Not the Daddy still paying child support...

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...my bad, back child support:

Frank Hatley has languished in a South Georgia jail for more than a year.

The reason? He failed to reimburse the state for all the public assistance his “son” received over the past two decades.

The problem? Hatley is not the biological father -- and a special assistant state attorney general and a judge knew it but jailed Hatley anyway.

“I feel bad for the man,” Cook County Sheriff Johnny Daughtrey said Tuesday. “Put yourself in that man’s shoes: If it wasn’t your child, would you want to be paying child support for him?”

Daughtrey said he hopes a hearing Wednesday will resolve the matter. Hatley has been held at the county jail in Adel since June 25, 2008, costing the county an estimated $35 to $40 a day.

Even after learning he was not the father, Hatley paid thousands of dollars the state said he owed for support. After losing his job and becoming homeless, he still made payments out of his unemployment benefits.

Hatley’s lawyer, Sarah Geraghty of the Southern Center for Human Rights in Atlanta, said two independent DNA tests -- one nine years ago and one just a few days ago -- prove he is not the biological father.

“This is a case of excessive zeal to recover money trumping common sense,” she said. “What possible legitimate reason can the state have to pursue Mr. Hatley for child support when he does not have any children?”

It may be difficult for Hatley to get out from under the court order, said Atlanta family lawyer Randall Kessler, who is not associated with the case. “It’s definitely unfair,” Kessler said. “But at the same time, he’s dealing with a valid court order.”

Russ Willard, a spokesman for the state attorney general, said if Hatley can show at the hearing that he is indigent, the state will not oppose his release.

Willard said Hatley could have applied to the state Office of Child Support Services to request that he be relieved of his obligations. He said Hatley has not made such a request.

According to court filings, Hatley was never told that he could have a court-appointed lawyer if he could not afford one. Geraghty said she only recently took on Hatley as a client after the sheriff asked her to talk to Hatley about his predicament.

Geraghty said Hatley had paid a total of $9,524.05 in support since April 1995, but records of payments before that time are not available.

In the 1980s, Hatley had a relationship with Essie Lee Morrison, who became pregnant, had a baby boy and told Hatley the child was his, according to court records. The couple never married and split up shortly after Travon was born in 1987.

In 1989, Morrison applied for public assistance through the state Department of Human Resources. The state then moved to get Hatley to reimburse the cost of Travon’s support, and Hatley agreed because he believed Travon was his son.

But in 2000, DNA samples from Hatley and Travon showed the two were not related, according to a court records.

With the help of a Georgia Legal Services lawyer, Hatley went to court and was relieved of his responsibility to pay future child support. But he still had to deal with being a deadbeat dad when it was assumed that he was really the dad.

Homerville lawyer Charles Reddick, working as a special assistant state attorney general, prepared an order requiring Hatley to pay the $16,398 he still owed the state for child support.

The Aug. 21, 2001 order, signed by Cook County Superior Court Judge Dane Perkins, acknowledges that Hatley was not Travon’s father.

After that, Hatley paid almost $6,000. But last year he was laid off from his job unloading charcoal grills from shipping containers. He became homeless and lived in his car. Still, Hatley made some child support payments using his unemployment benefits.

By May 2008, he apparently had not paid enough. In another order prepared by Reddick and signed by Perkins, Hatley was found in contempt and jailed. When he is released, the order said, Hatley must continue making payments to the state at a rate of $250 a month.
http://www.ajc.com/news/court-knew-man-jailed-91036.html?imw=Y


Dude...


Fuck you Georgia


Fuck you
 
Sad, but he was stupid. Never agree that you are the father. Dumb nigga got caught up in sentimental BS. Use your head. He had the right to request a paternity test in 1989, he chose not to. They got a valid court order against him. Period. Point. Blank. He lost. He was not defrauded.

Know your rights.
 
Sad, but he was stupid. Never agree that you are the father. Dumb nigga got caught up in sentimental BS. Use your head. He had the right to request a paternity test in 1989, he chose not to. They got a valid court order against him. Period. Point. Blank. He lost. He was not defrauded.

Know your rights.

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The cold, hard truth
 
Sad, but he was stupid. Never agree that you are the father. Dumb nigga got caught up in sentimental BS. Use your head. He had the right to request a paternity test in 1989, he chose not to. They got a valid court order against him. Period. Point. Blank. He lost. He was not defrauded.

Know your rights.
The man was defrauded. Why is he setting in jail and not the female. When the DNA showed he was not the father then all blame should be placed on the woman.

At this point I think their should be a law were the man can voluntary pay if he chooses to. But to jail a man for a child that is not his is crazy

I just don't under stand why the men are held accountable and not the women
 
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Sad, but he was stupid. Never agree that you are the father. Dumb nigga got caught up in sentimental BS. Use your head. He had the right to request a paternity test in 1989, he chose not to. They got a valid court order against him. Period. Point. Blank. He lost. He was not defrauded.

