Parents: Thoughts on kids skipping grades in school

Peace,

Maturity matters. I'm not in favor of skipping grades because of the disadvantages to the child due to being younger, smaller and less mature than their classmates. They have accelerated/talented & gifted classes for those students who are farther ahead academically. Put them in those and supplement the learning on your own.

agree completely and that is my PRIMARY concern...

they are both in G&T already.

But it was something that was brought up by her previous teacher so I was thinking about it.

Their mother is super hyped and I'm trying to pump the brakes and make sure we make the BEST decision for OUR child...I don't need no props from the family or strangers.

You know what I'm saying

Because right now its not EASY but its honor awards and recognition...and with us supplementing I think its fine but I also don't want my fear to lose an opportunity.
 
Yes maturity matters alot but is only part of the equation your kid being bored and under challenged is also part makes kids uninterested with attending school
having this issue with my daughter currently and trying to find the right fit for her
in short i dont mind skipping a grade but anything more will take a tough kid, kids are cruel by nature and will test a younger kid in a heartbeat.
 
Wanted to ask the fam if any of you have kids or if you have personally ever skipped a grade in school?

What do you think ate the positives and negatives?

What is the best age/grade to do the transition?

Peace
Nah, just let him/her be a superstar in their proper grade. they can still take AP classes. This allows them to feel success while not placing them with a group of kids older
 
The only drawback that I have seen is that a child from a lower grade may not have the maturity level of the students in the higher grade.
Apart from that, if the child can do the work, no point holding it back.
 
Peace,

agree completely and that is my PRIMARY concern...

they are both in G&T already.

But it was something that was brought up by her previous teacher so I was thinking about it.

Their mother is super hyped and I'm trying to pump the brakes and make sure we make the BEST decision for OUR child...I don't need no props from the family or strangers.

You know what I'm saying

Because right now its not EASY but its honor awards and recognition...and with us supplementing I think its fine but I also don't want my fear to lose an opportunity.

That's the tough part. It's difficult to manage your own expectations for your child without having pride/ego get in the way.

A few years back, my son was presented with an opportunity to move up a grade and we decided against it. It wasn't easy, though, because we wanted him to be challenged and we derived a great deal of pride from the public recognition of his intelligence.

At the end of the day, just make sure you're giving your child supplemental educational opportunities (including black history and race education) and your child will be good to go.
 
Peace,



That's the tough part. It's difficult to manage your own expectations for your child without having pride/ego get in the way.

A few years back, my son was presented with an opportunity to move up a grade and we decided against it. It wasn't easy, though, because we wanted him to be challenged and we derived a great deal of pride from the public recognition of his intelligence.

At the end of the day, just make sure you're giving your child supplemental educational opportunities (including black history and race education) and your child will be good to go.

Can you recommend some books websites and curriculum for black history and race education for elementaryschool age kids?
 
My son could be moved up if we pushed it but I'm against it in his case cuz yeah the grades and test scores are there but the maturity is not

He is fine where he is

To me it's a case by case basis
Would u let lil dtown move up from Pee Wees to junior varsity if he was that cold at running back?
 
agree completely and that is my PRIMARY concern...

they are both in G&T already.

But it was something that was brought up by her previous teacher so I was thinking about it.

Their mother is super hyped and I'm trying to pump the brakes and make sure we make the BEST decision for OUR child...I don't need no props from the family or strangers.

You know what I'm saying

Because right now its not EASY but its honor awards and recognition...and with us supplementing I think its fine but I also don't want my fear to lose an opportunity.


Is your child already in the very best school within a distance you are comfortable with? You haven't said the age,but if old enough, is your child in AP classes? If no to either of these, you shouldn't even consider skipping a grade IMO.
 
When I was in 1st grade, they wanted to skip me through to 3rd. My parents didn't want me to be with older kids though. The result was all through school it felt like everything was moving too slow. As a result I was often bored and it was hard to pay attention.

I don't know what others in the same situation would say, but I say skip 'em.
 
We often skip students in early primary grades (K-2nd) at my school - beyond third grade, it becomes a bit of a guessing game as to how a student will/can do. When you're in middle school, and have missed a particular topic/subject due to being skipped, it can be more of a hindrance to realize what was missed due to a grade skipped than a blessing. Primary elementary school grades are an awesome time to explore the option, though. Make sure the school's TD/Gifted teacher is involved in the process and helping classroom teacher(s) differentiate for your child, and meet their needs. Just because you have skipped a student, it doesn't mean their needs will simply be met with a challenge.

On a side note, for those that mentioned either they skipped a grade or had kids that were...what's the benefit of skipping a grade besides being "challenged?" I have a coworker that is strongly against it, saying no one "wants to rush to more homework, paying bills, etc." Then again, I just think she's lazy, so lol...
 
We often skip students in early primary grades (K-2nd) at my school - beyond third grade, it becomes a bit of a guessing game as to how a student will/can do. When you're in middle school, and have missed a particular topic/subject due to being skipped, it can be more of a hindrance to realize what was missed due to a grade skipped than a blessing. Primary elementary school grades are an awesome time to explore the option, though. Make sure the school's TD/Gifted teacher is involved in the process and helping classroom teacher(s) differentiate for your child, and meet their needs. Just because you have skipped a student, it doesn't mean their needs will simply be met with a challenge.

On a side note, for those that mentioned either they skipped a grade or had kids that were...what's the benefit of skipping a grade besides being "challenged?" I have a coworker that is strongly against it, saying no one "wants to rush to more homework, paying bills, etc." Then again, I just think she's lazy, so lol...

Your right Jo, when my daughter was in K she was bored to death, which was why she was skipped to the 2nd. IMO those that show the they can handle the challenge should be given the chance to succeed. BTW your coworker does sound lazy.
 
Very interesting development

every education professional who is WHITE told us not to skip, but every Black person or person of color said we should do it.
 
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