Not just date, she married brothers...twice before. Obviously, this is a "Halle" problem. She doesn't pick well, period. But, to me, the race part is not important to the argument. Then again, I could be naive...
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Not just date, she married brothers...twice before. Obviously, this is a "Halle" problem. She doesn't pick well, period. But, to me, the race part is not important to the argument. Then again, I could be naive...
circa 1989...THE RIGHT STUFF!! OH OH... OH OH OH
Seems like you are getting offended. No need!
I was simply asking about your experience.
This was in no way shape or form an argument or an attempt to assassinate your blackness.
Just wanted to get an insight of the mind of black female that would date a cracker! I have always had the opinion that any black woman or MAN that dated a cracker was missing a puzzle piece. It's actually cool to hear why.
Lets focus on the topic at hand not circular nonsense.So if a cat makes kittens in an oven we call the kitten cat-bread
halle is biracial/mixed.
one black parent,one white parent.
black folks need to stop trying to claim everyone.
not everyone can come man.
race is a social construct not a biological fact
so there is nothing like bi-racial based on biology
that's my point
^ Quasi science. If black genes were always dominant, then Halle Berry would have way more ass lol.
I'm confused lol. Is bgol following quasi science or the one drop rule or both ?
she really did but still.....it wouldn't stop me from justifying breaking his jaw. Y'know. 400 years and all of that bs
^^^Did the obvious really need to be stated?
Let's not take on the trolling characteristics of the white supremacists now...
No one gives a fuck that she was with a white dude...
Black men feel some type of way about her shitting on brothas on her way out the door.
"I tried LAWD KNOWS I TRIED!"
As if she had nothing to do with the state of her relationships.
Yeah...fuck that bitch.
*two cents*
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so now everytime we speak about anything we going to be talking down this slippery slope of interpretive science.
like i said stop looking for allies man,if thats the case white ppl are not white and asians are not asians,they are all black..hell lets just call everyone black.
to reiterate,halle berry have one black parent,one white parent..she is bi-racial/mixed.
you can flip it and bounce and bounce it,inject semantics,or rhetoric into it as much as you want.
at the end of the day she is a biracial woman.
black folks dont seem to realize how much chaos and confusion they cause within the community by trying to claim biracial ppl as black.
If Halle Berry hadn't made that statement and just met cac, fell in love and had a baby we'd be complaining because we love some Halle Berry, BUT Halle Berry made that statement saying "she tried black men" so that tells us she was out there looking for a cac because she felt they would be better for her then the black men she had tried and that's what has people in the thread saying FUCK HER!!!! Now she in the news saying that same cac SHE THOUGHT was better for her than the black men she had tried had called her a nig**er and didn't want her daughter to look black
I don't get that from her saying, "She tried." She was probably joking, I'm sure, and making light of it. But, again, she married two black men. I think ya'll are taking her statement a bit too literal in here.
I feel sorry for the daughter
Yeap, it's just a matter of time.
Shit i read an article the other day about how her wedding will have a Beauty and the Beast theme.
Yeap, it's just a matter of time.
Shit i read an article the other day about how her wedding will have a Beauty and the Beast theme.
yeah i heard that too and in my mind, i was thinking, why that?
Man you from Chalmette, quit playing lol
You caping for her instead of listening to a room full of black men telling how we feel
That downplaying our perspective is low key the same shit white people do, no disrespect.
You ever have that feeling when you be telling white folks something about the black experience and they be like naw you just tripping, racism ain't really that bad out here and you be like man how the fuck you gon tell me and I'm going through this shit daily? They not tryna hear you, they'd rather tell you how you SHOULD feel. Rather you get over it than acknowledge your humanity and right to fairness and equity, and their own bullshit.
I digress.
Definitely not from Chalmette - don't even play me like that lol
But, I understand where you're coming from, and appreciate the dialogue. I know that a woman's words can hurt a man, or, in this case, a number of men. I'm providing a different perspective on it to you, but I, in no way, mean to downplay your perspective either. I'm "caping" for her because I'm a woman, a black woman, and I'm trying to provide an understanding to what she meant. I didn't say it was right, but I did say I don't think she meant it literally, like, "I tried it and it didn't work for me."
My original argument was and always has been that, if she's biracial, what's the harm in marrying a white man? Also, so many of my friends from college are finding love with white men, I'm sure this board would be furious. They never "exclusively" dated white men, but that's just what happened for them.
She said it so to us she meant it.
Black women know how black men feel about them dating cacs so why even joke about it?
She said it so to us she meant it.