Know your rights.

That doesn't really matter in GA. Any woman could go up to the court and say LD is the daddy and if LD doesn't show up in court then he will have an order put out against him. Don't need DNA to do it.

Even if you go take the test and prove it's not yours you are still responsible for child support. In fact I'm not sure how he got future payments stopped because once that order is placed you are responsible. It's a fucked up law in GA but it's the truth. Seen a few guys I know personally go through it. :smh:
 
The man was defrauded. Why is he setting in jail and not the female. When the DNA showed he was not the father then all blame should be placed on the woman.

At this point I think their should be a law were the man can voluntary pay if he chooses to. But to jail a man for a child that is not his is crazy

I just don't under stand why the men are held accountable and not the women

He's in jail because he didn't pay what he owed. He is responsible for the backpay because his dumb ass signed the order. Why would you "place blame" on the woman? She didn't defraud him. They went before the court and he AGREED that he was the father. His dumbass agreed. I bet he thought he was the ONLY nigga hitting it. Selfish.

That doesn't really matter in GA. Any woman could go up to the court and say LD is the daddy and if LD doesn't show up in court then he will have an order put out against him. Don't need DNA to do it.

Even if you go take the test and prove it's not yours you are still responsible for child support. In fact I'm not sure how he got future payments stopped because once that order is placed you are responsible. It's a fucked up law in GA but it's the truth. Seen a few guys I know personally go through it. :smh:

Nope. Why didn't he show up? You have to be SERVED to go to court. If they don't SERVE you, the hearing cannot proceed. They cannot establish an order unless you are given proper notice by SERVICE. If he got served and didn't show up, guess what? He's a dumb ass. Why wouldn't you show up to court after being served? That's not even the issue in this case. He showed up and say "I'm the father" like a dummy and signed the order. If you get a DNA test, you won't be responsible for anything.

That's the law anywhere. You sign a legally binded court order for child support, you're fucked. Here's the hint: Don't sign it. Never agree to shit without DNA. He fucked up. Plain and simple. That's why they push DNA on you and that's why it's FREE if you are found not to be the father.

Know your rights. Don't be stupid.
 
cats better be 100% sure before they sign those birth certificates taking claim for a kid. a lot of these states have something on the books known as the bastard law.
 
Nope. Why didn't he show up? You have to be SERVED to go to court. If they don't SERVE you, the hearing cannot proceed. They cannot establish an order unless you are given proper notice by SERVICE. If he got served and didn't show up, guess what? He's a dumb ass. Why wouldn't you show up to court after being served? That's not even the issue in this case. He showed up and say "I'm the father" like a dummy and signed the order. If you get a DNA test, you won't be responsible for anything.

That's the law anywhere. You sign a legally binded court order for child support, you're fucked. Here's the hint: Don't sign it. Never agree to shit without DNA. He fucked up. Plain and simple. That's why they push DNA on you and that's why it's FREE if you are found not to be the father.

Know your rights. Don't be stupid.

I hope you don't live in GA! :lol:

Cause if you do then you don't know your rights at all. All the court has to do in GA is ATTEMPT to serve you. Look it up. There is a lot of shit wrong with GA child support laws and that is one. A woman can walk into court and as long as she can prove you had a relationship with her and gives out identifying info then you can get stuck. Don't need to prove that it's the correct address or anything. Seen it happen but dude who it happened to was smart enough to petition and get it dropped when he found out.

And where did you read that he got served anything? It said the child was born in 87 and in 89 the man went to apply for public assistance and was TOLD that he owed back child support and agreed to pay it. TOLD not court ordered. Didn't say he signed anything in 87 did it? So if he had split up with the woman in 87 and didn't hear anything about it until 89 exactly how was GHR telling him he owed back child support?

He agreed to pay it because if he didn't agree he couldn't apply for public assistance. Trust me I know when I had to sign up for unemployment. But I had a court order and agreed to pay child support. How exactly did he get his under your logic two years retroactively without ever going to court on it?

See the flaw in your logic.
 
I hope you don't live in GA! :lol:

Cause if you do then you don't know your rights at all. All the court has to do in GA is ATTEMPT to serve you. Look it up. There is a lot of shit wrong with GA child support laws and that is one. A woman can walk into court and as long as she can prove you had a relationship with her and gives out identifying info then you can get stuck. Don't need to prove that it's the correct address or anything. Seen it happen but dude who it happened to was smart enough to petition and get it dropped when he found out.

