Yeah I can understand that. I've never asked to be choked harder because you never know with a ninja.
I even once requested a dude to put his belt around my neck but he declined.
damn, I need someone to ask me that.
Rough Play
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damn, I need someone to ask me that.
98% likes rough play. it hightens their level of excitement and releases more of their hormones which ultimately drive them wild.
Younger women generally have not found what turns them on, or out, if you will.
They should use their youth to research and find out what they like. Not what someone says they should like.
Then they will enjoy sex long into the older years, instead of being the old prude.
The post here about getting people to open up sexually has the best advice posted thus far, and I expect more people to continue to give great insight on it.
Yeah I can understand that. I've never asked to be choked harder because you never know with a ninja.
I even once requested a dude to put his belt around my neck but he declined.
HHMMM a belt. never thought of that. gotta be careful though lol
*flashback*
I remember I dated this italian/puerto rican boxer and lawdy lawdy lawd..the things he said while sex would have me going nuts...
dirty little whores...
nasty bitches....
freaky sluts...
all while hair pulling and ass smacking...
I ran track so I'd go to practice the next day and people would see hand prints on my thigh and think I was fighting a crazy man...
woo..I can truly say no one has come close to that...
HHMMM a belt. never thought of that. gotta be careful though lol
I think with the belt thing, both the man and women have to be secure within themselves. I wouldn't suggest taking any recreational drugs or be under the influence of alcohol even if it does heighten the experience because sometimes one may not know their own strength and when emotions get carried away, things can go terribly awry.
Most of the women that I've dealt with like it rough in one form or another. I had one chick who wanted me to fuck her has hard, but her nipples were too sensitive. If I sucked too hard, it would hurt her.
Dealt with one chick who wanted me to bite her nipples.
One chick liked when I slapped her while we fucked, light slaps of course. And, the only reason why she mentioned it to me is cuz she knew that I wouldn't go crazy with it.
Same chick liked when I bit her clit, I was VERY careful.
I am convinced that ALL women like their ass slapped. Every woman that I've dealt with liked it, even the ones that started out with: "don't do that to me, it's disrespectful". I maybe wrong, but in my experience that's true.
Dealt with one chick who wanted me to bite her nipples.
One chick liked when I slapped her while we fucked, light slaps of course. And, the only reason why she mentioned it to me is cuz she knew that I wouldn't go crazy with it.
Same chick liked when I bit her clit, I was VERY careful.
I am convinced that ALL women like their ass slapped. Every woman that I've dealt with liked it, even the ones that started out with: "don't do that to me, it's disrespectful". I maybe wrong, but in my experience that's true.
YEA I FEEL YA ON THAT, I DONT DO DRUGS BUT I DO LIKE MY DRINKS, GOTTA BE CAREFUL IF I TRY IT.
For me its a different kind of roughness. I liked to be called bad names and rough disgusting things to be said to me during sexI don't know where that comes from, but I like it. On second thought its probably that boyfriend I had in higschool that loved phone sex. He was goooood. Sexy voice and knew just the right things to say.
I'm with the tossing around, but I hate it when men press on your nipples like broken remote control buttons.
see...i made a threat about being called nigga during sex and everyone flipped out..
femm...if you want you can move the thread to here..
http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=194044&highlight=called+nigga+sex&page=3
*flashback*
I remember I dated this italian/puerto rican boxer and lawdy lawdy lawd..the things he said while sex would have me going nuts...
dirty little whores...
nasty bitches....
freaky sluts...
all while hair pulling and ass smacking...
I ran track so I'd go to practice the next day and people would see hand prints on my thigh and think I was fighting a crazy man...
woo..I can truly say no one has come close to that...
See that turned me on.
now femm..I CAUGHT you...lol...i KNEW it!!!!
and here you are cosigning degradation....
and here you are cosigning degradation..
..
Because we have gone through that stage of not being satisfied, and knowing what turns you on and after a certain age, you start to say I like it like this or that, and communication is better...at least for me.
now femm..I CAUGHT you...lol...i KNEW it!!!!
and here you are cosigning degradation..
