Now...What would the men of BGOL do?
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Say word! If the girlfriend is pushing for a 3-some it's probably gonna happen (if it hasn't already), but wifey cut that shit off at the pass with him which means her & the gf will more than likely end up fucking and sucking some other dude.
If wifey wanna be on some polyamory shit then he needs to bring in a girlfriend and watch how quick wifeys tune changes.
It's one thing to pull these types of shenanigans when you're single..but married? For real?
Only one thing to do
Word!
Marriage is for suckers.
same thing happened to a friend of mine...
trust that 3 way stuff is NOT that simple.
Wow... I hope all those calls for threesomes are just jokes...
Brother needs to divorce this chick. Now!
How can you live a life being ok with being disrespected, lied to and cheated on?
Disrespect is always pushed if left unchecked. Soon his wife will offer other men to join in threesomes just to take it out on him being such a walk-over.
Brother needs to divorce this chick. Now!
How can you live a life being ok with being disrespected, lied to and cheated on?
Disrespect is always pushed if left unchecked. Soon his wife will offer other men to join in threesomes just to take it out on him being such a walk-over.
Co-sign. If shes my wife, then its for a reason. Cheating is cheating. Now just some chick, yea threesome...
Man, not only does she cheat on him but she does it right under his nose. What a disrespectful cunt. Divorce.
This nigga is being cuckolded in his own house by a female. This bi-Black women mess is getting out of hand.
Sounds like she took his balls in exchange for the damn ring
Naw, divorce this loony tune, hypocritical broad man
Shoulda neva married that type of female in the first place
If she cant be faithful, but expect him to be, this is bullshit
Take the hit on getting the divorce
Dude needs to get his sack back and keep it moving
This is true but.............
I just saw this....You know what I think your right!
if her 'gay' gf is cool with it then they musta got together with another dude by now too
this guy is a joke
So what are you going to say to this dude?
I still apologized to him. I told him I am not a man and that I felt bad for telling him to man up...But that he really need to look at his marriage closely to see if he is truly happy. I also told him that is he doesnt stand for something, he will fall for anything.....
I'll say this....
NO CHURCH COUNSELING
NO THERAPIST SESSIONS/MARRIAGE COUNSELING
NO RECONCILIATION
NO TALKIN' THINGS OUT
NO COMPROMISING
NO LYING TO ONESELF
This guy should cut his loses now while he can get evidence in abundance and keep it moving....
He ought to see if he can come up financially from this braud's treachery...
I'm kinda unsure of the menaje with them, cause that could possibly fuck up a 'come-up' financially in a divorce proceeding....as in the husband knew and participated in the activity (so no harm done and the husband is lying by saying he didn't know 'what time it was'). He ought to attempt to cripple that braud financially, you know a parting gift that keeps on giving to him!!!
Anything lesser than the aforementioned and dude is at stage 4 simpism....HE'S FUCKIN' LOST. Stick a fork in him, he's done.....
NO CHURCH COUNSELING
NO THERAPIST SESSIONS/MARRIAGE COUNSELING
NO RECONCILIATION
NO TALKIN' THINGS OUT
NO COMPROMISING
NO LYING TO ONESELF
This guy should cut his loses now while he can get evidence in abundance and keep it moving....
He ought to see if he can come up financially from this braud's treachery...
I'm kinda unsure of the menaje with them, cause that could possibly fuck up a 'come-up' financially in a divorce proceeding....as in the husband knew and participated in the activity (so no harm done and the husband is lying by saying he didn't know 'what time it was'). He ought to attempt to cripple that braud financially, you know a parting gift that keeps on giving to him!!!
Anything lesser than the aforementioned and dude is at stage 4 simpism....HE'S FUCKIN' LOST. Stick a fork in him, he's done.....
Rick Ronson
Banned
Its wild how far people take shit once they see a sucker aint it man
Especially women....no mercy
Rightfully so....nothing worse than a weak ass man.
