Question about Lesbians who use toys

[Mr MajestiK]

... to ignorant, self-righteous people who hate whatever (or whomever) they don't understand.

It's the 21st century and there are still self-absorbed men out there trying to tell women (and men) how (and with whom) to have relationships and/or sex. Amazing.

^^^Corrected that for you.

There are men and women of all races, religious backgrounds or political affiliations who take issue pro or con on all matters sexual.

No one race has anti-homo sentiment on lock regardless of what you may think.

 

[DarkCity]

I've wondered about this myself before. There are alot of lesbians around here. Sometimes I have to double check to see if that dude coming down the street is really a dude because these girls walk with more swagger than i do. Look more mannish than I do and thats sad to me. I don't get it myself. You don't want a man, but you go get a woman who looks talks and fucks like a man, lotta times will beat your ass like a man too, most of the time from what i see.

I dunno my woman confuses me enough as it is, women in general do, even my momma. Ya'll just ain't logical creatures. I figure thats why God put us together to work as a team, to balance life out. I'm not even gonna try to figure out a lesbians mindset.

C/S GoodPoints

 

[onyxfemme]

Is this about toys? Or about Lesbian women who like or look like studs(boyish women)

 

[jucurious]

the more and more we have these discussions the more and more i think about the bullshit surrounding the social construct of masculinity and femininity.

 

[keysersoze]

the more and more we have these discussions the more and more i think about the bullshit surrounding the social construct of masculinity and femininity.

Like what? Give examples.

 

[305slugga]

You know I'm glad you posted this shyt cause this shyt is a ravenging epidemic in Atl. In addition, I agree that 99% of these females out here that claim to be lesbians or bisexuals are confused like a motherfucka and need some counseling.

I give an example of a classmate of mine who is involved with a stud that replicates behaviors of a man, fucks her like a man (she informed me), and brings her more drama than she has ever dealt with that a man have never brought her. Yet, she styas with the female and calls me everytime to vent about some shyt the stud did to her and how she is sick of it. Though on the contrary she tells me she wants to get married and have kids some day and knows the stud cannot give her that so she doesn't know what to do. I told her she was a lesbian and she actually got offended as if I said something demoralizing and said she wasn't but yet has not had a b/f in two years and been with the stud (Whose name is "Kizzy" like roots)over a year and have not fucked with no other dudes.

Is that not confusion???

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Just because a woman feels more sexual attraction for a female than a male, doesn't mean her plumbing has stopped working. Her vagina is still a vagina. Her breasts are still breasts, and her mind is still a mind. It processes information and the body responds and reacts just like any other woman who's attracted to whatever. A strap on and thrusting is stimulating to the female body. Lesbian isn't a different breed of human. They aren't differently engineered. Parts all still work the same.

There is drama in lesbian relationships just like hetero ones. But the drama itself is different. Something i've come up on in my time on earth is that women respond to things differently than males in a relationship. The above poster who said a woman doesn't want the drama a guy brings with his penis was accurate. She doesn't want MALE drama. Female drama can be different and she can be more suited to handle it.

 

[melonpecan]

Constantly seeing this question is making my head hurt.

 

[charlie dark]

... to ignorant, self-righteous people who hate whatever (or whomever) they don't understand.

It's the 21st century and there are still self-absorbed [black] men out there trying to tell women (and men) how (and with whom) to have relationships and/or sex. Amazing.

Says the man telling people how they should think.....
They don't think like you....but so long as nobody's getting hurt, what's the problem?

 

[sean69]

thread is irrevocably utterly unquestionably worthless without pics and/or vids.

 

[DarkCity]

It is amazing how much I have learned and my outlook has changed since this thread first started. There is no substitute for just getting to know a diverse group of people.

 

[Mo-Better]

Ladies you can't deny that men logically would wonder why you would prefer artificial toys over the real thing.

This brings to mind a Robin Harris joke about a woman saying she didn't a man jumping on her beating on her insides....she got a woman for that.

I'm guessing its more about women having sexual fun together and the toys are to assist with heightening sexual arousal and orgasm. I'm not sure lesbianism has much to do with anything. Sexual satisfaction for women is entirely different than it is for us men.

For you women its really your world. The majority of sexual devices that exist today are for a woman's pleasure. With dildos, vibs and Fucking Machines (and us) you pretty much have it all.

 

[followup]

I don't see what's so confusing about it. A vagina needs something inserted in it to be stimulated. It has nothing to do with if it's real or not. Now when you start having women dating/sexing women who act like men, that's a different and confused issue...

