Ok ladies hit me with the advice!

[Onpoint]

Ok I got a few lady friends and I find it hard to cum during sex. Esp. if I'm a drunk. I think it's because of the condom. I was in a steady faithfull relationship for 5 years and we had unprotected sex. Now that I'm back on the gring so to speak, it takes me FOREVER to bust. They be tappin out on me and shit. And I Absolutely REFUSE to have unprotected sex. And some of the females I deal with won't give me head until I cum, because they don't want cum in their mouth. Any advice 4 ya boy?
Thanx in advance

 

[DeSiRe]

do we know eachother

have u tried the thin or extra sensitive condoms?...there are different kinds...i only trust trojan for those tho

also have u thought about suggesting using a female condom?...maybe condoms are just uncomfortable for you u and a female one would work better

last for the ones who demand it in their mouth...why dont u beat it up then make them suck it out? tell them work for that reward

i would also suggest some mental exercises...sex is more mental than alot of people think...try training your mind to be in tune with your body...and teach both to be able to affect the other on YOUR command

im glad u are practicing safe sex and i encourage you to continue to do so

 

[followup]

And some of the females I deal with won't give me until I cum, because they don't want it in their mouth.

This sentence confuses me. Are they giving you head but you can not cum? Or they won't give you head until you cum?

If you please yourself, can you get off?

 

[Cleopatra_J]

Sometimes it takes awhile to get used to having sex with a new person, so the first few times will be difficult.. until you feel each other out..

So now that you're "back on the grind" are you just smashing chicks out once and moving to the next or having consistent sex with a few people? I know that it does take time to get back to using condoms for a guy... or at least I've heard, LOL

 

[Iron]

Not a woman but

I have the same problem if u really wanna call it that.


Anorgasmia (not in the clinical/medical sense) lol
I'm perfectly healthy. Mentally and physically.

Just can't do it sometimes.

If your girl taps out then u just gotta do it urself.

but if your determined to bust one during sex or u just wanna save her ego (lol).

what i do is i try to foucus on the sensation or dirty thoughts.

Men are visual so hit it from the back. If u like missionary lift up and watch your stroke. Use mirrors to watch yourself, talk dirty etc.

lol sometimes I gotta visualize the goal. That helps a little.

u can try to psyche yourself up for it too.

Think about it all day.

Masterbate but don't cum.

u can try it from a fantasy angle too. Like role playing or if your willing to explore try some bdsm type stuff (remember safety first) to help get u there.


and yeah alcohol most definitely does not help.

 

[followup]

Iron you need to leave the old ladies alone and get a youngin. I bet some young tight pussy will do you some good

 

[alyric]

sounds like your dick got trained to some pussy after 5 years

don't go for the viagra or cialis or none of that. just accept the fact that it's gonna take you a minute to get there. most women will deal with it, just don't bore her to sleep or screw her so long that her pussy dries up

instead, go down on her. tongue fuck her, work the clit...you know, freak her out until soldier boy is at attention again

and invest in some really good condoms, not the gas station condoms. you need the "embarrassed to ask for the sheepskin variety pack because they're behind the counter where the old jewish lady will have to hand them to you" condoms.

women do not need to see the Magnum label to know whether or not you're a good fuck. we'll figure that shit out sooner or later...and then we'll call all our girlfriends and tell them about you

just fucking with you

 

[sean69]

sounds like your dick got trained to some pussy after 5 years

don't go for the viagra or cialis or none of that. just accept the fact that it's gonna take you a minute to get there. most women will deal with it, just don't bore her to sleep or screw her so long that her pussy dries up

instead, go down on her. tongue fuck her, work the clit...you know, freak her out until soldier boy is at attention again

and invest in some really good condoms, not the gas station condoms. you need the "embarrassed to ask for the sheepskin variety pack because they're behind the counter where the old jewish lady will have to hand them to you" condoms.

women do not need to see the Magnum label to know whether or not you're a good fuck. we'll figure that shit out sooner or later...and then we'll call all our girlfriends and tell them about you

just fucking with you

Fax: +44261529921

 

[Iron]

Iron you need to leave the old ladies alone and get a youngin. I bet some young tight pussy will do you some good

lol happens with young and old women.

