Photography as Tool of Seduction
...when I first started learning seduction, I struck the fuck out big time with an orthodox Jewish woman. She was totally into me but I had so many sticking points at that time I could not even convert, if she had placed her vagina in my left arm. Nevertheless, I interviewed her some weeks later and one of the significant things she told me was that when, I showed her my photography she felt jealous. Jealous? I enquired... "Yes I felt jealous, I wanted to be part of those photographs." Photographs are extremely powerful in sub-communicating values without having to speak. Take for example, one of the women, I met through social circle, as we were introduced, she said: "I know who you are, I seen you in pictures," I could tell she was immediately attracted from my photographs. Simply because I only release a certain types of photograph with me in it. What types? Keep reading.
Photography is capturing part of the subjects soul and cementing that intimate moment between the photographer and subject forever. Like any other art form, it speaks deeply to humans and arouse their emotions. If a photograph is worth a thousand words, then a few photographs used as a seduction tool will be exchanged for vagina as a commodity.
So then what? In early seduction i.e. Mystery Method, had/ and usesd a routine in which they would take hard copy of photographs with them to clubs, showing themselves on some sort adventure; while pretending as if they had just picked the photos up from CVS on the way to the club. The purpose of this routine is to ground the target in some area of the seducers life. Therefore, if the seducer tells the target that they are a part time race car driver, pictures of the seducer shown in a race car cements their identity, and additionally shows authenticity. Photography shown of the seducer's family and loved ones can also ground their identity and show their human side.
I am a serious hobbyist photographer and I own two professional cameras; this year alone I have used my cameras and iPod in every successful seduction. So just how does one do that? You're are probably thinking, "I don't own a pro-camera., I can't do it." No problem, any point an shoot will do the trick. Here is how to do it.
Basic rules
Take fun photographs i.e. always appear to be having fun in your photographs.
Smiling is not low value, that's a myth, smile. Pose creatively when it calls for it. Be aware of the background in the photographs, look for the best backgrounds. Take photographs from different angles, don't always center the subject. Only show the best photographs of yourself, therefore take a few and select the best, immediately delete the rest. Don't come off like you are bragging when you show your photographs to the target. Look at magazines, and online social sites and learn fun poses and gain ideas from others photographs. Don't ask your target to do anything, while taking photographs, instruct them. Take pictures with friends, and people around in the venue, it sub-communicates that you are social. Don't take your camera with you every time you go out with her and snap shots, it becomes boring and routine. Yet try not to miss a photo opportunity.
There are three main ways you can use photography in seduction:
1) Photographing the Target
2) Photographing the Yourself
3) Showing your Photographs
Photographing the Target
Firstly, taking new photographs is always fun for women, they love to be photographed. A camera to a woman is like a moth to a flame; being photographed evokes and validates her inner narracism. Secondly, taking photographs of your target is also a good way to gain compliance. We all know that compliance is a major part of seduction. Instructing a woman where to stand, how to arch her neck and back is a good way of gaining compliance. Also, instruct her to do fun things, if walking through a mall, instruct her to take a 'crazzzy' picture hugging a mannequin, flexing her muscles, or something of that nature; instead of simply sitting on a bench. While taking pictures of her, you want to practice a few basic photography rules. Pay attention to the background, you don't want her standing behind poles or bushes and it looks as poles are growing out her head in the end product.
Look out for huge light sources behind her. The main thing here is for to be having fun. Moreover, if she is at your place, playing dress up and photographing each other is the quickest way to increase her temperature. Now one thing you must be careful of if you own a professional camera is that she does not put you in the camera guy frame. If you are seen as the camera guy, she will be instructing you "take my picture." You do not want her instructing you. In pick up, men must maintain subtle dominance. So let say you are in a bar and she says take a picture of me and my friends, then you must follow one of the basic rules of seduction and make her jump through your hoop first. Take a picture of yourself first or say "before I do that I am want a photograph with you and I, first," hand the camera to her friend. More than once people have walked up to me and mistake me for the club photographer it happened in Miami, NYC etc. "I simply say: "No, but you can take a picture of me" and I hand them my camera. This works about 50% of the time i.e. they take my picture which sometimes lead to a pick up.
Photographing Yourself & Social Networking Sites
With the invention of social networking site, Face book, MySpace et al, these sites have become a major way to demonstrate value through photographs. With these sites your pictures should communicate the attractive parts of your lifestyle. Take pictures of yourself that turns on some of the attraction switches in a woman's brain. Some attractions switches may not be successfully communicated through photograph. For example, protector, confidence, emoting, are some attraction switches that are difficult to capture. To demonstrate emotions, I don't suggest you have your buddy take a picture of you crying, that would be fucking outrageous. However, You can take a picture of you hugging your dog, then tell an emotional story to back up the photograph. Here are some example of photos that sub-communicates some of the attraction switches:
•Humor - Silly photographs work best here. I have one of myself and one of my wings, sitting in a flea market on a shoe shine bench with two large stuffed gorillas.
•Wealth - Take a picture in your great looking home or car, place of business, on a boat.
•Status - Simply well dressed in a suit works like magic for me; however you can communicate status in pick up by takeing a picture of you doing whatever it is that you do.