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Ladies you can't deny that men logically would wonder why you would prefer artificial toys over the real thing.

This brings to mind a Robin Harris joke about a woman saying she didn't a man jumping on her beating on her insides....she got a woman for that.

I'm guessing its more about women having sexual fun together and the toys are to assist with heightening sexual arousal and orgasm. I'm not sure lesbianism has much to do with anything. Sexual satisfaction for women is entirely different than it is for us men.

For you women its really your world. The majority of sexual devices that exist today are for a woman's pleasure. With dildos, vibs and Fucking Machines (and us) you pretty much have it all.

Our relationships aren't just to be broken down into sex. Alot of men are abusive in relationships. My friend and husband worked at a shelter full of battered and abused women. There's abuse in lesbian relationships as well. Not as much, but some. That's the reality of it.

A lesbian relationship is still a relationship. You're still going to have emotional issues between 2 people. You get with a woman because she's what you want. Her personality, her looks, her aura. JUST like you would with a male. Just like you're not attracted to all females. You have a type. A liking, so do lesbians.

As for the it's a woman's world? I wish i could get more to see that. Evvvvery day.

 

[Mo-Better]

I don't see what's so confusing about it. A vagina needs something inserted in it to be stimulated. It has nothing to do with if it's real or not. Now when you start having women dating/sexing women who act like men, that's a different and confused issue...

OK so you say, "A vagina needs something inserted in it to be stimulated." Is vaginal stimulation the only objective? Is that the mindset of some women? What about the women who can and do become highly stimulated, even orgasmic without ever having anything inserted?

So again why would a woman prefer an artificial toy over the real thing? An I'm sure all lesbian relationships don't contain a woman who acts like a man.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

OK so you say, "A vagina needs something inserted in it to be stimulated." Is vaginal stimulation the only objective? Is that the mindset of some women? What about the women who can and do become highly stimulated, even orgasmic without ever having anything inserted?

So again why would a woman prefer an artificial toy over the real thing? An I'm sure all lesbian relationships don't contain a woman who acts like a man.

That they do not.

No it's not all, just like it's not all with your woman. You may go down on her quite often but i'm sure at some point she says, get up here and fuck me? I know i used too. Vaginal stimulation feels good. Just like if your lady is kissing you and licking your balls or what not. You eventually want to feel her mouth or, your dick in her mouth right?

Or vagina. I know some women who say they don't like any penetration, that's a mental thing.

 

[Mo-Better]

Our relationships aren't just to be broken down into sex. Alot of men are abusive in relationships. My friend and husband worked at a shelter full of battered and abused women. There's abuse in lesbian relationships as well. Not as much, but some. That's the reality of it.

A lesbian relationship is still a relationship. You're still going to have emotional issues between 2 people. You get with a woman because she's what you want. Her personality, her looks, her aura. JUST like you would with a male. Just like you're not attracted to all females. You have a type. A liking, so do lesbians.

As for the it's a woman's world? I wish i could get more to see that. Evvvvery day.

Actually my question remains in regards why a woman would prefer a toy to the real things. This really isn't so much about lesbian relationships. I know straight women with toy chest but they all will tell you they prefer the real thing.

 

[Mo-Better]

That they do not.

No it's not all, just like it's not all with your woman. You may go down on her quite often but i'm sure at some point she says, get up here and fuck me? I know i used too. Vaginal stimulation feels good. Just like if your lady is kissing you and licking your balls or what not. You eventually want to feel her mouth or, your dick in her mouth right?

Or vagina. I know some women who say they don't like any penetration, that's a mental thing.

You sure we never met?

 

[Blu Diablo]

Interesting and funny responses.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Actually my question remains in regards why a woman would prefer a toy to the real things. This really isn't so much about lesbian relationships. I know straight women with toy chest but they all will tell you they prefer the real thing.

OH that. I figure it like this. If i want a male, i'd be with 1. The real penis you put a condom on it, i don't really notice the difference that much anyway. A dildo feels good fulfills a need. Sometimes you just like that feeling of detachment. I do. When i want my husband, i wanted his HIM. Filling me up and moving me. But then ther were times when a dildo, strap on, works fine as well.

I have an ex that likes sex with men. She can handle the sex part. The nut she can't stand and is completely repulsed by(i don't blame her, other mens nut....). I have another friend who just isn't satisfied with males. They tire out to quickly for her, they cum to quickly for her. They just don't have the stamina for her. There's no internal rythm with them.