That's not a child support law, that's a law of the courts. If you have not been served/summoned, they cannot proceed with an order against you. Now if you can show me anything besides anecdotal evidence that shows that you can have a legally binding court order formed against you without you receiving formal notice, they I will agree that you are right. That's like saying a court hearing can proceed against you without you being served if someone is suing you. :smh: Not possible.

Wait, I found something.

http://www.ocse.dhr.georgia.gov/por...toid=bd5a10ad92000010VgnVCM100000bf01010aRCRD

To get a support order, establish paternity or enforce a support order, OCSS must know where the non-custodial parent lives and/or works. It may take several months to get child support if you do not know where the other parent lives or if the address is out of state. There is no guarantee the other parent will be found, but the more information you provide, such as the other parent's date of birth and social security number, the easier it will be.

And where did you read that he got served anything? It said the child was born in 87 and in 89 the man went to apply for public assistance and was TOLD that he owed back child support and agreed to pay it. TOLD not court ordered. Didn't say he signed anything in 87 did it? So if he had split up with the woman in 87 and didn't hear anything about it until 89 exactly how was GHR telling him he owed back child support?

No, I think you need to read the story and PROCESS it. He didn't apply for assistance. She did. He wasn't told anything. She applied and as a result of applying for assistance, she has to establish a child support case against the father. Gov't money isn't free and they seek to reimburse some of it from the father. Do you see the part where it says the state moved to get the money from Hatley? That is where they established the court order. Do you see where it says he agreed? That's where he signed the court order. It also doesn't say anything about "back support" anywhere in the article. The only reason there would be back pay is if a) she was on assistance before the order was signed (and she wasn't) or b) she asked for it (which she didn't). The only back child support is NOW because he didn't pay what he owes.

He agreed to pay it because if he didn't agree he couldn't apply for public assistance. Trust me I know when I had to sign up for unemployment. But I had a court order and agreed to pay child support. How exactly did he get his under your logic two years retroactively without ever going to court on it?

See the flaw in your logic.

Again, he applied for any assistance, she did. And he agreed because his dumb ass thought he was the father and had the chance to test paternity and chose not to. I just think you misread and didn't understand what was going on in the story.
 
Wow...



...there are a couple of things I think we might be overlooking. Despite what fucked up laws are or are not in place here or what may or may not have been signed, Keep in mind:

Willard said Hatley could have applied to the state Office of Child Support Services to request that he be relieved of his obligations. He said Hatley has not made such a request.

He probably has not done so at the time of this article because:

According to court filings, Hatley was never told that he could have a court-appointed lawyer if he could not afford one. Geraghty said she only recently took on Hatley as a client after the sheriff asked her to talk to Hatley about his predicament.

Even if this man did not know his rights, (which he didn't), you can't expect every man to. Which is why he is suppose to have legal representation...him not having this is about tantamount to being arrested without your Miranda rights. Which one could argue that his 'back' child support could them become void.

Even bigger in the picture the mother had to know that Hatley was not the father so why is she not prosecuted as well? She should have to pay back what was already given to her to Hatley, as I have seen in other states. I just don't personally understand how after DNA testing he has to pay back monies when the state 'thought' he was a deadbeat dad. Isn't that what the test was for? So that he didn't have to pay if he was found not to be the father? :confused:




My conclusion stands.

Fuck you, Georgia.


Fuck you.
 
He has an attorney. If you look at the paragraph right below the part you quoted about how he could of applied. He just still hasn't.
 
His attorney took his case of her, (his?), own volition. He didn't call her; it might even be safe to assume he didn't know he couldhave a lawyer. Yes he hasn't filed, but like I said, if he didn't know he could have an attorney / or had an attorney from the start - how would he know to file? After this with legal representation he probably has...


I'll try to follow up on this if I can find anything new on it in the next couple of days.
 
Screw all that. Where is the REAL father at? The courts need to be going after the Negro that actually busted the nut. Why is he not footing the bill? The state just found an ignorant cat that didn't know his rights and decided to bleed him dry. And you can go to court without being served(in mo) They can attempt to serve you. If they take the summons to your house and you ain't home, they can leave it thereon your door step and to them you have been served. Whether you got it or not doesn't matter.
 
That's not a child support law, that's a law of the courts.

Wait, I found something.

No, I think you need to read the story and PROCESS it. He didn't apply for assistance. She did. He wasn't told anything. She applied and as a result of applying for assistance, she has to establish a child support case against the father. Gov't money isn't free and they seek to reimburse some of it from the father. Do you see the part where it says the state moved to get the money from Hatley? That is where they established the court order. Do you see where it says he agreed? That's where he signed the court order. It also doesn't say anything about "back support" anywhere in the article. The only reason there would be back pay is if a) she was on assistance before the order was signed (and she wasn't) or b) she asked for it (which she didn't). The only back child support is NOW because he didn't pay what he owes.

