Maybe in high school. Different story once you are outside of college, unless she's like a real life Liz Lemon or a cat lady someone will be available.
Re: The Raw Truth--Why BW choose Pookie over Pointdexter
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Maybe in high school. Different story once you are outside of college, unless she's like a real life Liz Lemon or a cat lady someone will be available.
i learned from experience man, even though I thought I was "up on game" I left out the biggest factor.....myself
these women cant win over a man who considers himself and is not mesmerized by her pussy, looks,money or whatever....
his energy comes from a different source, and this makes her wet with anticipation...
many things become clear to him and people know not to take him for a fool...
i almost got killed behind it but it showed me how fucked up I was and what I needed to do to fix that. I met this girl at one of the lowest points in my life. I was struggling with school, an addiction to a drug, and was deep dissatisfaction. This girl had all of her own shit and I had little to non. She let me hit that 10 ways till sunday, first girl who swallowed, licked my balls,cooked for me, rubbed my back and was genuinely interested in me as a man....or so I thought......
my uncle heard me mention this girl (she was 7 yrs older) and said that she was controllin me, I was like
and got up in her pussy,ate them pancakes and was like 
I saw some red flags that made me go
until I bought into her bs about doing all these things for me cuz she caredMy 6th sense one day just told me to dump her and thats when her fangs showed. She was on campus looking and studying different men for their weaknesses and decided to exploit those weaknesses in order to have a slave. I was young with lil experience and a negative vibe about myself, this was the drop of blood in the water....
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What does that mean?
I'm talking about the existence of socially awkward female nerds.
If you're talking about them able to find someone, anyone, well the same could be said of men.
Yeah i do relate. I'm not saying it's a good thing. I never was interested in guys besides my husband. And i loved him BECAUSE he was a nerd. But he was a big tough guy on the outside. What i like to point out to women is that i took the time to find out. He took the time to find out about me. He didn't judge me by my looks. Our first conversation was an arguement about Sandman. He was like of all the comics to read you read THAT crap? Was his conversation opener.
Someone is going to find them attractive. I guess you haven't heard of the librarian fetish for instance.
Yea, the same can be said of men. There's plenty of poindexters who are married with children.
i learned from experience man, even though I thought I was "up on game" I left out the biggest factor.....myself
these women cant win over a man who considers himself and is not mesmerized by her pussy, looks,money or whatever....
his energy comes from a different source, and this makes her wet with anticipation...
many things become clear to him and people know not to take him for a fool...
i almost got killed behind it but it showed me how fucked up I was and what I needed to do to fix that. I met this girl at one of the lowest points in my life. I was struggling with school, an addiction to a drug, and was deep dissatisfaction. This girl had all of her own shit and I had little to non. She let me hit that 10 ways till sunday, first girl who swallowed, licked my balls,cooked for me, rubbed my back and was genuinely interested in me as a man....or so I thought......
my uncle heard me mention this girl (she was 7 yrs older) and said that she was controllin me, I was like
I saw some red flags that made me go
My 6th sense one day just told me to dump her and thats when her fangs showed. She was on campus looking and studying different men for their weaknesses and decided to exploit those weaknesses in order to have a slave. I was young with lil experience and a negative vibe about myself, this was the drop of blood in the water....
Wait wait wait wait. Hold on. So you had it good! She was doin everything you wanted. But you dumped her because........? What? Wait what? You dumped her because you FELT or like you percieved? She was controlling you? Did she say i like to control you? You let your un....Ok. I'll wait for you to explain this 1 to me. Because i'm like wow.
You're deflecting. The "Poindexter" tends NOT to such harbor unrealistic expectations. He knows he won't get anywhere NEAR a Beyonce type broad until AFTER his paper begins to stack up. You're talking about an unrealistic entitlement mentality which is RAMPANT among TOO MANY black women. "Pookie vs Poindexter" is not a matter of "Why can't I have _______". It's a matter of REPEATEDLY making bad/stupid decisions and refusing to own up to it.
Let me break this down to you:
Man = Provider, defender, passes on the genes of the species. (PLANTER and holder of SEED)
Woman = nurturer of the male's offspring. Ensures the offspring grow into healthy adults who will repeat the reproductive cycle. (SOIL)
Where do superficial qualities such as "looks" and "$$$" come in? To a man, an attractive female translates into "Fit to carry my seed and raise my offspring" Her good looks could mean anything from "lack of parasites" to "99% chance of my children not having deformities or genetic birth defects". To a female, a successful male translates "he can provide for, take care of, and protect me and the kids from lions, tigers and raiders". That's what it boils down down to. That's why an ugly dude can have a fly female if he's ballin'. It's also why so many females are attracted to the rims, bling and aggression of Pookie, which brings me to my next point.
The difference between many African American females and females of other ethnicities, is that the "others", as far as they're concerned, see Pookie as an organic dildo. Nothing more, nothing less. Yes, Becky and Sung Li are fucking Pookie too, but they sure as hell don't intend to have his children and harbor no delusions of changing him (unlike TOO many Black women). They know he has a gang of kids he doesn't provide for. You can best believe Becky and Sung Li are NOT going to rely on Pookie to have his own condoms, because they ain't about to let him hit it raw.
