I don't see the big deal. If she proposing let her. If my chic proposed to me right now she getting a NO so that's up to her to play herself. 
So this is what's hot now with sistas?
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You consider it thirsty...
...because you'd never do it. However, that's merely one POV.
For instance, do you think the women who propose consider themselves thirsty?
...because you'd never do it. However, that's merely one POV.
For instance, do you think the women who propose consider themselves thirsty?
LoneStar29
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It's not done every day
You're making shit up to get a bw bashing fest going
You're so transparent and lame smfh
She's thirsty for "black love"
Comments in this thread shock me though seeing as how yall are always going on and on about how certain women go after what they want and how sexy that is ... now all of a sudden though its a bad thing
Well I'll be damned...
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* two cents *
Hold up lol...the irony of you talking about hes trying to get a "bw bashing" going on and you got a pic in your sig of a white dude kissin' a black chic.
not saying this is the case..but it's called a "beard" it's been going on forever..the queer mite want to have kids and so does she so they have the agreement to have a family together..she may want security as far as economics is concern and he may have that..she mite also want the illusion of being in a happy relationship/marriage and so does he..they benefit off each other and the relationship is kinda set up like a bizzness arrangement..a lot of these rich cac fags do it..people in politics..some of these celebs do it..even reg people do it..hell even that thread about the cac dude that ask the black chick to make him a sandwich and she gotta make like 300 sandwiches b4 they get married that obviously some beard shit going on there
Lmaooo
Dude in the pic is sweeter than bear meat yet some black women turn a blind eye to the DL shit their husband and boyfriends be on just to say they are married..
When the last time you been in the US again?
LoneStar29
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Hold up lol...the irony of you talking about hes trying to get a "bw bashing" going on and you got a pic in your sig of a white dude kissin' a black chic.
The irony of one of bgol's biggest IR supporters crying about my sig.......
I feel you, I am familiar with the whole beard lifestyle
But aint nobody getting on their knees to be a beard
the whole point of being a beard is to pretend like dude is straight so he would propose, not the other way around
Men who want beards, seek out beards ... women do not seek THEM out
And most importantly aint nobody bearding for free. Women beard only for financial reasons
If that works for them... *shrug*
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Exactly lol
She naive bruh she lucky she ain't take Greg up on his offer she would've been in ATL stuck like the other Chics who thought they were dealing with a straight dude
Lonestar29 I love baby
Maybe your uncle was closet sweet meat?
once again not saying this pic rep that beard life style but if it did wouldn't the best way to do a proposal was to "plan" it at a public display in front of friends/family at a social gathering..makes him look like a great catch and her a woman that goes after what she wants..remember perception is a motherfucker
this doesnt even make sense
LoneStar29
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She naive bruh she lucky she ain't take Greg up on his offer she would've been in ATL stuck like the other Chics who thought they were dealing with a straight dude
I get your point
but I think him proposing achieves that goal better than her getting on her knees
I don't see the problem.
It's interesting. It shows initiative and it's a bold and aggressive move on the female's part to just roll the dice and put it out there.
Some women ask dudes out on dates. Same principle.
Now the fag and simp references I don't know how that even got into the equation unless you are going by the pic. Might be some fruitiness going on in that pic. There has really been no clear explanation on the pic anywhere in this thread. Right now as far as that pic is concerned everyone is just making up their own captions.
Put all the guess work and detective work about that weird 70s style pic to the side.
Who has a problem with a woman proposing marriage? Does the fact that the woman asks for your hand in marriage signal an automatic no? Whatever.
What women have usually done in these situations is throw around a bunch of hints and proddings and finally many of them just end up issuing an ultimatum to the dude and applying the pressure that way.
Dude either gives in to the pressure and folds or says no and calls her bluff to see what she will really do then.
I'm with LS29. Chick has either got to be bold or desperately thirsty and fed up with the single life. She wants that ring those papers and that wedding and she aint playing.
