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Pick Up Artists: Gaming and Seduction

Voice Projection
Carol Fleming - Sound of Your Voice

Code: 
http://rapidshare.com/files/250486376/Carol_Fleming_-_Sound_of_Your_Voice.zip


Brett Manning - Mastering Vibrato

Code: 
http://rapidshare.com/files/250481006/Brett_Manning_-_Mastering_vibrato.zip

David Alan Stern,Ph.D. - Acting with an Accent
01 Australian
02 Cockney
03 Irish
04 Italian
05 New York City
06 Scottish
07 Standard British

Code: 
http://rapidshare.com/files/251290110/David_Alan_Stern__Ph.D._-_Acting_with_an_Accent.part1.rar
http://rapidshare.com/files/251298784/David_Alan_Stern__Ph.D._-_Acting_with_an_Accent.part2.rar


Singing Voice Lessons - Learn to sing like a star
Code: 
http://rapidshare.com/files/251306498/Singing_Voice_Lessons_-_Learn_to_sing_like_a_star.rar
 
METHODIST said:
Voice Projection
Carol Fleming - Sound of Your Voice

Code: 
http://rapidshare.com/files/250486376/Carol_Fleming_-_Sound_of_Your_Voice.zip


Brett Manning - Mastering Vibrato

Code: 
http://rapidshare.com/files/250481006/Brett_Manning_-_Mastering_vibrato.zip

David Alan Stern,Ph.D. - Acting with an Accent
01 Australian
02 Cockney
03 Irish
04 Italian
05 New York City
06 Scottish
07 Standard British

Code: 
http://rapidshare.com/files/251290110/David_Alan_Stern__Ph.D._-_Acting_with_an_Accent.part1.rar
http://rapidshare.com/files/251298784/David_Alan_Stern__Ph.D._-_Acting_with_an_Accent.part2.rar


Singing Voice Lessons - Learn to sing like a star
Code: 
http://rapidshare.com/files/251306498/Singing_Voice_Lessons_-_Learn_to_sing_like_a_star.rar
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how do you get these files? i have a problem getting "grey blocked" files
 
METHODIST said:
Here is a document I wrote to a friend, not Colin Powell friendly. It outlines the basic methodology of pick up.
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i must say you broke it down in layman terms to a science homie when is the book you are writting coming out???:dance: you got skills props for this.....
 
Respect homes. I still have a long way to go before any sort of book can be written.
 
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Body Language

Body language is a basic staple in being a quality and sexy man. No amount of game witht he incorrect body language will get you the woman.

Lance Mason - Pick up 101 - Body Language (video)

http://rapidshare.com/files/251299059/Pick_up_101_-_Body_Language.rar


Style Life Academy - Body Language (vid)

http://rapidshare.com/files/251303324/Style_Life_-_Body_Language.zip


Body language
• Always appear smiley face and happy
• Always be charismatic
• Always be spontaneous in speech and actions.
• Your energy should always be higher or equal to hers. [Except when you are in comfort, lower to baritone and pause in your speech, this communicates mystery]. High energy this will result in her being happy and energetic which she will associate with you. Except when you are building comfort, tone your energy down to “smooth.”
• Stand tall, chest up, shoulders square.
• Sit and lean back, legs open, take up space.
• Never!! approach a set with stuff in your hands. Put your bottle of water in your back pocket and aporach.
• Never fold your arms
• Never put your hands in your pocket, only when you are doing cowboy stance (thumbs hooked in your pockets) and your fingers are pointing downward to your genitals.
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Ignore his left hand pay attention to how his right hand is hooked in his pocket and he is subcommunicating sex by pointing at his genitals. Have both hands do this.

• When you are in a loud environment (club, bar, party) never lean in to talk, it communicates neediness, therefore talk loudly.
• Always take the anchor position in a set e.g. stand against the wall and have women stand around you. “salsa spin one of the women out and take the anchor spot. Sit at the head of the table etc.
• When apporaching a set and in general, do not walk around anything (chair, ottoman etc) that could be moved, move it then walk in a straight line.
• Golden walk: Walk through any building(Library, Club, residence hall) like you own that mutherfucker, (slow, smile on your face, unemotionally affected by any outer stimulus.
True story: When I am walking through clubs and bars, if a woman looks at me. I pucker my lips in a smiley tone, look her up and down, return to eye contact, release the pucker with a smile, and continue walking. When I am passing back, if she looks again, I open with:


ME: "You, are, rude,"
Her: *rolls eyes* or says why?"
Me: you looked at me and did not introduced yourself. horrible!
Her: I wasn't looking at you.
Me: *pulls out cell phone and holds it like a mic* And she tells lies also.
Me: Do you know how I know you are lying?
Her: No
Me: Your eyes give you away. You were looking down and to the left. (Whether or or she was doing this it does not matter) she will not know and I don't even know if this is real, I am yet to master eye movement and what they mean)
Me: *Ha* And look, you are wven afraid to look me in the eyes *smile*
Me: I bet you were a punk in High school, you use to get picked on, didn't you? *smile*
Her: No I wasn't I was popular.
Me: This is how i will know if you were a punk or not, lets have a staring contest, I bet you will look away first. (This is a Bait: take your left eye and stair into her left eye, you are accessing her right brain that controls her emotions. You can get attraction off of this routine alone.)
*if she looks away first*
Me: I will give you a second chance to win back your dignity.
Me: Thumb wrestiling, (Bait: this allows you to kino her)
or



ME: Why are you looking at me?
ME: I am taken *smile*
Her: (Worst case sanerio) I don't want you.
Me: *pulls out cell phone and holds it like a mic* And she tells lies also.
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Advance Body Language by Cajun of Love Systems

Article 1

Hey guys, I promised myself I would commit to updating my blog regularly in the new year so here is my first article. You can find the complete article on my blog (at least part 1) and parts 2 and 3 will be added shortly, or I might save them solely for students and those of you that will be attending the superconference where I will be speaking about body language, I haven't decided yet. Either way, this ones free, enjoy.

http://cajunsspice.blogspot.com/

Advanced Body Language


Whenever students ask me how I learned to attract women with such ease I always say the same thing: Body language. I then recite a quote, something that was told to me a long time ago:

“Everything you’ll ever need to learn about women, you can learn from Rock n roll.”

