Yeah the terminology bothers me, always has. No sane woman fantasizes about being violently victimized by a criminal. Rape is a crime of violence not lust.
Geech is referring to what I call extreme submission fantasies. Have I- sure! They are quite common.

but I'm in to D/S. Anybody into d/s has a safe word so there's no real risk of violent injury unless again you are insane and playing games you shouldn't play with strangers or other insane individuals.
Rape- hell no!

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