Premature Ejactulation

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Whenever I have sex , I ejaculate way too quickly, three to four minutes at best, so having sex is a big dissappointment to me and my partner.

This has coursed me to lack in confidance, I have not dated in two years because of my Premature Ejactulation.

I hope someone can give me some good advice. People have told my to think of something whilst having sex, but is kinda difficult if you got a girl bouncing up and down on you.

 

[black again]

do what Steve Martin said.. "Think of dead cats." Tell the chick that you're so turned on by her..that's why you're shooting quick. Wear 2 condoms..I dunno dude..

 

[Iron]

Ftp or another member from the main board that's too pussy to post on SOL with his main screen name. Man up.

 

[Izayoi]

Ftp or another member from the main board that's too pussy to post on SOL with his main screen name. Man up.

 

[doggish_098]

who let their 12 year old son on bgol

 

[femmenoire]

who let their 12 year old son on bgol

LOL!

 

[Mo-Better]

Ftp or another member from the main board that's too pussy to post on SOL with his main screen name. Man up.

I got to agree!

 

[Machete]

You're either a homo, or a dumb ass.

Learn how to use the internet wisely.

 

[Izayoi]

i be havin that problem too but its jus that it only takes away some of the feelin on my piece..other than that im gud, cuz id be rock hard for more than an hour and i dont really care if i nut--i jus want my gurl to be pleased.

Aww you're a sweetie! But I'm sure your girl wants you to enjoy yourself just as much.

I have had the female version of this! Ha- why does that never come up. I'm easy to cum and sometimes I would cum like 10 minutes in and you know that leaves a good 20-40 minutes to stay interested and keep from falling asleep It wasn't until I was older and learned (relaxed enough?) to cum multiple times and had a really really exceptional lover that that stopped being a problem. I still cum quick but I don't run out of batteries like I used to

 

[mc2]

Having an Orgasm in 3 - 4 min shouldn't be a problem if you're able to get hard again and go for another round(s). After getting that first nut off, you should be able to last longer durring the next rounds. If you're not then i'd recommend Aspire 36 (www.aspire36.com) . The pill is designed to get you hard, increase your sex drive and increase you're recovery time.

I can vouch for this shit and so can many others on BGOL

The most common side effects experienced by board members was a mild to migrane headache. I've used this pill once, and didnt have any nasty side effects. My girl tapped out after round 5 or 6 and but I was still ready for more..

Warning... Only use this shit on women that you plan on being with for a while..


Link to the original thread
http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=185430&highlight=aspire

 

[Izayoi]

how do i make my gurl cum multiple times?

Well every woman is different but it was taught to me like this:

I can cum from straight penetration- no clit action necessary so if I'm cumming from just straight penetration working the clit while I'm cumming will usually push me over into number two really fast, then if its real good 3 right after that. It gets sensitive down there after the first one so concentrating on the clit while you slow your stroke might feel better to her (does to me). Don't over attack the clit though (why do men do that?! ) because you can numb it out or make it too sensitive- try stroking on the side of the clit or just underneath.

Women have a short refractory period so after just some hand play and gentle strokes you can usually just start right back up again with the full on stroke. This a good time to change positions and angles I've found. Then basically fuck- repeat! She has to let you know what feels best to her.

Plus most of this is mental to me. I can cum over and over again when a man shares my particular "kinks." and knows how I liked to be talked to in bed.

EDIT: A long the lines of the mental thing, I love it when a man makes it known to me that I can't leave his bed until I cum X times. That sets things off nice !!! because I'm expecting to be pleasured and it works.

 

[GET YOU HOT]

Try sucking on her titties and eating her out for about 20min, then start intercourse, missionary of course...

 

[Izayoi]

They actually can cum when you suck on their titties?...well damn let me do that more often...i thought it jus felt good to them and thats it. (for ex. if my gurl suck on my nipple it might feel good but i dont think ima nut from it)

It's possible for men and women to cum from that.
I can do it, its smaller O than sex but it happens.
Been with one guy that could do it.

 

[BS2011]

Ftp or another member from the main board that's too pussy to post on SOL with his main screen name. Man up.

Probably the latter. There are a lot of cowards on the main board. I bet that's one of the dudes that pop a lot of shit too and is on that e-thugging shit.

 

[Izayoi]

oh ok..since we're on this topic..iz it more pleasure to the woman if you lick her clit or penetrate her wit the tongue? (I wanna please her as much as i can oraly ^_^)

Only she can tell you that
Whatever you do, do it with enthusiasm and that's halfway there.

 

[MartinAsante]

Well every woman is different but it was taught to me like this:

I can cum from straight penetration- no clit action necessary so if I'm cumming from just straight penetration working the clit while I'm cumming will usually push me over into number two really fast, then if its real good 3 right after that. It gets sensitive down there after the first one so concentrating on the clit while you slow your stroke might feel better to her (does to me). Don't over attack the clit though (why do men do that?! ) because you can numb it out or make it too sensitive- try stroking on the side of the clit or just underneath.

Women have a short refractory period so after just some hand play and gentle strokes you can usually just start right back up again with the full on stroke. This a good time to change positions and angles I've found. Then basically fuck- repeat! She has to let you know what feels best to her.