I made that comment because I knew I was one of them. Now I'm not saying I want to be degraded, but I do know I like to be commanded.
I have the rough sex thing down pat and I think most girls prefer it that way (at least in my experiences). It's harder for me to be the sensitive, caring type, I get bored with it after a while and eventually end up picking the pace back up to a comfortable level (wax on).
but do you really believe that someone has to be lacking something in order to enjoy that?
do you think you do?
I think there are extremities.
As an escort, I was often asked to punish dudes. I think in those cases there are problems.
I'm not going to front because what others may find degrading (like having a man cum in a her face and call her a dirty whore) I love it.
I don't find myself "lacking" in emotional stability or self awareness or self esteem and I've never been abused sexually. Like pretty much all the ladies here I'm well educated, successful in my field and in most all ways have a very good life.
I'm not quite sure where or how I developed the fetish, but its mine so I own it and try to be upfront with my sex partners about it. If I try to hide it I have difficulty being completely satisfied. I cum, but I don't CUM- ya know?
OK. True Confessions. 10 years ago or so, I had a financial meltdown. So someone reccomeded this dominatrix place to me and I got freaked out. They told me theres no sex and then they sweetened the pot telling me mostly the crackaboy execs go there so I bit. I got 100 an hour. I had to get some training. I will admit it made me laugh so fukkin hard and I would be abusing the shit out these whiteboys and insulting them and telling them about the cave dwelling devils that they are. Then a few days later, they came to me with that new shit like the chocolate surprise and some client wanted it. I didn't wanna do it but the $ was so good I said alright but how am I supposed to do that on demand. Well they had a special room and I went in there and smoked cigs and drank coffee and ate exlax and other stuff til I was ready. Anyway I eventually came back out and did it and I will spare you the details but I quit the job entirely immediately following.
I lasted a total of 4 days.
so you shit on somebody. Damn.
Everyone has got there thing. I just don't see this under any circumstance, though.
At least you were theSHITTER and not the shittee.
for a G under dire circumstances, WTF?
never again tho.
for a G under dire circumstances, WTF?
never again tho.
the first time is always the bitch of the bunch..
Yeah I can understand that. I've never asked to be choked harder because you never know with a ninja.
I even once requested a dude to put his belt around my neck but he declined.
what about monkeyfucking?
OK. True Confessions. 10 years ago or so, I had a financial meltdown. So someone reccomeded this dominatrix place to me and I got freaked out. They told me theres no sex and then they sweetened the pot telling me mostly the crackaboy execs go there so I bit. I got 100 an hour. I had to get some training. I will admit it made me laugh so fukkin hard and I would be abusing the shit out these whiteboys and insulting them and telling them about the cave dwelling devils that they are. Then a few days later, they came to me with that new shit like the chocolate surprise and some client wanted it. I didn't wanna do it but the $ was so good I said alright but how am I supposed to do that on demand. Well they had a special room and I went in there and smoked cigs and drank coffee and ate exlax and other stuff til I was ready. Anyway I eventually came back out and did it and I will spare you the details but I quit the job entirely immediately following.
I heard some people are in to that scat shit. Whatever you're in to behind closed doors.
The "scat" thing is waaaay out there. I mean, you have to be on a whole new plateau of intimacy to enjoy that.
One time I was having a discussion with this guy about shitting and pissing during sex. He said, "It's not necessarily about the shit or piss... but it's more about control." WTF?? He was a brotha too!
So my dumb ass was like, "But what if it gets in your mouth or hair???
You can get Hep-C...Do you know that, fool?? And who's gonna clean that shit up?" No pun intended. He seemed to be getting aggravated, so I left the shit alone. 
Damn, now I can't seem to get the "2 girls 1 cup" thing outta my head.
One time I was having a discussion with this guy about shitting and pissing during sex. He said, "It's not necessarily about the shit or piss... but it's more about control." WTF?? He was a brotha too!
So my dumb ass was like, "But what if it gets in your mouth or hair???
You can get Hep-C...Do you know that, fool?? And who's gonna clean that shit up?" No pun intended. He seemed to be getting aggravated, so I left the shit alone. Damn, now I can't seem to get the "2 girls 1 cup" thing outta my head.
