Ok damnit I admit it ...

[GeeZnu]

Ladies im a clinger !!! There I said it , I was gonna make up a name and post this [size=+5]But fuck that shit[/size] clown all you want I dont give a shit , I feel we can talk about some things right so fuck here goes.


Im a 28 year old male single no kids pretty drama free so as a clinger Ive been told basically im too nice to women or I try to hard to be with them, thus causing them to destroy whatever love/attraction feeling they had towards me and causing me to end up in the dreaded "Friend Zone" aka Dry Dick.

Me im a pretty straight shooter Im pretty open and honest about everything good and bad and I tend to not play games with what im feeling etc So I need some advice.

FLAME ON !!!!

 

[Harlem's Angel]

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[onyxfemme]

Hmmmm I need a little more info

 

[Deezz]

Obviously the shit ain't workin'. Find a new strategy.

 

[brewdawg1]

Stop being nice too nice. The friends zone is OK, if she brings some of her friends to the table. When you are nice, they find you predictable and boring. If you act like you don't give a fuck, they flock to you. I may sound crazy, but that has been my experience. If you drama free and without kids, you have choices you can make. Make the right choices!!!!

 

[sean69]

This thread would have been worthless if not for ...

 

[IR_King]

You need to man up. Stop being the bitch in the relationship. Women sense weakness in men, and they'll play you all day if you're weak. It's similar to the way a dog will attack you if you're scared of it. Are you sure you're not really a girl? Anyway, don't share your feelings and thoughts with women. At least not unless you've been with them in for a minute. Even then I wouldn't tell them much if anything. They'll just use it against you. They might say they want you to share your feeling with them, but it's all bullshit. They all want a broken man that they have to fix in some kind of way. They need an excuse to go to their friends and say shit like he won't share how he feels with me. They like to argue so give them something to argue about every once in a while. "Why are you talking to me? Can't you see I'm watching TV?" Then, throw a couch pillow at her. "Old rude ass girl." Be mean but not cruel. I'm kind of joking about all that shit, but most of it is true. Just be yourself and try not to care too much about what they think of you. If they think you care, they've got you by the nuts. The games is over at that point. Being a funny person doesn't hurt either. There's nothing worse than a boring person.

 

[RAULDK]

You need to man up. Stop being the bitch in the relationship. Women sense weakness in men, and they'll play you all day if you're weak. It's similar to the way a dog will attack you if you're scared of it. Are you sure you're not really a girl? Anyway, don't share your feelings and thoughts with women. At least not unless you've been with them in for a minute. Even then I wouldn't tell them much if anything. They'll just use it against you. They might say they want you to share your feeling with them, but it's all bullshit. They all want a broken man that they have to fix in some kind of way. They need an excuse to go to their friends and say shit like he won't share how he feels with me. They like to argue so give them something to argue about every once in a while. "Why are you talking to me? Can't you see I'm watching TV?" Then, throw a couch pillow at her. "Old rude ass girl." Be mean but not cruel. I'm kind of joking about all that shit, but most of it is true. Just be yourself and try not to care too much about what they think of you. If they think you care, they've got you by the nuts. The games is over at that point. Being a funny person doesn't hurt either. There's nothing worse than a boring person.

I CONCUR,

tREAT EM MEAN BUT LOVE EM GOOD.

 

[Mo-Better]

It's hard to believe your in Washington D.C. having this problem. D.C. = Dark Community man that's all us. The numbers are in your favor big time.

OK this is an easy one, when you meet a woman don't try to be everything she wants in a man that's a big mistake. Stop trying to be her hero. Give her a chance to show who she is. When you come off trying to be the perfect match for her it can be misinterpeted as you being weak. Don't be afraid to say no. If your always available again your weak or desperate. If your desperate she won't want you. Make her want you, give her a chance to express herself.

It's ok to be charming, wine and dine her but never give up who you are. She has needs as much as you do. Sometimes less is more so give her a chance to warm up to you.

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

Are you letting these women walk all over you? If so,stop that crap right now. Some women take advantage of a man like that.

 

[jucurious]

Ladies im a clinger !!! There I said it , I was gonna make up a name and post this [size=+5]But fuck that shit[/size] clown all you want I dont give a shit , I feel we can talk about some things right so fuck here goes.


Im a 28 year old male single no kids pretty drama free so as a clinger Ive been told basically im too nice to women or I try to hard to be with them, thus causing them to destroy whatever love/attraction feeling they had towards me and causing me to end up in the dreaded "Friend Zone" aka Dry Dick.

Me im a pretty straight shooter Im pretty open and honest about everything good and bad and I tend to not play games with what im feeling etc So I need some advice.

FLAME ON !!!!

..............

Hmmmm I need a little more info

yeah i concur w/ the ladies.....need more info

also...ur def of a clinger might be different than mine....u seem like a cool person

a clinger is one who calls A LOT, wants to be around u A LOT, basically a person who acts like you complete them instead of u complimenting them so they need to feel WHOLE which is y they want to be around their "missing" piece all the time

a clinger is a the beginning stages of a stalker....so i would be careful throwing that label around lol


you also have to know the mentality of the female...i know chics who call dudes clingers who return their phone calls within 2 days cuz they are used to being ignored by their dude...that whole PLAYING GAMES LIKE A CHILD shit.


so um yeah...can you give us an example of your alleged clingy-ness? put it in context plz

 

[mzmillion]

I would need an example of your clingyness too..... but...

I agree with what most of the men were saying, I'm a woman and I like sensitive men, but not overtly, I don't like "woe is me" whining and acting like you can't live life without me, its sounds cute, but its not.