Unless this pic is being critiqued the fag simp stuff is irrelevant. If dude was a simp before she popped the question then he will continue to be one after the question has been answered whether they get married or not. And if he was not a simp before then saying yes to her proposal does not change that. He simply decided to reward her and grant her wish.
Marriage traditions differ from culture to culture. The man or the man's family traditionally initiates all dating and courtship moves. But the woman can creatively manipulate those movements in subtle or not so subtle ways.
Some chicks just decide to gone and get bold. YOLO. I think they call them marriage or wedding monsters or something like that.
Some commitment phobic dudes still get slick and stretch the engagement out for like 10 years and all that.
It's interesting. It shows initiative and it's a bold and aggressive move on the female's part to just roll the dice and put it out there.
Some women ask dudes out on dates. Same principle.
Now the fag and simp references I don't know how that even got into the equation unless you are going by the pic. Might be some fruitiness going on in that pic. There has really been no clear explanation on the pic anywhere in this thread. Right now as far as that pic is concerned everyone is just making up their own captions.
Put all the guess work and detective work about that weird 70s style pic to the side.
Who has a problem with a woman proposing marriage? Does the fact that the woman asks for your hand in marriage signal an automatic no? Whatever.
What women have usually done in these situations is throw around a bunch of hints and proddings and finally many of them just end up issuing an ultimatum to the dude and applying the pressure that way.
Dude either gives in to the pressure and folds or says no and calls her bluff to see what she will really do then.
I'm with LS29. Chick has either got to be bold or desperately thirsty and fed up with the single life. She wants that ring those papers and that wedding and she aint playing.
Unless this pic is being critiqued the fag simp stuff is irrelevant. If dude was a simp before she popped the question then he will continue to be one after the question has been answered whether they get married or not. And if he was not a simp before then saying yes to her proposal does not change that. He simply decided to reward her and grant her wish.
Marriage traditions differ from culture to culture. The man or the man's family traditionally initiates all dating and courtship moves. But the woman can creatively manipulate those movements in subtle or not so subtle ways.
Some chicks just decide to gone and get bold. YOLO. I think they call them marriage or wedding monsters or something like that.
Some commitment phobic dudes still get slick and stretch the engagement out for like 10 years and all that.
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Wow
Shut up, queer.Exactly
It's a gradual process, that's been taking place
I'd say it started late 60's early 70's ... and here we are today
Masculine & feminine roles of men and women are being reversed.
Basically ...girl told me to shave my body hair if I want to fuck?
I asked her for her moms Facebook, I'll pass on these Alpha men with vaginas
One, I believe we have drawn too many conclusions about this picture, without enough evidence.
I believe I have heard of this happening before.
There are/were matriarchal societies, ya know? You have to know as much about global culture as you do your culture or popular culture, before you assign what should and shouldn't be.
IMO...
Now if that was an old Polaroid from the 70's and dude was decked out in the latest pimp suit from Harold Penner (K.C. MO what up!)- or this was your favorite rapper/athlete at the club- and a chick was on her knees hands out with a look mixed between hope & reverence ya'll be quoting how that's some pimp shit case he just got choose.
Well isn't this the same thing?
I don't knock her for going after what she wants and I respect his position of power in that woman's life that she'd go to such length in saying she wants to be put on. BGOL membership would be close to zero if cats really had chicks like that.
I may not know that much game but I do know power and dude holds alot of it in her life. "The party the cares the least controls the relationship." They say.
He's knees are together cause he thought she was going to suck his dick and didn't have time to tuck it back. It happens....
* two cents *
The two gentleman above me have brought more logic to the table than knee jerk reaction.
That's true....
I said on here before...when I sold my last house,the guy had taken the woman's last name
He hyphenated his....and put hers last.
I believe I have heard of this happening before.
There are/were matriarchal societies, ya know? You have to know as much about global culture as you do your culture or popular culture, before you assign what should and shouldn't be.
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