men like to be in control, plain and simple.
I KNEW IT
I said this in my first post goddamn it!
That's not all it is to it but it's a part of it. Ya'll have "dominant" ways in bed also.
Now show me some nudy pics and both of ya'll are back on the good list!
Nah fam, not always. It's not always about me making you swallow my nut, that's dominance. It's about you wanting to swallow my nut, that's pleasure. Like I said, it's not about the act, it's about the reasoning behind why she wouldn't do it. It's not like dudes are talking about fucking and then pulling it out and making her get on her knees and busting in her mouth talking about swallowing it. Most men in here are talking about simply, if you're down there handling business and I bust, don't act like it's acid or start spitting it out like it's Robitussin.
There's a big difference.
And what about your avatar man? That was the best on BGOL.
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So in other words, SUBMISSION.
Making her do something she normally wouldn't.
The little afro fella?
That's a cartoon representation of myself.
You can somewhat imagine what I look like in real life.
So in other words, SUBMISSION.
Making her do something she normally wouldn't.
The little afro fella?
That's a cartoon representation of myself.
You can somewhat imagine what I look like in real life.
Naaaaaaaah, you taken my words and misappropriating them. If I'm with a chick and she says she doesn't give head then my displeasure about it isn't about dominating her and making her do it, my displeasure is why she won't step a little outside her comfort zone to please me, as most (real) men do often.
Nah, I was talking about the dancing chicken man. That chicken was the shit.
I could not agree more LD, I don't get off on the fact that I forced her to swallow my nut, I get off on the fact that she is so consumed with me and the act that we are participating in that she just wants to have all of me...drink my essence if you will...
Ya mammy.
You my boy blue!
You full of shit...you know damn well if a dude gave you incredible head, pipe game and multiple orgasms, your ass would do anything for that dude.
PC is full of shit too...Followup is just a prude, it is what it is...
The texture argument is bullshit. You eat lumpy ass oatmeal, thick ass smoothies and cream of wheat now or when you were growin' up, and that shit was thick and slimy as hell...Y'all are the ones that decided to take taste "out the equation" so I don't want to hear any shit about taste.
Simple answer of "I don't want to swallow" should suffice well. And if there is further questions about why then "because it's my choice" will suffice as well.
Look, all my women have swallowed, but none were ever coaxed to do so. They reciprocated in what I did because they were ladies, not whores.
Besides, it takes me too long to cum JUST off of oral alone anyway, so I don't give a shit. Give me the pussy, some head and if you decide to swallow then that's up to the woman.
I always say, "I can either cum on your ass, your stomach, your face, or in your mouth, but I'm comin' on ya either way..."
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