I don't see how this is selfish at all... there is a difference between open communication and an open relationship..
She likes pussy and he likes pussy (excuse the bluntness)...Him no likey the dick so why would he want to hear about his bi sexual woman talking about another man..especially the fact that she has marinated on this brother enough to talk about him hours after she first seen him...
Just because she has no problem with appreciating the female frame and he doesn't want to hear about the male frame, makes him a man not selfish...Personally if the man that I'm involved with took any interest in an appealing brother that happened to cross my way, Id give him theface and be the hell out.
I agree with Jo, women tend to forget that a man's ego needs extra stroking (along with other parts of his anatomy), though men may not admit to it, they are not as emotionally strong as women, and they want to know that you think they are the shit, they have the best dick ever, and that you never sucked or swallowed until you met them....and it is your responsibility to keep them delusional.... c'est la vie

You absolutely HAVE to be a black male psychologist to drop the bomb like that!DAMN.
