Social media is a cold world!!!

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I know I see my homies and homettes go through it all the time...

they be like their children act like they did them a favor being born.....

not all but most of them..... a few have a very good relationship with their children,

two of them because dudes are always traveling so they miss and appreciate him more..

and the other one is because his daughters are all in solid relationships so they dont have

time to be a pain in his ass lol..

one chick was tellin me how her son is a bully and always gettin thrown out of schools,

she is tired of going to his schools and hearing how bad he is, after she goes on for like twenty minutes

she asks me, so when are you gonna have children dont wait to long..

Im like after what you said.. never...

lol


If I could go back I would not be a father, they really romanticize being a parent, kids can be assholes, but it is what it is, just pray my lil guy turns out good







Yooooooo I'm dying






Them commercials have me rolling



The accuracy
 

Kids are a black hole in which money goes in and does not come out,

But the best analogy, is kids are like the ed McMahon sweepstakes, you keep sinking money into your child hoping they hit the jackpot, i.e. Be well adjusted, work or own a well paying job, morally upright adult, that doesn't embarrass you or drains you
 
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If I could go back I would not be a father, they really romanticize being a parent, kids can be assholes, but it is what it is, just pray my lil guy turns out good

yea sometimes if you are in a shakey relationship, baby moms be brainwashin the shit out of her children...

Ive heard stories of folks hating their father because of the mothers influence and didnt realize it untill they were well over thirty...

and most of them said by that time it was too late their pops wanted nothing to do with them...

one girl said no matter what she did to her pops he always forgave her and they have a great relationship now...

crazy thing is now she resents her mother for that...

there are some cool moms who refuse to let their fustrations with their men fuck up the childrens relationships with their father..

those are real mothers...
 
Kids are a black hole in which money goes in and does not come out,

But the best analogy, is kids are like the ed McMahon sweepstakes, you keep sinking money into your child hoping they hit the jackpot, i.e. Be well adjusted, work or own a well paying job, morally upright adult, that doesn't embarrass you or drains you

ya I get it man...when I was younger I always thought good parents=good children...and that it was just that simple...then I started teaching lol...a lot of ppl tend to look @ the cute side of raising a kid...essentially tho you're bringing another adult into the world who can take an infinite amount of paths good/bad and that's if they're born "normal" w/ no physical/mental disabilities...maybe I'm overthinking it but parenthood now frightens me
 
yea sometimes if you are in a shakey relationship, baby moms be brainwashin the shit out of her children...

Ive heard stories of folks hating their father because of the mothers influence and didnt realize it untill they were well over thirty...

and most of them said by that time it was too late their pops wanted nothing to do with them...

one girl said no matter what she did to her pops he always forgave her and they have a great relationship now...

crazy thing is now she resents her mother for that...

there are some cool moms who refuse to let their fustrations with their men fuck up the childrens relationships with their father..

those are real mothers...


That's an aspect most dont realize, thank god my child's mom is solid, we may not work but she's a damn good mother

ya I get it man...when I was younger I always thought good parents=good children...and that it was just that simple...then I started teaching lol...a lot of ppl tend to look @ the cute side of raising a kid...essentially tho you're bringing another adult into the world who can take an infinite amount of paths good/bad and that's if they're born "normal" w/ no physical/mental disabilities...maybe I'm overthinking it but parenthood now frightens me

It should, people don't take a realistic look at being a parent, they just look at the pictures or the great stories, no parent talks about when they kid damn near pushed them to strangling them, or was an asshole to them, or was bad despite them giving them everything
 
ya I get it man...when I was younger I always thought good parents=good children...and that it was just that simple...then I started teaching lol...a lot of ppl tend to look @ the cute side of raising a kid...essentially tho you're bringing another adult into the world who can take an infinite amount of paths good/bad and that's if they're born "normal" w/ no physical/mental disabilities...maybe I'm overthinking it but parenthood now frightens me

Be scared. Think about all the weird shit you got to explain now of days. And everything is much more expensive.

Plus I have no fucking idea on how to parent. I do my best and do what I think is right, but ultimately I don't know what I'm doing. I just go with it and hope that she turns out ok and not on BGOL.
 
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