When I got my nipples pierced, that shit was painful than a muthafucka... but it was also rather pleasurable in a strange, sensual kind of way (Those of ya'll with piercings can identify.). To this day my nipples are ultra, extra tender.If a ninja merely blows (think "whistle") on them, they grow hard instantly. No lie.
But it's all about knowing your lover's limits. Me? I like my man to go HARD & DEEP. Or shut the fuck up, ole simple, soft ass ninja. If I don’t need a day or 2 of bed rest after a nite of love, a ninja ain't did the muthafuckin job.
I tell my friends that and they laugh at me. To each his own...And the nipple piercings did a number on me. Three years after taking them out and they're still sensitive like a mutha.
I like a lil aggressive dirty talk too:
"You like this pussy huh....say you like it...yeaaaa I know you do...now lick it!!" get a lil aggressive
They like it too...
Co-sign!
I also like being spanked, hair pulling, a lil biting, a hand around my neck... he doesn't have to choke me, I just like that little bit of pressure.
OK. True Confessions. 10 years ago or so, I had a financial meltdown. So someone reccomeded this dominatrix place to me and I got freaked out. They told me theres no sex and then they sweetened the pot telling me mostly the crackaboy execs go there so I bit. I got 100 an hour. I had to get some training. I will admit it made me laugh so fukkin hard and I would be abusing the shit out these whiteboys and insulting them and telling them about the cave dwelling devils that they are. Then a few days later, they came to me with that new shit like the chocolate surprise and some client wanted it. I didn't wanna do it but the $ was so good I said alright but how am I supposed to do that on demand. Well they had a special room and I went in there and smoked cigs and drank coffee and ate exlax and other stuff til I was ready. Anyway I eventually came back out and did it and I will spare you the details but I quit the job entirely immediately following.
Oh girl please white boys like some crazy ass shit. I was an exotic dancer in SF, and I would work day and night shifts, believe it or not day shift was always interesting because you'd get those exec types that you were talking about, and they are the freakiest of the bunch.
I had this one regular who would come in and would bring fishnet stockings or me to put on, just so he could rub his face up against them and smell my feet, sometimes he would want me to step on his face as hard a I could in the face (and I would wonder WTF his wife thought about him coming home with a big red foot print on the side of his face). Sometimes he would want me to spit on him, choke him, call him names, slap him around.
One day this crazy idiot came in handed me $1500 and said next time I was on my period save the sanitary napkins so he can keep them...WTF!!!?!?!?!
Took the cash of course, but stop working the shifts this demented freak came in..that was a little bit much for me...
I like getting spanked and my hair pulled(not too hard though). I also like getting pounded like the man is trying to make his dick reach my throat
When I got my nipples pierced, that shit was painful than a muthafucka... but it was also rather pleasurable in a strange, sensual kind of way (Those of ya'll with piercings can identify.). To this day my nipples are ultra, extra tender.
And the nipple piercings did a number on me. Three years after taking them out and they're still sensitive like a mutha.
Damn girls, ya’ll getting’ my dick hard. I love to nibble, bite, chew and pull nipples. That is one of the reason I love smaller tittes. I had a girlfriend that I actually made cum by getting rough with her nipples. She grabbed my dick and almost pulled it off, which made it even harder! I have gotten to the point that I have used clothes pin and alligator clips on my lovers nipples. When you take them off, woo… you can just blow on em’!
I like getting spanked and my hair pulled(not too hard though). I also like getting pounded like the man is trying to make his dick reach my throat
Good to know!
I'm sure all women love rough play as long as boundaries aren't crossed.
It can easily happen even with the best of intentions.
It can easily happen even with the best of intentions.
Agree on a safe word.
They basically are getting to know their bodies and their limits. They're also getting to know themselves. Some younger women don't know how to talk to the men they're sleeping with - they're too timid to speak up for themselves. They'll fuck, but they're too timid to speak about intimate things...that only comes with maturity. You know, learning to "do it with the lights on" so to speak...
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