Owing child support is back child support. Its money he still owed that he had not paid up to that date. Because he was granted a new order that said he no longer owed it in 2001 but he wasn't arrested until 2009. He was arrested for failure to pay back child support.

And I misspoke. I was assuming that he went to jail because he applied for assistance when he filed for unemployment. That's what I meant by assistance on his part. I was combining the two by mistake. She applied in 89 but he applied in I'm assuming 08? The story says that he was paying support out of his unemployment but it wasn't enough and that's how he went to jail. Because he wasn't catching up on the money he owed fast enough.
 
That doesn't really matter in GA. Any woman could go up to the court and say LD is the daddy and if LD doesn't show up in court then he will have an order put out against him. Don't need DNA to do it.

Even if you go take the test and prove it's not yours you are still responsible for child support. In fact I'm not sure how he got future payments stopped because once that order is placed you are responsible. It's a fucked up law in GA but it's the truth. Seen a few guys I know personally go through it. :smh:

That's not a child support law, that's a law of the courts. If you have not been served/summoned, they cannot proceed with an order against you. Now if you can show me anything besides anecdotal evidence that shows that you can have a legally binding court order formed against you without you receiving formal notice, they I will agree that you are right. That's like saying a court hearing can proceed against you without you being served if someone is suing you. :smh: Not possible.

Aight let me explain this to you and I will try to look up the law in GA that allows for it.

As you see in that link you posted GA has to find the father in order to serve him. If they serve him he can request a DNA test and yadda yadda.

Well if the woman has as it says in the article the man's valid social security number or other identifying shit they will attempt to track the father down.

If the father cannot be tracked down then the state will issue a "de facto" judgement in GA and the state will pay for all of the assistance until the daddy can be found. When he is found he can be charged and ordered to pay back child support without ever being served. If it is proven at a later time WHEN HE IS SERVED that he is the father he can be ordered to pay back child support. Period. If he knew about it or not. In GA. If the mother takes assistance.

Don't know how it works in other states but I will try and look it up. In fact I had to go to child support court once and I was in there with a guy this happened to. Judge said he knew he had a baby with the lady and avoided the court for 7 years. Dude said he didn't know and that he moved out of state and came back then found out. Baby momma heard he was in town and had him served again. Judge said too bad and put his ass in jail.

Another guy I know was with a girl who had 3 guys tested and when he was lucky number 4 the court said he should have gotten tested sooner and ordered him to pay back support. I'm not making this shit up but I will look it up.
 
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Well if the woman has as it says in the article the man's valid social security number or other identifying shit they will attempt to track the father down.

If the father cannot be tracked down then the state will issue a "de facto" judgement in GA and the state will pay for all of the assistance until the daddy can be found. When he is found he can be charged and ordered to pay back child support without ever being served. If it is proven at a later time WHEN HE IS SERVED that he is the father he can be ordered to pay. Period. If he knew about it or not. In GA.

There is no way in hell the state of GA is paying child support to women in hopes that a future father is found. What you might be misinterpreting is if the woman applies for assistance (ie welfare) they will pay the welfare and run up a bill, but there is no "de facto" judgment. There is just arrears building up, but it's not attached to any person's name until a court order is established. You're mixing two different things up. And you're introducing elements that have nothing to do with this case.

Yes you can billed for back child support for assistance paid to a child that you had no idea about. I never denied that. And that was never part of any of your original points.
 
Sad, but he was stupid. Never agree that you are the father. Dumb nigga got caught up in sentimental BS. Use your head. He had the right to request a paternity test in 1989, he chose not to. They got a valid court order against him. Period. Point. Blank. He lost. He was not defrauded.

Know your rights.

That doesn't really matter in GA. Any woman could go up to the court and say LD is the daddy and if LD doesn't show up in court then he will have an order put out against him. Don't need DNA to do it.

Even if you go take the test and prove it's not yours you are still responsible for child support. In fact I'm not sure how he got future payments stopped because once that order is placed you are responsible. It's a fucked up law in GA but it's the truth. Seen a few guys I know personally go through it. :smh:

Nope. Why didn't he show up? You have to be SERVED to go to court. If they don't SERVE you, the hearing cannot proceed. They cannot establish an order unless you are given proper notice by SERVICE. If he got served and didn't show up, guess what? He's a dumb ass. Why wouldn't you show up to court after being served? That's not even the issue in this case. He showed up and say "I'm the father" like a dummy and signed the order. If you get a DNA test, you won't be responsible for anything.

That's the law anywhere. You sign a legally binded court order for child support, you're fucked. Here's the hint: Don't sign it. Never agree to shit without DNA. He fucked up. Plain and simple. That's why they push DNA on you and that's why it's FREE if you are found not to be the father.

Know your rights. Don't be stupid.