Hell sometimes you like a different view. I liked to watch the apparatus go in and out of me. Looking into her face as she's doing it. Seeing how turned on she is, turned me on even more.

Males from what i understand can be largely disappointing.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

You sure we never met?

Were you at woodstock? 1969?

 

[followup]

Actually my question remains in regards why a woman would prefer a toy to the real things. This really isn't so much about lesbian relationships. I know straight women with toy chest but they all will tell you they prefer the real thing.

because a real one is attached to a man and they don't like men

 

[followup]

OK so you say, "A vagina needs something inserted in it to be stimulated." Is vaginal stimulation the only objective? Is that the mindset of some women? What about the women who can and do become highly stimulated, even orgasmic without ever having anything inserted?

So again why would a woman prefer an artificial toy over the real thing? An I'm sure all lesbian relationships don't contain a woman who acts like a man.

No woman who has had both would say she prefers a fake one. I am pretty sure about that. BUT if you are alone and don't want to have any random penis in you, you could have a toy... i've never heard a woman say she prefers a fake one, but I don't know every woman in the world.

EDIT: I AM NOT A LESBIAN....just speaking from someone who has experimented with toys.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

No woman who has had both would say she prefers a fake one. I am pretty sure about that. BUT if you are alone and don't want to have any random penis in you, you could have a toy... i've never heard a woman say she prefers a fake one, but I don't know every woman in the world.

EDIT: I AM NOT A LESBIAN....just speaking from someone who has experimented with toys.

lol edit.

I know lots of women who prefer the fake over a male penis. Even though, i will say this, if the male probably performed as well as the dildo, with no muss no fuss. No sweating on me, or heavy bad breathe breathing on you. And fulfilling you exactly how you want it.

THEN i'd see no reason not to prefer the plastic.

 

[followup]

lol edit.

I know lots of women who prefer the fake over a male penis. Even though, i will say this, if the male probably performed as well as the dildo, with no muss no fuss. No sweating on me, or heavy bad breathe breathing on you. And fulfilling you exactly how you want it.

THEN i'd see no reason not to prefer the plastic.

are they even having sex??? who doesn't sweat? I've had bad sex before but good sex compared to a plastic dick that can't pinch and suck on my neck/nipples/clit/ass/etc.? I have not had a toy in years now because of good sex It doesn't compare.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

are they even having sex??? who doesn't sweat? I've had bad sex before but good sex compared to a plastic dick that can't pinch and suck on my neck/nipples/clit/ass/etc.? I have not had a toy in years now because of good sex It doesn't compare.

That's understandable. Yes it's sex. Just different. More feminine. All feminine really lol. Not everyone likes pinching. Not everyone likes to be sucked in places.

The thought of this beastly male on me for the most part just kinda really grosses me out. I've never been with a guy from a purely physical standpoint. I just don't even see how ya'll do it. Trips me out how chicks can random sex dudes not even knowing if he's scum or not. Not even knowing his values. What he cares about in the world.

But yeah that's a different thread lol.

It's basically pretty simple to me. But i also get why others don't get it. If you don't find women sexually attractive. They don't turn you on. Males don't turn lesbians on. But like you had said before, your body is still physically built to take.....those things.

 

[melonpecan]

Were you at woodstock? 1969?

Woah there.

I thought you were...younger?



*scared

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Woah there.

I thought you were...younger?



*scared

lol IM me.

 

[KATDADDY]

IM CONFUSED

 

[melonpecan]

lol IM me.

Tomorrow

IM CONFUSED

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Tomorrow

 

[melonpecan]

LOL

I'm suppose to be doing work that's due tomorrow. Finals are next week.

 

[mailboxpimp]

1) THE WOMAN GIVING THE FAKE DICK WILL NEVER KNOW WHAT FUCKING ANOTHER WOMAN IS LIKE... THE BEST SHE CAN DO IS FIST A BITCH PUSSY OR ASSHOLE....& LICK HER HER TILL HER TASTE BUDS FALL OFF.....

1a) HOW LONG CAN TO BITCHES TAKE TURNS FINGER FUCKING EACH OTHER??? THAT SHIT PLAYED OUT IN THE 6TH GRADE FOR ME...

2) THE FAKE DICK IS RUBBER, PLASTIC, GLASS, OR METAL.... SOME VIBRATE...... ASIDE FROM A VIBRATING RUBBER DICK........ I CANT SEE HOW ANY OF THESE COULD FEEL BETTER THAN A REAL DICK......