Especially women....no mercy
Rightfully so....nothing worse than a weak ass man.
Agreed. He's lost. He may have just given up and been like fuck it. I've seen this a few times before. She's going to leave him, be with the chick, break his heart, rip his house apart. And then the chick is going to either cheat on her, or they're just going to fall apart themselves. 50/50 of women who do this situation try to come back to the guy they left. Most of the guys don't take the chicks back.
Get proof of the cheating, then get a divorce.
Fuck a threesome. If she allowed a 3 some, it would just be to pacify the dude about how fucked up the situation is. Even if his wife was down with a 3 some, I wouldn't be surprised if it came to the point where the friend would be in his wife's ear like "we don't need him, we were better when it was just me and you" convincing his wife to leave him so they can be together. And she could pull it off if she's convinced his wife to come visit her every once in awhile and convinced her that allowing her in their house was a good idea.
If she wants to be with the bitch, let her be with the bitch.
Fuck a threesome. If she allowed a 3 some, it would just be to pacify the dude about how fucked up the situation is. Even if his wife was down with a 3 some, I wouldn't be surprised if it came to the point where the friend would be in his wife's ear like "we don't need him, we were better when it was just me and you" convincing his wife to leave him so they can be together. And she could pull it off if she's convinced his wife to come visit her every once in awhile and convinced her that allowing her in their house was a good idea.
If she wants to be with the bitch, let her be with the bitch.
If there were no children in the house and we were only "seeing" each other, I would let it slide. Let her experiment if she wants. Just realize that while you are seeing other women, I might be doing the same thing if you stray too long
If we are married, it's a little more complicated. If we live in a state where you can marry the same sex, then she might have to answer a subpoena or two for adultery. Because if there ends up being a divorce, I want it known (and on the record) that she was the one who strayed away from the relationship, not I. Once we get that out the way she can do whatever with whoever as long as it doesn't end up in our home...Just remember I will probably do the same thing so don't be trying to steal my side piece
If we are married, it's a little more complicated. If we live in a state where you can marry the same sex, then she might have to answer a subpoena or two for adultery. Because if there ends up being a divorce, I want it known (and on the record) that she was the one who strayed away from the relationship, not I. Once we get that out the way she can do whatever with whoever as long as it doesn't end up in our home...Just remember I will probably do the same thing so don't be trying to steal my side piece
I wonder how many dudes went from single and into a relationship on their facebook page with pics of that broad all up in them.
That bitch is shady.I can bet she still has a bunch of shady shit up her sleeve if dude doesn't man up.
That bitch is shady.I can bet she still has a bunch of shady shit up her sleeve if dude doesn't man up.
Well, that was diplomatic.
This was my 1st thought. I could see this situation progressing to this point: The wife either convinces the guy to let her live there with them or some B.S. situation arises where the girlfriend needs to stay with them, then the real disrespect begins. They start treating him as if that is their house (the females) and he's the guest. Then she starts pulling away from him both physically and emotionally, while making their problems seem as if they're his fault. Finally, she'll provoke a situation that will force a police response, getting him kicked out of his house. Then she'll get an order of protection against him while starting divorce proceedings, asking for the home and spousal support. Then he'll be ass-out and financially supporting both of them in his house.
I know this sounds like a stretch, but if she has done some sneaky things already, it's not going to stop here. Once your woman starts doing some shady sh*t in your relationship, she has lost all respect for you and will continue to do selfish and disrespectful things until she decides to end your relationship. And it will be done as painfully as possible because she will have convinced herself (pure justification on her part)that all the dirt she's doing to you is deserved and you were a horrible husband.
He should throw her out of the house and divorce her immediately. I know I sound harsh, but I've been married for 26 years and I know I couldn't allow this to go on in my home. If she came to him and told him everything and they agreed to have an open marriage with rules on how this is to be conducted fairly, then I could understand him giving her a chance. But as things stand now, she would have to go.
I would gather all information needed then divorce her and take everything.
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