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Why are men opposed to the idea of using toys for their own self-pleasure?

Women do it all the time.

I know someone posted the fleshlight here once. I don't think there is anything wrong with having that in your private stash.

I mean maybe having a real doll is a bit much, but there is nothing wrong with having a few items that help get you off.

Come on guys, come with it.

Do you have toys and if so, how often do you use em?
 
I do have a couple of things but it's to use on the woman....never considered getting a toy to use on me because i've always been good with my hands.
 
:smh:

NO. Leroy can keep his fleshlight.

I'm good with my hand if I can't have the real thing.
 
anything other than a woman.:smh: It's just not normal and definitely viewed as some type of strange taboo.:smh:
 
Well what if you found something that was better than your hands and almost as good as pussy?

Wouldn't you at least want to try it?
 
femmenoire said:
Well what if you found something that was better than your hands and almost as good as pussy?

Wouldn't you at least want to try it?
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i dont know if anything will ever be close to almost as good as pussy. the thought of a man with a sex toy just dont sound straight...... pun intended.... love the avi femme be the way..... a certain pic i have of u and my hand did a decent job one night
 
I hear you Fem: but, I have to assert the negative on this one.
I think alot of things that may be acceptable in terms of women are not viewed the same with men.

(And, there is nothing that can be designed that could replace a womans Vagina, Pussy, however you want to label it....A woman can bend, shape, mold, tighten up on a man in an instance.

And, here is real talk.....It is the response you get from a woman. No toy is going to talk back to you, like a woman; A toy can't respond to your actions.......case i.e. giving a woman oral sex.....Having a woman clinch up is a stimulus and rush....
No toy can even touch that.....

What's better than this: Absolutely Nothing.:yes:
 
You must remember Femme that it takes women a WHOLE lot more stimuli to get off than men. Something for arrousal and lubricant is about all we need to get where we need to be in the "self pleasure" department.

Now there is no substitute for a woman just like there is no sub for a man, but this is a fact to throw in there. :yes:
 
well if you look in a sex shop you'll see all kinds of fake pussy/ass/mouths type toys for men. And somebodys buying that shit cause they keep making it.

But as you see from the response so far that the men here..(and them being black men also factors in) that men feel somekind of way about either having it or ADMITTING to having it.

But alot of that has to do with how they would be percieved not just by society in general but by women especially..

Scenario ladies: Your dating a man and your over his house. You say you have to go to the bathroom and he gives you directions but you make a wrong turn and end up in his bedroom. Out of curiosity you look in his nightstand and see
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what would your KNEEJERK reaction be...HONESTLY??
 
geechiedan said:
well if you look in a sex shop you'll see all kinds of fake pussy/ass/mouths type toys for men. And somebodys buying that shit cause they keep making it.

But as you see from the response so far that the men here..(and them being black men also factors in) that men feel somekind of way about either having it or ADMITTING to having it.

But alot of that has to do with how they would be percieved not just by society in general but by women especially..

Scenario ladies: Your dating a man and your over his house. You say you have to go to the bathroom and he gives you directions but you make a wrong turn and end up in his bedroom. Out of curiosity you look in his nightstand and see
6stt98k.jpg


what would your KNEEJERK reaction be...HONESTLY??
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:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:


OMG!!!

:hmm:

rush out, take my piss and make up an excuse to leave ASAP :lol:
 
Personally don't have any toys I use, but to each their own.

I have two good hands....what more do I need.
 
The best sex toy I've found so far is a good woman and that will never change. Next to that is a good porn movie. After that forgetaboutit!

The sexual toy industry has focused 99.9% of its energy on sastifying women. With all the scientific developments thoughout the last century the best the sex industry can do for men is a Fleshlight. Considering what it is I may as well keep my money and use my hand. I have to use my hand anyway to use the Fleshlight.

Oh yeah and lets not forget Real Doll for those who have 5+Gs just hanging around. BTW Where do you put her when family and friends come to visit? Your not just sticking 5Gs in the back of a closet.:D

Even the cockring although made for the man is a device to enhance stimulation to the woman. So in answer to your question there isn't any devices that have any appeal.

