Sexually How Vital Is Your Mate's Sexual Ability?

[GET YOU HOT]

putting down the seat is only a bug deal if you are a sprayer. otherwise it's no big deal

And you better not complain

well public restrooms are filthy in general, but men'd bathrooms take it to a whole other level

The "bolded" lingo, is too funny...

 

[followup]

^^^^excuse the typos LOL @ 'bug' deal & 'men'd'

 

[Mo-Better]

It better be an even exchange, my energy/his energy vice versa. Test the waters, before you get into something, that will ultimately be unsatifactory. I rely on body language, eye contact first, then the rest will follow and hopefully fall into place. If it's not a good passionate exchange why bother? You have to feel, the energy(and touch his penis, to see if it's hard)and follow suit. Trust and communication are paramount...

I see you get it.

Ok this is how i'm hearing this. You get with person. As in you meet up, do the regular stuff people do now adays. And then you wind up "going together" Seeing each other whatever you want to call it. Going steady. You get married, blah blah. THEN Out of the blue you're like, yeah they don't satisfy me sexually. I'm out.

That's what i'm hearing.

My question is, why didn't you notice they didn't satisfy you sexually 2 times after having sex? If they didn't satisfy you then. I would hope after the first time you have sex, you notice this is not to your liking and you're like, "Yeah the sex isn't that hot to me, and it's REALLY SUPER IMPORTANT to me. So we can't be together. I'm out."

I mean what is it that's being said here? Is this a short term question or a long term question?

The neighbor in question. If she's happy, everywhere but the bedroom? You're supposed to give up the life you have just so you can get your rocks off? I do not vote for this. I do not vote for this at all. And i actually feel that a person who does this is 1 of the lowest forms of beings. The height of selfishness and probably should just be put to death.

Yeah i said it.

I have seen people like this. In real life. And my disdain for them is great.

1st question: Probably had their own agenda, it simply didn't seem that important in the beginning. But this is where the deceit like faking orgasms comes into play.

On your statement about the neighbor, your saying she should continue to live her life as it presently is and to endure a sex life that doesn't satisfy.

I'm curious how many women would actually concur with you on this.

 

[Mo-Better]

putting down the seat is only a bug deal if you are a sprayer. otherwise it's no big deal

And you better not complain

well public restrooms are filthy in general, but men'd bathrooms take it to a whole other level

No ma'am on the complaint.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Yes that's what i'm saying.If you aren't getting your rocks off, it effects you THAT much? That you forgo your marriage? You look past the quiet moments together? The time spent together? Everything else that constitutes a marriage JUST because you're not bustin a nut?

Yes. This is pretty low to me. And i'm never changing my mind on this no matter what anyone says. There's nothing anyone can say to me to convince me that fucking over your vows and your family in ANY way is a good thing, over some selfish bullshit.

 

[Mo-Better]

Yes that's what i'm saying.If you aren't getting your rocks off, it effects you THAT much? That you forgo your marriage? You look past the quiet moments together? The time spent together? Everything else that constitutes a marriage JUST because you're not bustin a nut?

Yes. This is pretty low to me. And i'm never changing my mind on this no matter what anyone says. There's nothing anyone can say to me to convince me that fucking over your vows and your family in ANY way is a good thing, over some selfish bullshit.

I'm not sure how or why your seeing your view or yourself as low. Its your opinion and there's no reason to apologize for expressing it. You never apologize for being you.

For myself the relationship would never gotten to the marriage level. Going back to the beginning of this thread maybe as an outsiders who have not had to deal with not getting ours your stance is understood. This thread was only for discussion nothing more.

But I do think for a woman to endure a lifelong life of sexual frustrations is a tough nut to handle. Everyone needs that release. I can tell you the women who don't get that release can always be spotted a mile away.

A woman gives a man a family, takes care of his home and he can't deliver an orgasm. I'm sure more women than a few would be ready to abandon ship or probably find someone who could deliver if this was the case.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

I'm not sure how or why your seeing your view or yourself as low. Its your opinion and there's no reason to apologize for expressing it. You never apologize for being you. Whhhhhhooooooooooaaaah what? lol I don't do this. lol I don't see myself as low. Wherrrre did you get this from?

