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What are your definitions for this? For each? Why constitutes a hoe? Whore? A slut? Where did you get these ideas from? Why do you have them still? Is there a set number of people for you as woman/man to be with before you call yourself or call someone else 1 of these?

What are the boundaries? Is Oral sex thrown in that mix? Digital sex? Are you a hoe, slut, freak? If you don't actively participate in sexual activities but spend 20 hours a day thinking about them?

Are actions what make your or thoughts?

I wanna HEAR"EM!

(And they know who i REALLY wanna hear from!)
 
I don't label women if a woman has a healthy appetite for sex I'm happy. I don't think labels are fair.

Men aren't labeled like women. Is a woman who sleeps with 25 men any less moral than the guy who sleeps with 25 women? I say no.
 
I don't necessarily have a negative connotation to most of those so let me think about this one. I love freaks, they're down for whatever or at least something other than missionary and/or doggystyle, in the bed all the time. I used to love sluts, just have sex to be having sex. Whores get paid, very basic one right there.

Thinking ain't doing. I thought about sex a lot in my youth but I was still a virgin.
 
Mo-Better said:
I don't label women if a woman has a healthy appetite for sex I'm happy. I don't think labels are fair.

Men aren't labeled like women. Is a woman who sleeps with 25 men any less moral than the guy who sleeps with 25 women? I say no.
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You do have a point there but I call men ho's too, words don't discriminate. I've also been known to call a man a bitch and he wasn't gay. :dunno: If you carry yourself like a ho or a bitch then that's what you get called.


Now LI your original question. I'm not sure if there is a difference between a ho and a slut although acting SLUTTY is not the same as acting HOISH. You can be a good man or woman and be a freak - it just depends on who you being a freak with.

If you a ho you could classify that as being a freak with any and everybody with no discrimination, no pretext, no nothing.
'Aw you got a dick? Let me suck it'. or "That chick (or dude) done fucked half the block". That's a ho.


If I had to put a label on a slut I'd probably say slut is that attitude, like flirting too hard but in a nasty sort of way...but I'd still say slut and ho are about equal...unless in adjective form.
 
melonpecan said:
You do have a point there but I call men ho's too, words don't discriminate. I've also been known to call a man a bitch and he wasn't gay. :dunno: If you carry yourself like a ho or a bitch then that's what you get called.
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Mel, your right words don't discriminate but they do have an impact that's usually negative. If you notice certain words are never spoken/typed by me at anyone. I can't respect you if I'm thinking of you as a hoe, whore, ho, bitch or slut.
 
For me what makes a female a hoe/bitch or whatever derogatory statement is when they are not upfront about their freakiness.

"I've never sucked dick before on the first date, don't even think you're getting any blah blah blah "........then it's slob slob slob :hmm:
 
A whore is a person who gets paid for sexual services. Hell i even say any kind of service is whoring yourself. If you find it degrading enough.

But yeah, a ho? Well i use that term to describe a person who's screwing around unsafely. Doing something unsafe is just ho'ish to me. It's dirty. We have too many things going on in our vagina to just be out there all willy nilly like that. It's nasty.

I gotta say that i think a chick who is out there seeing more than 1 guy at a time? Randomly? Yeah she's being ho'ish. That's not safe. And a woman's libido isn't like that. There's something mentally and emotionally off kilter about her. Jumping from penis to penis within days, maybe a week. Without dating those guys? I don't know. Edgy.

But i have no issue witha woman being free to express her sexuality if she so chooses. IF she's DATING around. Like we go on a date here and there. I can't really call her a slutty ho or anything like that.
 
For me whore/ho/slut are synonymous and interchangeable. Whether it's sex for direct or indirect cash then you're ho'in'.

A freak though is just someone who does something out of the norm for the enjoyment of doing it.
 
sluts and hoes are the same thing

i think being a freak is a pre req for it but not all freaks are sluts and hoes
 
That's another thing, i've always wondered, where does the line blur for just enjoying what you're doing? If you really do like sleeping with this person monday and friday and this other person tuesday thru thursday, why is that neccasarily a bad thing?
 
Legacy_Infinity said:
That's another thing, i've always wondered, where does the line blur for just enjoying what you're doing? If you really do like sleeping with this person monday and friday and this other person tuesday thru thursday, why is that neccasarily a bad thing?
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its a bad thing when sluts and hoes get sloppy and reckless
 
A freak is someone who does taboo things (oral sex is no longer taboo) LOL

The rest are people who are promiscuous/loose, change partners all the time. men and women.
 
