This happened when my father passed a few years ago and people came out the woods talking about "Did he leave me anything?","What about his cars?his properties,his policies,his insurance,his clothes,his hats,his jewelry,his pictures,...."
Wait a minute bitches,what's left is going to his wife and then his kids and NO ONE ELSE and then that turned into bickering amongst siblings over shit they never wanted to be bother with when he was alive,now they want it but I have it and two of them bastards(brothers) are upset and haven't spoken to me since.
I now have a different opinion about family but you have to go through it to understand the true meaning of the word and what it really means.