•Pre-selection - Show a photograph of you and other women hugging or kissing you on your cheek.
•Health - take a photograph of you and your friends at the gym, karate class etc...
•Well Travelled - Pictures of you in front of land marks, in "native clothing" with natives oversease, all work wonders.
Main rule here is to always appear to be having a good time in your photographs, if you don't know how to smile, learn!
For social networking sites as you set up albums, you should have attention grabbing and creative cocky or funny album titles. An album entitled "My Summer Vacation 2009" is boring. My "fabulous fucking life: Summer 2009" is attention grabbing and a cocky-confident title. If you are a soccer player an album entitled "My balls and my Word" is way more funnier and creative than "Soccer Practice." Additionally, don't have more than five of six albums; therefore, combine and consolidate albums. Every time you go out and take pictures, there is no need to create a new online album. Keep in mind that humans have a short attention span. Only select the best photos, whosoever is taking the photo ask them to take a couple and select the best quality ones to put online or show to friends and targets. Additionally, never miss a photo opportunity, every time you travel to a new state/country/place, take a photograph. Don't miss opportunities to take pictures with "natives" in other countries, people in cool costumes in different cities etc.
So what are some good ways of getting women to take photographs of them doing raunchy and naughty things with you in field. Simple, after you have gotten her to be attracted to you, then you simply say: "let's take a picture," after the first one photograph, you say "um I don't like that one let's take another." You then ask her: What's our motivation? She generally says "I don't know." You then say "let do silly" then take one more "lets go for sexy" at this point I pucker up and she usually follows, I either tap my cheek and have her kiss me on the cheek while her friend or my wing takes the picture or I kiss close her. I sometimes talk about the movie "Zoolander" and his face he mad in the movie called "Magnum." If a girl has seen the movie, she generally becomes ecstatic and follows along. The triangular stare works well here also i.e. staring into her eyes, then at her lips back and forth leading to a kiss close. What I find is as I am doing the triangular look she sometimes looks away, blushing. I immediately and gently grab her face and turn it towards to me and stare into her eyes and at her lips again. A seducer can take a variety of photographs, I have photographs of women piggy backing me, photographs of me picking them up, her licking the side of my face etc... Reward her if she complies for your photographs, "You are some much fun, I dig that," this leads to bigger compliance,especially when you may want to take nude photos of her.
When we are alone and there have no one is there to take the picture, I have her hold one end of the camera and I the shutter button and we both raise it above our heads, I kiss close her and hold down the shutter.
So what about taking nude photographs? Fuck yeah! take em! If you have built up enough trust and gamed her properly, to the point where she feels comfortable enough to take nudies, go right ahead. Keep in mind that women are worried about the social consequences and rightfully so i.e. other people seeing their photographs or it ending up on the net. So how do you do it? You can embed this in her mind early in the pick up by telling her I am going to photograph you, then playfully asking her if she is naughty."
Second, during sex, keep your camera close to the bed or wherever you are fucking her. As you are fucking her slowly, say: "I love the way you are freak/slut off for me." Then calibrate to see if she is offended. If she finds the word slut offensive before her logical mind can kicks in, follow up with a cliché "I love a lady in the streets and a freak in the bedroom." Then kiss her, this shuts down the logical mind quickly. Continue fucking her then deliver: "I love your freakiness and "I am going to photograph your pretty pussy." It is key that you don't reach for the camera immediately, why? It signals that you have never done this before and you have an agenda. A few minutes later, reach for the camera and snap a photo of her pussy. Calibrate if she looks a tad bit worried, kiss her and shut down her logical mind again. Then tell her "lean your head back, I don't want your face in the photographs so I can protect your identity." This does not make one ounce of sense but it sub-communicates that you are not a douche who is trying to exploit her. The more photographs you take the more she will become comfortable, then you can take shots with her face in it. If she is not shy the possibilities are endless. If she is shy, you will get a text later or the next day asking about the photographs. You then tell her that "I encrypted them with a password on my computer no one can see them; someone has to be a genius to figure out the algorithms to crack the file." It sounds highly technical and safe and it works all the time. I'd strongly suggest not publishing her photographs on the net or showing others without her permission. If she ask for copies, only give her copies of the photographs with her in it or ones that you both but your face is not visible. I only trust myself to not publish the photographs never trust her to not do the same.
Showing your Photographs.
One no longer has to take hard copy of photographs infield, it can all be uploaded to one's iPod, a picture viewer, or on a digital camera, or if she is at your house you can turn your computer on and let your screen saver be your wing man and rotate your photographs. So how do you introduce your photographs infield without coming off as trying to impress her or bragging. Simple, while you are talking, if she says something relating to one of your photographs, you say "you know what that reminds me of the first time I went to Panama or whatever. "I actually have a photograph, let me show you. I then pull put my iPod and show her that said photograph, I give it to her to hold, if you have built enough attraction, she will scrolls though the other photographs, she then come across pictures of me cooking, at the beach with friends, shooting a rifle in the forest, at the top of a waterfall, ttravelling etc.
The main thing is here is not to come across as bragging, and also to keep your photographs to a minimum. Moreover, as she is scrolling through your photographs, let her and do something else.
To sum this all up, always have fun in your photographs.