Rhianna attacked first. Does America endorse women physically abusing men?

[MadSkillz]

I been trying to avoid this story but thanks to Oprah its all over the fucking place including CNN and MSNBC. All I want is Oprah to shut the fuck up and wait 'til we get all the facts.

...Law enforcement tells us the text message to Brown talked about hooking up later -- and it totally pissed off Rihanna. She slapped and hit him and he then brutally fired back.

Yeah I know I quoted TMZ but they have been on point on this case before the normal media. And the fact that this came out means the Rhianna was attacking him like a man. So she did set off that boy. Chris's mistake was just going too far with the beatdown, but I am tired of fucking Oprah saying shit and not thinking Rhianna or any other woman could be doing shit to bring on a physical fight.

I am pretty sure she been hitting on Chris before and he prolly warned her saying if you hit me again I will defend myself.


So I am asking, Why is it okay for a woman to beat on a guy and men are supposed to do nothing? We see it all the time in the media. A bitch will slap a guy and a man is suppose to do nothing. I'm not for abuse but a woman come at me like a man, especial closed fisted and I say treat her like a man, neither party had any right be physically assaulting each other.


PS: Maybe Chris does need therapy. Why would he stay with a woman that kept hitting on him? If he reported that he would be made fun of. I think the press needs to back off and wait for the whole story.

 

[KTD]

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[Freedom Of Chat]

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its not okay either way... if rihanna fucked cb face up the way he did her, she would be receiving similar scrutiny. she was wrong to instigate this mess, but he clearly got into a rage n beat the shit out of her

had she been some random bitch (celebrity or not), it still would have been a big deal, but it wouldnt be as bad... the fact that he did that to someone he claims to love is what has every1 enraged... u gotta be bipolar as shit to do that to someone u love

EDIT: Almost forgot to mention

 

[Jacobi]

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It's not cool for a woman to slap a man, but their definitely is a double standard. Still there are things you can do when in that situation that would be reasonable that don't include laying the fucking smack down like Chris apparently did.

Sometimes it's hard to take the high road, but it's always there.

 

[Mr.Bizkits]

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Because women want it one way, and not the other.

 

[master-ceo]

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I aint gonna front. The thread title hurts my head when I try to read it

 

[Cock Head Jones]

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Because women want it one way, and not the other.

Nah the media wants it to be one way... and it is gonna be that way.

 

[Mr.Bizkits]

Re: Rhianna attacked first. Does America endorsing physically women abusing men?

Nah the media wants it to be one way... and it is gonna be that way.

I stand corrected...

 

[MadSkillz]

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I aint gonna front. The thread title hurts my head when I try to read it

My bad. I was trying to fix, but accidentally hit submit.

Its suppose to read

Rhianna attacked first. Does America endorse women physically abusing men?


moving right along. Watch out because Oprah is going to do a show Thursday I hear dedicated to abusive relationships. This woman better not be putting together an extreme MALE bashing show. I'm tired of Oprah fucking up womens heads. She never puts onus on the women who many of which are bitches themselves. Oprah too many times endorses bad behavior by women.

PS: could a mod fix the title please.

 

[Blu Diablo]

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This doesn't really answer your question but to me it's simply a matter of accountability for actions.

You cannot instigate violence then be surprised when or play the victim role when you are subjected to the very violence you instigated. That would be akin to waving a gun in someones face then acting surprised if you wind up getting shot.

As men we understand that you don't arbitrarily approach another man in a violent manner and expect him NOT to respond.

Equality and Chivalry are incompatible objects, much like speed and quality in the business world.

 

[MadSkillz]

Re: Rhianna attacked first. Does America endorsing physically women abusing men?

It's not cool for a woman to slap a man, but their definitely is a double standard. Still there are things you can do when in that situation that would be reasonable that don't include laying the fucking smack down like Chris apparently did.

Sometimes it's hard to take the high road, but it's always there.

It says she slapped and then hit. the hit sounds like to me fighting like a man territory if you ask me. Only after that it says he replied in kind and went too far.

The girl punched at him first, and she prolly punched him in the face. That will set off most men period!