I hope you don't live in GA! :lol:

Cause if you do then you don't know your rights at all. All the court has to do in GA is ATTEMPT to serve you. Look it up. There is a lot of shit wrong with GA child support laws and that is one. A woman can walk into court and as long as she can prove you had a relationship with her and gives out identifying info then you can get stuck. Don't need to prove that it's the correct address or anything. Seen it happen but dude who it happened to was smart enough to petition and get it dropped when he found out.


And where did you read that he got served anything? It said the child was born in 87 and in 89 the man went to apply for public assistance and was TOLD that he owed back child support and agreed to pay it. TOLD not court ordered. Didn't say he signed anything in 87 did it? So if he had split up with the woman in 87 and didn't hear anything about it until 89 exactly how was GHR telling him he owed back child support?

He agreed to pay it because if he didn't agree he couldn't apply for public assistance. Trust me I know when I had to sign up for unemployment. But I had a court order and agreed to pay child support. How exactly did he get his under your logic two years retroactively without ever going to court on it?

See the flaw in your logic.

That was my original point! :lol:

You the one who went off on a tangent. I just responded to you to let you know that the shit can happen in GA like that.
 
As for the other stuff you edited in, like I said, you can be charged back child support. What they do is when they finally get you in there, they calculate how much you should've paid. If she was on gov't assistance, they already have a running total. However, like I said, there is no order established until you go to court.
 
There is no way in hell the state of GA is paying child support to women in hopes that a future father is found. What you might be misinterpreting is if the woman applies for assistance (ie welfare) they will pay the welfare and run up a bill, but there is no "de facto" judgment. There is just arrears building up, but it's not attached to any person's name until a court order is established. You're mixing two different things up. And you're introducing elements that have nothing to do with this case.

Yes you can billed for back child support for assistance paid to a child that you had no idea about. I never denied that. And that was never part of any of your original points.

Dude what do you think arrears are? It's back child support. :lol:

And yes like I said when the man is served he is ordered to pay child support WITHOUT A COURT ORDER! Because if it takes 10 years for them to find the father and serve him then by what you are saying he shouldn't have to pay shit until he is served and I have said three times now that is not the case. They are in effect pinning a previous judgement onto a new case and calling it a day?

You were the one who disagreed with it! :lol:
 
As for the other stuff you edited in, like I said, you can be charged back child support. What they do is when they finally get you in there, they calculate how much you should've paid. If she was on gov't assistance, they already have a running total. However, like I said, there is no order established until you go to court.

What stuff did I edit? :dunno:

I said I misspoke on the 89 assistance part for the man. Explained that in detail but this is what I was talking about the whole time. I'm missing your point? Or did you miss mine cause now you cosigning what I said up top?

So this is the man being charged for child support without a court order isn't it? Seeing how I would have to pay for something I had no notice of and never went to court for like I said right? :dunno:

Oh and you can be charged arrears if the woman is on Peachcare or Medicaid or any other assistance not just welfare. And you can be ordered to pay back support for child care (insurance) even if she is not on public assistance.
 
The cold, hard truth
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Sad, but he was stupid. Never agree that you are the father. Dumb nigga got caught up in sentimental BS. Use your head. He had the right to request a paternity test in 1989, he chose not to. They got a valid court order against him. Period. Point. Blank. He lost. He was not defrauded.

Know your rights.
For real. know ya rights is right i didnt @ 17 and no real info into or money to put to it and still payin 13yrs later. court told me that positive or not im stuck payin about the same. but till its reversed it continues to accumulate. The shit u do as a kid can beat ya ass as an adult, i feel his pain.:smh::smh::smh::smh:






and for u fucks who say
"shoulda strapped up..." i did, it broke. long story after that...:cool:
 
Even if this man did not know his rights, (which he didn't), you can't expect every man to. Which is why he is suppose to have legal representation...him not having this is about tantamount to being arrested without your Miranda rights. Which one could argue that his 'back' child support could them become void.

Even bigger in the picture the mother had to know that Hatley was not the father so why is she not prosecuted as well? She should have to pay back what was already given to her to Hatley, as I have seen in other states. I just don't personally understand how after DNA testing he has to pay back monies when the state 'thought' he was a deadbeat dad. Isn't that what the test was for? So that he didn't have to pay if he was found not to be the father? :confused:




My conclusion stands.

Fuck you, Georgia.


Fuck you.

In this case since I've been off on a tangent what LD is saying is that since he signed the order and agreed to pay and then defaulted on the payments then he should still be responsible.

