So this is what's hot now with sistas?

Looking at some of these comments, there are a lot of insecure dudes on this board. Sounding like you're gonna instantly sprout a vagina if a woman proposes to you.

Dude, it's not just about the proposal.

It's symptomatic of what's taking place in our culture.

You see a woman proposing, and many others can see how masculinity in males is becoming socially unacceptable in men, but acceptable in females.

Think about this ...

...men used to slap women in movies. Now we got movies where 110lb models are tossing around grown men like it's nothing.

Let a movie be made where the majority of the villains are women, and the man is running around kicking their asses. It'd be war.

You are being conditioned to believe that women taking on masculine roles are ok.
 
Each generation buys more into the concept that gender roles are interchangeable. That message is getting beat into their heads everyday.
 
Where does it end?

I know dudes who feel they are better men because women take care of them financially.

Your uncle believes you're not a real ladies men unless a woman proposes.

Do we stop there, or will a day come where you're not a real man unless you're willing to wear a dress?

I mean, you already had one of the Wayans boys saying niggas don't understand fashion when Omar Epps had on a fucking skirt.

This country has slowly become more and more effeminate ...

...and it is no coincidence that reversal of gender roles are taking place along with the feminization.

Yeah, but none of this shit effects me. Sometimes we choose the most insignificant shit to take over our emotions. Not everything I disagree with requires me to take some rage-filled stand against and hate on the next brotha or sista. We spend too much negative energy being judgemental over irrelevant shit we can't control. I'm gonna be me and other people can be themselves as long as they aren't harming others.

Secondly, even if this picture is to be taken the way the OP put it, Prince shoulda been let y'all know some women like feminine men.​
 
Yeah, but none of this shit effects me. Sometimes we choose the most insignificant shit to take over our emotions. Not everything I disagree requires me to take some rage-filled stand against and hate on the next brotha or sista. We spend too much negative energy being judgemental over irrelevant shit we can't control. I'm gonna be me and other people can be themselves as long as they aren't harming others.

Secondly, even if this picture is to be taken the way the OP put it, Prince shoulda been let y'all know some women like feminine men.​

Dude, the world around you is changing. It doesn't just happen in one way.

Do you think it's a coincidence that homosexuals and women get more respect politically and otherwise than black folks? 100 years ago, these groups were almost completely marginalized. Look at THEM now, and look at us.

The feminization is real. You're not looking at the larger picture.

For instance, you have HOW many TV shows where the husband is some goof, and the woman is running shit and the real brains in the family.

Do you think an Edith and Archie Bunker could air on TV nowadays? Hell no.

Why?

Women have pushed men into a position where they are willing to accept almost anything they dish out.

In a society that is still dominated by males...

...this occurring is a complete abuse of power. Just in a different way.
 
Dude, it's not just about the proposal.

It's symptomatic of what's taking place in our culture.

You see a woman proposing, and many others can see how masculinity in males is becoming socially unacceptable in men, but acceptable in females.

Fam, c'mon...this is not symptomatic of anything. A woman proposing or doing something that's considered a traditional role of a man doesn't emasculate or feminize a man, unless you let it.

Does a woman making more money than you make you feel like less a man? If so, that's on you...not on society.
 
Fam, c'mon...this is not symptomatic of anything. A woman proposing or doing something that's considered a traditional role of a man doesn't emasculate or feminize a man, unless you let it.

Does a woman making more money than you make you feel like less a man? If so, that's on you...not on society.

Dude, do you.

It's really that simple.
 
Dude, the world around you is changing. It doesn't just happen in one way.

Do you think it's a coincidence that homosexuals and women get more respect politically and otherwise than black folks? 100 years ago, these groups were almost completely marginalized. Look at THEM now, and look at us.

The feminization is real. You're not looking at the larger picture.

For instance, you have HOW many TV shows where the husband is some goof, and the woman is running shit and the real brains in the family.

Do you think an Edith and Archie Bunker could air on TV nowadays? Hell no.

Why?

Women have pushed men into a position where they are willing to accept almost anything they dish out.

In a society that is still dominated by males...

...this occurring is a complete abuse of power. Just in a different way.

Exactly

It's a gradual process, that's been taking place :smh:

I'd say it started late 60's early 70's ... and here we are today :smh::smh:
 
Exactly

It's a gradual process, that's been taking place :smh:

I'd say it started late 60's early 70's ... and here we are today :smh::smh:

I can't believe these dudes can't see this shit.

You can't have a James Evans character on TV nowadays.

You got Stephen A. Smith having to apologize for what he said, and these weak ass motherfucking men backing this woman.

Men have forgotten they're men.

Real spit.

If men collectively told women, 'It's going to be this way, so deal with it' there ain't shit they could do but fall in line.

But, nah.

Women have men by the balls, and the pussified males in power are the reason for it.

I just read about Obama pressing to have the standard for sexual assaults lowered on campus...

...giving these women even MORE power to get dudes caught up.

Motherfuckers won't get it until it's too damn late.
 
Dude, the world around you is changing. It doesn't just happen in one way.