 

[UltimateLurker]

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Because women want it one way, and not the other.

so true........... fuck oprah btw

 

[DetroitPLAYA]

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Man damn all these cb threads u wanna beat on a girl go ahead just know yo
ass goin to jail. It dont matter who hit who 1st. In the words of Run DMC its like that and thats the way it is. Now you could be smart and walk away and keep
yo freedom and cash or you could choose whats behind door number 2 and take that long vacation paid for by the state. The choice is yours.... and
Real Men Choose with the head not they emotions.


btw what do u think this cac system would rather do? a: try to blame the woman or
b: lock down another brother and strip his power

This shit is chess not checkers.

 

[Naha-Nago]

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She hit him first?





Good. Now all these 'save a ho' super heroes on this board can finally put their capes away.



And the whole "excessive" plea by many is total bullshit because Rhianna hit him first. If you put your hand on a hot stove and burn yourself I'm not going to attack the stove; the stove works fine. The question would be WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING PUTTING YOUR HANDS ON IT?!?!



Fuck with the bull and you get the horns. She got what she got. Dumb bitch.



*two cents*

 

[RunawaySlave]

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Ever watch Jerry Springer?? Women can pummel a man while "security" just watches, but let a man raise his hand in defense

 

[MrMotivator]

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Yes, but its also taboo to say that a woman had any responsibility.

I don't think it should be a knock on women-hood per say but the reality is we live in a world where responsibility is a one way street. In wall street they blame poor people for taking loans rather than the rich people who knew better but gave away too many bad loans. The same could be said for this Rihanna situation we don't know all the facts but the slow trickle of evidence that this wasn't a one sided beat down and Rihanna had a hand in how and why it even got to where it is will not change the rush to avoid responsibility.

I think we can all agree that chris brown was a idiot and he shouldn't have even touched her but where is this rush to point out that Rihanna shouldn't touch him either? You don't hear that from anybody especially all these blowhards on their soap box.

 

[MadSkillz]

Re: Rhianna attacked first. Does America endorsing physically women abusing men?

Yes, but its also taboo to say that a woman had any responsibility.

I don't think it should be a knock on women-hood per say but the reality is we live in a world where responsibility is a one way street. In wall street they blame poor people for taking loans rather than the rich people who knew better but gave away too many bad loans. The same could be said for this Rihanna situation we don't know all the facts but the slow trickle of evidence that this wasn't a one sided beat down and Rihanna had a hand in how and why it even got to where it is will not change the rush to avoid responsibility.

I think we can all agree that chris brown was a idiot and he shouldn't have even touched her but where is this rush to point out that Rihanna shouldn't touch him either? You don't hear that from anybody especially all these blowhards on their soap box.

Well said. And to dove tail your comment, what seems to be coming to light is under age sex between Chris and his female manager. Rumors are she was messing with him since he was 16. Dam you can't make this shit up.

So where are the abuse advocates? Why aren't they seeing Chris (19) been getting messed up by two older women. Rhianna is 21 and the manager is 40. Rhianna been hitting him, and he exploded in the wrong way.

 

[New York's Tyrant]

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I was watching CNN last nite and they had a whole panel of battered bitches on, and i was truly truly disturbed.

None of them acknowledged the reports about her striking him while he was driving?

These are scorned women who cannot think objectively, I feel very very sorry for Chris Brown.

They want to make him the poster child for DV. Some are even comparing him to O.J?

I'm convinced that women live in an alternate reality at times.

 

[LoneStar29]

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NO a woman should not hit a man
YES a man should defend himself if a woman tries to hit him

But please don't excuse the amount of force he used on her ... the pic of her battered face said it all ... he did take it a bit too far

 

[blackman8]

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It's not cool for a woman to slap a man, but their definitely is a double standard.

Double standard for a damn good reason. Need evidence, see Rihanna's autopsy-face. Anyone of us men could do the exact same to 99% of women out there so at the end of the day the responsibility is on us to hold restraint.

Tru it makes it easier if they hit & provoke us, but there are other ways of successfully diffusing the situation, like Chris Breey's first attempt at tossing her out the lambo.

The same way teenagers talk out the lip to whoever the feel like (grown men alike) you find restraint from whooping they ass. Same thing follows w/women.

