Real Talk: Can you be friends with you X

[flexxx71]

yo I have no pics or anything I just need to ask "strangers" if this is possible.

I been with my X girl for 11 years engaged for 3 and then we broke up. We both did foul shit to each other but remained friends.

Needed to ask yall, can you be friends with you X? Can you chill with her knowing she is "dating" Would you feel like a simp even if you aint giving up any loot, just spending some time here and there.

Real talk. I know the clowns will have jokes

 

[furlough]

I would have to view her pics to decide.

 

[brewdawg1]

Some of my ex's have been better friends. I don't worry about the next man, but he usually worries about me.

 

[JD Walker]

No. They are exes for a reason.

 

[Acur]

No. They are exes for a reason.

Bitch you don't even speak let alone have a relationship a woman. How dare you give anyone advice get bgol offline and go ock yaself go jump in the bay.

 

[Rick Ronson]

Not once you meet that one.

They become irrelevant.

 

[BGLR1212000]

I only have a couple of exes. I'm still on speaking terms with both but choose not to.

 

[JD Walker]

Bitch you don't even speak let alone have a relationship a woman. How dare you give anyone advice get bgol offline and go ock yaself go jump in the bay.

I had a great relationship with your mother. I'd bust in her mouth and she'd swallow up. Too bad she didn't swallow you.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

You were with her for 11 years? And didn't marry or commit? And now you're friends? Interesting.

 

[Rick Ronson]

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[Acur]

I had a great relationship with your mother. I'd bust in her mouth and she'd swallow up. Too bad she didn't swallow you.

No loser. Ya mom's a hoe.

 

[Rick Ronson]

No loser. Ya mom's a hoe.

You basically re-ran what he said.

You dont know how to play the dozens son?

 

[UNSEEN]

yo i have no pics or anything i just need to ask "strangers" if this is possible.

I been with my x girl for 11 years engaged for 3 and then we broke up. We both did foul shit to each other but remained friends.

Needed to ask yall, can you be friends with you x? Can you chill with her knowing she is "dating" Would you feel like a simp even if you aint giving up any loot, just spending some time here and there.

Real talk. I know the clowns will have jokes

it's up to you fam..every one's situation aint the same...

 

[MissMighty]

I think you might be too attached to be a real friend to her...11 years is a long time.

 

[wiZe]

No. Keep it moving and don't look through the rear view. As JD said, she's an ex for a reason. Plus, what are we going to talk about? How her relationship is going with her new man? Even when they offer me the pussy (which they always do even when they have a new man), I pass. Had it before and I'm on to the next.

 

[Rick Ronson]

So..........does she make threads about you?​

 

[DirtyCake]

no.

 

[Autobot8655]

hell no

Of course since this is the internet, some jackass will come in here and say how he has been friends with his ex for years and that everything is cool as ice.

I have not communicated with my ex in approximately 2 years.

We were in engaged.

She had mental emotional issues.

I found a woman that did not have the same baggage to be my friend.

Why would I want a mentally jacked-up brawd as a friend?

This "ex as a friend" shit is something that generation Z has spawned with grownups who behave like they were born in generation Z following their lead.

These are people who are addicted to communication in the form of facebook, myspace, mobile texts, tweets, IM and etc.

These people CANT LET GO.

My mom gave me a bit of advice when I needed it.

"If you are the opposite sex you cant be friends with someone who may get in a relationship or is married"

 

[REDLINE]

You can have a friendship if you truly have no interest in ever being in a relationship with her again.

 

[Simply_Black]

NO

Well, I suppose it depends on two things - The reasons why she's now an ex and the level of friendship to be kept (especially if they're children involved) .... In most cases it's just best to completely move on and put all memories of her behind you.

 

[flexxx71]

You were with her for 11 years? And didn't marry or commit? And now you're friends? Interesting.

We were committed to each other for 8 years then got engaged and moved in together. I will always say our down fall was living together without getting married.

Yes, we are trying to be friends but it's stressful. Knowing ur girl is with someone else kills ur ego. I guess one of y'all said it right. I need to find "miss right"

 

[easy_b]

IF i lost all feelings for her then yes i can be her friend.

 

[flexxx71]

I think you might be too attached to be a real friend to her...11 years is a long time.

I am too fucking attached.

And, no she ain't making a thread about me.

I guess y'all said it, on to the next one.

 

[freshnclean]

If I was you I would just keep it moving. You was wit her for 11 yrs, you will have feelings for a long time, and feel some type of way when you see her wit the new dude gettin the pussy. If it was 11 months, it would be different, but 11 yrs is a minute....Keep it moving, dont look back, we all lose some..

 

[leng223]

If itch had good credit we'd be tight like ant pussy......she did'nt so fuck that ho.....keep it moving

 

[the artist]

With Ex Wife:
Cordial; yes
Friends; no

 

[mailboxpimp]

yo I have no pics or anything I just need to ask "strangers" if this is possible.

I been with my X girl for 11 years engaged for 3 and then we broke up. We both did foul shit to each other but remained friends.

Needed to ask yall, can you be friends with you X? Can you chill with her knowing she is "dating" Would you feel like a simp even if you aint giving up any loot, just spending some time here and there.

Real talk. I know the clowns will have jokes

its real tricky..... ive known my ex for almost 20yrs...... since 90 pretty much..... we broke up in right b4 christmas of 02.... i fucked up or fucked up often enough.... + wasnt ready to get married & she's still not married......if we werent friends b4 the relationship we would not be able to talk like we do now.... she even tells me about her dating situation ( its fucked up.. no good men.... she's the woman with the 200k 4 bdrm house ......by herself.....like.......

for a second i thought i would want to getback with her want to have kids but i know whatever it was b4 will eventually be again eventhough i changed & was able to apologize for all the fuck shit i did.... she's a real nice perso that genuinely loved me no matter what... but i keep a healthy distance...... stay around too long & everything starts to feel "normal" again & thats not good cause we not together & so......thatis what it is....

 

[sirwoodz]

still friends w/all of yall's mommas.

 

[keone]

nigga, when you was with her ja rule was a star . eminem didnt even release his first album yet . dre said he would drop chronic 2001 and 2 years after that he would drop detox . there was no g-unit and rick ross was rapping with tight ass la lakers jerseys the twin towers was still standing and there was no war with iraq shit the euro wasnt even there yet

yeah could be friends

 

[Mr.Still Fly]

Once it's over... it's over. I let all my ex know after the relationships. I don't believe in the " let's be friends" crap. I always cordial with them, but that about it.

 

[theoriginalgreatone]

nope

 

[Ceenote]

Some of my ex's have been better friends. I don't worry about the next man, but he usually worries about me.

i agree...sometimes people r better just as friends even if they r ex's..

 

[bmorebigman]

Man, you gotta keep it moving, especially if you have an ounce of feeling left. Hearing about her life will eat you alive. Life is too short, and there are too many other women to "befriend."

 

[Pockets]

I havent SEEN my last 2 ex's in years, but they email me from time to time. Everything is polite, but thats about it. Cant fuck up my present, dealing with the past.

 

[every blue moon]

...Would you feel like a simp even if you aint giving up any loot, just spending some time here and there.

if you're spending some time with her...you're in effect, giving up loot.