A very wise man once told me this and I’m sure most of my students are just as confused as I was when I first heard it, but now several years (and many women) later I can whole-heartedly agree, it’s absolutely true.

One of the by-products of committing yourself to the study of attraction and how it works is that you start noticing things that you never noticed before. A lot of us instructors refer to this as “seeing the matrix” and it basically amounts to identifying and understanding the cause and effect of the most subtle communications; body language. It becomes somewhat of a sixth sense and it’s exceptionally difficult to turn off, especially if you’re at all an analytical person (and let’s face it, you kind of have to be if you want to get good at this stuff) This is why us instructors are so proficient at breaking down what students did right or wrong in a set simply by casually observing them. We can see the matrix.

I realized a long time ago that the secret to attraction isn’t in what you say, it’s in how you carry yourself; your presence, something controlled almost entirely by your body language. I knew that if I was to master the art of attraction, I would need to master the art of body language. Remembering the words of wisdom I had been told all those years ago, I turned to rock n roll.

I began sifting through literally hundreds of videos documenting performances of the most prolific and sexually charged rock icons in music history. I used my “sixth sense” to meticulously analyze every thing they did. I studied how they walked, how they danced, their facial expressions, even how they stood still! I started to notice a pattern, there were three qualities that nearly every sex symbol in the history of rock n roll all had in common, and it had nothing to do with their music or looks.

The first quality I recognized was immediate; sexual presence. Most of the musicians elicited this through their dancing, which wasn’t that useful since I obviously couldn’t be dancing all the time. The absolute best example of sexual presence I could find was Jim Morrison simply because he elicited tremendous sexual presence by doing very little. I hadn’t watched any videos of him performing since I was a teenager and seeing it again with my “sixth sense” absolutely blew my mind. He moved slowly, purposefully, as if to poeticize his presence. Everything seemed so calculated. After referencing what he did with a number of other sexual icons, I quickly made a list:

Advanced body language – Sexual Presence

1. Less is more.

- Move only when you need to, and react with delay.

- Slow down your movements, as if moving underwater.

- Movement should be bold, sporadic and purposeful.


2. Poeticize your presence.

- Absolutely believe that you are a spectacle to be witnessed.

- Draw attention to your every move with strong eye contact, and delayed responses.

- Always appear physically more comfortable than anyone else in the group. Lean back when standing, angle back and drape your arms when sitting.

- Your demeanor should be carefree, content; you do not want or need anything.


3. Emphasize your sexuality

- Relax your eyes. Look at Jim Morrison, Phil Lynott or even Marilyn Monroe, their eyes all carry the same look, model it.

- Slightly Purse your lips, as if you’re about to kiss them.

- Slightly tilt your head up and look down when speaking.

- Slowly study women’s faces during interaction, glance at lips periodically.

- Keep an inquisitory look of mild arousal on your face.


I began modeling my body language based on this list and the results were epic. This is the reason I stopped using routines, I no longer needed them. Everything they communicated I could now communicate with my body. Even openers started to become unnecessary as women were now opening ME more than ever, based simply on the way I stood and the look on my face. Attraction went from slowly earned to instantaneous, but there were still some gaps…

The hottest women, although attracted, would still shit test me. Not only that, but AMOGs started to become more of a problem as I was now getting a tremendous amount of female attention. This is where the second quality I found amongst sexual rock icons came in handy, and allowed me to smoothly and effortlessly diffuse any shit test or amog attempt that was thrown at me…
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Article 2

In the last article I mentioned that, after systematically analyzing the shit out of the most prolific sexual icons in history, I managed to nail down a formula of how to move in a way that exudes many of the qualities humans (that’s women AND men) go crazy for. The first quality I explained was sexual presence, and if you’ve followed and practiced what I said then you should now have no trouble successfully approaching (and being approached by) the most beautiful women in the venue without getting blown out. But that is just the beginning and you now have a new challenge to undertake; how do you rise above the inevitable onslaught of shit tests and cockblocks?


John Bonham was the greatest drummer who ever lived. Most people, critics and fans alike, would agree with that statement. However, if you ask people why he was the greatest drummer of all time then the answers start to become a little convoluted. Keith Moon could hit just as hard, and his style and timing were equally (if not more so) groundbreaking. What sets Bonzo apart from all the other great drummers past and present? The answer, of course, is the very subject of this article.

John Bonham was the greatest drummer of all time because of his ability to show tremendous restraint. It was Bonzo’s ability to hold back that made him so attractive as a drummer. Just when you thought he was going as hard as he could, he would go harder… and then harder again, his unpredictability became legendary. He would tackle the most complex rhythms with such ease and panache that you would start to question whether or not there was any limit to his ability. John Bonham never showed his limits.

Restraint, in the context of seduction, is never showing your limits. Overcoming challenges with the least visible effort, but doing so in a way that hints at something much greater. How does this relate to body language? Well, it works the same way; less is more. Once you grasp the nuances of the most subtle physical reactions things become much, much easier. I’ll give you an example.