 

[magnetic god]

Re: Rhianna attacked first. Does America endorsing physically women abusing men?

Double standard for a damn good reason. Need evidence, see Rihanna's autopsy-face. Anyone of us men could do the exact same to 99% of women out there so at the end of the day the responsibility is on us to hold restraint.

Tru it makes it easier if they hit & provoke us, but there are other ways of successfully diffusing the situation, like Chris Breey's first attempt at tossing her out the lambo.

The same way teenagers talk out the lip to whoever the feel like (grown men alike) you find restraint from whooping they ass. Same thing follows w/women.

 

[MrMotivator]

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NO a woman should not hit a man
YES a man should defend himself if a woman tries to hit him

But please don't excuse the amount of force he used on her ... the pic of her battered face said it all ... he did take it a bit too far

I think its becoming more and more acceptable for women to think they can take it there and lay hands on a guy, they know if the cops come she could have a knife with his blood dripping on it he is gonna be arrested first and she can work out her story later. Yeah thats extreme but shit it happens... alot

Society needs to step on this nonsense asap

 

[Majestic]

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How do we know that all that was from Chris Brown....he "supposedly" left her out by herself in some neighborhood...and wouldn't have made the "so-called" body guards come out with a story or sent to testify on him already....Double standards....I hate that shit...

 

[MrMotivator]

Re: Rhianna attacked first. Does America endorsing physically women abusing men?

Double standard for a damn good reason. Need evidence, see Rihanna's autopsy-face. Anyone of us men could do the exact same to 99% of women out there so at the end of the day the responsibility is on us to hold restraint.

Tru it makes it easier if they hit & provoke us, but there are other ways of successfully diffusing the situation, like Chris Breey's first attempt at tossing her out the lambo.

The same way teenagers talk out the lip to whoever the feel like (grown men alike) you find restraint from whooping they ass. Same thing follows w/women.

I don't agree with this line of reasoning

MEN and WOMEN need to step up this is not acceptable behavior from either of us. All this rush to say men can do better is reinforcing the idea that a woman can do what the fuck she wants at what point did women stop using their head?

99.9999999% of the women who cross the line do it because they are banking on this bullshit idea that a man is supposed to restrain himself.


I don't condone hitting women but clearly the scales are tipping and there is no balance to this ying and yang. Our society can not continue if we allow things to get out of wack and people don't know their place.

 

[Mr.Bizkits]

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NO a woman should not hit a man
YES a man should defend himself if a woman tries to hit him

But please don't excuse the amount of force he used on her ... the pic of her battered face said it all ... he did take it a bit too far

Fuck that, there's never a such thing as excessive force on a bitch. She'll never excessively cross her line again.

 

[KTD]

Re: Rhianna attacked first. Does America endorsing physically women abusing men?

NO a woman should not hit a man
YES a man should defend himself if a woman tries to hit him

But please don't excuse the amount of force he used on her ... the pic of her battered face said it all ... he did take it a bit too far

Nah, it was obviously a fight she started and got her ass handed to her. It would have been better if it was Beyonce who beat her down like that right? you also know that she is 21 and Chris is 19 right?

 

[exiledking]

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its not okay either way... if rihanna fucked cb face up the way he did her, she would be receiving similar scrutiny

this is a lie.She would not

this is what really happened
[FLASH]http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/e/16711680/wshhLl9XW34RvVP5KMou[/FLASH]

 

[teeswinger]

Re: Rhianna attacked first. Does America endorsing physically women abusing men?

I don't agree with this line of reasoning

MEN and WOMEN need to step up this is not acceptable behavior from either of us. All this rush to say men can do better is reinforcing the idea that a woman can do what the fuck she wants at what point did women stop using their head?

99.9999999% of the women who cross the line do it because they are banking on this bullshit idea that a man is supposed to restrain himself.


I don't condone hitting women but clearly the scales are tipping and there is no balance to this ying and yang. Our society can not continue if we allow things to get out of wack and people don't know their place.

Co sign america has officially been feminized. In my opinion you fuck with the bull you get the horns!

 

[So What?]

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The same way teenagers talk out the lip to whoever the feel like (grown men alike) you find restraint from whooping they ass. Same thing follows w/women.