He is technically right. However the reasoning behind him agreeing was fraudulent because he didn't have a DNA test and apparently nobody made him take one. Not even sure if he knew he had the right to take one right now. So seeing how he is not the father the state feels like they should be reimbursed by him instead of by the real father. And yes the mother should now be charged with paying back the state and the person who is not the father should be set free. But this is GA! :lol:

I don't think that DNA testing should be optional for ANY child support case. I think it should be mandatory. Fuck that shit about you (ladies) thought he was the father. If you file for child support and you are not married then you should be required to have a DNA test. If you are married then it should be optional and not paid for if you are proven not to be the father.

My opinion.
 
Dude what do you think arrears are? It's back child support. :lol:

And yes like I said when the man is served he is ordered to pay child support WITHOUT A COURT ORDER! Because if it takes 10 years for them to find the father and serve him then by what you are saying he shouldn't have to pay shit until he is served and I have said three times now that is not the case. They are in effect pinning a previous judgement onto a new case and calling it a day?

You were the one who disagreed with it! :lol:

How can you order someone to pay something? He's not order to pay anything INTIL he goes to court. How can you say he is ordered to pay when they haven't determined paternity. The court will not proceed on the case if the woman is not on state assistance. She will have to wait until the father is found. In that case, there is no running total. If she is on state assistance, she is given the assistance and there is a running total kept for an "assumed" father. Not to the person she accuses. All that exists is a balance. Not assigned to anyone. He isn't obligated to pay it until he is served. And then they go to court and determine paternity. And then establish an order.
What stuff did I edit? :dunno:

I said I misspoke on the 89 assistance part for the man. Explained that in detail but this is what I was talking about the whole time. I'm missing your point? Or did you miss mine cause now you cosigning what I said up top?

So this is the man being charged for child support without a court order isn't it? Seeing how I would have to pay for something I had no notice of and never went to court for like I said right? :dunno:

Oh and you can be charged arrears if the woman is on Peachcare or Medicaid or any other assistance not just welfare. And you can be ordered to pay back support for child care (insurance) even if she is not on public assistance.


A man cannot be charged for child support without a court order. Period. Point. Blank.

There can be a running balance for public assistance (all kinds, when I said i.e. welfare, that means for example, but not limiting it to just welfare). However, until a father is established via court proceedings, no one is responsible for it. Period. Point. Blank.

Andey, I work this shit man. And I know how you get when you argue even when you're arguing against facts, you'll keep cherrypicking a phrase and running with it and then changing your argument slightly to fit it (i.e. the whole PeacheySweet mess). So will say this. Believe what you want to believe. Any brothers reading this know that they can't do anything without a court order.
 
How can you order someone to pay something? He's not order to pay anything INTIL he goes to court. How can you say he is ordered to pay when they haven't determined paternity. The court will not proceed on the case if the woman is not on state assistance. She will have to wait until the father is found. In that case, there is no running total. If she is on state assistance, she is given the assistance and there is a running total kept for an "assumed" father. Not to the person she accuses. All that exists is a balance. Not assigned to anyone. He isn't obligated to pay it until he is served. And then they go to court and determine paternity. And then establish an order.



A man cannot be charged for child support without a court order. Period. Point. Blank.

There can be a running balance for public assistance (all kinds, when I said i.e. welfare, that means for example, but not limiting it to just welfare). However, until a father is established via court proceedings, no one is responsible for it. Period. Point. Blank.

Andey, I work this shit man. And I know how you get when you argue even when you're arguing against facts, you'll keep cherrypicking a phrase and running with it and then changing your argument slightly to fit it (i.e. the whole PeacheySweet mess). So will say this. Believe what you want to believe. Any brothers reading this know that they can't do anything without a court order.

Why you keep bringing up the peachy sweet thing every time you get backed in a corner! :lol:

You are missing the point and just say you missed the shit. Here's the scenario.

1. I fuck a girl in 1999 and she has a kid in 2000.

2. It's 2010 and I don't know shit about it.

3. She sees me when I go back home and she goes to child support and gives them my information and say "he's my baby daddy".

4. Court serves me and I take a paternity test and the child is proven to be mine.

5. I go to court and the judge tells me that I have to pay 200 dollars a month in child support. From January 2010 until January 2018. Assuming the child was born in Janurary. :D

6. I am also now ordered to pay 10,000 in arrears for the support of the child I missed for the first 10 years of his life to the state.

Number 6 is a retroactive (de facto) judgement. I am being charged for the ten years when I didn't have a judgement cousin. Do you understand what I am saying? I never walked into a court in 2000 so why am I being charged for payments from 2000 to 2010? Because I wasn't given a judgement. I wasn't given a court order but I am still paying support as if I was in 2000.

This is fucked up. This is my point
. I didn't ask for the woman to take welfare or peachcare or anything else but I am being charged for it as if I did something wrong. Even if the woman never notified me that I had a child.