Femme, you've spent time looking at adult websites what have you seen? But its not totally the industries fault. When I go into stores looking, I'm looking for something to please a woman. Maybe if we demanded something better but I would rather have a real woman.
 
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I think it is more of a inconvenience to men. The hand is probably the best way to get off. I have tried the fake pussy and they are what they are fake and zero feeling. Easier to use you hand and get it over with
 
Very interesting answers.

I personally don't see anything wrong with them. But I would be worried if I found a blow up doll or real doll in some dude's house.

And ruff, I am glad to have helped you in some kind of way.:p
 
femmenoire said:
Why are men opposed to the idea of using toys for their own self-pleasure?

Women do it all the time.

I know someone posted the fleshlight here once. I don't think there is anything wrong with having that in your private stash.

I mean maybe having a real doll is a bit much, but there is nothing wrong with having a few items that help get you off.

Come on guys, come with it.

Do you have toys and if so, how often do you use em?
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Well, we men in general have found our hands are, well, quite handy. That and some imagination (or perhaps some porno stimulation if needed) is all that's necessary.

femmenoire said:
Well what if you found something that was better than your hands and almost as good as pussy?

Wouldn't you at least want to try it?
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Well, I don't think that mankind has invented something midway between the hand and pussy yet (except a warm, wet, moist, sticky lipglossed/lipsticked mouth as Latin pointed out :yes:). I guess mankind is too busy on that global warming problem. :lol:

However femme, to segue from the other thread, if you could invent that prostrate stimulator-toy for men, you could become a billionnaire!
 
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femmenoire said:
Very interesting answers.

I personally don't see anything wrong with them. But I would be worried if I found a blow up doll or real doll in some dude's house.

And ruff, I am glad to have helped you in some kind of way.:p
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sex toys are for woman and gay men.
straight men dont need to be that imaginative in order to get off.

if it can get hard,
it can get off.
point blank, period

a woman can close her eyes and pretend that dildo in her ass is morris chestnutt.

when a man yanks the doodle,
he KNOWS its his hand.



www.rkellyisguilty.com
 
LeftyLuchini said:
sex toys are for woman and gay men.
straight men dont need to be that imaginative in order to get off.

if it can get hard,
it can get off.
point blank, period

a woman can close her eyes and pretend that dildo in her ass is morris chestnutt.

when a man yanks the doodle,
he KNOWS its his hand.



www.rkellyisguilty.comhttp://www.rkellyisguilty.com
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Well if this is the case and so many of you echoed the same thing...then why would a woman be responsible for your orgasm? I'm asking since Mo-Better made a thread about "orgasm responsibility".
 
femmenoire said:
Well what if you found something that was better than your hands and almost as good as pussy?

Wouldn't you at least want to try it?
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Femm, yes I would to try it!! But the freak in me says treat such things like crack, "I might like that shyt too much and be in real trouble" So if I were to come across such a thing, I just not sure what I'd do.:D:yes::smh::confused::eek::rolleyes::hmm::)
 
I like the feel of a vibrator on my dick head and balls.... sometimes my lady will vibe me then i will vibe her. Also a vibrator on the clit while fucking will provide extra sensation for both parties.
In not too interested in the fleshlight.
 
femmenoire said:
Well if this is the case and so many of you echoed the same thing...then why would a woman be responsible for your orgasm? I'm asking since Mo-Better made a thread about "orgasm responsibility".
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but women aren't responsible for mens orgasm..its just not as much work on average..
 
geechiedan said:
but women aren't responsible for mens orgasm..its just not as much work on average..
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Your right but many women do take steps to get their men off and some do take it personally. (Don't believe it look at the Bedroom Story thread)
 
femmenoire said:
Well what if you found something that was better than your hands and almost as good as pussy?

Wouldn't you at least want to try it?
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Noir said:
However femme, to segue from the other thread, if you could invent that prostrate stimulator-toy for men, you could become a billionnaire!
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femmenoire said:
I need to get cracking then!
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If you invent one of these you could end civilization! No need for people to get together anymore, just warm up the machine!

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