So adult women should be treated like children?

What an idiot

 

[KRIM(NL)10DENCY]

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Man damn all these cb threads u wanna beat on a girl go ahead just know yo
ass goin to jail. It dont matter who hit who 1st. In the words of Run DMC its like that and thats the way it is. Now you could be smart and walk away and keep
yo freedom and cash or you could choose whats behind door number 2 and take that long vacation paid for by the state. The choice is yours.... and
Real Men Choose with the head not they emotions.


btw what do u think this cac system would rather do? a: try to blame the woman or
b: lock down another brother and strip his power

This shit is chess not checkers.

I beg to differ with that statement dawg,no offense to you but I had a broad hit me in the mouth some years ago,i called the boys,they came to the crib and aksed her if she hit me.
Her:"damn right I hit him".(she answered this in a i got an attitude type manner)
Them "maam you need to get dressed"
Her: What for?
Them: "Your under arrest".
Her: "WHATTTT?!?!?"
Them: Yes Maaam,get your clothes on.
She thought these cats were joking,and that it was excuseable that she wouldnt go to jail for hitting me.
Now additionally what was fucked up in the scenario,her family reacted liked,"you didnt have to have her locked up" and i responded by telling them if I had bashed her ass,would you not expect her to call the law and me get arrested??

Nuff Said

Dont matter what the situation man shouldnt hit a woman without cause if you can help it, and woman definitely should not be putting their hands on a man and not expect to either get the same treatment or end up in lockup.
Cuz a girl ya hit me and im calling the law,thats on top of having cellphone,webcam and any other device i can use backing me up.

 

[woodchuck]

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if rihanna fucked cb face up the way he did her, she would be receiving similar scrutiny. s

No she wouldn't, and you know it.

 

[Freedom Of Chat]

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this is a lie.She would not

this is what really happened
[FLASH]http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/e/16711680/wshhLl9XW34RvVP5KMou[/FLASH]

thats not wat happened in the case of cb n rihanna... what went down in that vid is some bullshit

if u wanna draw parallels...

rihanna is a black man that just robbed a white lady

chris brown is the nypd that just shot the robber 60 times instead of arresting him

excessive force

 

[Mo Pizorn]

Re: Rhianna attacked first. Does America endorsing physically women abusing men?

Yes, but its also taboo to say that a woman had any responsibility.

That's the REAL truth right there! The feminazi agenda is to push women to the forefront in every way. The pussification of America began years ago under the guise of self-help, self improvement in the early 90s. The "independent woman" movement. Its really a takeover move. Women want equal pay but when its time to go out, its not okay for them to pay and if the man wants to split the check then he's an ass and you shouldn't fuck with him. Couples are encouraged to have joint bank accounts but women are encouraged to have seperate accounts as "just in case" funds. That type of social conditioning comes through Cosmopolitan, Essence and all of those women's magazines. The goal is to make it so that society will accept any behavior a woman does. In some states (any along the west coast) if a woman says you hit her, YOU GO DIRECTLY TO JAIL - NO QUESTIONS, THEY DON'T HEAR THE MAN'S SIDE. Any random bitch off the street could send you to jail for no reason. That's what the goal is; control for women and actions with no consequences.

 

[Freedom Of Chat]

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No she wouldn't, and you know it.

if rihanna mashed up cb face u dont think there would be a big deal about it? they're celebrities, the shit would have been a big deal regardless... all this domestic violence shit on oprah is being done because of the history of battered women staying in abusive relationships... but the mass media would have flocked to this case if the circumstances were reversed, especially since she also has an abusive past

 

[LoneStar29]

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Fuck that, there's never a such thing as excessive force on a bitch. She'll never excessively cross her line again.

Nah, it was obviously a fight she started and got her ass handed to her. It would have been better if it was Beyonce who beat her down like that right?

C'mon now ... I never said he shouldn't defend himself but you don't think there is a line ... I mean hypothetically speaking if she hit him once on his face or whatever with a shoe then he punched her a few times ok I can understand that ... but all that other choking her and biting her and stuff you don't think that was a bit overboard??? I'm just sayin' there is no limit??? So if she hits him once he can kill her??? hypothetically speaking of course