Put yourself in this situation

You are walking home from the bar one night alone. Up ahead you see a group of 2 rough looking guys who seem to be out to cause trouble. You walk by and they begin verbally assaulting you, you keep walking until they say “Hey you fucking fagot! Look at me when I talk to you!”

What happens?

The coward will run away.
The confident man will match their aggression with his own, and hope that his hand is stronger.

The ideal man, that is, the man who has complete control, will do neither. The ideal man will simply turn around and give the 2 men a look. That look, in all its simplicity, will communicate so much more than any words could possibly achieve. Understand that when men show aggression it’s always reaction seeking. They want a reaction because they need to gauge your limit, they want to read your hand. If you ever watch 2 male lions fighting you will notice something similar;

Before the fight, the beta lion will be just outside the alpha lion’s comfort zone and will begin threatening the alpha lion with roars and turning it’s head sideways to show off it’s teeth. The alpha lion will simply stand there and watch the beta lion. No amount of aggression on the beta lion’s part will affect the alpha lion in any way, he is a rock. If the beta lion moves forward, so does the alpha lion, even more so and without delay. What happens? Unless the beta lion has strength in numbers he will almost always accept defeat, even if he is much bigger than the alpha lion. If the alpha lion shows any sort of reaction to the beta’s aggression then they will almost always fight.

So how does all of this translate out in the field?

Advanced Body Language: Restraint

1. The simple most subtle reactions are the best.

If you get shit tested hard (ie “why are you talking to us!?”) the best reaction is to not say a word. Simply smile, raise your eyebrows and cock your head back as if a 4 year old just challenged you to a fight in the most verbally insulting (and hilarious) way possible. If she admits defeat with her body language (she will look uncomfortable and not know what to say next) then you need to reward her, kino her and say “You have a lot of confidence, I like that”

2. Make them show their hand first.

Often, when someone has the confidence to make a threat to someone whose limits they don’t know, they rarely have the confidence to do it twice. So, if a persistent Amog says something insulting like “Uhh dude these girls think you’re gay, you should leave” Simply smile confidently and without missing a beat say “Excuse me?!” then immediately look at the girls with eye code that says “is this guy an idiot?” Look back at the guy in a way that demands a reaction from him. His only option will be to ante up the aggression, in which case, read on…

3. Actively encourage challengers

Nothing is more frightening to a man than an opponent who actively seeks, and seems to enjoy aggression thrown at him. Be confident in your ability to rise above, always remain calm, cool and collected. An unreactive man is a man who cannot be read, and therefore cannot be beaten.

Amog: “Don’t listen to this guy, he sounds like a fucking idiot”
You: *Big smile* “Im sorry, did you just call me a FUCKING IDIOT?” Hold eye contact, actively expect a response. If he maintains his frame, read on…

4. Never admit defeat

Never secede from their advances. Always make them ante up their aggression. If it gets to the point where you think they are going to make a scene (which rarely EVER happens) then simply smile, pat them on the back and say “You’re cool dude, you got a lot of confidence, I respect that” this will actually make people like you MORE. True alpha males respect other men who can stand up against them, the same is true for women. This is why you should NEVER admit defeat, take them as far as they can go then respect them for it, everybody wins.


Now that you have the body language of a rock star, and the confidence (through restraint) of an 800lb gorilla you should have no problem getting the girl right?

Actually, there’s still one piece missing from the puzzle, and it’s the most important piece.

With the advice I have given you so far you should be able to successfully sarge just about any set, and attract just about any woman, but this is advanced body language! There must be more! How do you go about attracting anyone, and I mean anyone! There is more to physical attraction than sexual presence and restraint, the third quality separates the players from the Legends. What secret did Don Juan, Cleopatra, and Casanova employ to make them so irresistible?
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Article 3

Alright, so in the past 2 articles I’ve gone over how to exude sexual presence, alpha behaviour, and restraint using only your body language. Ok great, it’s been 3 months, so now you can compete with the naturals right? Damn right you can! But unfortunately for you, once you’re at this level naturals start appearing much, much more and if you’re going to stand out from even them, then you’re going to need something that only the TOP seducers throughout history have mastered.


Aura & Mystique.


So what is it?

Aura and mystique is achieved by communicating to women, through non-verbal communication, that you are a man of exceptionally rare quality.

That’s the most logical way I can explain it if I was to define it. I came across this quality while reading about the great seducers; Casanova, Don Juan, Cleopatra, and Rudolf Valentino, they all were described by their lovers as “having an aura” or “Sense of mystique”. So how did they do it? How did they communicate that quality to their lovers? Well, all of the great seducers have their own unique way of displaying this quality...

Casanova would be very clear and open with his sexual intent. He would act on this intent without reserve, and communicate to women that he was simply in love with the act of love.

Cleopatra used her ingenuity and theatrics to seduce. She would plan complex entrances and stage theatrics in order to immortalize herself in the minds of her lovers.

Rudolf Valentino was overtly sexual with his movements, especially his eyes, and seduced millions by the wanton way in which he treated the heroines in his films, something very out of the ordinary for the time.

These are just a few examples, and as you study more and more seducers you find that every one of them have their own special way of standing out from the competition of the time.

So how do we take these lessons in the history of seduction and apply it to our current day interactions?

Advanced Body Language – Aura & Mystique

1. Dress the part.

All of the above seducers dressed in a way that stood out from the competition. Some were astonishingly flashy, some quite unremarkable for today’s standards (An open shirt anyone?)