I have no problem with broads choosing pookie. However, I DO have a problem with these broads pointing the fingers of blame and bitching ad infinitum about the consequences of their decision to let Pookie (and Ray Ray, Big Smoke, B-Dup and Ryder) knock them up and give them STDs. These bitches need to shut the fuck up.
Once again, back to the 'superficiality' deflection.The difference between male superficiality and female superficiality, in the black community is that female superficiality tends to have disastrous results (on the female herself and the community at large).
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I hear ya. Good point. When I said he'd be their type, it was in the sense that they will point to someone like him when they need to make an excuse as to why they're alone.
Wait wait wait wait. Hold on. So you had it good! She was doin everything you wanted. But you dumped her because........? What? Wait what? You dumped her because you FELT or like you percieved? She was controlling you? Did she say i like to control you? You let your un....Ok. I'll wait for you to explain this 1 to me. Because i'm like wow.
Thats just the overview. She stalked me if I did not go near her when she demanded (not asked, or simply stated her desire) to be. She always wanted me around, and when I was busy she would show up to the job or wait outside the building to "find" me. She would show up unannounced, call me from random numbers, become very accusatory about my whereabouts and doings. I sensed it would get worse, and judging from what I learned about her after the breakup I was right.
The day after I dumper her (in which she claimed she was preggo,threatened to tell her brothers about me,etc I met up with her former boyfriend and also a former roommate of hers. To make a long story short, she tried to have her roommate killed off one august so that she could collect the security deposit to feed her son. She was gone for like 3 months and then shows up trippin and trying to punk her out the home.
Her former boyfriend had a similar story, she was cool at first and took care of him when he got hurt. After a while he described a number of behaviors that I now know are indicative of histrionic/borderline people. She actually did get preggo by him and will not let him see the child unless she is threatened with a court order.
I still found it hard to believe, until he played some recordings of their conversations. She was like a whole nother person, putting him down,telling him how she used him, that he aint shit and her pussy is golden and that she could have any man she wants,etc.
Then it all made sense, she described ALL of her past relationships as if she was the victim of a big bad man, she would create "health crises" over little shit to get my attention/time as if I was going to save her. She was an excellent professional victim (ie a covert bully) and I called her out on that at one point. She went on for hours about how I was wrong....
I learned more about her past after the breakup, I naively believed everything she said about her past at one point. I dodged a serious, and literal bullet with this woman...
and for the record, she was a "strong educated black woman" and "she had her own"....but she was wack the whole time, I just didnt see it...
Legacy,
I understand your suprise about what happened, and you seem to know that if you want to do something for a man it is because you want him to feel pleasure and be happy. Note that women who work from the angle "he now owes me and I own him" use the same actions you would see as "giving" to trap men into a false sense of liability and priority.
I understand your suprise about what happened, and you seem to know that if you want to do something for a man it is because you want him to feel pleasure and be happy. Note that women who work from the angle "he now owes me and I own him" use the same actions you would see as "giving" to trap men into a false sense of liability and priority.
Maybe y'all poindexters are just lame
Female poindexters DO exist, but they get ignorned because of their unattractivenesss and social awkwardness.
And on the flip side, I've seen educated brothers who know how to carry themselves have no problem getting ladies.
A lot of so-called "Poindexters" really ain't Poindexters. For too many delusional broads, anything other than a Wocka Flocka Flame or Gucci Mane clone is a "Poindexter". I used to laugh my ass off at broads with the "thug" boyfriends who I stomped out months prior.
A lot of so-called "Poindexters" really ain't Poindexters. For too many delusional broads, anything other than a Wocka Flocka Flame or Gucci Mane clone is a "Poindexter". I used to laugh my ass off at broads with the "thug" boyfriends who I stomped out months prior.
Dude, WHO IS THAT in your sig?
coco, Ice t's wife
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before we go any further....
WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU.
*two cents*
that was good!
Yes it can be disasterous. But as a woman i still do not agree that it's more so. It's just different. Something i always used to say is that you can never really judge someone else's level of pain. You don't know what the effect of your actions can cause on someone else. We all do not feel pain or the levels of "disaster" the same way.
First off, you need to reply to pogobor99's post. Once you provide a satisfactory answer, I will address your response to my thread.
Ok THAAAAAAAAT kinda chick. GOTCHA!. Yeah ok. Just saying though the way you first put that.....lol i was like
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before we go any further....
WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU.
*two cents*
I'm a woman. I've said so several times.
If it suits you.
I don't see how it would matter honestly. But if it would vary how you would speak from a woman to a man. Could you write both? I'd be interested in knowing how they differ.
If it suits you.
I think he's referring to the part where you said "your wife"
... You literally snapped your fingers in his face and said that shit... Yeah you got just the type of man you need. I wish a chick would do some stupid ass shit like that. I aint no fuckin court jester, it aint my job to entertain your ass. If I can find entertainment outside of you, you should be able to do the same...
is this Legacy_Infinity muthafucka an FTP or has "she" been confirmed?
I have no clue. At first I spoke to LI as if it were a man, then LI said she was a female whose husband passed away. I've just been going along with that ever since and never had a reason to cast doubt, even thought that "my wife" bit caught me by surprise.
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