Edit...And my point about them charging a man because the woman said he was the father is also true. Woman said this dude was the father. Tried to serve him but girl had wrong address. 5 years or so later girl finds good address and has him served again. Court said since she had established a case in his name from jumpstreet and he was proven to be the father that they could retro his child support based on his earnings in the 5 previous years. He got a lawyer and they are trying to get it thrown out. Which was my other point.

Do you get my point or are you going to deflect again? I can't make the shit more plain than that man. If you don't get it now you just slow. Damn what the law is I said it's fucked up in GA cause it's not like this in all states.
 
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No I didn't. :hmm:

You said a man can not have a judgement passed down to him without being served. Paying arrears blows that out of the water buddy. But you too dense to see that.

And if a woman goes in there and says LD is the daddy but the court can't find LD until years later and it turns out she happens to be right that you were the daddy GA will charge you support, not arrears, support for all the years they couldn't find you.

But you will continue to argue so fuck it. On with the thread.
 
No I didn't. :hmm:

You said a man can not have a judgement passed down to him without being served. Paying arrears blows that out of the water buddy. But you too dense to see that.

And if a woman goes in there and says LD is the daddy but the court can't find LD until years later and it turns out she happens to be right that you were the daddy GA will charge you support, not arrears, support for all the years they couldn't find you.

But you will continue to argue so fuck it. On with the thread.

Yes. There is no judgment. There is no order.

1999 - Melon walks in and says you're the father. They can't find you. She's not on assistance. Nothing happens.

2007 - They find you, you finally go to court, you get an order. The judge asks Melon if she wants backpay, she says yes. She gets it. The judgment was signed here. There was no running total.

Same as:

2007 - Melon after 8 years decides that she wants to put you on child support. They find you, they serve you, you go to court, you get an order. The judge asks Melon if she wants backpay, she says yes. She gets it.

And anyway, what we were talking about ORIGINALLY was them getting an order on you without you being served or present. They can't do that. Period. I mean I just work in this. :dunno:
 
Yes. There is no judgment. There is no order.

1999 - Melon walks in and says you're the father. They can't find you. She's not on assistance. Nothing happens.

2007 - They find you, you finally go to court, you get an order. The judge asks Melon if she wants backpay, she says yes. She gets it. The judgment was signed here. There was no running total.

Same as:

2007 - Melon after 8 years decides that she wants to put you on child support. They find you, they serve you, you go to court, you get an order. The judge asks Melon if she wants backpay, she says yes. She gets it.

And anyway, what we were talking about ORIGINALLY was them getting an order on you without you being served or present. They can't do that. Period. I mean I just work in this. :dunno:

You mincing words here cousin and caught up on your own jargon. OK there is no OFFICIAL order. There. Happy? Yes you have to go to court for the proceedings to OFFICIALLY start. Are you happy now?

It still does not change the fact that when you go if it's years later that the court can legally tack on money before the order was given and signed. They are charging you and ordering you to pay money that was accrued before you stepped foot in that court room. Before you were served. Before your paternity was determined. In both of your scenarios that is the case right? That is the essence of arrears. Do you agree or no?
 
You mincing words here cousin and caught up on your own jargon. OK there is no OFFICIAL order. There. Happy? Yes you have to go to court for the proceedings to OFFICIALLY start. Are you happy now?

It still does not change the fact that when you go if it's years later that the court can legally tack on money before the order was given and signed. They are charging you and ordering you to pay money that was accrued before you stepped foot in that court room. Before you were served. Before your paternity was determined. In both of your scenarios that is the case right? That is the essence of arrears. Do you agree or no?

I never stated that the bolded was not correct. Not once. My original statement was "They cannot create an order without serving you". You disagreed and jumped in and said "It happened to my homeboy." I told you that it was impossible. Now you switched it to they can charge you with back support. DUH. Of course they can charge you back support. You're responsible. Even if you didn't know. Like I said, you changed what your point was. Read the thread. It's plain as day.

That doesn't really matter in GA. Any woman could go up to the court and say LD is the daddy and if LD doesn't show up in court then he will have an order put out against him. Don't need DNA to do it.

Nope. Why didn't he show up? You have to be SERVED to go to court. If they don't SERVE you, the hearing cannot proceed. They cannot establish an order unless you are given proper notice by SERVICE. If he got served and didn't show up, guess what? He's a dumb ass. Why wouldn't you show up to court after being served?


I hope you don't live in GA! :lol:

Cause if you do then you don't know your rights at all. All the court has to do in GA is ATTEMPT to serve you. Look it up. There is a lot of shit wrong with GA child support laws and that is one. A woman can walk into court and as long as she can prove you had a relationship with her and gives out identifying info then you can get stuck. Don't need to prove that it's the correct address or anything. Seen it happen but dude who it happened to was smart enough to petition and get it dropped when he found out.

