So Women, When Do You Know It’s Time To Get Back Into A Relationship?

[thoughtone]

When you are so damn horny you can’t stand it and you want freaky sex with someone you can trust? When you are lonely to tears, especially during the holidays? When you want to get married or have thoughts of being alone forever? When you see other happy couples together? When?

 

[femmenoire]

I think it depends on the woman and where she is at her life.

Nothing stops a woman from getting her freak on if that's what she wants to do.

I know personally, I don't celebrate holidays so that time doesn't spark any feelings except to grab up all the OT I can at work.

I haven't been in a serious relationship in 5 years and although I want to, I'm not going to force the issue just because I'm horny. They don't make dildos and vibrators for nothing.

 

[bigirl]

For me its when I run into the right person that I can and want to have a relationship with which doesn't happen too often.

 

[thoughtone]

So you leave it up to fate, just pure chance and hope or wait for the right person to cross your path.

 

[femmenoire]

So you leave it up to fate, just pure chance and hope or wait for the right person to cross your path.

I don't see how that could work.

You don't just bump into someone and say, this is my boyfriend.

I find that being amongst a group of friends hanging out and then somehow you find yourself drawn to a particular person and vice-versa seems to work best, at least for me.

 

[bigirl]

So you leave it up to fate, just pure chance and hope or wait for the right person to cross your path.

I do my thing and all kinds of interesting people cross my path. All the time.
I am not looking for anything. Just doing my thing. Any time I have "tried to look" its a real bunch of fuck. Shit don't work like that for me. I actually have never "dated" like how most of you probably date.

 

[Cleopatra_J]

Hhmmm... I think for me... its knowing that I am comfortable with myself and want someone to share with. It's not horniness or anything else... But I think when you go out looking for something, thats when you turn up empty handed, its something that sort of just happens...

 

[sexylegz33]

Hhmmm... I think for me... its knowing that I am comfortable with myself and want someone to share with. It's not horniness or anything else... But I think when you go out looking for something, thats when you turn up empty handed, its something that sort of just happens...

I agree. Love usually shows up unexpected.

 

[SinaminDelite]

Hhmmm... I think for me... its knowing that I am comfortable with myself and want someone to share with. It's not horniness or anything else... But I think when you go out looking for something, thats when you turn up empty handed, its something that sort of just happens...

 

[lilsexii]

Hhmmm... I think for me... its knowing that I am comfortable with myself and want someone to share with. It's not horniness or anything else... But I think when you go out looking for something, thats when you turn up empty handed, its something that sort of just happens...

I know that it's not worth it to rush into a relationship just to say you're in one. I'm perfectly fine by myself until/unless a good thing comes along. I don't want to settle for just anybody just like I wouldn't want to be with someone who feels like they're settling for me. Relationships require enough as it is...getting into one that comes with that trap already built in is too much of a gamble for me...

As far as WHEN, I heard once that as long as a man perceives marriage or a relationship to be more of a loss than a gain (freedom, independence, financial security, etc.), he's not ready. Once he can see more gain than loss, it would be time. But I think that's true for women too - i just think they tend see the positives sooner that men do.