Trust, when I looked at this it made me literally sit down and reflect... hard.
I'll begin my portion here
What people don't want to understand is that it is ok to let things go and move on, but at least heal from the trauma which we haven't. In not one way we as a people dealt with it because how it makes other races feel, all the while we are suffering from conditioned traumatic responses.... I will raise my hand and say I have hurt people from staring too long in my youth, I could say as a first generation american that I was taught to believe in the superiority of their culture over my own and cling to their ideals of a equality on paper and not in practice. I have seen the discourse which happens when you bring it up... hell, even when after I was done in the military and went to university I still seen how it's discussed.
While I was in one of the theology courses @ Fordham, a jewish aspiring film producer said that 'we live in a society without racism but people were still anti-semetic'.... after I tore into his so called Jew ass and the instructor, and the rest of the lilly white classmates which got uncomfortable and didn't say shit... their cognitive dissonance and the SCJ badge of false pride for their burnt offering called a holocaust.
This is only part of it though. This board has a gift and a curse, because in the web of threads which we discuss our issues and traumas, the crimes and manipulations of our image, the indirect and direct tactics used by the government against us, the nurturing of a culture by nonblack enterprises used to further muddy the waters and destroy our families... we post and discuss the micro issues of the problem, but when we attempt to place it together, the conditioning kicks in and we defend them by blaming ourselves. Although its the individual who chooses to act, someone had to create the circumstances leading to the choices made or how did it develop... we are taught not to look in our past and reflect, from the dark continent, to slavery, to the era of eugenical tactics and wholesale accepted murder and torture, fleecing of our resources in their help to us, etc.