Pepa Regrets Not Dating Will Smith Because He Wasnt Thug Enough

[LoneStar29]

We all have regrets in life. She is no different than anyone else.

Exactly, thank you

If I had a penny for everytime a brotha passed up a good woman cuz she may not have been on "dime" status I would have as much as if I got a penny for each sista that passed up a good guy for a thug

Some of us grow out of it early on like I was done with "bad boys" when I was like 18 or some shit ... as soon as I began to mature a bit I saw them for what they really were and moved on to a better calibre of man ... I wont be made to feel like I am less of a woman cuz I had growing pains ... at least I matured which is more than I can say for some of the boys on here chasing images of photoshopped porno hoes

 

[Mr. Met]

- its from her book...

http://books.google.com/books?id=_E...d hoodlums. Will was too nice to me."&f=false

You're kidding me. You mean the same book that she trash Treach in in order to sell it?

Like Treach said, 'she's a legend. she doesn't need to use that to sell books'.

 

[DAYNE]

LS29,
DAYNE is right.

I think I've had this discussion with you before. Women can't do what MEN do when it comes to dating and mate selection.

Men look for different things in women.............than women look for in men.

Women have an expiration date. A men can be a whore well into his 40's and then DECIDE that he wants a family and be VERY DESIREABLE TO WOMEN. Women can't do that.....

Hence the situation is more dire for women. WOMEN must get it right sooner.. before age 35.

Life aint fair babygirl.

I think it is fair, women get the most options early without having to earn anything because the basis of there options is there looks.

 

[swiftandsilent]

http://www.vh1.com/news/editorial/?page=6&contentId=1593985

Treach

So who's got the vid??

 

[tre2k4]

stop the presses. this isnt a dumb hoe @ all my fellows this is what you call a talented hoe.

 

[DAYNE]

That is the whole point jackass

Ya'll choosing women based only on looks then turn around and complain when she doesn't cook, clean, support you as her man or when she has a baby for you, digs in your pockets and leaves

If you picked a woman on her character then maybe the problems would be limited

Same goes for women ... they should pick men on their character and work from there IMHO

Point is both men and women pick mates for dumb reasons then get burned ... this is not only a female trait but I wouldn't expect a bunch of self-centred boys to be able to realize that

Edit: And how convenient that when a woman does it that is the greater of 2 evils ... and by convenient I mean double standard bullshit ... and before DD starts with the whole "that's just the way it is" nonsense I do not agree ... that is the way ya'll WANT it to be but that aint the way it should be

men place value on a womans looks you fucking idiot
A man ain't going to be with a woman he ain't attracted to, that defeats the purpose. Fucking with a woman because she looks good isn't a dumb decision, its the process of starting to look at her other qualities as well jackass. Without the attraction nothing starts bitch!
You coming in this thread trying to turn shit around is defeating and it won't work.

 

[LoneStar29]

men place value on a womans looks you fucking idiot
A man ain't going to be with a woman he ain't attracted to, that defeats the purpose. Fucking with a woman because she looks good isn't a dumb decision, its the process of starting to look at her other qualities as well jackass. Without the attraction nothing starts bitch!
You coming in this thread trying to turn shit around is defeating and it won't work.

I'm entitled to my opinion as you are yours no matter how dumb and immature you sound

The thread was going fine until you started with the insults

I'm not going to derail this one going back and forth with your ignorant ass

You keep looking for "dimes" little one but don't be surprised when she takes every dime you got

 

[DAYNE]

I'm entitled to my opinion as you are yours no matter how dumb and immature you sound

The thread was going fine until you started with the insults

I'm not going to derail this one going back and forth with your ignorant ass

You keep looking for "dimes" little one but don't be surprised when she takes every dime you got

You continue to look for a captain save a ho to rescue you and your children and don't be surprised when he fucks you and leave you with a baby like the rest did.

 

[LoneStar29]

You continue to look for a captain save a ho to rescue you and your children and don't be surprised when he fucks you and leave you with a baby like the rest did.

You bored baby boy??? Wanna fight with me???

