The thought process a female goes thru when she's pregnant is "I have options". If the dude aint tryna be wit her or aint acting in accord, she gone run to whitey to garnish his check or get some kind of "help" from the white folks. My point is, when whitey takes that "help" away, females are gonna stop this out of control out of wedlock shit that defines black motherhood in 2013. What would yall do if the white man said FUCK YOU IM NOT HELPING YOU? Yall would do like most races of women, run to and depend on YOUR man and stop having kids you obviously cant take care of.
A black man checking his woman is not self hate. In 2013, the black woman needs to be checked. Her irresponsibility in choosing mates and who she decides to have father her kids is destroying our community. Her running to the white man when the black man doesnt do what she wants or is a POS is undermining our families. And I say this as a man who doesnt have kids that has dated and talked to single moms. Its never their fault, the world is out to get them, they really want to be a "wife", their kids father chose another bitch, blah, blah, blah. That shit has killed our community much worse than Rg3 marrying some ugly white woman. But yall wont speak on that or check those women or call them out. Thats our job.
