posts made by black women, how would you respond to them?

Follow Up: Do we WANT the black men that date white women?

I don't. In my mind, they're ruined! They can stay where they're at!! Holla at me ladies!!
 
Why can't I find a good man?

Hey BP,

I need some advice. I've been on here a while and have met a few guys off of here. I am having no luck at all. The men I meet on here have either been to jail and are currently there now, have no job and income or just don't want to be bothered. So what am I doing wrong?? I just want a down to earth man who I can share good conversation with, movies and walks and the usual. I work and support myself, I have no kids but wouldn't mind some one day. I have a car and I have no drama going on at all.

Ladies, anyone feel like I do? What's the deal? Am I not looking hard enough? I am at a loss and feel like I'm not meant to meet that special man in my life. I don't judge, I have a good heart and race is not an issue.... Should I give up or what? Anyone out there feel like I do? How is everyone else out there doing in the dating field? Help me out here!!!
 
why black men date white girls?

Before I began, I don't mean to step on anyone's toes and come off racist..because that I am not. I've just always wondered why black men date white women when there are educated, attractive, successful black women available for the taking. I have several guy friends that date white women, because they feel white women are submissive, eager, and non-confrontational. Hell, personally I feel like they can find some black women who are exactly the same if they just look a little bit harder!!
But my question the the ladies is: how do you feel about black men dating white women?
and fellas: why do black men date white women?
 
would someone having bad credit stop you from dating them?

Or getting serious with them? Let's say you met this fine mami or papi and you two are feeling each other so you go on a few dats things are going good as you want, they are smart, funny, sexy, have a legitamate job, keep a clean house and seem drama free. Then you and your new found potential mate are kicking it and just talking about your hopes and dreams etc and they mention that they have bad crredit, would that make you reevaluate them as LTR material
 
DO MEN REALLY WANT A WOMAN WHO HAS HIS BACK???

I have a long time friend who just recently told me he has been in love with me for years. I'm 99% positive his feelings are true because of the way he's acting and things he's been doing. He is married to a girl who is ride or die for him. He says that she has his back, but I inspire him and show him new things and that's what's important to him. I dont feel the same way for him and he knows I would never put up with the things his wife puts up with. He said he'd rather die happy with someone he's in love with, than with someone he just loves. So my question is: Do men marry/date ride or die females because they're safe??
 
what is it about the brazilian women?


tell me.

i wanna know what i can do to better please you.

i thought i was doing something by getting a brazilian bikini wax but apparently there is more to it......lol

enlighten me.












and then tell me bout what them brazilian men do to keep em that way.
 
Follow Up: Do we WANT the black men that date white women?

I don't. In my mind, they're ruined! They can stay where they're at!! Holla at me ladies!!

Did I really type that? Doesn't sound like me. I usually say "I don't bother with black men who only date white women"
 
Did I really type that? Doesn't sound like me. I usually say "I don't bother with black men who only date white women"

NO

I THINK YOU GUYS ARE MISUNDERSTANDING. THESE AREN'T POSTS MADE BY WOMEN ON SOL BUT WOMEN ON ANOTHER SITE.

I JUST WANT TO HEAR HOW YOU WOULD RESPOND IF THESE WERE POSTS ON SOL....
 
Why can't I find a good man?

Hey BP,

I need some advice. I've been on here a while and have met a few guys off of here. I am having no luck at all. The men I meet on here have either been to jail and are currently there now, have no job and income or just don't want to be bothered. So what am I doing wrong?? I just want a down to earth man who I can share good conversation with, movies and walks and the usual. I work and support myself, I have no kids but wouldn't mind some one day. I have a car and I have no drama going on at all.

Ladies, anyone feel like I do? What's the deal? Am I not looking hard enough? I am at a loss and feel like I'm not meant to meet that special man in my life. I don't judge, I have a good heart and race is not an issue.... Should I give up or what? Anyone out there feel like I do? How is everyone else out there doing in the dating field? Help me out here!!!

If you really want to find a good man, I would strongly recommend looking elsewhere than Black Planet. Real Talk.
 
I am a Black woman & BLACK MEN SUCK!!!

I have come to HATE black men as do the KKK

Well then I feel sorry for you as you hate your father and yourself :smh:
Every person is a unique individual and you can't paint a whole group with one stroke of the brush.
 
Follow Up: Do we WANT the black men that date white women?

I don't. In my mind, they're ruined! They can stay where they're at!! Holla at me ladies!!

If they exclusively date white women then I don't care as they don't want me anyway. If they date white women along with other types of women, I still don't care. How come we are the only race with this big taboo against IR dating? Would you care if they dated Asian or Latina women?
 
Follow Up: Do we WANT the black men that date white women?

I don't. In my mind, they're ruined! They can stay where they're at!! Holla at me ladies!!
I wouldn't bother with any black man who says "I only date white women" or "I don't date black women". To me that means he hates my skin color & my hair because really that's the only difference. He also has some self hate going on. I can't deal with a man who hates me or himself

I am a Black woman & BLACK MEN SUCK!!!

I have come to HATE black men as do the KKK
Then you must hate yourself and your black daddy :smh:

would someone having bad credit stop you from dating them?

Or getting serious with them? Let's say you met this fine mami or papi and you two are feeling each other so you go on a few dats things are going good as you want, they are smart, funny, sexy, have a legitamate job, keep a clean house and seem drama free. Then you and your new found potential mate are kicking it and just talking about your hopes and dreams etc and they mention that they have bad crredit, would that make you reevaluate them as LTR material
If I knew ahead of time I wouldn't bother with him. But most of the time you don't find out those dirty details until it's too late and you already caught feelings. Luckily I haven't had to deal with it, but as long as he learned from his mistakes and isn't doing the same mess that got him in that situation I guess I would stay serious with the man...

what is it about the brazilian women?
tell me.
i wanna know what i can do to better please you.
i thought i was doing something by getting a brazilian bikini wax but apparently there is more to it......lol
enlighten me.
and then tell me bout what them brazilian men do to keep em that way.
There's nothing about them. Men are brainwashed. Everything they like about Brazilian women I could show you plenty of black women with those characteristics LOL
 
If you really want to find a good man, I would strongly recommend looking elsewhere than Black Planet. Real Talk.


Blackplanet is still around?

I left that thing alone in 2002 and never looked back.
 
If you really want to find a good man, I would strongly recommend looking elsewhere than Black Planet. Real Talk.

I hate to agree, but I met my boo there over three years ago. Funny because a few months later we both vowed to never log on there again.:rolleyes:
 
I've noticed that Black men complain just as much as Black women about each other's faults, so therefore, we deserve each other.

We're both complaining.
:lol:
 
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