Too bad ... I don't argue with children

 

[ansatsusha_gouki]

men place value on a womans looks you fucking idiot
A man ain't going to be with a woman he ain't attracted to, that defeats the purpose. Fucking with a woman because she looks good isn't a dumb decision, its the process of starting to look at her other qualities as well jackass. Without the attraction nothing starts bitch!
You coming in this thread trying to turn shit around is defeating and it won't work.

why is you tryin to put sense into that idiot

 

[LoneStar29]

why is you tryin to put sense into that idiot

Why do you have me on ignore but respond to all my posts??? Things that make you go hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Fall back Stan this doesn't concern you

Edit: And you don't even like Black women so wtf are you in this thread??? Oh yeah to HATE I almost forgot

 

[jblaque]

Babygirl! get over it.......

 

[destrehan]

Exactly, thank you

If I had a penny for everytime a brotha passed up a good woman cuz she may not have been on "dime" status I would have as much as if I got a penny for each sista that passed up a good guy for a thug

Some of us grow out of it early on like I was done with "bad boys" when I was like 18 or some shit ... as soon as I began to mature a bit I saw them for what they really were and moved on to a better calibre of man ... I wont be made to feel like I am less of a woman cuz I had growing pains ... at least I matured which is more than I can say for some of the boys on here chasing images of photoshopped porno hoes

you STILL single at 32 though you dumb bitch.

 

[LoneStar29]

Babygirl! get over it.......

Get over what???

I was under the impression this was an open forum where we all express our views

Was there a rule change where if you aren't a sheep ass bitch you can't post

Just asking

Edit: Destrehan I am 30 so what??? You are my age and single plus you are ugly so who has it worse???

Anywhooooooooooooooooooo it's turning into one of those threads again ... ya'll talk shit ... I prove you wrong then you start ganging up on me like some elementary school bike gang GTFOH

 

[tre2k4]

Why do you have me on ignore but respond to all my posts??? Things that make you go hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Fall back Stan this doesn't concern you

Edit: And you don't even like Black women so wtf are you in this thread??? Oh yeah to HATE I almost forgot

Why are you responding to someone that cant see you.

 

[Better]

Oh, GOD...

...some of you little fags need to shut the fuck up!!!!

You all spend all day talking about how fucked up Black women are when they're only one-half of the fucking problem. You guys act like the thug mentality isn't prevalent in the Black community amongst men. Just how so many Black dudes foolishly glorify the thug lifestyle, you have Black females that will be attracted to that, as well.

Many Black dudes consider Will Smith corny, and the same standard that you dudes are holding Will Smith to, is the same standard that the females have, as well.

Yet, somehow, only Black women are making stupid choices in life. If the Black community would stop glorifying bullshit, then gradually the standards in our women will change, as well as the standards in our men.

You tell me right now what's the difference between a Black male that chose the thug-life, and realized the error of his way later, and a Black female that chose to be with such a dude, and realized her errors later? Their is no fucking difference. They both had the same exact mentality.

Fucking dumb-asses.

 

[APOPHIS]

You went to the BPS? I did. Everything you say in this post is exact, son. I say that men's stock rises as they get older but women's stock plummets. Man, I cannot tell you how many bitches(from high school, college, and neighborhood) I had passion for back then who only looked down on me back then.

I see most of these same bitches today all fat with fat arms...I call them Hulk Hogan arms, with kids, and you said it best, stressed by life cruel realities. So when I do think about it I am glad I was the underdog cause that pain and suffering had made me strong and pushed me through today like it's nothing.

But there are not too many women I see today from yesterday who is not emotionally stressed out today. You know why cause they were arrogant yesterday. They thought they were better than others, they never thought about shit happening to them or they thought they would get through with flying colors. Now they are paying for it fuck them.

Speaking of Salt and Peppa, how much are they worth today? Fuck Peppa anyway cause she is just one of those bitches who wants the nice guy cause of his money. She did not think he would turn out like this.

YES SIR!

Boston Latin one year then transferred to Charlestown.
98-2001.

Don't it feel good. I remember bitches clowning when they though I wasn't gonna have shit from being in the Army. I see them hoes now looking just like you describe, while I got all (and i mean all) my pieces strategically in place.

These silly bitches got just what they deserved.

Revenge (in the form of success) is the sweetest joy.

 

[GucciGucci]

These threads are funny and sad at the same time. More group therapy for the losers that couldnt get a woman till they got a good job and some success. The women still dont like you. Just your money and stability. Yall still salty bout the bad bitch you couldnt get in high school that fucked with the cool niggas. Damn yall niggas need to get over it.