For myself the relationship would never gotten to the marriage level. Going back to the beginning of this thread maybe as an outsiders who have not had to deal with not getting ours your stance is understood. This thread was only for discussion nothing more. This is what i'm saying, why get married if this is how you feel? Even in the slightest? Why get involved with this person any deeper than that 1 - 2 times you hit it?

But I do think for a woman to endure a lifelong life of sexual frustrations is a tough nut to handle. Everyone needs that release. I can tell you the women who don't get that release can always be spotted a mile away. *shrugs* Tough luck. You made your vow. Keep to it. Nothings perfect. But i'm like if you married the person then you work on it. There's sooooo many things wrong with getting married making a family then ditching because you don't get a nut.

A woman gives a man a family, takes care of his home and he can't deliver an orgasm.Why are you breaking a relationship down to an orgasm? I'm sure more women than a few would be ready to abandon ship or probably find someone who could deliver if this was the case.

I know lots of women who cheat because their husband don't satisfy them sexually. But love their husbands and won't leave them regardless.

 

[Mo-Better]

Yes that's what i'm saying.If you aren't getting your rocks off, it effects you THAT much? That you forgo your marriage? You look past the quiet moments together? The time spent together? Everything else that constitutes a marriage JUST because you're not bustin a nut?

Yes. This is pretty low to me. And i'm never changing my mind on this no matter what anyone says. There's nothing anyone can say to me to convince me that fucking over your vows and your family in ANY way is a good thing, over some selfish bullshit.

I know lots of women who cheat because their husband don't satisfy them sexually. But love their husbands and won't leave them regardless.

My bad I saw to read it as of. Oops! Astigmatism But still I would never apologize for the way I feel. It is what it is.

 

[1smoothnupe]

So do men and women keep shopping around sexually until they find that person that will give them what they need?

 

[DragonXJC]

I know lots of women who cheat because their husband don't satisfy them sexually. But love their husbands and won't leave them regardless.

They don't want to leave their situation and the financial benefits.

It's like marriage is a career and if you're not getting enough money at some point. You look for other "side jobs" to make due. You're not going to throw away your career with all it's benefits for a "side job". If you can get it all at the same time, you will.

 

[kjxxxx]

Hey, I want you to know there are lots of men out here who love and respect you for your strong passionate stance on this issue right here. We see you totally respect the marriage bond, or relationship with children in it. All men rich or poor would give their life to know a woman is with them like this through thick and thin.

All men eventually come to terms with that fact that at some point they wont be the strong performer, long performer they were 5 or even 10 years ago and as they grow older a woman can always find a man better sexually than they are. This one of the reasons why men marry a so called "good woman". He is confident she will be there during the low point.

Remember the whole them in "WAITING TO EXHALE". The so called "good woman" and "good man".

Much Respect L. I. - I can see why that man loved and respected you so much and gave his all.

Yes that's what i'm saying.If you aren't getting your rocks off, it effects you THAT much? That you forgo your marriage? You look past the quiet moments together? The time spent together? Everything else that constitutes a marriage JUST because you're not bustin a nut?

Yes. This is pretty low to me. And i'm never changing my mind on this no matter what anyone says. There's nothing anyone can say to me to convince me that fucking over your vows and your family in ANY way is a good thing, over some selfish bullshit.

 

[wetlioness]

WOW I LOVE SEX BUT I GUESS FOR SOME PEOPLE IT REALLY DOESN'T MATTER ALOT TO THEM IN A RELATIONSHIP. DOES ANYONE CARE ABOUT OR WANT SOMEONE WHO WILL BE RESPECTFUL AND HONEST TO THEM AND WHAT DOES MONEY HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THE QUESTION AT HAND? SO IF YOU FOUND THE PERSON WHO IS RIGHT FOR YOU I MEAN ALMOST 100% BUT THE SEX ISN'T ALL THAT GREAT WOULD YOU LEAVE BECAUSE HE SEX ISN'T MINDBLOWING? WOW SOMETHINGS CAN BE TAUGHT. WHAT ABOUT WHEN YOU GET TOO OLD OR SICK AND CAN'T HAVE SEX THEN WHAT IS LEFT?

