Pepa Regrets Not Dating Will Smith Because He Wasnt Thug Enough

[LoneStar29]

Perfect? No. Smart? Yes.

As many double standards as there are out there that favor women, don't tell me your upset about one that might favor men.

A man can be a "whore" or a "jackass" and at the end of the day still get women because women want different things from that man. His value is not in appearance moreso than what can he do to provide. A woman cannot be a "whore" or a jackass because men are choosing primarily on looks. We are the providers, looks gets our attention at first.

A man doesn't bear the wear and tear that a woman does.

If all women got it right the first time, it would force a lot of sorry niggas to step their games up. Though they should be doing that already.

Oooooooooooooooor those sorry brothas would lie even more

I can see your point sorta however I do feel it is very unfair cuz everybody makes mistakes it is human

 

[smoovejazz]

I was just addressing the fact that some men on here act like if you were cool dude you are automatically a thug or loser and some idiot. I was just sayin that all popular guys didnt end up at UPs or on the corner or pumping gas.

Yes. Some Black women want thugs. Some white women want rockers and bikers. Its the same thing. The bad boy mentality. All women dont want these types. I just think its funny how some of these guys are still obviously bitter that back in the day they couldnt pull a chick. They chose to blame thugs and bad boys instead of realizing it was them. Alot of the times the guys they say are thugs and bad boys are just regular dudes with more swag than them.

If a chick wants a thug why would you want her anyway? I know plenty of good Black women who would never ever date a thug.

The difference is, white women grow out of that mentality, while some (not all, so don't jump down my throat - I mean enough to be significant enough to be noticed) Black women continue with the phase into their thirties and even forties...

 

[hova son]

To add another factor if Tupac was alive Jada wouldn't even be married to Will Smith. You can't tell me otherwise

Ironic don't you think

 

[BVF]

To add another factor if Tupac was alive Jada wouldn't even be married to Will Smith. You can't tell me otherwise

Ironic don't you think

Tupac was NOT a thug...He just played one on TV and I've heard Jada Pinkett talk about how "intelligent" Tupac was...

However, It is very "Ironic" is that the song they're playing in that video is a WILL SMITH song.

 

[followup]

right. And she definitely represents the majority of black women. Not just female rappers who were trying to have the same cred as the popular male rappers of the time.

***sarcasm for those who missed it***

 

[BMG]

didnt Pepa used to go with Heavy D back then? i never knew Heavy was a thug

 

[LordSinister]

I guess it was all an act, because Pep sure has changed since then.

Women choose who to fuck, and who are the fathers of the black race. No matter how good a black man is, a woman is going to sexually reproduce with who she chooses.

A lot of these females choose poorly and the whole race suffers. If you were more discriminating, there wouldn't be so many new bitch ninjas born every year.

 

[ron_mexico]

So we pretty much have to be perfect and get it right from jump whereas ya'll can act like dogs and jackasses for 40 years and still be ok ... how convenient for ya'll

If all women got it right the first time around about 3/4 of ya'll wouldn't get pussy

It is hardly convenient for a man to have to wait for his 30's to be considered desirable.
It is only natural for a man to look for a woman who would have appreciated him all along.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

Oooooooooooooooor those sorry brothas would lie even more

I can see your point sorta however I do feel it is very unfair cuz everybody makes mistakes it is human

That's why I said be smart, not perfect. No one is perfect, but using discretion can get you farther in the longrun.

And you see my point, you just don't want to admit it.

 

[Ill Paragraph]

so she gave up THIS brotha.........

4 THIS nigga...........

dumb bitch. looks like she took an.........

Peace,

Traded in Hitch for Treach.

Funny shit man..

 

[LoneStar29]

That's why I said be smart, not perfect. No one is perfect, but using discretion can get you farther in the longrun.

And you see my point, you just don't want to admit it.

I did say I see your point ... sorta lol

 

[stick.man]

Not just Black women but all Black women. They act like Pep is representative of all BW. She is a hoodrat and is speaking from a hoodrat POV. Most chicks I know dont date thugs.

I said it earlier. White women love their rockers and bikers. Its the same as BW and thugs. All women dont want that type but a good number do. I say dont be mad at the chicks and the so called thugs or bad boys they date. Find a woman who is looking for a dude like you. Instead these dudes stay bitter for ten years talking about " I saw this chick I was in love with but she only dated thugs. Now shes fat and or broke with kids. Ha Ha" Yall niggas still scarred and bitter. Get over Keisha Williams from 11 grade that gave the real nigga some pussy and rejected you for being a lame. Move on. Damn.