 

[DAYNE]

why is you tryin to put sense into that idiot

 

[DAYNE]

Oh, GOD...

...some of you little fags need to shut the fuck up!!!!

You all spend all day talking about how fucked up Black women are when they're only one-half of the fucking problem. You guys act like the thug mentality isn't prevalent in the Black community amongst men. Just how so many Black dudes foolishly glorify the thug lifestyle, you have Black females that will be attracted to that, as well.

Many Black dudes consider Will Smith corny, and the same standard that you dudes are holding Will Smith to, is the same standard that the females have, as well.

Yet, somehow, only Black women are making stupid choices in life. If the Black community would stop glorifying bullshit, then gradually the standards in our women will change, as well as the standards in our men.

You tell me right now what's the difference between a Black male that chose the thug-life, and realized the error of his way later, and a Black female that chose to be with such a dude, and realized her errors later? Their is no fucking difference. They both had the same exact mentality.

Fucking dumb-asses.

Read here you fucking simp.

The reason alot of black men live thug lifestyle is because alot of black women gravitate towards it. The thug is the alpha male of the black community. If women didn't fuck with thugs they wouldn't fucking exist.

 

[PlayerScottFree]

I disagree with most of these comments.

She likes thugs. That's fine. What gets me is how chicks like thugs but you know they are going to change their minds later. If she wants a thug, want that cat then and now. People always want to switch sides when their team is losing. The number 1 thing a female should be (IMO) is loyal. She is a disloyal chick to thugs and nice guys.

 

[DAYNE]

These threads are funny and sad at the same time. More group therapy for the losers that couldnt get a woman till they got a good job and some success. The women still dont like you. Just your money and stability. Yall still salty bout the bad bitch you couldnt get in high school that fucked with the cool niggas. Damn yall niggas need to get over it.

the same cool niggas hanging on the corner, rotating my tires, and working at UPS,

 

[FiveKnuckleShuffle]

On the red carpet at the 2009 Vanity Fair Oscar Paty

At the Source Awards

 

[Devilstrider]

Typical. Atleast she can admit it though.

Ditto.

 

[LoneStar29]

These threads are funny and sad at the same time. More group therapy for the losers that couldnt get a woman till they got a good job and some success. The women still dont like you. Just your money and stability. Yall still salty bout the bad bitch you couldnt get in high school that fucked with the cool niggas. Damn yall niggas need to get over it.

LMAO @ them thinking cool=thug/drug dealer ... like there are no other options for being cool

You can tell who listens to alot of media hype in this thread

 

[Porn Addict]

quest, i see your points, but it's not the same. choosing to be a thug or buying into that mentality is one thing....that's dumb enough. choosing to marry or start a family with one is something else. like i said earlier, women en masse have made thugs their relationship ideal....it wasn't just young chicks cosigning "soldier" by destiny's child. on the flip, men en masse have not made hoodrats their ideal. sure we'll chase 'em, fuck 'em, hack their myspace pages, lust after their pics and even say they LOOK like wifey material. women even give themselves the double standard...they still see a guy as husband material knowing how many chicks he ran through as a thug. most dudes won't feel that way about a hoodrat. there isn't even a positive connotation for "hoodrat" like it is for "thug". like i said earlier, while chicks seek out "corporate thugs" to settle down with, few dudes seek out "intelligent hoodrats" to be wives (they get tricked down the aisle then the hoodrat comes out).

 

[DAYNE]

You bored baby boy??? Wanna fight with me???

Too bad ... I don't argue with children

what the hell do you call your kids and your baby daddies?

You coming in this thread spewing bullshit because you feel guilty like pepa and you lost like her as well.

 

[Ming Fei Hong]

- its from her book...

http://books.google.com/books?id=_E...d hoodlums. Will was too nice to me."&f=false

Good lookin' out.

 

[TheFuser]

On the red carpet at the 2009 Vanity Fair Oscar Paty

At the Source Awards

 

[Better]

Read here you fucking simp.

The reason alot of black men live thug lifestyle is because alot of black women gravitate towards it. The thug is the alpha male of the black community. If women didn't fuck with thugs they wouldn't fucking exist.

So, it's back to putting the blame solely on the women again, huh?

