So I met this girl online and.... She coming over the next day

[poetic]

So I'm getting these casting calls done for this bike mag,bikini contest and music video. So in the midst of doing this I meet this girl on myspace who just so happened to comment on my pictures(www.myspace.com/artiisan). So we end up talking on the phone mad late at night and I can honestly say it has been a long time since I've clicked with a girl this long. So we make a decision for here to take the 2.5 hr bus trip to my crib. I'm nervous as hell so I'm cleaning the crib spraying clothing detergent all over the house the bed to make smell good... The Washing machine is fucked so I have a shit load of clothes that I have to stuff in my apartment.. o by the way she just got out a 4 year relationship not to long ago.. Is there anything I should be doing not doing... im sick of being the guy without a woman.... Seems kinda desperate.but sistas im asking for your help

 

[djkidrich]

So I'm getting these casting calls done for this bike mag,bikini contest and music video. So in the midst of doing this I meet this girl on myspace who just so happened to comment on my pictures(www.myspace.com/artiisan). So we end up talking on the phone mad late at night and I can honestly say it has been a long time since I've clicked with a girl this long. So we make a decision for here to take the 2.5 hr bus trip to my crib. I'm nervous as hell so I'm cleaning the crib spraying clothing detergent all over the house the bed to make smell good... The Washing machine is fucked so I have a shit load of clothes that I have to stuff in my apartment.. o by the way she just got out a 4 year relationship not to long ago.. Is there anything I should be doing not doing... im sick of being the guy without a woman.... Seems kinda desperate.but sistas im asking for your help

Why are you posting this here, if you only want sistas to answer you? and why did you delete your first thread on this shit?

All I have to say is "fuck the shit out of her"

 

[LoneStar29]

Why are you posting this here, if you only want sistas to answer you? and why did you delete your first thread on this shit?

All I have to say is "fuck the shit out of her"

Hey Mr.Rich ... I saw a thread on the ohter side where you said you were sick ... are you feeling better??? Oh and LMAO @ you ethering bustas while recovering

Anywhoooooooooooooo

To the OP I can understand you wanting some company

I wanna ask what your intentions are with her though ... do you just wanna fuck, do you wanna relationship or do you not know yet??? That'll help in figuring out how you should handle it

 

[poetic]

Hey Mr.Rich ... I saw a thread on the ohter side where you said you were sick ... are you feeling better??? Oh and LMAO @ you ethering bustas while recovering

Anywhoooooooooooooo

To the OP I can understand you wanting some company

I wanna ask what your intentions are with her though ... do you just wanna fuck, do you wanna relationship or do you not know yet??? That'll help in figuring out how you should handle it

My intentions are to get to know here.. but im going to try to get some buns in the mix... dont really need them but it would be a plus.. I really just want to get to know her.. alot of things are pointing to just fuck her and get it over with like..the 4 year relationship that she got of 3 months ago...she just got out of the army and she trying to get back in to the entertainment industry (im a photographer) I just met her but we have alot in common.

 

[LoneStar29]

Alright then ... just be yourself and go with the flow

I know that may sound vague but just play it by ear ... don't set expectations ... be mad cool ... don't look eager ... make sure your house is clean and smells good ... especially the bathroom ... make sure you got some food and snacks ... couple bottles of alcohol Don't sweat her ... let her make the first move But don't be an asshole at the same time

I don't mean to be a party pooper but you run a greater risk IMO hooking up with someone from over the net so keep an eye out for her ... don't let her stay in your room or near valuables by herself ... also brush up on any self-defence tactics I'm just sayin'

 

[poetic]

Alright then ... just be yourself and go with the flow

I know that may sound vague but just play it by ear ... don't set expectations ... be mad cool ... don't look eager ... make sure your house is clean and smells good ... especially the bathroom ... make sure you got some food and snacks ... couple bottles of alcohol She's a model it sounds like so don't sweat her ... let her make the first move

I don't mean to be a party pooper but you run a greater risk IMO hooking up with someone from over the net so keep an eye out for her ... don't let her stay in your room or near valuables by herself ... also brush up on any self-defence tacticsI'm just sayin'