Do you think it's a coincidence that homosexuals and women get more respect politically and otherwise than black folks? 100 years ago, these groups were almost completely marginalized. Look at THEM now, and look at us.

The feminization is real. You're not looking at the larger picture.

For instance, you have HOW many TV shows where the husband is some goof, and the woman is running shit and the real brains in the family.

Do you think an Edith and Archie Bunker could air on TV nowadays? Hell no.

Why?

Women have pushed men into a position where they are willing to accept almost anything they dish out.

In a society that is still dominated by males...

...this occurring is a complete abuse of power. Just in a different way.

if this pic is real she's not the first female that ever propose to a dude and she won't be the last..chicks have done that for yrs..it's not common to hear about it but it does happen..like females bagging dudes..males do it more but there are females that go after dudes
 
If men are trained to conquer what they want, why is wrong for woman to lock down what they want?

Because it makes weak, insecure men feel like one day a woman is going to come home, smack them and take the big piece of chicken off their plate. The shit is really sad.
 
my uncle was a ladies man, almost like a pimp

he always told me you arent a true player until you have a woman get on her knees to propose to you

yall may have this one wrong

And that may be, but I ain't gonna have my knees together as she ask me. My balls will never forgive me. I'm gonna be on a throne and she'll be walkin up some steps to ask me
 
if this pic is real she's not the first female that ever propose to a dude and she won't be the last..chicks have done that for yrs..it's not common to hear about it but it does happen..like females bagging dudes..males do it more but there are females that go after dudes

Dude, I have made it known that it's not JUST about this.

This is nothing but a symptom of what is happening, and what's to come. Just like more and more women are feeling like they shouldn't have to take their husband names, or are having it hyphenated. It's a problem that's in it's infancy, but growing noticeably.

Homosexuals have always existed, too...

...but you're seeing there asses a lot more than EVER, because the climate ALLOWS for them to be open and free, and and now heterosexuals are the ones who have to tippy toe around.

There is no balance of power amongst humans that will not turn into a struggle.

Men still have power, but women have gained a lot, and this is why there is a struggle going on.

When men ruled like nature intended, there was no real struggle. It was our way or the highway.

The feminization has began, and apparently many are blind to do it.

Hip hop, just 15 years ago, was ridiculed for being too masculine...

....it sure as HELL ain't too masculine now, is it?

But, yeah...

....niggas gon' learn that women and faggots are on a mission. :lol:

Good luck.
 
Lmaooo niggas on here thinking way too much

Dude in the pick don't even look straight, folk in the back ground laughing.. It's def not out of the realm that some black women would rather propose to a homo, the same Chics who talk about they can't find a good man lol
 
And that may be, but I ain't gonna have my knees together as she ask me. My balls will never forgive me. I'm gonna be on a throne and she'll be walkin up some steps to ask me

Ninjas said he had his knees together in anticipation of getting sucked off :lol:

When I get sucked off my knees ain't together that's for damn sure :lol:
 
Lmaooo niggas on here thinking way too much

Dude in the pick don't even look straight, folk in the back ground laughing.. It's def not out of the realm that some black women would rather propose to a homo, the same Chics who talk about they can't find a good man lol

look in the background 1 or 2 of the other dudes looking kinda queer to..they all laughing whick makes me think this was some kinda joke amongst friends..why my first reply was maybe that was a friendship ring..cause it look like a gathering of fags and soho type looking chicks..1 of those weirdo gatherings..they look like some fashion designers
 
IMO...

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Now if that was an old Polaroid from the 70's and dude was decked out in the latest pimp suit from Harold Penner (K.C. MO what up!)- or this was your favorite rapper/athlete at the club- and a chick was on her knees hands out with a look mixed between hope & reverence ya'll be quoting how that's some pimp shit case he just got choose.

Well isn't this the same thing?

I don't knock her for going after what she wants and I respect his position of power in that woman's life that she'd go to such length in saying she wants to be put on. BGOL membership would be close to zero if cats really had chicks like that.:lol:


I may not know that much game but I do know power and dude holds alot of it in her life. "The party the cares the least controls the relationship." They say.


He's knees are together cause he thought she was going to suck his dick and didn't have time to tuck it back. It happens....:lol:



* two cents *

funny cause you right... but what is really funny is I have older cousins who still dress like this when they go to the pool hall
 
She's thirsty for "black love"

Comments in this thread shock me though seeing as how yall are always going on and on about how certain women go after what they want and how sexy that is ... now all of a sudden though its a bad thing :rolleyes:
 
Lmaooo niggas on here thinking way too much

Dude in the pick don't even look straight, folk in the back ground laughing.. It's def not out of the realm that some black women would rather propose to a homo, the same Chics who talk about they can't find a good man lol

Your logic makes no fucking sense

why in the hell would a woman think a blatant gay male would want to marry her?

You're just making up shit to turn this into a bw bashing thread

I see you
 
And women proposing isnt about the gender roles reversing

its about heffers being thirsty for a husband

they want husbands, they seek them out, PERIOD

its THIRST

yall just get dumber and dumber every single day
 
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