Planning a nice surprise for the boyfriend...

[JofromthaNO]

...but, I have no idea what that nice surprise will be! He's coming into town next weekend (we're doing the long distance thing), and I want to really show him a good time. One thought is just doing a nice dinner for him (he loves some gumbo, some jambalaya so either one would work), and then preceding to have ourselves a night of pure ecstasy. But, my thinking is I can kind of do that for him anytime...so, I'm looking for ideas for a nice surprise for him...

Ladies and/or gents, please weigh in with your ideas. What are some nice things you have done for your significant other to show them that you cared?

 

[black again]

Jo, give up some more details, please. How often do you see him, when was the last time you saw him? That might make a difference. How much time to yall have to spend together? Remember, most of us are pretty easy to please. A great meal and toe curling sex will make a ninja smile in his sleep.

 

[JofromthaNO]

Jo, give up some more details, please. How often do you see him, when was the last time you saw him? That might make a difference. How much time to yall have to spend together? Remember, most of us are pretty easy to please. A great meal and toe curling sex will make a ninja smile in his sleep.

Last time we saw each other was for New Years in NYC. We usually see (or try to see) each other at once a month, either a long weekend or a week, if we can do that. He gets here Thursday and leaves on Sunday. We are both not too sexually crazy (lol), but we do enjoy pleasing each other. He's into underground hip hop and trying new things, if it interests me.

 

[black again]

Since ya don't see each other, often, film as much of the weekend as possible. It can be as G-rated or NC-17 as ya dare. Take him to a hiphop club..If he hasn't been there, before. Show him your town. He can't help but have a good time. But, ya gotta have ONE night to just relax.

 

[thetipisthick]

Since ya don't see each other, often, film as much of the weekend as possible. It can be as G-rated or NC-17 as ya dare. Take him to a hiphop club..If he hasn't been there, before. Show him your town. He can't help but have a good time. But, ya gotta have ONE night to just relax.

Don't forget to post the vid here after you film forget the g rated though

 

[TUNE]

provide plenty of puss and everything well be okay... skip the gumbo

 

[Southpaw]

forget the fancy shit, get on your knees and suck his dick. Trust me, thats what he really wants.

 

[maynard]

I want gumbo now.

 

[SuperGenius]

You can never go wrong with supplying him with some of what he really likes (not just sexually). Is he a simple type of dude, or the hard to please type? If you can break it down in specifics, then we can all put our heads together and come up with something.

 

[thismybgolname]

I enjoyed being pampered from time to time.

Pick him up and take him to get a full body massage to get him relaxed.

If he is the type of guy that gets his feet manicured knock that out too (I've never done this but I've been told I should try it).

Afterwards go to dinner.

When you bring him home have the house laced with rose pedals, candles and more drinks (or weed if he smokes).

Take a bath together then get ignant with each other.

 

[DigitalAngel2007]

...but, I have no idea what that nice surprise will be! He's coming into town next weekend (we're doing the long distance thing), and I want to really show him a good time. One thought is just doing a nice dinner for him (he loves some gumbo, some jambalaya so either one would work), and then preceding to have ourselves a night of pure ecstasy. But, my thinking is I can kind of do that for him anytime...so, I'm looking for ideas for a nice surprise for him...

Ladies and/or gents, please weigh in with your ideas. What are some nice things you have done for your significant other to show them that you cared?

Since you guys are doing the long distance thing what you're missing out on is physical

I'd a nice long hot oil full body massage, then a nice warm bubble bath (for two) finish the night off by candle light fucking complete with some smooth background music (Sade or Maxwell).
Basically take advantage of what you guys miss out on on the regular. If it were me I wouldn't want to go anywhere I'd want to make love all weekend to my man.

 

[Blu Diablo]

Jo... us dudes are really a very easy to please lot. Don't over think it.

Don't make this some elaborate to do with all kind of scheduled activities cuz thats not what he's coming to town for, he's coming to spend time with you. Plus depending on this distance he has to travel to see you he's gonna need some down/detox time from traveling.

Keep it simple, have fun, and enjoy.

 

[JofromthaNO]

Thanks for the input, everyone. I have made one reservation at a fondue place in town. We might do a daytrip to Atlanta, and he has some family here in the area we will visit. Otherwise, I think we'll just kick it at home, and I'll cook plenty meals for him and, sexually, fulfill him as well.