I’m not going to lie; pea cocking makes a huge difference in how you’re perceived. The trick that most people don’t get (And the main reason you often see at least 1 awkward looking guy wearing a fur hat and eyeliner in any given bar) is that pea cocking only makes you LOOK LIKE someone with mystique, it does not GIVE YOU IT. As well, how you’re dressed and how you act have to be in line with each other (congruency) otherwise you’re going to look like a fake and get blown out or even made fun of. You can’t dress like Mystery without a reason or a personality that goes along with it. Cleopatra wanted people to think she was divine, Rudolf wore tight pants and exposed chests for sex appeal. I have long hair, tight pants, dress in black and leather because I play the villain, so I make sure to dress the part. Figure out who you are and then dress in a slightly stylized version of that. If you’re confused as to *who* you are, identity is something we go over in our seminars (and 1on1s) so if you’ve taken one, you should already know.

2. Make an entrance!

This isn’t as hard as it sounds; don’t worry about staging something extravagant, often, the simpler it is, the better. Your “entrance” basically amounts to a first impression. I’ve actually started asking the women I’ve been with when it was when they realized they were attracted to me, and nearly all of them say something similar, which has given me some insight into how powerful first impressions can be. Here is an actual transcript from a recent one:

Cajun: *Above question*
Rachel: Oh right away.
Cajun: Really? I’m not *that* attractive.
Rachel: No no, it wasn’t that, it was just like you were this funny guy who didn’t give a shit, and I remember looking at you and thinking “He’s a *bad* one!” and then as soon as I thought that, you looked at me…
Cajun: Awwww
Rachel: Haha shut up! Actually, the way you looked at me was pretty intense too.
Cajun: Intense?
Rachel: Most guys just smile, or get nervous and look away when I notice them, you locked eyes with me and smirked like you knew that I was thinking dirty thoughts about you or something, even though I wasn’t!
Cajun: Yes you were, don’t lie.
Rachel: I wasn’t! But after you did that it’s all I could think about! That’s why I introduced myself a little later, I *had* to meet you.

The above was a girl I met at a party. And my “entrance”, as you can see, was simply a look. My clothes and body language got her attention, but it was the “look” that made the impression on her. Here’s another transcript:

Cajun: *same question*
Isabelle: When you walked up to me.
Cajun: It was a sexy walk?
Isabelle: No, I just noticed you in the bar and you looked over at me and smirked, I thought “Ehh..he’s ok looking” but then you furrowed your eyes like you knew what I was thinking and without looking away you slowly walked over to me and said something really sexy, guys NEVER do that.
Cajun: Do you remember what I said?
Isabelle: Something like “You can’t look at me like that” but it wasn’t what you said, you gave off this confidence, like I remember feeling that even if I wanted to reject you it wouldn’t even have worked, it was weird, but sexy weird. When you left, my friends were like “Who the fuck was THAT guy?” You made a pretty good impression.

The way that I opened this woman was the same way I open every woman that looks at me in a bar. Goes like this:

Girl looks at me
I look at her, HOLD eye contact.
If she holds for more than 2-3 seconds I walk over slowly without looking away.
I get in close and in the most seductive voice I can muster I say “You can’t look at me like that and not say anything”

One of the most important elements here is the *way* that you look at the women. This is hard to explain in text, and I’d post a picture of the look but it wouldn’t help too much because it’s not really the look itself that’s important, but the message the look gives. Essentially you should be looking at them like “I get a funny joke that you don’t get”. That’s the easiest way I can explain it. Couple that with a few glances at their lips and some flirty kino and you have yourself a recipe for a sexy first impression.

3. Don’t give a shit.

Not giving a shit is one of the easiest ways to stand out from nearly every other guy that has approached your sets in the past. The reason is simple; most guys care what women think of them. This is actually a pretty unattractive trait, I don’t think women would admit it, but it is. It says a bunch of negative things which you don’t really need to know other than “they’re bad”. I’m assuming all of you care what women think of you when you approach, that’s ok, you can’t really just turn that off, the trick is to convince the women that you don’t give a shit, not yourself, at least initially. So how do you do it?

- SMILE: Not one of those “Look how happy I am!” grins, keep it cool, it should be a “I know exactly what I’m doing, and you can’t rattle me” type of grin. As well, whenever you don’t know what to say, just smile and look at them like you get something they don’t get. I mentioned this earlier and it’s probably one of the most powerful looks you can give. Practice it until you get it right, it’s a little different for everyone.

- SLOW DOWN: Don’t talk so fast, and try to pause for no reason often, followed by one of those smiles you’ve been practicing. If they ask you a question look at them and smile for a second or two before responding, as if they just asked a dirty question.

- LOOK COMFORTABLE: This pretty much comes down to locking in. Think about where you want to be locked in as you’re approaching the sets. Every good bar is set up in a way that there should always be something to lean on or sit on, so there are no excuses. I have actually leaned on PEOPLE in the past when there was nothing to lean on.


And the last most important rule for aura & mystique

4. Have complete confidence in your mastery of social interactions.

You should seem like someone who could never be uncomfortable, no matter what the situation. If something happens and you don’t know what to say just look comfortable and smile or make fun of the fact that its awkward and blame it on them. Always appear as if you’re one step ahead of everyone., be James Bond.
Who wants to change their abilities with women and dating FOREVER?
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Something I wrote in response to a PM I received

Three basic keys to pick up:
1. Knowing Yourself
2. Understanding Social Dynamics, and Social Psychology
3. Understanding Female Psychology


Know Thy Self
In terms of body language, the key is to emulate the body language of a confident man. Confidence is not a natural behavior, there is no gene for confidence. PUA theory argues that confidence comes with success. There is no such thing as failure infield (when picking up women)there is only ways of finding out what works and what doesn't. Always keep the mindset that you are the coolest, best looking person in a building, you are successful and nobody, not even Denzel Washington or President Obama is cooler than you. As you begin to think that way you begin to sincerely believe that.