 

[playahaitian]

They don't want to leave their situation and the financial benefits.

It's like marriage is a career and if you're not getting enough money at some point. You look for other "side jobs" to make due. You're not going to throw away your career with all it's benefits for a "side job". If you can get it all at the same time, you will.

but I want to know if a woman would enter into a relationship with a married man if he honestly told her sex with his spouse was unsatisfying and he would not leave her

I always surprised that many on the board are "shocked" that they are many professionall women who are quite secure and satisfied to be the OTHER WOMEN and prefer it, and are actually loyal to that ONE person...

am I the ONLY PERSON TO EXPERICENCE THIS???

 

[wetlioness]

I would not be or want to be with someone who is married. He needs to talk to his wife and if he has and doesn't plan on leaving her i just see that as a excuse to cheat. I don't want to be the "other woman" i want to be his one and only woman. Wait didn't he know before he got married that the sex wasn't good? So and excuse to cheat to me

 

[Mo-Better]

WOW I LOVE SEX BUT I GUESS FOR SOME PEOPLE IT REALLY DOESN'T MATTER ALOT TO THEM IN A RELATIONSHIP. DOES ANYONE CARE ABOUT OR WANT SOMEONE WHO WILL BE RESPECTFUL AND HONEST TO THEM AND WHAT DOES MONEY HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THE QUESTION AT HAND? SO IF YOU FOUND THE PERSON WHO IS RIGHT FOR YOU I MEAN ALMOST 100% BUT THE SEX ISN'T ALL THAT GREAT WOULD YOU LEAVE BECAUSE HE SEX ISN'T MINDBLOWING? WOW SOMETHINGS CAN BE TAUGHT. WHAT ABOUT WHEN YOU GET TOO OLD OR SICK AND CAN'T HAVE SEX THEN WHAT IS LEFT?

Would you please breakdown what your trying to say?

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

They don't want to leave their situation and the financial benefits.

It's like marriage is a career and if you're not getting enough money at some point. You look for other "side jobs" to make due. You're not going to throw away your career with all it's benefits for a "side job". If you can get it all at the same time, you will.

There may be some out there who feel this way. And then there are alot who feel how i put it. The 2nd part of what you said sort of ties into it.

But that first part, is trying to take the love out of the equation. That's just not plausible.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Hey, I want you to know there are lots of men out here who love and respect you for your strong passionate stance on this issue right here. We see you totally respect the marriage bond, or relationship with children in it. All men rich or poor would give their life to know a woman is with them like this through thick and thin.

All men eventually come to terms with that fact that at some point they wont be the strong performer, long performer they were 5 or even 10 years ago and as they grow older a woman can always find a man better sexually than they are. This one of the reasons why men marry a so called "good woman". He is confident she will be there during the low point.

Remember the whole them in "WAITING TO EXHALE". The so called "good woman" and "good man".

Much Respect L. I. - I can see why that man loved and respected you so much and gave his all.

Thanks.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

WOW I LOVE SEX BUT I GUESS FOR SOME PEOPLE IT REALLY DOESN'T MATTER ALOT TO THEM IN A RELATIONSHIP. DOES ANYONE CARE ABOUT OR WANT SOMEONE WHO WILL BE RESPECTFUL AND HONEST TO THEM AND WHAT DOES MONEY HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THE QUESTION AT HAND? SO IF YOU FOUND THE PERSON WHO IS RIGHT FOR YOU I MEAN ALMOST 100% BUT THE SEX ISN'T ALL THAT GREAT WOULD YOU LEAVE BECAUSE HE SEX ISN'T MINDBLOWING? WOW SOMETHINGS CAN BE TAUGHT. WHAT ABOUT WHEN YOU GET TOO OLD OR SICK AND CAN'T HAVE SEX THEN WHAT IS LEFT?

I TOTALLY agree.

 

[wetlioness]

i totally agree.

thank you somebody understands