Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d only 1?

Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

Either way, if you swear off women for a while, it does make life much easier. Think of all the bullshit situations you have ended up in trying to fuck with a woman. Shit aint worth it.

sooo ur saying the answer is no women at all..not even just 1? not even a wife or girlfriend?? ehhhh:confused:
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

sooo ur saying the answer is no women at all..not even just 1? not even a wife or girlfriend?? ehhhh:confused:
In your situation, just deal with your wifey long distance. It's easy once you get used to it. Look at some porn every now and then and you good. Don't go to any girls house by yourself and don't let em come to yours.
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

In your situation, just deal with your wifey long distance. It's easy once you get used to it. Look at some porn every now and then and you good. Don't go to any girls house by yourself and don't let em come to yours.

ok i get u now! makes sense but it seems the porn is what drives me to fuck around:smh:
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

You need a girlfriend. One girl to focus on and love, then your focus in that area is focused and not scattered so you can work on the things that matter because you're not worried about where your next nut's comming from... You already know.

Bruh, i don't think this is the answer. There are married men on the board with kids that find time to give to BGOL. Self control is the only answer, girlfriend or not.
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

Like many others said, it's all about self control. It's funny, I was just downloading some porn and I questioned myself, like when am I gonna start. This shit is a true addiction. Only you can figure out what works for you bro. Just take it slowly. I've started deleting my porn stash, it's hard to do but I don't need it. Good luck.
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

I'll be thinking about re-downloading something, I'll re-download it, have fun with it (keeping it clean) and then I'll delete it.
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

I'll be thinking about re-downloading something, I'll re-download it, have fun with it (keeping it clean) and then I'll delete it.
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

Self control and motivation is the key

but u gotta realize everythings has got its place and sex is just one of them

Now porn is not good for u fuck what anyone says it just makes u think of women differently and fucks with your head over time, not sayin i dont watch it

But sex and relationships are something everyone wants but it needs to have its place just like everything(excercise,mental improvement, relationship...etc), so I feel like the more disciplined you are in your life with your body, relationships, money, and self improvement in general then the less you'll need to indulge or have an excess of any one thing.
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

:smh: @ niggas cosignin CRACUR
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

Get busy. Reboot your brain and put everything in perspective. Re-evaluate your life goals and get to work. Make a list of all your hobbies and how you can pursue them. Soon you will find you won't have time for beatin off.

Porn can be a hobby just like anything else. Keep it that way and establish some self-discipline.

Don't become

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Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

good advice in this thread
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

so after the 40 days u will be back to ur old ways? when those the 40 days start? my pastor said that they were having 40 days of fasting during that time i was thinking of joining
When is Lent?

Lent starts on Ash Wednesday (this year, it's 17 February 2010). Palm Sunday is 28 March 2010 and Easter is 04 April 2010. Lent is over on Easter. Lent is 40 days long.
I don't know what I will do after Lent is over. Hoping that my "addiction" will be modified somewhat. But, quitting cold turkey on a day certain that's 4 months in the future oughtta start. By the way, my issue is that I spend too much time on BGOL and its environs and don't get real work done until the deadline is on me...
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

I don't come to BGOL for the porn. I come here to read the daily news (its like a hood news collected) talk and debate issues, download movies and just be entertained by the jokes on here. I watch a flick once in a while but I'm into so much else.

The net itself has fucked up a lot if young men especially when it comes to sex. I would hate to be a teenager today on the web, my balls would stay on permanent drain.
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

I don't come to BGOL for the porn. I come here to read the daily news (its like a hood news collected) talk and debate issues, download movies and just be entertained by the jokes on here. I watch a flick once in a while but I'm into so much else.

The net itself has fucked up a lot if young men especially when it comes to sex. I would hate to be a teenager today on the web, my balls would stay on permanent drain.

Co-sign hell I feel bad for young men with dads who encourage them to wild out and not explain the aftermath for fucking every woman with a nice ass or tits.
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

i feel you FU but i dont think i wanna leave bgol cuz besides porn everything else is cool
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

BGOL is not your enemy, you are your own enemy. I come to Bgol about 5 days a week and believe this I don't download any of the scenes. I use to but I stopped two years ago. I may click on an eye catching thread if it has the words "tits" in the title. Thats about it

change your mentality
1. delete your porn off your hard drive

2. there are steps to get rid of porn addiction on the net practice them

3. easiest way to stop wanking off. know that you are most agressive,"powerful" and you do better in bed when you don't jerk off and loose your energy. this is why boxers don't have sex befoe fights or generally before sports games players are told not to have sex. conserve your energy. focus that energy in other areas like making money, or practicing self help. you can practice the joseph stalin method once a week which is mastrubate but don't cum.

