Question?

[Iron]

people do love sex.....thats true and I'm not disagreeing with you b/c I feel your right but does it take 50 to explore your sexuality? I think sometimes thats an excuse.

Oh no I don't think so.

This is funny. A long while ago on the main board they had a thread asking the same question.

Most of the replys were in the 100-120 range.

lying through their teeth.

Think about it.

A dude with game. In his life time I'd say he'd have had around 20-23 different partners

average guy...10-15

Men that travel while in the military I'd say they max out at 30 partners.

 

[jucurious]

ummmmmm being a hoe in my opinon has a lot of cross factors:

1) time frame
2) amount
3) who you fucked


i'm just being honest. i evaluate on a case by case basis. i ask about sexual history, sexual practices (safety & situations) cuz if the person had a high risk sex life...i'm not fuckin with them


and you DON'T have to sleep with 9 million ppl to explore your sexuality.....you can just do indepth exploring with some ppl...not all.. haha

 

[Crown&Coke]

I think those figures could be accurate though ... the one about half of African American teenage girls having an STD ... I mean ... if you really think about it ... you've got some of those boys that fuck like it's going out of style ... it makes sense that one guy could possibly infect like 10 girls if he's runnin' game on all of them ... I know it's possible for a very promiscuous female to infect multiple men too ... every watch that movie back in the day "Kids" ... by the end of the move the one boy with Aids had given it to about 5 different girls And the teenagers nowadays are very promiscuous ... my younger brother was gettin' head in grade 5 ... I never even heard of that shit until I was like in grade 10 or something

I do think they go a lil overboard with those stats. And head in 5th grade. I thought I was the shit in 5th grade if I grabbed a girl booty. Middle school moved up to fingering and titty sucking. I didnt get no head or pussy till like 10th grade.​

 

[mzmillion]

sometimes shit happens and shit just doesn't work out. so you think just because someone met someone and whatever happened then they should deny themselves the next experience because they already fucked once that year?

shit does happen and shit is going to happen and i dont think you should deny yourself an experience if its about something. you can explore your sexuality with your own hand and a good open partner and it may take you 2 or 3 to get that person but i don't believe that the sake of just wanting to fuck is exactly an 'experience'. Like I said, STD's is too real these days so some of those 'experiences' aren't so important when it comes down to it. Safe sex is key but it doesn't prevent everything and IMO the risks are sometimes to high.

 

[LoneStar29]

Oh no I don't think so.

This is funny. A long while ago on the main board they had a thread asking the same question.

Most of the replys were in the 100-120 range.

lying through their teeth.

Think about it.

A dude with game. In his life time I'd say he'd have had around 20-23 different partners

average guy...10-15

Men that travel while in the military I'd say they max out at 30 partners.

No baby ... I don't know any guys my age who have only had 30 partnersIt's alot more than that ... trust me ... I'm sure some of those guys that said 100 were lying ... but some of them were being honest too ... cuz I know men who have had sex with over 100 women ... and I know they aren't lying cuz I know first hand about 50 of the girls they've fucked

 

[Iron]

No baby ... I don't know any guys my age who have only had 30 partnersIt's alot more than that ... trust me ... I'm sure some of those guys that said 100 were lying ... but some of them were being honest too ... cuz I know men who have had sex with over 100 women ... and I know they aren't lying cuz I know first hand about 50 of the girls they've fucked

I still think that the people that reach the 50 mark are rare cases. That's alot of sex with alot of different people.

Is he a prostitute?

 

[OnSlaught]

Oh no I don't think so.

This is funny. A long while ago on the main board they had a thread asking the same question.

Most of the replys were in the 100-120 range.

lying through their teeth.

Think about it.

A dude with game. In his life time I'd say he'd have had around 20-23 different partners

average guy...10-15

Men that travel while in the military I'd say they max out at 30 partners.

Come on Iron, are you serious? Can't be...

No baby ... I don't know any guys my age who have only had 30 partnersIt's alot more than that ... trust me ... I'm sure some of those guys that said 100 were lying ... but some of them were being honest too ... cuz I know men who have had sex with over 100 women ... and I know they aren't lying cuz I know first hand about 50 of the girls they've fucked

Thank you, Lonestar...it's not that hard if you've had an open or "loose" state of mind, if you know what I mean...

I still think that the people that reach the 50 mark are rare cases. That's alot of sex with alot of different people.


Is he a prostitute?

I tell you this...You're about to turn 20. I'm 26, and different circumstances for different people. One year in college I slept with nearly 40 women in about a month's time period. Reckless (even though I wore protection) I know, but that was the state of mind I was in.