Ever notice when you have a woman, other women always want you? Well that's because of two main things, one pre-selection (women want men who are wanted by other women). But also you are confident because you know you will get pussy, at the end of the day, from your woman at home; so if you get rejected it does not matter. Get that same confidence and you will always get women. Additionally, solve your inner conflicts(there is a thread on BGOL) called "eBooks that will make a better you" hit that up) download and watch the video "the secret." Also download the audio on inner game by Hypnotic located in the thread. Get an exciting life if you don't have one, try new foods, travel, do things you never done before, listen to new music, did I mention travel, if you can't make it outside the USA, travel for city to city, read like you never read before, read everything (comics, magazine, books, articles, fiction, nonfiction everything!!). The end goal of pick up is not pussy it's to be a quality man with an attractive lifestyle. Never argue with women! everything she does, even when she acts up is cute. "You are so cute when you are being mean" you say to her, "that turns me on, stop turning me on."

She will test you, to see how strong you are (shit test), there are many ways to handle a shit test. One way, smile and say something ridiculous. "Your blazer look like you bought it at Wal-Mart" or "you are a pervert," she says, she is shit testing to see if you will flinch, and if you flinch there is no pussy in store for you. Incorrect response: "no I did not buy it from Wal-Mart it's Louis Vutton," or "No I am not a pervert." Correct response: "The girls love sweet jack's chocolates." She then says "what?" You say "oh I thought we were talking about things that made no sense." Same could be said if she says she has a boyfriend. "I have a boyfriend," she says. You then reply "I once kicked a marshan in the balls."

Always believe that women want to fuck you. In terms of competing, you are an alpha man, you do not compete with others, you only compete with yourself to make yourself a better person. You never externally validate, no job, no degree, no amount of clothes, possessions, money, or women make you great. You are great because you know it and feel it, because you are the greatest thing since the invention of the wheel. Nothing outside, nothing, nothing, nothing outside of you makes you great. You only internally validate, therefore nothing can affect your emotions unless you allow it to do so. You are always inc control of yourself.

You must always lead women, in life as well in the bedroom. Be a leader and a team player, never a follower. Be decisive! Don't be binary! So what is binary? That means that everything has to be your way, you are super alpha asshole. If alpha is on a scale of 1 to 5, you should be a 3.5. Five would be the-Ike-Turner-as-depicted-in-the-movie-asshole i.e. telling her when and where to hang out, who to hand with, what lipstick she should wear. Moreover, if she ask you to help her wash dishes, you say something like "Am I the bitch, why should I fucking wash dishes?" That the binary guy that you don't want to be. Nor do you want to be a one or two on the scale i.e. a super punk. Remember women have fathers, they don't want a father, they want a leader.

Understanding Social Dynamics, and Social Psychology
This is a vast topic because there is so much you have to learn. Women are more socially aware and internally calibrated than men. When you tell a story about your cat died and you cried. On one hand you are logically telling her that your cat died, she is either interpreting that you are an emotional man or you are an animal lover. She is all about sub communications. Therefore to attract her you need to sub communicate the five alpha male qualities. E.g. You tell a story about the time you kicked some dude in his chest for messing with your sister. This sub communicates that you are a protector of love ones. Also, you tell a story about how you and your friend go into Starbucks and steal air fresheners out the bathroom this sub communicates that you are a successful risk taker...etc.

Her friends opinion of her is more important than anything in the world. When you meet her in public with a friend you must first win over the friends before you win her over. You don't and they will pull her away. Never embarrass a woman in front of other people, don't try to kiss her in front of a family member during the pickup. Ask her friends permission to borrow her in the venue after you won them over and take her into isolation to build comfort and qualify her. As a non white man you need to understand that you are not at the top of the social ladder particularly in the Western world. Understand women cannot fuck you right away as they want to because she believe there will be social repercussions. She never wants to be labeled a slut his is one of the reasons why you have to lead at all times. Women that are not of your "race" will fuck you but they are afraid that there will be social repercussions i.e. her family may disown her, your family may not accept her, her friends may not like you etc. You can overcome most of these thoughts sub communications. Let's assume she is white. You can tell a story saying: "my super-Irish-ex-girlfriend, I called her super Irish because she always wore green, anyway, she use to come to the house all the time and play video games with my little brother." This sub communicates that the family accepted a white girl in the home. Some more sub communications you must do with every woman are: 1) you are non judgmental, so she will fuck you with ease and fuck you like a champ, not worrying if you will judge her for loving or being sexually aggressive in the past or present. Also, that you are discrete, so she knows that you don't kiss and tell, that you are not a liar. You are not clingy, that she is sexually aggressive with a dude she likes (point to yourself as you say that about her). Most of these can be communicated through stories. You must frame her, to get her to do what you want. Framing, have you ever been told that you were smart by a particular teacher? She kept telling you were smart and you began to believe it, what she did was framed you. Now imagine telling a woman she loves sex what and she begins to believe you, imaging the treasures she would give to you.

Here is a routine that I made up that sexually frames her. I am still working on this one, feel free to use it after you attracted her and give me some feedback:

Catholic School Girl Routine
Her: I don't know about ....
You: You don't know these things? I will have to teach you, but first, you will have to put on your catholic school uniform, short skirt, high heels, and ribbon bows. Then I will teach you. I will then ask a series of questions, if you get the answers wrong, I will spank you, if you get the answers right I will still spank you.
Her: *LOL* Why?
You: Because you are a bad girl, and you have that predatory look in your eyes right now, the one that says you are going to devour me. *High Five*

Younger women sometimes refuse to talk to you in front of their parents, my wing and I noticed this when we went to a college graduation sarging...LOL. Women will give value to a man who is giving the most value to them. If you are talking to her and the boyfriend comes along, play it cool, give her value and if he tries to diss you she will defend you. There is no reason to immediately leave when he comes in.