3) THE WOMAN GIVING THE DICK CAN ONLY FEEL WHAT EVER SHE IS FEELING ON HER PUSSY AS A RESULT OF THE FAKE DICK GOING IN & OUT OF THE OTHER WOMAN.... SO THERE IS AN AWFUL LOT OF IMAGINATION GOING ON....

4) SUCKING RUBBER GLASS, METAL, VIBRATING DICKS HAS GOT TO LEAVE A STRANGE RUBBERY TASTE IN YA MOUTH I IMAGINE ( NOHOMO)...
& HOW FUN CAN SUCKING A DICK YOU NEVER MAKE COME BE????

5) FAKE DICKS STAY HARD..... THIS HELPS OUT A GREAT DEAL WITH MAKING WOMEN SQUIRT & HAVE MULTIPLE ORGASMS........

6) MOST "BISEXUAL"/ GAY WOMEN HAVE EXPERIENCED SOME SORT OF MOLESTATION OR SEXUAL ABUSE AS A CHILD.....

7) ALL "BISEXUAL" WOMEN ARE CONFUSED & IN MY OP ARE ASHAMED / NOT ABLE TO BE TRUTHFUL WITH THEMSELVES ABOUT WHO & WHAT THEY ARE..... THEY DONT WANT THE NEGATIVITY THAT COMES WITH SAYING YOUR......GAY / LESBIAN.... MOST USE MEN TO COVER UP THEIR GAY / LESBIAN RELATIONSHIP......

7a) ANY GAY /LESBIAN / BI SEXUAL WOMAN THAT MARRIES A MAN..... IS MARRYING A MAN THAT IS ACCEPTING OF HER BEING A LESBIAN.... NOT BISEXUAL.... LIE TO YOURSELF IF YOU WANT TOO.....

8)GAY /LESBIAN / BI SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS HAVE A HIGH TURNOVER RATE DUE TO THE LACK OF BALANCE.....

9)MOST OF THE TIME MEN DONT GET TO FUCK THE "BISEXUAL" WOMANS WOMAN... CAUSE SHE DOESNT LIKE DICK..... SHE'S USUALLY THE SHE-MAN.. OR ANOTHER FEM THAT IS THE DOMINATE ONE...

10) THEY ALL HAVE HUGE DADDY ISSUES & HAVE BEEN EXCESSIVELY DAMAGED BY MEN IN SOME WAY.....

11) TO ME ITS THE SAME AS TO NIGGZ SUCKING EACH OTHER OFF, FUCKING EACH OTHER IN THE ASS.... & THE SILLIEST SHIT EVER IS A BITCH WALKING AROUND WITH A STRAP ON DICK...... KINDA LIKE A HOMO NIGG TALKIN ABOUT BOY PUSSY.... WTF???

12) WOMEN HAVE NO PROBLEM LICKING EACH OTHERS ASSHOLE, EATING PUSSY WHEN ITS THAT TIME OF THE MONTH OR FUCKING DURING THAT TIME OF THE MONTH........ THEY CAN GRIND PUSSIES....., IF ONE HAS A CLIT BIG ENOUGH... SHE CAN FUCK THE OTHER CHICK.....

AT THE END OF THE DAY...... YOU STILL NEED A MAN..... WEATHER YOU WANT TO ADMIT IT OR NOT!

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

1) THE WOMAN GIVING THE FAKE DICK WILL NEVER KNOW WHAT FUCKING ANOTHER WOMAN IS LIKE... THE BEST SHE CAN DO IS FIST A BITCH PUSSY OR ASSHOLE....& LICK HER HER TILL HER TASTE BUDS FALL OFF..... You place far to much importance on your penis.

1a) HOW LONG CAN TO BITCHES TAKE TURNS FINGER FUCKING EACH OTHER??? THAT SHIT PLAYED OUT IN THE 6TH GRADE FOR ME...Bitches? Why?

2) THE FAKE DICK IS RUBBER, PLASTIC, GLASS, OR METAL.... SOME VIBRATE...... ASIDE FROM A VIBRATING RUBBER DICK........ I CANT SEE HOW ANY OF THESE COULD FEEL BETTER THAN A REAL DICK......It is understandable. Being that you're a male. Without a vagina, who is attracted to females. I don't see how women like many of you males. Or even gay men like what they like. But i understand that, it's something i just haven't experienced. And can't.