If you're attractive, intelligent, friendly, have sex appeal, and really upfront, women will have no problem indulging in what they might deem as taboo. I've had threesomes, females that were teammates, sisters, cousins...I was both very angry and exploratory at the time. Believe me, I've calmed down. However, if you wanted to, you could do it. Just takes you steppin' outside of who you normally see yourself as.

 

[OnSlaught]

shit does happen and shit is going to happen and i dont think you should deny yourself an experience if its about something. you can explore your sexuality with your own hand and a good open partner and it may take you 2 or 3 to get that person but i don't believe that the sake of just wanting to fuck is exactly an 'experience'. Like I said, STD's is too real these days so some of those 'experiences' aren't so important when it comes down to it. Safe sex is key but it doesn't prevent everything and IMO the risks are sometimes to high.

What you said that I bolded is so true, and I think about this often. However, I know that you can catch something like HPV while being strapped up, and by being with someone who made sure that their partner before was protected and it was their only time with someone. I know that symptoms can show up 10 yrs later with someone or someone else can be a carrier and not show any symptoms or signs at all. Life is life and shit happens. There are some people that get hit by cars with no notice after avoiding a plane crash, some people that die of lung cancer that never smoked a day in their life, and some people that do every possible thing you can think of that is harmful and live a very long, and prosperous life (ex. George Burns).

You can't be paranoid and avoid enjoying life. Be cautious, but at the same time know that you can't prevent everything. If I lived like that I'd never step foot in another laboratory again. I work with some nasty shit, but it's in the hopes that someone will someday not have to live with it ever again.

Point is don't live life afraid.

 

[mzmillion]

What you said that I bolded is so true, and I think about this often. However, I know that you can catch something like HPV while being strapped up, and by being with someone who made sure that their partner before was protected and it was their only time with someone. I know that symptoms can show up 10 yrs later with someone or someone else can be a carrier and not show any symptoms or signs at all. Life is life and shit happens. There are some people that get hit by cars with no notice after avoiding a plane crash, some people that die of lung cancer that never smoked a day in their life, and some people that do every possible thing you can think of that is harmful and live a very long, and prosperous life (ex. George Burns).

You can't be paranoid and avoid enjoying life. Be cautious, but at the same time know that you can't prevent everything. If I lived like that I'd never step foot in another laboratory again. I work with some nasty shit, but it's in the hopes that someone will someday not have to live with it ever again.

Point is don't live life afraid.

Be cautious about who you lay down and maybe choosing that its probably not that important or for an example a one night stand and rethinking it, isn't living life afraid, its living smart and knowing which risks you will and won't take. I'm all for having fun and being adventurous but just because you made it out clean the first 10 times doesn't mean keep doing it. Fun is fun and everybody has it and loves it but....after that experience and thanking God you made it out, does it mean continue doing it. You said you had slept with nearly 40 women one year and now you slowed down, is there a reason for the slowing down. It was fun while you were at it I bet and you're happy to have made it out but you experienced that thrill and now your like okay moving on right? So thats what I'm saying you have your fun and wise up.

 

[AlexandMorgan]

I won't call a woman a ho unless she tries to fuck me and turn around and ask for money when i am done. A gal did do that to me once but she waited until she got home before she mentioned that she needed some new clothes. I refer to her as a clothstitute.

Most people do compare their partners with the ones who went before them. Even if it is only when they are in a group of friends, co workers or whomever they talk shit with and they start discussing the best they ever had.

Number of partners do not mean shit when it comes to an STD though. A man/woman could have been involved with one person and he might have fucked anything that stood still long enough while the partner was faithful. What u do not know can still hurt u or even kill u.

If she now met me and wants me to fuck and does not mind that i have no condoms then she is not a ho she is nasty. If u mention getting tested and they get angry or offended then bounce like a basketball while u still healthy.

 

[LoneStar29]

One year in college I slept with nearly 40 women in about a month's time period. I've had threesomes, females that were teammates, sisters, cousins

....... hoe ....... Just joking ... but that is what I was trying to explain to Iron ... there are men(and women too)that have had an extreme amount of sexual partners ... can't judge them by the number ... more times you gotta look at why that was ... you said you were in a reckless state of mind ... I can udnerstand that ... especially sicne you have been able to get psat it ... I know guys your age ... that are STILL fucking like a different girl every week at least ... I'm like aren't you tired yet

I won't call a woman a ho unless she tries to fuck me and turn around and ask for money when i am done. A gal did do that to me once but she waited until she got home before she mentioned that she needed some new clothes. I refer to her as a clothstitute.

I don't know why I bother even reading your posts sometimes ... I'm dyin' over here Alex ... you called her a "clothstitute" ... You're hilarious

 

[Harlem's Angel]

I don't know why I bother even reading your posts sometimes ... I'm dyin' over here Alex ... you called her a "clothstitute" ... You're hilarious

 

[Iron]

Come on Iron, are you serious? Can't be...