Understanding Female Psychology

You must assume some truisms about all women. Some are: between the ages of 18 and 30 she wants an alpha male, some who is fun, adventurous, giving, and a leader. After 30-35 she will find a beta who is a good provider to settle down with and manipulate. If her boyfriend is not alpha she will replace him for you who is alpha. Every woman secretly wants to be lead by a strong alpha man. And many have told me that they want to be led. Your height, weight, looks or money rearly matters in getting girls. Women do not want tall dark and handsome men (TDH), they are attracted to the feelings that TDH men give them.

Everything you tell her, she never hears the logic of it, she hears the sub communications. You tell her that "I had a lap dance by three women when I was in college" she interprets that you are preselected by other women. She is not a logical creature, never try to reason with her, speak to her emotions. She says "I hate those whores in my yoga class," yet she goes to the class every week, logical respones is "then quit the class." No, do not say that, instead speak to her emotions. "Why do you FEEL that way?"

Download and listen to Vin Dicarlo's "Female Psychology Exposed." A woman prefers a man who wants her for more than her beauty. She loves to fuck more than you. She cannot make the first move, you always have to lead because she is attracted to status, leadership, and power. She never wants to seem like a slut that's why she goes through a check list in her head before she fucks you. She loves to be validated, rarely to never validate her. E.g. "she get up on a table at a club and dance so everybody can look at her," she says "tell me I look good." This is all for validation, she constantly seeks it. No matter how beautiful and high status she is she wants a leader. Rarely to never complement her on her beauty, I have a personal rule I never complement her on her beauty until I am inside of her. Everyone complements her on her beauty so you are just another customer in the line when you do this. You need to complement her on her on inner qualities. E.g. "The way you have you goals all planned out, or the way you handled that situation, that's sexy, I dig that."
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METHODIST said:
Body Language

Body language is a basic staple in being a quality and sexy man. No amount of game witht he incorrect body language will get you the woman.

Lance Mason - Pick up 101 - Body Language (video)

http://rapidshare.com/files/251299059/Pick_up_101_-_Body_Language.rar


Style Life Academy - Body Language (vid)

http://rapidshare.com/files/251303324/Style_Life_-_Body_Language.zip
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A Better You

The end goal of pick up is not vagina, its becomming a quality man. Start reading! Those books highlighted in red , are the ones generally recommended by various dating Gurus, community standards if you will. This is a list I put together. Lots of stuff missing that I wish I could add in there.

Read the Nancy Friday highlighted if you believe women don't think about raunchy sex as much. I LOLed at the part about fantasies about black males.


How to Induce Hypnotism
Critical Thinking
I_Ching_-_The_Book_Of_Changes
John.Gray.Men.are.from.Mars.Women.are.from.Venus
Sun Tzu - The Art Of War
The Science of Getting Rich
A True History of Witchcraft
Alexandrian Book of Shadows
Bhagavad Gita (English)
Book Of The Samurai
Brad P. - Brad's Fashion Bible
Buddhism In A Nutshell
Buddhist Meditation and Depth Psychology
Business Etiquette For Dummies
Chairman Mao Quotations
Che Guevara - Man And Socialism
Countdown_To_French
Egyptian Book of the Dead
Flatten_Your_Abs_Manual
Gary Kasparov - Kasparov Teaches Chess
Grappling Gameplan - Workbook
Hand Combat
hinduism
How To Control Your Brain At Will
Karl Marx - Communist Manifesto
Lee Jenkins - Female Orgasm Black Book
M. Gary Neuman - Truth About Cheating
Massage techniques
Master of Body Language
Men's Health Magazine - Sexpertise. Secrets of Tot
Miyamoto Musashi -The Book of Five Rings - 46p
Nancy Friday - Forbidden Flowers - 301p
Nancy Friday - Men In Love (V1.2) - 571p
Nancy Friday - My Secret Garden
Nancy Friday - Women On Top - 449p
Napoleon Hill - Think And Grow Rich
Psychology - A Self-Teaching Guide
How to get the truth out of anyone
Quran
Ralph Thorn - Knife Traning
Richard Dawkins - The God Delusion
Ross Jeffries - Female Psychic Attack
SocratesVsJesus
Stephane Hemon - Intro to Chakras
Strunk, William - The Elements Of Style 4th Ed.
Sun Tzu's - Art Of War
The Art of Attention
The Cologne Guide
The Science of Getting Rich
Thought Power
Timothy Leary - The Psychedelic Experience - A Man
Tolle, Eckhart - The Power of Now
Tony Buzan - The Mind Map Book
US Navy SEAL Physical Fitness Guide
Vocabulary_Spelling_Success_4e
Wine For Dummies
CHEROKEE PROPHECY
Eskimo Prophesies
Hopi Prophecy
The.Procrastinators.Guide.to.Success

http://rapidshare.com/files/253915343/A_Better_You.zip
 
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BUILDING

Gentlemen, I plan on starting a yahoo group. It's this simple you sign up for a yahoo address. enter your avatar name. as your real name while you signing up for yahoo address. so you will only be known as that name in the group this helps to protect your identity. You will only use said email address for choping up game. Not for your facebook or personal account.

Ex: mine would be Methodist.

You would choose a name that represents your finest qualities as a person.