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

Fax: +44261529921

 

[followup]

lol happens with young and old women.

Dang Iron

 

[jucurious]

key word...especially while drunk


might want to do a lil experiment and NOT fuck while drunk...tell us how it goes


excessive drinking does impact sex in a negative way

ALSO, it may be a mental thing about u and having to wear a condom after not doing so for a while

or maybe it may be a mental thing about u banging a couple of chics instead of just one

 

[JofromthaNO]

Not a woman but

I have the same problem if u really wanna call it that.


Anorgasmia (not in the clinical/medical sense) lol
I'm perfectly healthy. Mentally and physically.

Just can't do it sometimes.

If your girl taps out then u just gotta do it urself.

but if your determined to bust one during sex or u just wanna save her ego (lol).

what i do is i try to foucus on the sensation or dirty thoughts.

Men are visual so hit it from the back. If u like missionary lift up and watch your stroke. Use mirrors to watch yourself, talk dirty etc.

lol sometimes I gotta visualize the goal. That helps a little.

u can try to psyche yourself up for it too.

Think about it all day.

Masterbate but don't cum.

u can try it from a fantasy angle too. Like role playing or if your willing to explore try some bdsm type stuff (remember safety first) to help get u there.


and yeah alcohol most definitely does not help.

<Taking notes on the topic>

I like those techniques, in general... I don't see it as such a bad thing if a man lasts a little longer than others...more time for me to get mine, I guess..

This problem goes both ways...sex with new people can really be awkward and sometimes only lengthen the time between initiating it and orgasm. Your best bet is to really have fun with it...don't focus so much on the end goal as much as pleasing her and having fun with it. Switch up positions, do the role play, try some new things out...

 

[ladyscorpio]

[SIZE=1[COLOR="DarkRed"]]Fax: +44261529921[/COLOR][/SIZE]

and when did you change area codes ​

 

[black again]

Not a woman but

I have the same problem if u really wanna call it that.


Anorgasmia (not in the clinical/medical sense) lol
I'm perfectly healthy. Mentally and physically.

Just can't do it sometimes.

If your girl taps out then u just gotta do it urself.

but if your determined to bust one during sex or u just wanna save her ego (lol).

what i do is i try to foucus on the sensation or dirty thoughts.

Men are visual so hit it from the back. If u like missionary lift up and watch your stroke. Use mirrors to watch yourself, talk dirty etc.

lol sometimes I gotta visualize the goal. That helps a little.

u can try to psyche yourself up for it too.

Think about it all day.

Masterbate but don't cum.

u can try it from a fantasy angle too. Like role playing or if your willing to explore try some bdsm type stuff (remember safety first) to help get u there.


and yeah alcohol most definitely does not help.

C/S bruh, this shit is more common than some may think. I have the same curse Whereas most people can have a quickie....that doesn't really work for me, most of the time. I wish I could get one off in 15 minutes. I have to pack a lunch and set my tivo, bring water...I do prefer it over the alternative, though. And I can't recall any females who weren't ... And I TOTALLY agree about the mental aspect of it. That's the key!

 

[Iron]

C/S bruh, this shit is more common than some may think. I have the same curse Whereas most people can have a quickie....that doesn't really work for me, most of the time. I wish I could get one off in 15 minutes. I have to pack a lunch and set my tivo, bring water...I do prefer it over the alternative, though. And I can't recall any females who weren't ... And I TOTALLY agree about the mental aspect of it. That's the key!

c/s lmao this is true.

but another trick i thought of that i tried once is putting lub on before u put the condom on. That worked out alright.

 

[sean69]

and when did you change area codes ​

Shhhh.

It's for a survey.

 

[Onpoint]

Good looks fam!

 

[Mo-Better]

I have this problem myself. I'll be honest I get hyped when it comes to sex with someone new and I make sure she gets her's before I do. It usually happens with the first few encounters in a new relationship. The women love it as you can imagine but it can be frustrating if she's insistant upon getting you off, both for you and her.

To overcome this problem after she's sexually satisfied you must then focus on you and only you. Yeah its selfish but it sometimes takes that kind of concentration especially if your with a very orgasmic woman and someone your not used to being with. Eventually you both will get used to each other and less effort will be needed on your part.

There's much more to this but I don't want Colin showing up.