This dude speaks the truth. Alot of dudes feel like because they are educated and not a thug women should be throwing themselves at them. Women might not want you because you are ugly, fat, short, broke, dumb, lame, etc. Get over it, there are too many single women to be out there angry.

 

[LoneStar29]

This dude speaks the truth. Alot of dudes feel like because they are educated and not a thug women should be throwing themselves at them. Women might not want you because you are ugly, fat, short, broke, dumb, lame, etc. Get over it, there are too many single women to be out there angry.

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[ron_mexico]

This dude speaks the truth. Alot of dudes feel like because they are educated and not a thug women should be throwing themselves at them. Women might not want you because you are ugly, fat, short, broke, dumb, lame, etc. Get over it, there are too many single women to be out there angry.

Most cats are commenting about how funny it be deemed desirable later on in life. Not about woman not desiring them at all.

But at the same time, most dudes realize these same woman don't actually really like them. They want to be saved.

 

[richlove]

To add another factor if Tupac was alive Jada wouldn't even be married to Will Smith. You can't tell me otherwise

Ironic don't you think

Don't get it twisted...Jada even admitted she thought Will was corny at first and she probably really still does...a real down ass chick doesn't dis dudes for being a lil proper or not being a thug. Most of them are just squares that want to be hard, cool, or street vicariously through the dude they are with...the same way a high school chick messes with the dude with the nicest car so she can ride shotgun. But if some real shit goes down they will shit themselves and be Swazy like J-Lo hauled ass away from Diddy when Shine let em fly in that club. Jada only married Will cause she got pregnant and now the arrangement is working so they riding with it.

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

Don't get it twisted...Jada even admitted she thought Will was corny at first and she probably really still does...a real down ass chick doesn't dis dudes for being a lil proper or not being a thug. Most of them are just squares that want to be hard, cool, or street vicariously through the dude they are with...the same way a high school chick messes with the dude with the nicest car so she can ride shotgun. But if some real shit goes down they will shit themselves and be Swazy like J-Lo hauled ass away from Diddy when Shine let em fly in that club. Jada only married Will cause she got pregnant and now the arrangement is working so they riding with it.

But look at the timing: Jada got will right before he was going to be a superstar. And Will just coming off a divorce seemed to me to be eager to be with hoes. Pepa met Will before all the fame of the tv and clearly before movies.

If anything I feel sad for Will, because he seems to have a gold digging but very understanding woman.

 

[Count23]

Umm where's the source?

 

[hova son]

Tupac was NOT a thug...He just played one on TV and I've heard Jada Pinkett talk about how "intelligent" Tupac was...

However, It is very "Ironic" is that the song they're playing in that video is a WILL SMITH song.

Im not saying pac was a thug im just showing how jada probablysettled for will since pac not living

 

[LeroyDibiase]

I did say I see your point ... sorta lol

Ain't no sorta.

 

[onyxfemme]

And she was married to Prince Markie D from the Fat Boys

didnt Pepa used to go with Heavy D back then? i never knew Heavy was a thug

 

[ahovah]

Yeah that's what lousy bitches do. Fuck thugs in their prime, then when their 30 and all their left with is a worn out, throwaway garbage bag pussy, they start wondering where they went wrong.

i approve this message

 

[mc2]

Thats what that bitch gets..

[flash]http://www.youtube.com/v/5CHKhophIik&hl=en&fs=1&[/flash]

 

[Naha-Nago]

So we much have to be perfect and get it right from jump whereas ya'll can act like dogs and jackasses for 40 years and still be ok ... how convenient for ya'll

If all women got it right the first time around about 3/4 of ya'll wouldn't get pussy

To your first point.... Yes.

To your second point...... Yes.



Now sit and think about your second point and how in essence women seal their own fate.


Gotta choose better ladies... The stakes are higher for ya'll.

*two cents*

 

[roster]

To add another factor if Tupac was alive Jada wouldn't even be married to Will Smith. You can't tell me otherwise

Ironic don't you think

Man, you KNOW THIS Jada on tv crying for Pac years after on the tv showing of Ressurection I think. I bet it hurts her more when she read those Pac poems and how he had to choose between her and Quincy Jones' daughter.

Tupac was NOT a thug...He just played one on TV and I've heard Jada Pinkett talk about how "intelligent" Tupac was...

However, It is very "Ironic" is that the song they're playing in that video is a WILL SMITH song

This is the thing though that I think what may be missing in the thread. It's not sometimes about being a thug. It's about the drama and excitement a certain type of man brings in their life.

No doubt PAC HAD PLENTY OF DRAMA and EXCITEMENT along with his intelligence. Some women like their men to have an edge.