Mo-Better said:
Mel, your right words don't discriminate but they do have an impact that's usually negative. If you notice certain words are never spoken/typed by me at anyone. I can't respect you if I'm thinking of you as a hoe, whore, ho, bitch or slut.
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No one is perfect - I will be the first to admit I'm not.

And you are right, some words do have a negative impact.



But if you sleep with random and / or selected bodies whenever you want to

AND they don't know about it

AND you don't care

AND you are classifying it as something to do

AND / OR it's in the name of money

AND (and this is the biggest AND) it's gotten you into trouble before AND you STILL DO IT


I'm sorry I have no trouble calling you a ho. Everything on this list I can forgive, but human is to learn from past mistakes and experiences. If you continue a certain trait then you go from acting slutty or hoish to being what that trait is - a ho.



Now if you just shagging random folks and that's all it is - fine. Some people dig that, some don't that's just not how I was raised. It's gets frustrating for me when it's a different person every week like three weeks in a row.
 
melonpecan said:
No one is perfect - I will be the first to admit I'm not.

And you are right, some words do have a negative impact.



But if you sleep with random and / or selected bodies whenever you want to

AND they don't know about it

AND you don't care

AND you are classifying it as something to do

AND / OR it's in the name of money

AND (and this is the biggest AND) it's gotten you into trouble before AND you STILL DO IT


I'm sorry I have no trouble calling you a ho. Everything on this list I can forgive, but human is to learn from past mistakes and experiences. If you continue a certain trait then you go from acting slutty or hoish to being what that trait is - a ho.


Now if you just shagging random folks and that's all it is - fine. Some people dig that, some don't that's just not how I was raised. It's gets frustrating for me when it's a different person every week like three weeks in a row.
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:lol: Sorry? Why? You never apologize for being you. I just don't use labels but that's just me. Let people adjust to who you are not you adjust.

As for shagging randomly I gave that up eons ago. Never worked for me.

BTW did you go yet? Its been a year. :)
 
DeSiRe said:
its a bad thing when sluts and hoes get sloppy and reckless
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:yes::yes:
The Monday partner shouldn't cross paths with the Tues partner, even if they know about each other.
Don't tell everybody your business and don't take your different partners to the same spots.
Discretion is the key to sluts and hoes.
 
Mo-Better said:
:lol: Sorry? Why? You never apologize for being you. I just don't use labels but that's just me. Let people adjust to who you are not you adjust.

As for shagging randomly I gave that up eons ago. Never worked for me.

BTW did you go yet? Its been a year. :)
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:lol:


Sorry I was thinking of someone else when I wrote that.




But nah...I thought it might be my Christmas present to myself but some other things need my attention...:(
 
It doesn't take much, to have encounters with freaky ppls, this could happen, right under you nose...:hmm:textin and shit:angry:




I'm guilty too haha...
 
followup said:
A freak is someone who does taboo things (oral sex is no longer taboo) LOL

The rest are people who are promiscuous/loose, change partners all the time. men and women.
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You know i was waitin on you. lol. I like how you put taboo. Gives a little incite. I'd like to know more about how you see things. You interest me. But 1 thing, promiscuity, is it a set number? I think technically speaking more than 1 person would make you promiscuous.
 
^^^promiscuity=sleeping with more than one person in separate encounters within the same time period


hmmmm.... I don't know if the exchange of money qualifies someone as a slut/whore/whatever....what if she has a sugar daddy and that's the only person she's sleeping with? I wouldn't necessarily call her a ho. She's providing a service...I also think prostitutes provide a service and their business should not be illegal.
 
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Mo-Better said:
I don't label women if a woman has a healthy appetite for sex I'm happy. I don't think labels are fair.

Men aren't labeled like women. Is a woman who sleeps with 25 men any less moral than the guy who sleeps with 25 women? I say no.
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melonpecan said:
You do have a point there but I call men ho's too, words don't discriminate.
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I agree. This is the reason I call myself a slut.

melonpecan said:
I've also been known to call a man a bitch and he wasn't gay. :dunno: If you carry yourself like a ho or a bitch then that's what you get called.