Thank you, Lonestar...it's not that hard if you've had an open or "loose" state of mind, if you know what I mean...



I tell you this...You're about to turn 20. I'm 26, and different circumstances for different people. One year in college I slept with nearly 40 women in about a month's time period. Reckless (even though I wore protection) I know, but that was the state of mind I was in.

If you're attractive, intelligent, friendly, have sex appeal, and really upfront, women will have no problem indulging in what they might deem as taboo. I've had threesomes, females that were teammates, sisters, cousins...I was both very angry and exploratory at the time. Believe me, I've calmed down. However, if you wanted to, you could do it. Just takes you steppin' outside of who you normally see yourself as.

well that explains it.

But like you said in order to get thet many partners you've got to come with your A game.

Average dude aint chalking up those numbers.

I'am tired right now. Maybe tommorrow. I'll google this and see if they've done a study or some type of survey or something?

 

[OnSlaught]

Be cautious about who you lay down and maybe choosing that its probably not that important or for an example a one night stand and rethinking it, isn't living life afraid, its living smart and knowing which risks you will and won't take. I'm all for having fun and being adventurous but just because you made it out clean the first 10 times doesn't mean keep doing it. Fun is fun and everybody has it and loves it but....after that experience and thanking God you made it out, does it mean continue doing it. You said you had slept with nearly 40 women one year and now you slowed down, is there a reason for the slowing down. It was fun while you were at it I bet and you're happy to have made it out but you experienced that thrill and now your like okay moving on right? So thats what I'm saying you have your fun and wise up.

Mzmillion, I hear you, but what you're not understanding is that you can take all the precautions in the world and still come out fucked. I'm not saying don't be cautious, I certainly am now, but that it doesn't prevent everything. With the times I was sleeping with all those women, I had protected sex.

I'll tell you a story. I was with a LONG TERM girlfriend, and she ended up picking up something at the gym. It's called molluscum contagiosum, normally categorized as a childhood infection that kids get 'cause they're unsanitary. Unfortunately for my girlfriend at the time and me as well, she didn't wipe off the seat in a spinning class that we went to. **Little side note, she had a big dumb ass firm booty and her shorts were very short...please when you go to the gym, wear normal clothing and don't try to impress your significant other or anyone else, or this might happen to you** Anyway, because her booty and I assume cooch was exposed a bit and was riding on the seat, she picked it up. Well, we had sex that night and the shit spread to me. I thought I had jock it, itched a bit and then took a shower. The next day I woke up it was all over me. Had to go through some painful shit at the doctors and then it went away. We were being safe, just you can't predict everything that happens is all I'm saying.

Oh, and what made me stop having sex as much as I did back then is that you get tired of that....it gets old after a while. Women are beautiful, but are also draining, and having multiple partners like that was draining both physically and psychologically.

....... hoe ....... Just joking ... but that is what I was trying to explain to Iron ... there are men(and women too)that have had an extreme amount of sexual partners ... can't judge them by the number ... more times you gotta look at why that was ... you said you were in a reckless state of mind ... I can udnerstand that ... especially sicne you have been able to get psat it ... I know guys your age ... that are STILL fucking like a different girl every week at least ... I'm like aren't you tired yet

I don't know why I bother even reading your posts sometimes ... I'm dyin' over here Alex ... you called her a "clothstitute" ... You're hilarious

The reckless state of mind I was in was that I had just got dumped by my fiance of 6 yrs (actually she was my fiance for 1 1/2) and it threw me into an angered state. A friend suggested after the 4 months( the summer) that I had scoffed around that I go girl crazy the following semester. I kept running into girls that were just like my ex, felt they needed a break from their boyfriends and wanted to try something new, so I transferred my hurt and frustration sexually. Not the greatest thing, but it was fun for the most part and I have some wild and great stories.

well that explains it.

But like you said in order to get thet many partners you've got to come with your A game.

Average dude aint chalking up those numbers.

I'am tired right now. Maybe tommorrow. I'll google this and see if they've done a study or some type of survey or something?

I think there's been some studies done on the subject...how accurate they are, I'm not sure. Yeah, I guess you do have to be on your A game, or it might just come natural to some...

 

[mzmillion]

Mzmillion, I hear you, but what you're not understanding is that you can take all the precautions in the world and still come out fucked. I'm not saying don't be cautious, I certainly am now, but that it doesn't prevent everything. With the times I was sleeping with all those women, I had protected sex.