I'm not saying change who you are, but you need to learn to be you and let her be her while your with her. When your single, your straight and you do you, you need to incorporate that into your relationships, stop dropping your life to jump into hers. Again, this sounds cute, but its not. Women like space and they like an independent man who they feel is strong on his two feet and compliments her independent strong life.

Most guys end up in the friend zone when there was a chance at first from directly turning her off in your behavior, attitude, or strength.

I like sensitive men but not weak men. I like men who are open to explore new things be it cultural, sexual, spiritual but still him and not me.

 

[SWATLANTA]

This thread would have been worthless if not for ...

*signs next to the recently dunked on*

 

[ClevelandDawg216]

 

[BenQ]

 

[Chicutie]

I would need an example of your clingyness too..... but...

I agree with what most of the men were saying, I'm a woman and I like sensitive men, but not overtly, I don't like "woe is me" whining and acting like you can't live life without me, its sounds cute, but its not.

I'm not saying change who you are, but you need to learn to be you and let her be her while your with her. When your single, your straight and you do you, you need to incorporate that into your relationships, stop dropping your life to jump into hers. Again, this sounds cute, but its not. Women like space and they like an independent man who they feel is strong on his two feet and compliments her independent strong life.

Most guys end up in the friend zone when there was a chance at first from directly turning her off in your behavior, attitude, or strength.

I like sensitive men but not weak men. I like men who are open to explore new things be it cultural, sexual, spiritual but still him and not me.

 

[owl]

Ladies im a clinger !!! There I said it , I was gonna make up a name and post this [SIZE=+5]But fuck that shit[/SIZE] clown all you want I dont give a shit , I feel we can talk about some things right so fuck here goes.


Im a 28 year old male single no kids pretty drama free so as a clinger Ive been told basically im too nice to women or I try to hard to be with them, thus causing them to destroy whatever love/attraction feeling they had towards me and causing me to end up in the dreaded "Friend Zone" aka Dry Dick.

Me im a pretty straight shooter Im pretty open and honest about everything good and bad and I tend to not play games with what im feeling etc So I need some advice.

FLAME ON !!!!

Alright...

So am I...

Not all of what you said, but personality wise, yeah....keep doing you, keep growing...watch out for the predators, and try not to become one yourself...damn, you just don't know how much I'm glad you opened up...

Stay up, BLACK MAN...PEACE

 

[UnoBetter2]

Real Puzzy wants Dick not another Puzzy!! IF you got a Dick then act like a Dick and stick the Puzzy good. All Puzzy will be happy with good Dick. But good Dick has to simply be himself sometimes! Because Good Dick just needs to be A Dick and PISS HIS PUZZY off from time to time to make Puzzy appreciate good Dick!! THATS WHAT GOOD DICK DOES!! Also good Dick takes the Puzzy out for a good dinner and entertainment every once and awhile and buys the Puzzy something nice and shiny like diamonds or gold to keep the Puzzy pretty, hot, wet, and feeling good about itself. Why because all Puzzy wants to feel special!! And a little $$$$ wont hurt either but, not too much or too often or the Puzzy will get dry and cold expecting to get this treatment for nothing. And before you know it Dick is pissed because puzzy is hot and wet for another Dick and Dick cant figure out why? Therefore Dick just gotta do what Good Dick do and be a Dick!! Treating Puzzy-good and bad-so Puzzy act right!
Cause Real Puzzy needs a Good Dick that knows how to balance Good Puzzy!!!

Sign,
Old School Good Dick!!
Dammit I have spoken and it is so!

P.S.
If you don't like what I have said then I would like to say in advance FUCK YOU!!
And don't be PM-ing with yo bullshit rhetoric cause I don't give a fuck!
Remember I'm Good Dick and unless your Good Puzzy you wont understand!!
​

 

[owl]

Real Puzzy wants Dick not another Puzzy!! IF you got a Dick then act like a Dick and stick the Puzzy good. All Puzzy will be happy with good Dick. But good Dick has to simply be himself sometimes! Because Good Dick just needs to be A Dick and PISS HIS PUZZY off from time to time to make Puzzy appreciate good Dick!! THATS WHAT GOOD DICK DOES!! Also good Dick takes the Puzzy out for a good dinner and entertainment every once and awhile and buys the Puzzy something nice and shiny like diamonds or gold to keep the Puzzy pretty, hot, wet, and feeling good about itself. Why because all Puzzy wants to feel special!! And a little $$$$ wont hurt either but, not too much or too often or the Puzzy will get dry and cold expecting to get this treatment for nothing. And before you know it Dick is pissed because puzzy is hot and wet for another Dick and Dick cant figure out why? Therefore Dick just gotta do what Good Dick do and be a Dick!! Treating Puzzy-good and bad-so Puzzy act right!
Cause Real Puzzy needs a Good Dick that knows how to balance Good Puzzy!!!

Sign,
Old School Good Dick!!
Dammit I have spoken and it is so!

P.S.
If you don't like what I have said then I would like to say in advance FUCK YOU!!
And don't be PM-ing with yo bullshit rhetoric cause I don't give a fuck!
Remember I'm Good Dick and unless your Good Puzzy you wont understand!!
​

You brothas is wild!!!

Like you can't be open and sensitive and have pussy wide open...

Like you can't have a woman paying out of her husband's bank account if you are a gentleman....

Like you can't have fine ass bank robbing type chicks laying hundreds in your hands and porn style head in your lap if you spit poetry and open your heart up...


You cats is too wild for me....


OP...trust...do YOU....fuck the standardized shit...I do me....ask around if it don't work....


We can kick in the lou if you need assistance...reality...

 

[SickMyDuck]