Outcry over teenage father case

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Outcry over teenage father case


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Alfie Patten and daughter Maisie on front page of the Sun
The Sun newspaper had an exclusive interview with the parents

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/7889033.stm


The case of the 13-year-old who has fathered a baby highlights a worrying trend of "children having children", the Tory leader has said.

David Cameron was speaking after Alfie Patten's girlfriend Chantelle Steadman, 15, gave birth on Monday.

Latest figures from UK National Statistics show there were 7,826 conceptions in under-16s in 2006 - down 1,000 from 10 years earlier.

Sexual health experts said teens should be encouraged to have "ambition".

Children's Secretary Ed Balls said it was an "awful" and "unusual" case.

"I want those kids to be safe and also the young child as well, and I want us to do everything we can as a society to make sure we keep teenage pregnancies coming down," he said.

Mr Cameron said: "It is really worrying in our country today you've got children having children - and obviously we all hope that these very, very young children will grow up and be good parents, but frankly parenthood isn't something they should be thinking about.

"That's what's gone wrong and we've got to put it right."


In some of the more difficult communities, this has become pretty much the norm
Iain Duncan Smith, Centre for Social Justice

Support for 'boy' father
Father at 14 'changed my future'

Former Tory leader Iain Duncan Smith, who now runs the Centre for Social Justice said it "exemplified the point we have been making about broken Britain".

He told the BBC the problem of teenage pregnancies was concentrated in certain communities.

"Quite often what fails to recognise is that in some of the more difficult communities, this has become pretty much the norm.

"I've visited many estates where there are very huge collections of very young mothers, often with multiple children - and often 'guesting fathers'.

"This is a major problem in the UK."

No prosecution

The teenagers, both from Eastbourne, had kept the pregnancy secret until Chantelle's mother Penny noticed her daughter was getting bigger.

Chantelle had her baby in Eastbourne District General Hospital, and is now home with her family.

Sussex Police said no action would be taken with it "not in anyone's interests" to prosecute.

East Sussex County Council said the teenage parents will be supported with intensive monitoring and health visitor support.


We know that life as a teenage parent is hard
Beverley Hughes, children and young people's minister

Tony Kerridge, a spokesman for the sexual health specialist Marie Stopes International, said: "These sorts of lifestyle choices can be dealt with on an educational level if teenage girls realise what they are contemplating is a route into social deprivation and being in the benefits culture for the rest of their lives.

"It may seem like a short term solution to problems at home, but the mid to long term prospects are probably a life stuck on benefits.

"We should, as a society, be encouraging our young people to have much bigger and better aspirations than that."

Simon Blake of Brook added: "Most under-16s aren't having sex, but young people do want more education about sex.

"They want their parents to talk to them, their school to talk to them and they want confidential services to go to."

Mandatory education

Speaking on a visit to the Midlands, Prime Minister Gordon Brown said: "I don't know the individual details of the case, but of course I think all of us would want to avoid teenage pregnancies."

Beverley Hughes, children and young people's minister, said 80% of under-18 pregnancies were in 16 and 17-year- olds.

"Evidence shows that good quality sex and relationship education and parents talking to their children delays early sex and increases the use of contraception whenever they do have sex.

"We know that life as a teenage parent is hard, with outcomes for them and their children often very poor.

"That's why the government has issued guidance to local areas on providing the right support to improve the welfare of both the teenage parents and child."


:smh::smh::smh::smh:
 
Yes.

It's a big talking point over here

No one is being prosecuted, but what was a 15yr old girl doing with a 13 yr old boy??

Just wrong on all levels

:smh:
 
Yes.

It's a big talking point over here

No one is being prosecuted, but what was a 15yr old girl doing with a 13 yr old boy??

Just wrong on all levels

:smh:

^^^But it's a symptom of the times we live in. :smh:

Funny thing is that the media have still managed to put something of a positive spin on the story by highlighting the fact that the kid is promising to be a good parent.

If these were black children you know these muthafuckas would've been hyping this as evdece of black youths being oversexed and out've control. :smh::smh:

Out've curiosity, are you London based?
 
Seen this story as well when a work colleague showed me the Sun newspaper at work yesterday (Friday).

What I want to know is where were the parents when all this was going on?
 
If these were black children you know these muthafuckas would've been hyping this as evdece of black youths being oversexed and out've control. :smh::smh:

Exactly:smh::smh::smh:

What I want to know is where were the parents when all this was going on?

Can't always blame the parents though ... we can only teach them so much ... after that they gotta make their own choices and live with the consequences

I think this story is a good argument for parents being more open with their kids though ... teach them about sex and condoms instead of ONLY teaching them abstinence ... then they can make an educated decision for themselves when they have all the facts

I was shocked as hell the other day when this boy in Grade 9 told me he didn't know what Aids was ... I was like :confused: ... then I told him what it was and how people caught it etc... and he was like :eek: ... that was :( to me that in this day and age homie had no clue what was going on:smh:
 
What is crazy is that it happens all the time in black communities....You dont see our children on the covers of mags where they are trying to make positive spins on it.
All you see is :smh:
Which in reality is what should be happening in this case. Dont get me wrong I hope he turns out to be a good dad. But I hope the families involved are taking this seriously.:hmm:
 
My guess...is that because dude look so young even though he 13, it's borderline pedophilia.

Or it could be because they AREN'T Black and not from the United States.


I do think this is borderline pedophilia though. I don't care if he is 13 and the chick is 15, he look like she could have changed his diapers...
 
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