Thanks for all of the advice. Im getting some food before she comes.. alcohol is about to be on stash.. im thinking smirnoff dont have enough dough for the expensive stuff going to spend most of that on food.. Going to take her to my boys club and then back to the crib for a photoshoot maybe then a movie .. next day im going to play by ear... I was planning on unlock the empty apt above me .. to put out some covers and candle light so we can lay down and look at the stars on the deck butits ggoing to rain... dont know what to do romanticaly... i want to prove that chivalry is not dead

 

[LoneStar29]

Thanks for all of the advice. Im getting some food before she comes.. alcohol is about to be on stash.. im thinking smirnoff dont have enough dough for the expensive stuff going to spend most of that on food.. Going to take her to my boys club and then back to the crib for a photoshoot maybe then a movie .. next day im going to play by ear... I was planning on unlock the empty apt above me .. to put out some covers and candle light so we can lay down and look at the stars on the deck butits ggoing to rain... dont know what to do romanticaly... i want to prove that chivalry is not dead

Oh that sounds nice

I recommend not going over the top with the romance though since you did just meet her

And remember ... "no glove ... no love" Be careful and have fun

 

[poetic]

Oh that sounds nice

I recommend not going over the top with the romance though since you did just meet her

And remember ... "no glove ... no love" Be careful and have fun

Thanks for all the advice again..mad props and mad love.

 

[Cleopatra_J]

I'm way too scary to meet someone I just started talkin to online after the 1st day. And they jus have nothing to do to travel 2 hours by bus to have an overnight stay. Something about that would send some red flags off in my headn but like I said I'm scary...

Definitely be careful, hide your valuables. But keep that extra eye open... That's about all I can say...

 

[poetic]

I honestly think shes in to me.. it not like she can rob me... i don't have much expect for the cam and the two computers.. the comps aren't worth much and I hide or sleep with my camera. Plus everyone and their mother know shes coming i have both of her numbers myspace and will have her adress when she arrives. I will keep yall updated ....o kow i have gas... anyone know any home remedies

 

[LoneStar29]

@ the gas ... you're so funny ... sorry I don't have any remedies for that though lmao

Good idea gettin' her address and all that

I'd ask to see her drivers licence too to verify but in a slick way ... be like "oh you look so young for your age let me see some id" ... she'll be flattered ... you insist ... she pulls it out tryin' to be all cute and shit ... you smile and laugh but really you're makin' sure she aint lyin' Just to be on the safe side

 

[poetic]

was planning on doing that with her military Id ...and i think the gas subsided hopefully... it was from that angry burger from the other night damn those things are good. I swear my house looks dif now that its clean... its like i don't even know where I am

 

[DeSiRe]

dont be the rebound guy

be yourself

wear clean underwear

 

[onyxfemme]

Be careful...Sounds suspect...DONT 1st NIGHT FUCK a chick from online after 1 convo. My advice talk and get to know her. TAKE it slow...

GOOD Luck!



And...If you fuck...STAY SAFE

 

[poetic]

Going to be kinda hard not too shes spending three days at my crib in my bed ... then i have to see her naked during photoshoots.... going to be damn near impossible.. she called me a few mins ago telling me sh got on the bus safe and that the bus driver like her so she didn't have to pay for her ticket...Signs are pointing to that she looks better than her pics

wear clean underwear

LOL

 

[DADDY4HOES]

.......... did you post date her check? Also, remember they are tracable.
P.S. Throw in a few more dollars and have her do the laundry.

 

[p5ych3]

don't be too overly excited. keep telling yourself its a job and
if you get the pussy its a perk.

mind over emotions on this one bruh.

get some plugins instead of that spray stuff.

you don't have to be eat off the floor clean, but kitchen, bedroom,
bathroom has to be top priority.

 

[LoneStar29]

So you gotta give us an update

 

[Andeyhollawho]

So you gotta give us an update

That nigga dead shawty!

Ya'll done sent that nigga to that babbage ass trick!

That's fucked up. Didn't nobody really say "Nah dawg...1st night coming over to stay...3 hour trip...don't look good."

I'll tip a 40 to his memory!


I'm just bullshitting though but I hope the nigga aight.

 

[Cleopatra_J]

That nigga dead shawty!

Ya'll done sent that nigga to that babbage ass trick!

That's fucked up. Didn't nobody really say "Nah dawg...1st night coming over to stay...3 hour trip...don't look good."

I'll tip a 40 to his memory!


I'm just bullshitting though but I hope the nigga aight.