:smh: Now you talking about back pay? :confused:
 
I never stated that the bolded was not correct. Not once. My original statement was "They cannot create an order without serving you". You disagreed and jumped in and said "It happened to my homeboy." I told you that it was impossible. Now you switched it to they can charge you with back support. DUH. Of course they can charge you back support. You're responsible. Even if you didn't know. Like I said, you changed what your point was. Read the thread. It's plain as day.

:smh: Now you talking about back pay? :confused:

Do I need to explain this shit again? Here's more detail.

My homeboy knocked up a girl in 2004 and moved to Atlanta the same year.

Girl had his info and address in my hometown. Girl filed for child support and said he is the daddy. Dude didn't know shit about it.

Come 2008 he is home visiting for a week with his family. Girl finds out and goes to child support and say he is at this address and they send papers out to re-serve him.

He goes to court and he requests DNA test. Baby is his. Next court date he goes in and the judge tells him that since she filed for an original order in 2004 and that it turned out that he was in fact the father of the child that he was going to have to pay support from 2004 til 2008 as well as going forward. Not arrears he had to pay support and his support order was increased but split up some way to spread it out over the 14 years he had left to pay. This girl was not on welfare or peachcare or any assistance.

He said that he had no idea that they attempted to serve him and that nobody found him and the judge said that she had proven enough to the court to prove that he was in a relationship with the girl and that it was probable that he was the father. Now that the test confirmed it she was reinstating support from 2004.

The judge cited the law that allowed her to do it in GA. If I can ever get this nigga on the phone I will provide it to you. So you explain this to me and I will drop it. :yes:
 

I don't think that DNA testing should be optional for ANY child support case. I think it should be mandatory.
Fuck that shit about you (ladies) thought he was the father. If you file for child support and you are not married then you should be required to have a DNA test. If you are married then it should be optional and not paid for if you are proven not to be the father.

My opinion.

Fuck what ya heard, unless girl was in a gang bang with five dicks a woman knw who the daddy is.

1999 - Melon walks in and says you're the father. They can't find you. She's not on assistance. Nothing happens.

Woah...woah... ...woah.
 
Do I need to explain this shit again? Here's more detail.

My homeboy knocked up a girl in 2004 and moved to Atlanta the same year.

Girl had his info and address in my hometown. Girl filed for child support and said he is the daddy. Dude didn't know shit about it.

Come 2008 he is home visiting for a week with his family. Girl finds out and goes to child support and say he is at this address and they send papers out to re-serve him.

He goes to court and he requests DNA test. Baby is his. Next court date he goes in and the judge tells him that since she filed for an original order in 2004 and that it turned out that he was in fact the father of the child that he was going to have to pay support from 2004 til 2008 as well as going forward. Not arrears he had to pay support and his support order was increased but split up some way to spread it out over the 14 years he had left to pay. This girl was not on welfare or peachcare or any assistance.

He said that he had no idea that they attempted to serve him and that nobody found him and the judge said that she had proven enough to the court to prove that he was in a relationship with the girl and that it was probable that he was the father. Now that the test confirmed it she was reinstating support from 2004.

The judge cited the law that allowed her to do it in GA. If I can ever get this nigga on the phone I will provide it to you. So you explain this to me and I will drop it. :yes:

It had nothing to do when she originally filed and EVERYTHING to do with the fact that the child was born in 2004. The four years of back pay/arrears he owed were split up among his future payments. That's basic child support. If she had filed in 2006, they still woulda went back to 2004 cause that's when the child was born. File date don't mean shit. If she had filed in 2008, they woulda went back to 2004.

Hell, she coulda filed against another nigga in 2004, didn't find him until 2008. He goes to court. They find out it ain't his. She says, "Well the only other dude I was with was Andey's friend." They find him. Test him. He is the father. They will STILL go back to 2004 even though it was assumed that another nigga was the father for four years. Is it fucked up? Yes. Lesson learned? Wrap your dick up.

Edit: LMAO @ Melon

And DNA tests are up to the father. He has to right to request it. There's no need to make them mandatory because they are expensive. Niggas let broads railroad them into signing agreements. I had a chick come in with a dude and he was happy-go-lucky type nigga ready to "do right by his child". He didn't know that her other kids all had different daddies (3) and we had cases on all of them. So I told him about DNA testing and he was like I don't think I need it. I told him it was free and she shot me a look. So he's like "OK, Ill take it." Weeks later, the kid ain't his. Turns out, he had a good job and she wanted bigger support. She wrote a letter tryna get me in trouble saying I pushed him to it. :hmm:
 
Fuck what ya heard, unless girl was in a gang bang with five dicks a woman knw who the daddy is.



Woah...woah... ...woah.

I've seen some who don't know. I have seen girls who have fucked 3 or 4 different guys all in the same week on different days! :eek:
 
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