4. most men just want ONE woman who they can live out their sexual fantasies with and live happily ever after. to get that woman you must first acquire those qualities yourself. If you looking for a good girl who is faithful, have your back and a freak in bed. you have to become a good man who is faithful and a freak in bed who has her back. like attracts like. when you become THAT man you will find THAT woman
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

Get banned for 30 days!

Problem solved ... thank me later.
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

Co-sign hell I feel bad for young men with dads who encourage them to wild out and not explain the aftermath for fucking every woman with a nice ass or tits.

CrAcur do you even like women:confused: I've never seen you comment in a female thread
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

CrAcur do you even like women:confused: I've never seen you comment in a female thread

Of course you faggot. Like typical hood trash you were taught by niggas in yo hood to fuck everything that walks and smoke weed and drink 40's. This is your normal reality. You didn;t have a dad growing up. The streets raised you into the bitch made nigga you are offline typing on them damn keys.

I fuck ya momma offline. You should ask yaself that question. You Pming how you getting fucked in jail. I will expose you nugga.
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

Bgol will call you a simp. Round here everybody is fucking Sanaa Lathan and rocking cashmere sweaters pushing Lambos and $400,000 dollar Porsche's.

Nigga the nerve of you to even speak on some shit like that :lol::lol::lol::lol:

Dude thinks we forgot about his old username
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

Nigga the nerve of you to even speak on some shit like that :lol::lol::lol::lol:

Dude thinks we forgot about his old username

You a former member who didn;t wanna pay the ten bucks. I do wear some of the nicer things some faggots will say whatever but I don't care.
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

I don't come to BGOL for the porn. I come here to read the daily news (its like a hood news collected) talk and debate issues, download movies and just be entertained by the jokes on here. I watch a flick once in a while but I'm into so much else.

The net itself has fucked up a lot if young men especially when it comes to sex. I would hate to be a teenager today on the web, my balls would stay on permanent drain.
Gospel

Their idea and attitude to sex is gonna be way different
BGOL is not your enemy, you are your own enemy. I come to Bgol about 5 days a week and believe this I don't download any of the scenes. I use to but I stopped two years ago. I may click on an eye catching thread if it has the words "tits" in the title. Thats about it

change your mentality
1. delete your porn off your hard drive

2. there are steps to get rid of porn addiction on the net practice them

3. easiest way to stop wanking off. know that you are most agressive,"powerful" and you do better in bed when you don't jerk off and loose your energy. this is why boxers don't have sex befoe fights or generally before sports games players are told not to have sex. conserve your energy. focus that energy in other areas like making money, or practicing self help. you can practice the joseph stalin method once a week which is mastrubate but don't cum.

4. most men just want ONE woman who they can live out their sexual fantasies with and live happily ever after. to get that woman you must first acquire those qualities yourself. If you looking for a good girl who is faithful, have your back and a freak in bed. you have to become a good man who is faithful and a freak in bed who has her back. like attracts like. when you become THAT man you will find THAT woman

c/s all the above

Just don't enter the porn threads you'll be straight ... I watch a flick once a week or so ... really here for other entertainment/news reasons ...

The internet ruined the art and useful of porn imo

On that note like exercise masturbation and sex is both necessary and good for the mind, body and soul in healthy doses ... seems OP you have a problem with indulgences (judging from your weight loss thread) I suggest looking into that and empowering yourself instead of avoiding the issue (we all have them in life)
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

this amazes me.

i have NEVER went without pussy since about 18 years old.

it's just like eating, i never worry about going hungry because i ALWAYS have food close by.

its the same with pussy. i (and just about every human) need to fuck on a regular basis. so i keep, and has ALWAYS kept an ample supply of pussy to relieve that human urge.

so why do you go thru suffering like this?

unless you're extremely unattractive to women or just have no game, i don't see whats the problem with keeping pussy close at hand. :dunno:
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

Bgol will call you a simp. Round here everybody is fucking Sanaa Lathan and rocking cashmere sweaters pushing Lambos and $400,000 dollar Porsche's.

:lol:
 
Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

I'll be okay for a while, see some bitch on here.....download it....then go to a tube site to see more scenes of her....after that, click on one of the related videos.........next thing ya know, I spent all night looking at porn:smh:

My mentality is. I wanna stop but I don't.:confused:
 
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Re: Sick of my porn addiction and sick of beating off and sleeping around. Am i d onl

make a contract with yourself saying that you will not watch porn for however many-a-days...sign your name in print and in cursive...when making the contract have a section that says "With:________" and make the contract to whatever Higher Power you believe in and if you dont believe in one just make it to yourself or Higher Self...ive found easier methods to calm down the desire or lust whatever you want to call it but this method of making a contract is one that ive used for many things that i want to commit myself to including to stop watching porn
 
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