3) THE WOMAN GIVING THE DICK CAN ONLY FEEL WHAT EVER SHE IS FEELING ON HER PUSSY AS A RESULT OF THE FAKE DICK GOING IN & OUT OF THE OTHER WOMAN.... SO THERE IS AN AWFUL LOT OF IMAGINATION GOING ON....Once again. I don't think you're in any real position to say what is being felt. By what apparatus. And you also don't seem to understand the depth to which a womans mind is involved in intercourse

4) SUCKING RUBBER GLASS, METAL, VIBRATING DICKS HAS GOT TO LEAVE A STRANGE RUBBERY TASTE IN YA MOUTH I IMAGINE ( NOHOMO)...
& HOW FUN CAN SUCKING A DICK YOU NEVER MAKE COME BE????I just call this roleplay. I don't do it. Never have done it. Don't see the point to it.

5) FAKE DICKS STAY HARD..... THIS HELPS OUT A GREAT DEAL WITH MAKING WOMEN SQUIRT & HAVE MULTIPLE ORGASMS........Yes it does! And especially if you don't like males.

6) MOST "BISEXUAL"/ GAY WOMEN HAVE EXPERIENCED SOME SORT OF MOLESTATION OR SEXUAL ABUSE AS A CHILD.....Molestation does aid in the early sexual discovery. But once again, no more so in gay women or bi women, than straight.

7) ALL "BISEXUAL" WOMEN ARE CONFUSED & IN MY OP ARE ASHAMED / NOT ABLE TO BE TRUTHFUL WITH THEMSELVES ABOUT WHO & WHAT THEY ARE..... THEY DONT WANT THE NEGATIVITY THAT COMES WITH SAYING YOUR......GAY / LESBIAN.... MOST USE MEN TO COVER UP THEIR GAY / LESBIAN RELATIONSHIP......True for some. Not true for all. That's like saying, ALL guys who do make up are gay, and the ones who say they aren't, are just to ashamed of the ridicule that comes with being a gay male.

7a) ANY LESBIAN / BI SEXUAL WOMAN THAT MARRIES A MAN..... IS MARRYING A MAN THAT IS ACCEPTING OF HER BEING A LESBIAN.... NOT BISEXUAL.... LIE TO YOURSELF IF YOU WANT TOO..... I don't know what you're saying.

8)GAY /LESBIAN / BI SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS HAVE A HIGH TURNOVER RATE DUE TO THE LACK OF BALANCE.....This is actually a bit of misinformation. It's a high turnover rate because of the small numbers of lesbians to begin with. While yes, i do agree they do lack balance. But it's really no more than other black relationships as far as i've seen. People in this day and age are people. They're ALL fucked in the head because of societal factors. Lesbians have no more of a leg up or leg down on handling relationships than anyone else.

9)MOST OF THE TIME MEN DONT GET TO FUCK THE "BISEXUAL" WOMANS WOMAN... CAUSE SHE DOESNT LIKE DICK..... SHE'S USUALLY THE SHE-MAN.. OR ANOTHER FEM THAT IS THE DOMINATE ONE...You're so way off on this one, it's kinda cute. You don't know what people do behind closed doors bud. I ran a swingers club, i threw LOTS of swing parties. All that you just wrote? Complete bollux.

10) THEY ALL HAVE HUGE DADDY ISSUES & HAVE BEEN EXCESSIVELY DAMAGED BY MEN IN SOME WAY.....Just as much as any other female in this society.

11) TO ME ITS THE SAME AS TO NIGGZ SUCKING EACH OTHER OFF, FUCKING EACH OTHER IN THE ASS.... & THE SILLIEST SHIT EVER IS A BITCH WALKING AROUND WITH A STRAP ON DICK...... KINDA LIKE A HOMO NIGG TALKIN ABOUT BOY PUSSY.... WTF???Skipped.

12) WOMEN HAVE NO PROBLEM LICKING EACH OTHERS ASSHOLE, EATING PUSSY WHEN ITS THAT TIME OF THE MONTH OR FUCKING DURING THAT TIME OF THE MONTH........ THEY CAN GRIND PUSSIES....., IF ONE HAS A CLIT BIG ENOUGH... SHE CAN FUCK THE OTHER CHICK.....I have no words............wow.

AT THE END OF THE DAY...... YOU STILL NEED A MAN..... WEATHER YOU WANT TO ADMIT IT OR NOT!

Purely for sexual reasons? As what this topic is about? Absolutely not. That's something you males tell yourself to get over the rejection that there are women who do not value your penis as you believe it should be.

 

[Rudey]

lol