Black men and Black women are being controlled like puppet's, and they don't even know it. The negativity is being fed to the Black community through the media, and that is where the brainwashing starts.

You see dudes on TV driving rimmed out cars; calling women bitches; making it rain; dressing like thugs ... and that is what you do. That is the symbol of success that you can relate to. Those dudes on TV are the 'alpha-male' to the Black community, so in an attempt to at least portray themselves as an alpha-male, they attempt to follow suit.

Rap music has become a fucking poison to our community, and it's a poison that many people consume everyday, without realizing the negative effects it's having on us and our youth. When 2Pac started showing off his 'Thug Life' tattoo, their were MANY dudes at my school who went and got the same tattoo. Coincidence?

I promise you, if you look at the type's of artist's that dominate your music collection, their is a strong possibility that you are very similar to who they are. How many "thugs" you know with Will Smith albums in their music collection? I know a lot of so-called thugs, but I don't know ONE that even listens to Will Smith.

Our community is being influenced by negative media, that's ultimately shaping the minds of our men, and ultimately determining for females what's a desirable man.

If you think men are being thugs because some day, a Black woman said, 'Be a thug!!', and it was a snowball effect from that point on...

...then you need to look deeper. You don't need to blame our women, you need to look at the individuals that are using Black entertainers to perpetuate the bullshit in our community. You think it's a coincidence that so many Black dudes have ambitions of becoming rappers, drug dealers, or athletes? The model of what a Black man should be is being fed to us by the media, NOT by the Black woman.

 

[Porn Addict]

LMAO @ them thinking cool=thug/drug dealer ... like there are no other options for being cool

on the contrary, men are the ones that know there are other options for being cool. please spread the gospel to your sisters. if women knew that, thugs would experience a sharp decline in pussy.

now, i don't care if women are out there fucking and having a good time with whoever. they are entitled to sow their oats just like men (though the consequences for them are more severe so they should be more responsible). my only issue is the thug form, or "intelligent thug," being idealized as relationship material. that's nonsensical and too many grown women do it.

 

[LordSinister]

not exactly the same. there are some captains that wife tricks like that and cats waste time on subpar women in the search for pussy. true. but most dudes only want to fuck these chicks. they don't see them as some relationship ideal. but you'll hear women say all the time that they want their HUSBANDS to be "corporate thugs"...intelligent with street flavor. whatever the hell that means.

dudes never say "i want my wife to be an intelligent hoodrat"....

there's a difference.

Damn right. Plus a man can have children until he the day he dies, broads expire like sour milk, and that's why all the 35+ unmarried black women I know are salty as fuck.

Bitch you expired, and ninjas 35+ is checking for your 20 year old daughter.

 

[UniqueStyles82]

She in attitude and mentality was a hoodrat who chose a hood nikka...no harm no foul...

where most cats in this thread are getting on her for (and perfectly so) is the the fact that she came out and stated now that she regretted her decisions back then..I'm like don't regret it...she knew what she wanted...there was probably an ample amount of time before Jada got with Will that she could have got her mind right and went at him...but again she knew what she wanted...ohwell...

That man Rick Ronson said once: "Thank God and be glad these fucked up in the head women choose which men's lives they decide to ruin..and it aint yours" ...I think Will is thanking his lucky stars...

 

[GucciGucci]

the same cool niggas hanging on the corner, rotating my tires, and working at UPS,

So everyone from high school that was a cool dude and had chicks is a loser with a low paying job? Barack Obama was a cool ass dude. Played sports, smoked weed, had girls. I guess he is working at UPS.

Yall bitter niggas is funny. Plenty of "cool" niggas went on to still be cool and have good jobs and education. Yall lame niggas hate these types. Jealous ass niggas. You wanna make it like every dude who wasnt a no pussy gettin lame is some thug or drug dealer loser.

I wouldnt be bragging that I could finally get a woman only because of my money and success. Yall niggas is sad. Get over the fact that some brotha that had more swag was fucking and slutted out your dream girl or stole your bitch. Yall niggas sound like some hoes.

 

[izzy_drake]

Niggas do the same thing-wasting time and money on the easy girls(hoes, bitches, etc.) then when you want something real you bring along bad credit, prison records and baby mama drama. Ya'll need to get over yourself.

Good post.