Second we would exchange e-mails: the contents of our e-mail we will be a FREE FLOWING RESPRCTFUL, HONEST, CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICIQUE of questions and ideas.

EX:

* So I was talking to this girl infield and X happened what should I do? say?

* I got blown out of set, after I kissed her, I thought she was feeling me, why?

* I came up with XXX routine? how should I transiton into it?

* I just read XX book thats really good for self improvement, I scanned pages 147 - 152 and the entire chapter 6 to share with the brothers.

* Where in XX city is a good place to hang on a Wed night?

* X woman in my stable is pushing for a relationship, she is doing a takeaway, should I next her?

* here is my lay report, I met her last tuesday and these were the steps I took full close 3 days later

Additionally, I regularly chop up game with, 7/8 other people via telephone. 1 I know for ten years, 1 i helped raise, 2 of whom I grew up with, 3 is from the net who I never met or know their real names. one of which is from BGOL. I simply stated the above paragraph to let the brothers know my level of comittment.

Any thoughts, anyone interested? if so post here or hit me via pm
 
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This is an excerpt of the NLP bundle

Magic of rapport

http://www.sendspace.com/file/lsyiz7

The above was a great lil eye opener for me. I got into NLP the same time I started to study game and male female interaction.

All my life I have been book smart and somewhat street smart. What I mean by that is you couldn't hustle me but I never appreciated the nuances of the streets. The ease at which street business converts over to real business.

What the above article helped me appreciate was the need to match other people in order to lead them.

My style to help 'reason' with someone was to bludgeon them over the head with facts and figures. My Idol was Spock and the briliance of pure vulcan like logic.

Needless to say I was constantly confused and lost when my facts and figures were left on the side of the road like last nights white castle on top of 5'oclock vodka. This was the key excerpt that help me realize my folly:

Pacing Beliefs And Opinions
Keep in mind that the goal of pacing is to be able to lead the other person in the direction you want him to go.

Here come a fine technique from the repertory of the art of persuasion: Validate something other people know to be true, and then lead them to consider and finally to accept other possibilities.

However well intentioned and correct our efforts to enlighten others might be, they are doomed to be jeopardised from start if we begin by informing the erratic that they are in error. The most likely result of such a course is defensiveness. To an extent our reality is made up of our beliefs, therefore, to tamper with people’s beliefs is to tamper with their reality. Tread lightly. Pace the belief and then lead with your suggestion.

You should not compromise your integrity or pretend to believe in something you do not. Find some way of validating another part of their belief or some experience of theirs.

As Thomas Jefferson once said, “In matters of principle, stand firm like a rock; in matters of opinion flow like a river.”

Find a point of agreement on which to build your case, then if necessary move into areas of disagreement or misunderstanding.

Remember ;It’s much easier and much more effective to move from agreement to agreement than from disagreement to agreement.
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One of the best things I learned from mystery was his take on being interesting. His take is if you say one interesting thing to a girl she thinks oh thats interesting. You say 3 or more interesting things to a girl in a row it becomes your interesting.

[flash]http://www.youtube.com/v/wCtpetkGXRE[/flash]

The same can be said of buiding rapport. You validate three or more of a person core beliefs their reality swings in line with yours. Than you are in a wonderful position to lead them to another way of thinking or percieving things.

I'll discuss two people or groups of people use this to a T. The 1st is politicians. What do everyone say about most politicians? Oh there just saying what the people (or there base) wants to hear. DUH!!! thats how they win the peoples vote.

We just had a prime example in the past presidential elections. McCain, even tho his claim to fame as a maverick came from Disagreeing with the repubs, rode that because thats what the people wanted to hear. They appeal to the base and than once rapport is built they swing there votes to their side. People got on Obama for giving kudo's to a sports team that wasn't from chicago, once again DUH! He was winning those people over and building rapport with the voter's.

The other group that uses this Is Jehovah's witnesses. Not as efficiently as others they are given scripts that they use when going door to door. Of course when I was a JW, I didn't realize the nature of the words I was saying, in hind sight, I can see how the script served to win people over to your beliefs.

When a witness comes to your door they normally open with a presentation like: 'we are talking to our neighbors who are worried about the increasing crime in our area.' See how this opening targets a specific (while at the same time broad) group. By saying neighbors they assume a position of familiarity with the house holder. Introducing a subject that most people worry about, brings them even closer and lastly by offering a discussion about it, makes it SEEM like an interchange of thought and idea solutions are going to take place.

When interacting with people, whether for business or pleasure it is important to build a rapport with your audience. Find a common ground (actually several) get them to agree and acknowledge that you all have this common ground, than you are in a better position to lead them into your reality and onto your side.
 
KCDevil said:
Barely Legal Sex Slave? :eek: Sounds like a porno. :lol:

Have you checked this out Methodist, and what's your opinion of it?
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There are very few audio or video I have not checked out that I post and this one of them along with Vin Dicarlo's red pill . If someone can post a review I would gladly appreciate it.

I saw your reply to HueyFreeman, but could you elaborate on why you think it's "scary"?
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Scary is the incorrect term. Basically, I have not fully come into the understanding and totally embodied the notion of how powerful NLP is; I am still shit amazed at the fact that one can have such power.
 
darth frosty said:
This is an excerpt of the NLP bundle

Magic of rapport
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What you posted was brilliant. Spock4life!

This can be done with body language also. Assuming familarity with the person is one of the keys to building fast rapport e.g. mirroring.