Lol Andy.. I said it would raise some red flags in my eye...

 

[LoneStar29]

ANDEY Don't curse the brotha damn

It sounded like he was gonna do it regardless so I tried to tell him how to stay safe

I'm sure he's okay

 

[Harlem's Angel]

Sorry Lone...He's either dead or nursing a burning penis....

 

[LoneStar29]

Damnit HA

 

[Andeyhollawho]

Lol Andy.. I said it would raise some red flags in my eye...

ANDEY Don't curse the brotha damn

It sounded like he was gonna do it regardless so I tried to tell him how to stay safe

I'm sure he's okay

YA'LL DID THAT SHIT!!! I AIN'T FORGETTING NEITHER!

 

[LoneStar29]

YA'LL DID THAT SHIT!!! I AIN'T FORGETTING NEITHER!

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAANDEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEY

I'm gonna PM him

 

[poetic]

back from the grave... funny as jokes though hilarious as hell.
anyways we ended up spending most of the time at my crib...first night we went out to see the Medea movie.. which was kinda whack to me tyler perry is running out of steam. We wended up drinking with my brother and some other girl then we got straight to the drunken sex which was horrible ..well b/c i was drunk.. I didn't get a nut the first night. So on the second day I did a lil graphic work and then we fucked some more ..now i'm thinking damn.. guess ill be alone a lil while longer...I mean i cant blame her for wanting to fuck so much... on the last day she got sick from god knows what in my room and she starts sneezing and coughing.. so i nurse her as best as I could back to health you know the whole nine ... getting her tissue water medicine rubbing hr back... then...she left... a few phone calls her and there ...I don't think it was anything major though

 

[Andeyhollawho]

back from the grave... funny as jokes though hilarious as hell.
anyways we ended up spending most of the time at my crib...first night we went out to see the Medea movie.. which was kinda whack to me tyler perry is running out of steam. We wended up drinking with my brother and some other girl then we got straight to the drunken sex which was horrible ..well b/c i was drunk.. I didn't get a nut the first night. So on the second day I did a lil graphic work and then we fucked some more ..now i'm thinking damn.. guess ill be alone a lil while longer...I mean i cant blame her for wanting to fuck so much... on the last day she got sick from god knows what in my room and she starts sneezing and coughing.. so i nurse her as best as I could back to health you know the whole nine ... getting her tissue water medicine rubbing hr back... then...she left... a few phone calls her and there ...I don't think it was anything major though

Oh shit he lives!

Glad to hear you alright cuz. Them girls was doubting you and shit. Talking bout you dead and shit but I told them hell naw. Dude gone handle his biz. He be aight!


Nah but for real let us see them pics when you get them! All jokes aside glad you had a good time.

 

[Andeyhollawho]

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAANDEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEY

I'm gonna PM him

I love you too Lone!

 

[actinanass]

Hmmm?

Since obviously its over, and you took photos of her, might as well post them!!

I mean, seriously?

 

[poetic]

oddly my camera broke the second day i tried to use it when she came over check the photography thread... got to buy a new one

 

[dbluesun]

well you didn't get murked,,,but you don't sound too pleased with the long stay over,,,summ it up for us please,,good or bad ????

 

[actinanass]

oddly my camera broke the second day i tried to use it when she came over check the photography thread... got to buy a new one

really?

How ironic??

 

[poetic]

It was good... i wasn't lonely for three days straight...sigh... i work too damn much

 

[greygoose]

2.5 hours away? where does she live mars?

anyway, glad things worked out initially. just go with the flow homie. cant expect much from her and she should not have expectations either. you do you let her do her and when ya'll get together you do what you gotta do. if things transpire further after the initial "honeymoon" phase then so be it. but let that happen on its own the chemistry alone should be enough to carry things toward that direction (if its gonna go there)
again, just enjoy it for what its worth

 

[poetic]

2.5 hours away? where does she live mars?

anyway, glad things worked out initially. just go with the flow homie. cant expect much from her and she should not have expectations either. you do you let her do her and when ya'll get together you do what you gotta do. if things transpire further after the initial "honeymoon" phase then so be it. but let that happen on its own the chemistry alone should be enough to carry things toward that direction (if its gonna go there)
again, just enjoy it for what its worth

Great words spoken from a great man...thanks for the software..btw adobe illustrator didn't work