Now LI your original question. I'm not sure if there is a difference between a ho and a slut although acting SLUTTY is not the same as acting HOISH. You can be a good man or woman and be a freak - it just depends on who you being a freak with.

If you a ho you could classify that as being a freak with any and everybody with no discrimination, no pretext, no nothing.
'Aw you got a dick? Let me suck it'. or "That chick (or dude) done fucked half the block". That's a ho.


If I had to put a label on a slut I'd probably say slut is that attitude, like flirting too hard but in a nasty sort of way...but I'd still say slut and ho are about equal...unless in adjective form.
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Exactly...(to bolded)
 
Legacy_Infinity said:
A whore is a person who gets paid for sexual services. Hell i even say any kind of service is whoring yourself. If you find it degrading enough.

But yeah, a ho? Well i use that term to describe a person who's screwing around unsafely. Doing something unsafe is just ho'ish to me. It's dirty. We have too many things going on in our vagina to just be out there all willy nilly like that. It's nasty.

I gotta say that i think a chick who is out there seeing more than 1 guy at a time? Randomly? Yeah she's being ho'ish. That's not safe. And a woman's libido isn't like that. There's something mentally and emotionally off kilter about her. Jumping from penis to penis within days, maybe a week. Without dating those guys? I don't know. Edgy.

But i have no issue witha woman being free to express her sexuality if she so chooses. IF she's DATING around. Like we go on a date here and there. I can't really call her a slutty ho or anything like that.
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So as long as she's getting a meal before she gets fed DICK... then she's not a "slutty ho", right?

:rolleyes:
 
Upgrade Dave said:
:yes::yes:
The Monday partner shouldn't cross paths with the Tues partner, even if they know about each other.
Don't tell everybody your business and don't take your different partners to the same spots.
Discretion is the key to sluts and hoes.
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*jots this down*

:cool:
 
followup said:
^^^promiscuity=sleeping with more than one person in separate encounters within the same time period


hmmmm.... I don't know if the exchange of money qualifies someone as a slut/whore/whatever....what if she has a sugar daddy and that's the only person she's sleeping with? I wouldn't necessarily call her a ho. She's providing a service...I also think prostitutes provide a service and their business should not be illegal.
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I also am a very big proponent for the legalization. I think we toss these things around towards women specifically just because we don't like them. So we may try to degrade. lol. If we don't like her we're like she's a hoe. Even though what she may be doing isn't really that ho'ish. I just did it like 20 min ago lmao. This chick i didn't like was with a new guy and she just broke up with someone last week. I called her a hoe and i was thinking, why did you say that? lol smh:smh:
 
followup said:
difference between a slut and a w(ho)re?
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Freak

High sex drive.
open & willing to try new things.
Can be, but is not limited to being, monogamous.

Slut

Includes, but is not limited to...
having sexual relations with more than one person, menage or not.
one night stands.
not giving a fuck about a relationship being a precursor to relations.
not giving a fuck about a relationship, period. (yours or others)
socially unacceptable level of inhibitions (sex in the church parking lot next to Barley's on Peachtree St., outside, standing between her car and my truck). Don't judge me :hmm:
Random sexual encounters, with protection

Hoe
Any of the following or any combination thereof:
Sexual favors(intercourse or not) done for a fee.(but not limited to this alone)
sexual relations with more than one person unprotected, menage or not.
one night stands, unprotected (oral, anal, or vaginal).
belief that a relationship is fucking someone more than once within a rolling 60 day period.
Socially unacceptable level of standards regarding sexual partners. (i.e. no limit soldier going to war wit as many niggas as she want, whenever she want, however she want. Making 'em say UUGGHH! Na Nah, Na Nah, Na!)
 
Legacy_Infinity said:
I don't understand what you're getting at. What did i say wrong?
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You implied that as long as she's "dating" an individual that she's not a "slutty hoe".

When, in fact, she could merely be exchanging her vagina for a hot meal and a little attention, whether it's mutually agreed upon or unspoken.

She's still a hoe.

And there are different levels of hoes, too.

Some hoes:

act like hoes, talk like hoes, but don't wanna be called a hoe.
lie to themselves about what they're doing/ they're intentions.
lie to others about what they're doing/ they're intentions.
only whore themselves out for small things or in small rations in an effort to keep guilt minimal & preserve self image/respect/esteem.
think they're not hoes as long as they get favor, gifts, and attention and not money in exchange for whatever they're offering. :hmm:
 
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