I don't like mirroring a woman's body language though. Hypnotica recommends that one can even mirror her breathing patterns and tonality. I prefer to leading and let her mirror my tonality. One my favorite parts of pick up is when she gets the doggy dinner bowl look on her face. she is totally into you, and she starts to mirror you and she is begging for validation "tell me more, do it again, let me see"

Here are some practical examples I use in field:

"Do you remember when we were kids..." then I tell a story about my childhood. Its obvious cause we were never children friends.

If I approach and they say something I agree with I hug them.

If in social circle game they are a friend of a friend and I eject then return, I return and yell out their name like they and I are great friends "Venussss!"

When opening: "Hey let me ask you a question," if she jumps, I respond "did I scare you?' "Come here" and I hug her, "don't be scared little girl." Were you the type who use be afraid of the boogie man in the closet when you were younger? Are you still scared of things in the closet?
 
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This talk of NLP reminds me of something I wrote for my friend

Getting into state and Anchoring women.

Ivan Pavlov is a Nobel prize winning psychologist form the early 1900s, who carried out an experiment in "classical conditioning" on a dog. An experiment that's relevant to pick up as a result, the term 'Pavlov's dog' has become a house hold name. His experiment was simple and brilliant. Pavlov fed a dog at certain time during the day, before each meal he ring a bell, as a result the dog knew it was feeding time. After some time Pavalov would simply ring the bell without serving the meal and the dog would salivate. In technical terms he anchored a stimulus (bell) to a desired response (salivating). So how does this relate to pick up?

There are two a main ways:
1) Anchoring yourself
2) Anchoring her

Anchoring yourself/Getting into state
Let's explore anchoring one's self and getting into state. Getting into state goes beyond pick up and can be used when you are depressed or feeling down, when you have to meet with a future employer etc. In order to anchor one's self, you can listen to your favorite high energy music that pumps you up, think of your happy place, think of a happy thought form the past that for the most part involves you alone, and anchor it to a body movement. So for example, I think of how happy, I was when I won a scholarship, and some other childhood memories, as I am think those happy thoughts, I tap my jaw twice while listening to my favorite high energy music. I did this for weeks, thus I successfully link a desired result (feeling of happiness) to a stimulus (jaw tapping). After a while, when I am out at a club or bar and I feel very low energy, all I have to do is tap my jaw twice and I get into state. Voila immediate happiness!

Anchoring her
There are hundreds of NLP techniques for anchoring a woman, I will only gloss over a few of the ideas here. Anchoring feelings of happiness from a woman's past can be triggered at anytime and she will associate those feelings of happiness with you. Let say as you begin to build a deep emotional connection with a woman, you ask her to think back to the happiest period in her life. As she tells you about that moment, you begin to tap your fingers on your knee or turn the ring on your finger, or rub the side of your face etc. You then ask questions like, if you could have that feeling every day in your life, would you choose that or a serene state total bliss? That particular question is a double bind i.e. she believes she has choice but both choices lead to the desired effect.

As she go on exploring the feeling, you say to her, tell me more? You are feeling that feeling right now aren't you? You say this as you nod your head signaling yes. More than likely she will say yes as you continue to induce the stimulus. Later on in the pick up, you can execute the stimulus and get the desired effect.

For more advanced NLP, I recommend David Dangealo and Hypnotica. I also suggest you learn solid game before you learn short cuts like NLP.
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Gentlemen pay attention, the above is a topic I created in the women's section. The interviews is specifically focused on leadership as an attractive quality, however what I have noticed is that women keep revealing other qualities that attract them. Feel free to join the conversation and ask them direct questions.

Based on the interviews I carried out via telephone and im here are some things they keep repeating

1. A man should have a future plan and vision.
2. project his voice
3. body language
4. social savyness

We know these things already but thats what makes us good social scientists we gather data and test theories. And most importantly we build on what we know and grow as people.

so how can we communicate these qualities. through stories. Pay close attention, your stories should not be about the attractive qualities that atract women but rather subcommunicate those stories.

let's examine Quality #1 vision and how to do it correctly. ATTN Computer Geeks, say thank you in advance. your job never look so attractive :lol:

Her: What do you do?
You: When I was younger, I would always sit and take things apart. I once took apart my mother's telephone to she how it would work. Plus I never told my mom this but I wanted to see the little man inside that use to talk to me. *smile* [shows inquisitiveness and you became what you wanted to be in life]
You: Sit tight, I'll tell you what I do, this actually has to do with what I do as a career. [subtle instruction, keeps her from getting bored]
Her: ok
You: Do you use computers?
Her: Yes I do.
You: Well there is are 2 main cables in every desk top called IDE cables, one isblack and the other is white. they connect the main circuit called the mother board to the hard drive or your CD players. [demonstration of intelligence, attractive quality]
You: can you guess what those cables are called, keep in mind one is black and the other is white?
Her: No
You: Guess? [instruction to make her work for you]
Her: Michael jackson cables, *laughs*
You: No silly, but thats funny, thats a good guess [reward her by telling her she is funny or with a high five or a playful push on the shoulder]
You: one is called the master and the other is called the slave, isn't that crazy? [ question to reengage her and have her participating in the convo]
Her: Wow, it is.
You: Yes it is, well I work with slaves and masters all day.
You: do you know what I do now?
Her: You're a computer technician
You: Yes I am an engineer, *high five or kiss her hand* This girl is smart, I like that. [shows that you are interested in her for something other than her beauty]
You: You know, in two years, I am plan on opening a few computer businesses using my skills. Therefore, I am going back to school in a year for a business degree [demonstration of a solid vision (attractive quality)]
You: so tell me what did you want to be when you were a little girl? and don't say a bull fighter. *laughs* all my cool life stories are not for free, you have to reciprocate.[eliciting values from her]
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