^^ I'll agree with what's up here. black men gotta start with a plan. if you're some anti-child ninja, get a vasectomy, get tested, go fuck porn hoes or whatever.
if you trying to start a family...get with a plan, and do your best to stick to that shit. we all know once you buss off, the chick got the power to do what she wants to do, your opinion really isn't necessary.
so while fucking is good, fucking keeps your bloodline going...maybe it might be a good idea to choose 1 chick, who's about something, looks decent....and start a family with her?
now if y'all really want to get into black men solvin the shit, then start.
Let's be real. You and I know the following phrase is 100% true:
Show me a beauty and I'll show you a man who is tired of fucking here.
So then you get caught with the jumpoff, now what? Alimony.
You can raise a family WITHOUT GETTING MARRIED.
Whether or not you have kids, marriage automatically places a man at an extreme financial disadvantage.