Is it something wrong with wanting a woman, who will do all the things do all the things a pornstar would do, but do it for her man and only with her man. Fuck cheating we all freaks, so keep it real with your mate and fuck like pornstars and keep ya'll buisness ya'll buisness.
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If she did all the things a porn star would do, then she'd be a porn star.
I feel what ya saying underda, but in my travels, I haven't met too many chicks like that...it would be nice. I always feel that there shouldn't be too many inhibitions between a COMMITTED couple. Let's face it, lotsa men stray because they're lookin for someone who'll do something they can't get at home.
I don't think he's asking too much. When two people really have that kind of connection, there's not much one won't do for the other one. Like he said, that's yall business, if you can't be uninhibited with your mate why bother? Acceptance should be the greater part of adult love and if I'm freak, I'm freak! I'm not going to waste my time with a man that can't accept my kinks and realize it doesn't make me a less "respectable" woman.
THANK YOU..I wish it was that simple.
Me too black, but I believe (I know) with the right person it is that simple
Searching for the person is the part that sucks 
Thats not true Femm. It's really about finding someone your own speed. Thats how I stay faithful in my relationships.....
You do understand that porn stars get paid to do the things they do, right.
There's a reason for that.
What is it that you are looking for a girl to do that she wont that you feel a porn star does?
Unfortunately it's hard for those women to actually meet and hook up with bruhs who are secure enough emotionally to appreciate that about them. Most associate experience with being a ho (maybe cuz of porn) and assume that a woman like that must also be a nympho and is therefore incapable of being faithful. I think most guys who have issue with it don't want a woman who's as experienced as them or more experienced. They would rather get with a naive chick and try to "teach her" or turn her out (when that doesn't work, then they're "unhappy" and may even step out on her). They dwell too much on who she's been with before, how many men she's been with before, the stuff she may have done that he hasn't, etc.
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Me too black, but I believe (I know) with the right person it is that simple
Yep, ya gotta kiss alotta frogs to find a princess, Iz...or however that saying goes..But I'm more determined than ever to keep lookin..I ain't settlin. That doens't work for me.
Iz, the problem is I ain't been miserable.
I'm just not fulfilled..if you will. Some of my boys think I'm nuts for wanting to change ANYTHING about how I'm living, especially the married ones. But after sooo long, ya kinda get tired of not having a REAL connection with someone who you're at your most intimate level with...as a kid I felt, and so did most of the men I knew felt, that I could sex up any female, and it didn't necessarily mean a thing..we/I believed that..now I feel that the ULTIMATE sex high has gotta be with someone you're really WITH..ya know?
I'm just not fulfilled..if you will. Some of my boys think I'm nuts for wanting to change ANYTHING about how I'm living, especially the married ones. But after sooo long, ya kinda get tired of not having a REAL connection with someone who you're at your most intimate level with...as a kid I felt, and so did most of the men I knew felt, that I could sex up any female, and it didn't necessarily mean a thing..we/I believed that..now I feel that the ULTIMATE sex high has gotta be with someone you're really WITH..ya know?
Iz, the problem is I ain't been miserable.
Absolutely! What I meant by being miserable is settling for less than a true connection, because you are right the ULTIMATE sex is with someone you can really be bare with- emotionally, physically etc.
Now GREAT sex can be had just about anywhere with anybody!
, but if you can have that and still know there's something more if you allow yourself to be vulnerable then its probably time to be honest with yourself that you are looking for more than just another body to hit off. SOunds like you are there, and in my experience once you "see" you can't unsee- ya know?! Iz, I'm gonna take your brain and implant it into every woman I date
Iz, I'm gonna take your brain and implant it into every woman I date
Uh oh I hope you like D/S, poetry, animated porn, and sushi! Not in that order!
I feel where you are coming from. You are talking in the bedroom only. And no there is nothing wrong w/ that as long as you can respect the fact that 1. she is your woman so what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. 2. If she is giving you what you want, you have to make sure you are giving her what she wants as well. 3. There is a time and place for everything. Everyone knows me and my husband get buckwild. But he can also make love to me and make me feel like the queen I am to him.
And 4. The most important thing is to COMMUNICATE. If you want her to give that Jada or Jazmine (my fav's) treatment you have to tell her how you want it. Talk to her and tell her at a time when you and her are just chillin. You will be suprised at how she will open up. Again there is nothing wrong w/ wanting to fuck like the pornstars do w/ your man or woman.
If you are giving your man that treatment that makes his toes curl he is less likely to look for someone else to do it.
I like D/S while eating sushi, watching animated porn, and reciting poetry
Most excellent advice lovely lady. Relationship words to live by.
I like D/S while eating sushi, watching animated porn, and reciting poetry
Wow- you're talented AND flexible
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I like D/S while eating sushi, watching animated porn, and reciting poetry
I used to think I was the best at D/S
but girl I have to give it to you that's some multi-tasking for yo' ass!!!
whats good yall, this is my first post in sistas online but what the hell, I was very immature thinking at first with sex , I was on some if she aint a virgin or fucked less people then me , I cant be with her, I get to college and thought to myself,"nigga you trippin" all these ladies have fucked as much and maybe more
, but as I thought about it, maybe I was not living enough and thats why it mattered so much, maybe insecurity, but as I got older and more experienced , I realized , its about finding a common ground , a women not girl and damn sure not a Ho, but a woman just as experienced but she is willing and able for you and her to teach each other some things, real talk fellas, listen to a women, we fellas dont know it all , real shit, and im just being honest, and eating pussy also matters as well , I grew out of that shit years ago ,only one women gets that privilege now, being married, but I still get incite from shit like this page and just listening, I guess studying psychology helps too, probably not. thats what I think , a lady in the streets, and a freak in the bed , luda put it best, happy new year people!! stay safe and true to yourself
, but as I thought about it, maybe I was not living enough and thats why it mattered so much, maybe insecurity, but as I got older and more experienced , I realized , its about finding a common ground , a women not girl and damn sure not a Ho, but a woman just as experienced but she is willing and able for you and her to teach each other some things, real talk fellas, listen to a women, we fellas dont know it all , real shit, and im just being honest, and eating pussy also matters as well , I grew out of that shit years ago ,only one women gets that privilege now, being married, but I still get incite from shit like this page and just listening, I guess studying psychology helps too, probably not. thats what I think , a lady in the streets, and a freak in the bed , luda put it best, happy new year people!! stay safe and true to yourself
Interesting that the poster hasn't responded with what exactly he is wanting his chick to do.
Seems like everything outside of fetishes is normal sexual behavior anyway.
Seems like everything outside of fetishes is normal sexual behavior anyway.
CO-SIGN!!!!
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