I'll tell you a story. I was with a LONG TERM girlfriend, and she ended up picking up something at the gym. It's called molluscum contagiosum, normally categorized as a childhood infection that kids get 'cause they're unsanitary. Unfortunately for my girlfriend at the time and me as well, she didn't wipe off the seat in a spinning class that we went to. **Little side note, she had a big dumb ass firm booty and her shorts were very short...please when you go to the gym, wear normal clothing and don't try to impress your significant other or anyone else, or this might happen to you** Anyway, because her booty and I assume cooch was exposed a bit and was riding on the seat, she picked it up. Well, we had sex that night and the shit spread to me. I thought I had jock it, itched a bit and then took a shower. The next day I woke up it was all over me. Had to go through some painful shit at the doctors and then it went away. We were being safe, just you can't predict everything that happens is all I'm saying.

Oh, and what made me stop having sex as much as I did back then is that you get tired of that....it gets old after a while. Women are beautiful, but are also draining, and having multiple partners like that was draining both physically and psychologically.

gotcha babe, and I agree with ya......but a lil bit extra precautions aint never hurt...

 

[the flash]

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all women are born whores

but women dont be all sad and blue cause most of us men are hoes too! "ludacris"

 

[kurrupt]

 

[LoneStar29]

I'll tell you a story. I was with a LONG TERM girlfriend, and she ended up picking up something at the gym. It's called molluscum contagiosum, normally categorized as a childhood infection that kids get 'cause they're unsanitary. Unfortunately for my girlfriend at the time and me as well, she didn't wipe off the seat in a spinning class that we went to. **Little side note, she had a big dumb ass firm booty and her shorts were very short...please when you go to the gym, wear normal clothing and don't try to impress your significant other or anyone else, or this might happen to you** Anyway, because her booty and I assume cooch was exposed a bit and was riding on the seat, she picked it up. Well, we had sex that night and the shit spread to me. I thought I had jock it, itched a bit and then took a shower. The next day I woke up it was all over me. Had to go through some painful shit at the doctors and then it went away. We were being safe, just you can't predict everything that happens is all I'm saying.

That's fucked up ... and peope don't understand why I'm so finicky about germs and shit ... you can catch anything anywhere anytime

The reckless state of mind I was in was that I had just got dumped by my fiance of 6 yrs (actually she was my fiance for 1 1/2) and it threw me into an angered state. A friend suggested after the 4 months( the summer) that I had scoffed around that I go girl crazy the following semester. I kept running into girls that were just like my ex, felt they needed a break from their boyfriends and wanted to try something new, so I transferred my hurt and frustration sexually. Not the greatest thing, but it was fun for the most part and I have some wild and great stories.

Exactly ... proves my point ... there is something that happens to cause people to act the way they do ... so there is no resaon to judge them ... just get to know them and see what's going on in their heads

Yeah, I guess you do have to be on your A game, or it might just come natural to some...

True dat OnSlaught ... true datBut it's all good Iron if you don't wanna be promiscuous ... I can corrupt you just fine on my ownFyne Ass

 

[Harlem's Angel]

I feel itchy

 

[OnSlaught]

I feel itchy

 

[Mo-Better]

How many partners does it take for you to consider a woman under 30 as a hoe?

If a 30 year old woman has been with 30 men as long as your getting yours Why does it mattter? What if are you the one that places her into the "ho" status. Aww man you screwed that ho....

We need to stop with the labels and quotas. There's a double standard that exist and I've never understood why. A woman screws X number of men and she's labeled a ho. A man screws X number of women and he's the man.

Unless a woman is known to have screwed half the neighborhood I really don't care about her past. I'm not looking for virgins.

 

[followup]

Some women really like to have sex. I remember some girls were screwing when we were 10 years old. There is no number to me, it's how she goes about her business

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

Hey, I'd rather not know. However, I'm not sayin' shit unless I found out she's fucked more people than me...and I think at that point I'd throw up .

As long as she practiced safely....

 

[DeSiRe]

my defintion of a hoe doesnt just merely mean she has had sex with alot of people

i think the quota on how many men a woman "should" be with is just one of the many ways to desexualize women...dont feed that madness

 

[LoneStar29]

If a 30 year old woman has been with 30 men as long as your getting yours Why does it mattter? What if are you the one that places her into the "ho" status. Aww man you screwed that ho....

We need to stop with the labels and quotas. There's a double standard that exist and I've never understood why. A woman screws X number of men and she's labeled a ho. A man screws X number of women and he's the man.

Unless a woman is known to have screwed half the neighborhood I really don't care about her past. I'm not looking for virgins.

PREACH

Some women really like to have sex. I remember some girls were screwing when we were 10 years old. There is no number to me, it's how she goes about her business

I didn't even know where my vagina hole was until I was like 13(true story)

 

[followup]

PREACH

I didn't even know where my vagina hole was until I was like 13(true story)

Well I knew where it was, but I didn't know how good it felt until high school