Will is the exact opposite, so it is ironic Treach's close friend Pac was with Will's future wife and Treach's future wife turned down Will Smith

 

[patscorpio]

The OP didn't post all of it. Here's more:

""I liked people like Louis Burrell (MC Hammer's brother). He was rough, he was street and he didn't pull any punches. He would walk around with a cane and pimp hat. He always referred to women as b**ches." Even with all that, I liked him."

Click here: http://books.google.com/books?id=_EmoPe7YXMwC&pg=PA76&lpg=PA76&dq=%22I+sometimes+kick+myself+when+I+think+about+what+could+have+been.+He+was+so+nice+to+me,+but+I+really+wasn%27t+feeling+him.+I+guess+I+couldn%27t+appreciate+a+nice+guy+like+Will+Smith.+He+wasn%27t+thug+enough.+I+was+attracted+to+thugs+and+hoodlums.+Will+was+too+nice+to+me.%22&source=bl&ots=iAjEAIdIyB&sig=f8XsHBiN8IVLUOsaKFdiMrNCFzM&hl=en&ei=wRKJSr3cBMGGtgeWjOTnDA&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=1#v=onepage&q=%22I%20sometimes%20kick%20myself%20when%20I%20think%20about%20what%20could%20have%20been.%20He%20was%20so%20nice%20to%20me%2C%20but%20I%20really%20wasn%27t%20feeling%20him.%20I%20guess%20I%20couldn%27t%20appreciate%20a%20nice%20guy%20like%20Will%20Smith.%20He%20wasn%27t%20thug%20enough.%20I%20was%20attracted%20to%20thugs%20and%20hoodlums.%20Will%20was%20too%20nice%20to%20me.%22&f=false

i thought pepa was sexy as hell as a horny teenager but what a birdbrain

 

[56k]

Typical hoodrat mentality....But lets look at Will's life after Pepa: Hit TV show, Blockbuster movie star, a couple outdated albums, Jada Pinkett, Millions of dollars. I guess nice guys do finish first.

C/S GHETTO MENTALITY LOSES AGAIN

 

[DiamondDeuce]

Oooooooooooooooor those sorry brothas would lie even more

I can see your point sorta however I do feel it is very unfair cuz everybody makes mistakes it is human

There you go with that word FAIR again ......the reality of life is that it is NOT FAIR.


Men can't do what Women do.
Women can't do what MEN do....

Again life is not Fair babygirl.

 

[BigATLslim]

I didn't spew bullshit

I gave the other side of the coin

You are too immature to admit that men have faults as well cuz you are a woman hater and a hypocrite

I never had a baby for a thug so no I did not lose ... stop believing all the negative images you see of Black women in the media you sheep

You are a waste of time to converse with

*fixed* I just couldn't help it.

 

[Otis Supreme]

While this is true to some extent... it's not as widespread with young men as with young women. I think most people can think of way more female friends and family members than males that have serially seeked and fallen for every person that was straight up bad for them. Guys dont' seem to want women BECAUSE they are bad, but a whole lot of women want guys and the number 1 thing about them they like is that they are bad dudes. Among young women, it sems like an epidemic sometimes. ...and because of the unfair realities of age & parenthood, etc, women get damaged more by this stuff for the most part.

Ok... I'll tell you the difference. A dude that decides to be stupid and go for thug life... well, that's on him and he gets what he gets. A woman who decides that she wants her some thug... all to often, she gets said thug(s), gets hurt by him, impregnated by him/them, and used up. Now she's "damaged" for the rest of her life, and it affects her, and her kids.

Yeah, sure, it's the thugs fault too, but she actually wanted to get with a thug. You can't compare the mentality of someone who wants to be bad with someone who wants to be with someone who wants to be bad. It's like one is stupid, and the other one is stupid to the fifth power. It's like if you're walking down the street and you see one of your boys and he says he's about to go rob a convenience store, and you say, "hey, I'll come along"... you just fucked up, because you chose to ride along with someone who is already fucking up.

She choose wrong.

Hope she enjoys the life she CHOOSEN...

Cause it looks like "Mr. Nice Guy" is enjoying his....


*two cents*

Not just Black women but all Black women. They act like Pep is representative of all BW. She is a hoodrat and is speaking from a hoodrat POV. Most chicks I know dont date thugs.

I said it earlier. White women love their rockers and bikers. Its the same as BW and thugs. All women dont want that type but a good number do. I say dont be mad at the chicks and the so called thugs or bad boys they date. Find a woman who is looking for a dude like you. Instead these dudes stay bitter for ten years talking about " I saw this chick I was in love with but she only dated thugs. Now shes fat and or broke with kids. Ha Ha" Yall niggas still scarred and bitter. Get over Keisha Williams from 11 grade that gave the real nigga some pussy and rejected you for being a lame. Move on. Damn.