Plus most of this is mental to me. I can cum over and over again when a man shares my particular "kinks." and knows how I liked to be talked to in bed.

EDIT: A long the lines of the mental thing, I love it when a man makes it known to me that I can't leave his bed until I cum X times. That sets things off nice !!! because I'm expecting to be pleasured and it works.

 

[Izayoi]

You know you read every word and took notes ninja!

 

[MartinAsante]

You know you read every word and took notes ninja!

No need to read, I got the...

 

[mc2]

oh ok..since we're on this topic..iz it more pleasure to the woman if you lick her clit or penetrate her wit the tongue? (I wanna please her as much as i can oraly ^_^)

The clit is where they will get the most stimulation but all women are different. You have to talk to your girl and get her to tell you what she likes.. It's in her best interest to let you know what turns her own...

 

[pdlc]

Nigka said EjacTulation

 

[detroitdr]

Two words playa... HENN DAWG!

 

[Izayoi]

No need to read, I got the...

 

[BirdManSS]

I always keep something like this on hand if the woman has a real tight pussy or I feel I"ll come fast. Or like somebody else said, just get full of that liquor.

This stuff just mostly numbs your shit up for a little while.

 

[Pussy Krook]

Well every woman is different but it was taught to me like this:

I can cum from straight penetration- no clit action necessary so if I'm cumming from just straight penetration working the clit while I'm cumming will usually push me over into number two really fast, then if its real good 3 right after that. It gets sensitive down there after the first one so concentrating on the clit while you slow your stroke might feel better to her (does to me). Don't over attack the clit though (why do men do that?! ) because you can numb it out or make it too sensitive- try stroking on the side of the clit or just underneath.

Women have a short refractory period so after just some hand play and gentle strokes you can usually just start right back up again with the full on stroke. This a good time to change positions and angles I've found. Then basically fuck- repeat! She has to let you know what feels best to her.

Plus most of this is mental to me. I can cum over and over again when a man shares my particular "kinks." and knows how I liked to be talked to in bed.

EDIT: A long the lines of the mental thing, I love it when a man makes it known to me that I can't leave his bed until I cum X times. That sets things off nice !!! because I'm expecting to be pleasured and it works.

Double damn!

 

[DANGEROUSBLACKMAN]

who let their 12 year old son on bgol

Co-Sign.

 

[mk23666]

Premature ejaculation typically comes from anxiety. Meditation, therapy, penile stimulation training and medication (either, desensitizing or for erections) are all pretty good at lessening or eliminating the problem.

Personally speaking ... while on Paxil I reacted to a little know/reported side effect of the drug. Ejaculation could be delayed for over half an hour after being on the drug for only a couple of days! Over an hour after a couple of weeks! (even at the lowest dosage 12.5mg per day)

It was great, but that side effect had a cummulative reaction and eventually I slowly lost my sex drive after 3 months. My Dr. then prescribed Viagra for me, but I didn't like the headaches and seriously stuffed up sinuses So I just slowly got weaned off the Paxil.

 

[Lick]

Practice makes perfect! Right after you bust that nut have her go down on you until you are back up and running… Take your time… You have all night… Pull out before you blow your load, and consider her! Your thoughts should be about pleasing her and her only… You have a job to do so it should never be about what feels good to you… Don’t worry… When (she) the time cums you can get yours. Also, the more pussy you get the longer you last so start fucking ya brains out!

 

[BirdManSS]

Premature ejaculation typically comes from anxiety. Meditation, therapy, penile stimulation training and medication (either, desensitizing or for erections) are all pretty good at lessening or eliminating the problem.

Personally speaking ... while on Paxil I reacted to a little know/reported side effect of the drug. Ejaculation could be delayed for over half an hour after being on the drug for only a couple of days! Over an hour after a couple of weeks! (even at the lowest dosage 12.5mg per day)

It was great, but that side effect had a cummulative reaction and eventually I slowly lost my sex drive after 3 months. My Dr. then prescribed Viagra for me, but I didn't like the headaches and seriously stuffed up sinuses So I just slowly got weaned off the Paxil.

Yeah, I had the same experience with Lexapro.

 

[HUNTSVEGAZ]

Whenever I have sex , I ejaculate way too quickly, three to four minutes at best, so having sex is a big dissappointment to me and my partner.

This has coursed me to lack in confidance, I have not dated in two years because of my Premature Ejactulation.

I hope someone can give me some good advice. People have told my to think of something whilst having sex, but is kinda difficult if you got a girl bouncing up and down on you.

 

[mk23666]

Yeah, I had the same experience with Lexapro.

Why were you on it. I was trying to tackle S.A.D. and depression about my job/money.

 

[MartinAsante]

It's only 1 page long and most of that is the foreword and dedications.

 

[Izayoi]

It's only 1 page long and most of that is the foreword and dedications.

Since brevity is the soul of wit, don't skip a word boo.

 

[sizzlelater]

must be a lot of young cats on this page.

here go the way for all the brothers with this problem.

control your breathing. don't breathe too fast and that's it.

my dad old me that 20 yrs ago. it works

 

[mk23666]

yep, a form of meditation.^

 

[BirdManSS]

Why were you on it. I was trying to tackle S.A.D. and depression about my job/money.

I had post tramatic stress from when the police ran into me.