BTW: This aint me its for a friend.
Can't speak for anybody else, but I think since I do everything I can in my relationships I need a man who's doing the same. I'm putting food on the table too...
Two ways to look a it imo:
1. In general we place an unfair burden on those close to us to meet our emotional needs. Discontent usually starts as a personal problem that then gets projected onto others.
2. People have different ways of showing love and appreciation and if those actions and perceptions are out of synch it creates problems. A man busting his ass going to work everyday to make a nice home, that's his way to show love BUT if a woman feels like roses, candles, and rubbing her feet are how a man should show his love then she is not going to see all that other stuff in the same light. If your woman feels lonely (subjective emotion) then every hour you spend working overtime to put that addition on the back is going to feel like a blow not a gift.
My 2- I hope Martin doesn't Colin me
Aint nobody tossing anything back. Just seems that every chance you get you toss a men aint shit response. You begining to sound like the simps on the main board.
Can't speak for anybody else, but I think since I do everything I can in my relationships I need a man who's doing the same. I'm putting food on the table too...
Are women a little unfair with the emotional burden they put on men. For example if a man is busting his ass to put food on the table and you don't have to worry about anything. Why do they trip if the man slips at the romance? Why do some women just trip and shutdown instead of turning the heat up themselves. I've seen this happen a million times.
BTW: This aint me its for a friend.
I think there's a lot of truth in that. People tend to forget the "honeymoon" stage of the relationship is just that- a temporary stage. Sometimes they hold onto those expectations.
thanks but at the same time I couldn't care less about those stupid little boys.you know? I am telling you we are conversing with 12 year olds every day.
they go to the gym or watch violent sports or play video games 
Two ways to look a it imo:
1. In general we place an unfair burden on those close to us to meet our emotional needs. Discontent usually starts as a personal problem that then gets projected onto others.
2. People have different ways of showing love and appreciation and if those actions and perceptions are out of synch it creates problems. A man busting his ass going to work everyday to make a nice home, that's his way to show love BUT if a woman feels like roses, candles, and rubbing her feet are how a man should show his love then she is not going to see all that other stuff in the same light. If your woman feels lonely (subjective emotion) then every hour you spend working overtime to put that addition on the back is going to feel like a blow not a gift.
My 2- I hope Martin doesn't Colin me
as for the topic at hand, I simply stated what I honestly feel about the subject.
My last guy, he would call out of the blue late at night asking for pussy and if I wasn't ready or in the mood right that second he would tell me he is going to the titty bar and I would tell him then please do that.
Yes, we are much more emotional and we do like and need to talk about our feelings sometimes which I know makes you guys very uncomfortable but it is what it is and if we can't discuss them with you we will be discussing them with *gasp* our girlfriends and some of them may read cosmo and essence and watch oprah too.
Are women a little unfair with the emotional burden they put on men. For example if a man is busting his ass to put food on the table and you don't have to worry about anything. Why do they trip if the man slips at the romance? Why do some women just trip and shutdown instead of turning the heat up themselves. I've seen this happen a million times.
BTW: This aint me its for a friend.
If we all had a scale to measure what we put into a relationship either side will always be lacking. The reason? It's NEVER 50/50. The magic is to find a balance that makes both people happy. In the end it's not fair to either people and eventually someone feels taken for granted. 
Two ways to look a it imo:
1. In general we place an unfair burden on those close to us to meet our emotional needs. Discontent usually starts as a personal problem that then gets projected onto others.
2. People have different ways of showing love and appreciation and if those actions and perceptions are out of synch it creates problems. A man busting his ass going to work everyday to make a nice home, that's his way to show love BUT if a woman feels like roses, candles, and rubbing her feet are how a man should show his love then she is not going to see all that other stuff in the same light. If your woman feels lonely (subjective emotion) then every hour you spend working overtime to put that addition on the back is going to feel like a blow not a gift.
My 2- I hope Martin doesn't Colin me
Respect sistaYou're damned if you do and damned if you don't. I've been wondering the same thing myself and can't come up with an answer other than women are emotionally lazy and expect to be catered to. As a man you are pretty much at the mercy of your woman and are subject to being emotionally blackmailed at any time.Are women a little unfair with the emotional burden they put on men. For example if a man is busting his ass to put food on the table and you don't have to worry about anything. Why do they trip if the man slips at the romance? Why do some women just trip and shutdown instead of turning the heat up themselves. I've seen this happen a million times.
BTW: This aint me its for a friend.