I agree with what your saying.

I believe that the posts on this thread are divided on two fronts. First front are cats who are having flash backs of the big bootied bitch that shitted on the in highschool and usings Pepa's situation as a form of delayed gratification ("look at you now bitch! You didn't want me when I was on the come up, now I'm on top and you struggling....Bitch!"). This is the same attitude girls who were fat all their lives have if they get in serious shape... Fucked up attitude to have but understandable.

Second front are cats who relish in the fact the a women actually fessed up to her piss poor choice in men instead going with the "men ain't shit" angle most women swear by. This response is so rare that cats can help but wallow like a pig in slop over it. She jumped of the cliff but they bullet a built in her anyways just to makesure she's dead.

I'm in the second category... Any woman that didn't want to fuck with me in highschool damn sure don't want to fuck with me now; whatever they didn't like about me then I'm even better at that now (being an asshole). Which is cool, that's called having a preference, and they perferred another.

My stink with woman came from their blatant lack of accountability for their actions. It takes a woman to admit that she fucked up her life (which is rare: bitches won't even admit to farting...ever) so in that regard I respect her.

But I'll be damn if i don't want to twist the knife a lil' bit.

FUCK YOU BITCH!

*two cents*

The thing is...Peppa is bullshitting. That's why people are calling her out. This isn't woman hating. She is playing like she is so curious about 'what could have been'. Fuck that, she married a dude the exact opposite of him. She knew him years ago, plenty of time to change her mind. She is only regreting the money that she missed out on.

There are a lot bitter nerds in the thread as well. But believe, Pepa ain't alone at the wishing well. Too many times people mistake nice for weak.

co-fucking-SIGN!

Didnt read the whole thread... but first thing that comes to mind..


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Dumb Ass probably smackin herself all oops upsss upside the fuckin head...

Am sure many dudes have done the same thing for some ghetto rat,and fugged up with some cool chick who turn out really good/level headed and successful.

lord knows i did.






FUCK man! y u had 2 say somethin?!

Will Smith is a faggot and his wife looks like an old 12 year old boy.

Pepa made the right choice.

yanno i wasnt sure til just now but u cant b of drinkin age w/this statement.

 

[Otis Supreme]

This dude speaks the truth. Alot of dudes feel like because they are educated and not a thug women should be throwing themselves at them. Women might not want you because you are ugly, fat, short, broke, dumb, lame, etc. Get over it, there are too many single women to be out there angry.

Most cats are commenting about how funny it be deemed desirable later on in life. Not about woman not desiring them at all.

But at the same time, most dudes realize these same woman don't actually really like them. They want to be saved.

both of yall make good points. a lot of "nerds" get mad cuz chicks dont go 4 em @ a certain point in they life. but like stickman said, it could b OTHER factors: fat, ugly, etc.


BUT, if any of them hos come barkin up they tree when theyre successful later on; then yeah, they just tryin 2 get saved and should b promptly fucked, skeeted on (facially), and diiiiiiismissed.

To your first point.... Yes.

To your second point...... Yes.



Now sit and think about your second point and how in essence women seal their own fate.


Gotta choose better ladies... The stakes are higher for ya'll.

*two cents*

idk pogo. i think the stakes r equal. if a man chooses wrong, he could get stuck w/a crazy, no good baby mama. if a woman chooses wrong, she stuck w/a crazy, no good baby daddy (btw i hate those terms).



either way, the child loses.

 

[Acur]

But look at the timing: Jada got will right before he was going to be a superstar. And Will just coming off a divorce seemed to me to be eager to be with hoes. Pepa met Will before all the fame of the tv and clearly before movies.

If anything I feel sad for Will, because he seems to have a gold digging but very understanding woman.

Your assuming. You don't know their relationship. Grow up boy and get out of their business.

 

[shaddyvillethug]

you nigguz wit these SOL threads

 

[Acur]

you nigguz wit these SOL threads

You with your trolling. Typical cheap ass. So cheap you can't pay ten bucks.

 

[owl]

Will married right away, to both his wives. Dude is technically lame, but whats wrong with that? And Jada isn't all that much different from Pepa's pov when it comes to Will. Pepa didnt know will was gonna blow up, Jada was right there before the explosion so it was in her best interest to get a fire suit.

Smh at using will's money for some tupac memory.

Not taking sides, but this has a lot of merit...

 

[DragonXJC]

holy shit, 9 pages. Damn