So...is it a double standard? Are ya'll okay with black women being upset with a black man dating outside of his race, or just if it's a white woman? Personally, unless the man has spoken out against black women, I couldn't care less because I got my black man. Also, 9 x out of 10, the black man dating a white woman is one that I don't think is a catch anyway lol. And, some of ya'll have the nerve to get with a white woman that's a) not in shape, b) has multiple kids, and c) isn't even bringing anything financially, etc. to the table. Now, understand, some men don't want women who can't be without them, but.... that ain't me lol
Lost brothers. I've seen MANY examples of what you're talking about. It's like some Invasion of the Body Snatchers type shit.
More significantly than her saying it, she's lived it out. Like NOTHING BUT white dudes. Makes one feel like it wasn't so much of a joke.She said it so to us she meant it.
i'm not claiming anything
black tells you how you look
white tells you how you look
society construct boxes based on your looks
there is no bi-racial box only an illusion of comfort from identity confusion
So, again, after marrying two black men (and dating others,) because she married this one white guy, she "lived it out." Who's to say she won't date or marry a black man after this? Would that mean she's "come back to the black side?" See how silly that argument is? So, dating one white guy makes you a sell out, a bed wench? If you don't think it does, check the Serena Williams thread on this forum - countless dudes up in there calling Serena a bed wench...and that shit is stupid too.
It hasn't been "one white guy". She finished the one white dude and moved on to a new white dude afterwards.
Yes you heard me correctly. And you heard her correctly. She said she "tried Black men" and it didn't work out well. She then followed that up with only dealing with white dudes. Until otherwise corrected by Halle Berry herself or until she gets with another Brotha, one could reasonably surmise that she meant exactly what she said about Brothas based on who she has been with since she made those statements.
Personally, I don't think the act of a Black woman dating a white man makes her a sell out nor a bed wench - anymore than a Black man being with a white woman makes him a sell out. I have always categorically rejected the term "negro bed wench" on the basis that it is sexist, illogical, derogatory and lacking in any verifiable historical context.
As Serena goes, as long as she has not downed Brothas, she's ok with me- new white husband notwithstanding. As far as dudes around here dumping on her solely for the fact that she's with this one white boy - what can you say Queen, some of my Brothers have some growing to do.
For those of us who believe strongly in Black Love, it can be difficult to see one of our own cross over to the other side, but that Brotha or Sista is still fam, regardless.
Man you kats are really too much.
white folks gave you one drop rule and you accepted it,no one else accepts mixed kids as theirs,except black folks.
why are we so afraid to redefine the race,having mixed race ppl repping black ppl on the forefront actually causes confusion amongst black folks and overall does a disservice.not saying they cant be down or be part of the movement,just saying they cant be the face of black representation.
example of the confusion....this woman below is miss jamaica 2015
in a country of 93 percent black,do you think this is a proper representation of the island?
what do you think the young boys and girls and the 93% think of that island think when they see this.
we as a ppl should be the one to set the narrative/standards of what black,not white man one drop rule.
everyone else does for their group.
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Since many men in here have stated they'd never touch a black woman who has been with a white man, did she date another white man by choice or because black men would have nothing to do with her?
That's as bad as the Serena thread. We have all these threads around here about not wanting to be friends with white people, how y'all (not you personally) shut down white folks trying to be friendly and then they are mad and using as a point of proof that her husband is garbage because he had no black groomsmen. Was it a defect on his part or is it because all the black men he'd want to be friends with think like BGOL members? You can't advocate shunning white folks and then get upset because he has no black friends.
Now, I don't think the answers to my questions can be known without asking the people personally involved, but since y'all making assumptions in one direction, why can't they be made in the other direction?
She was with who she was with by choice of course. Five or six Black men on BGOL don’t speak for all or even most Brothas. Seeing as Halle is a millionaire and still is one of the most beautiful women in , I can’t see a lot of guys outright rejecting her purely on the basis of her having been with a white man.
And BGOL? Lol every guy on BGOL in their real lives only chooses “dimes”.
I don't know Halle Berry, but I would be hesitant to allow myself to fall for her her based upon her chaotic love life, in general. She's been married three times - never longer than two or three years. There are many public stories she's confirmed about her failed relationships. She is 51 now. At some point, fault has to fall on her for either poor choices, some things in her own personality that prevents her from finding one decent dude and keeping him in her life - or both. From here, I could only speculate the reasons for that.
I will say though that in life often people get in unsuccessful relationships and come out damaged. They then seek a new relationship with which to medicate which in turn also fails.
There is great value in self-assessment. There is equal value in taking time away from dating to heal, connecting with the Creator, seeking to unwrap the lessons embedded in one's past experiences, reassessing one's methodologies, choices, criteria and expectations and maybe even getting licensed professional counseling to provide a competent objective viewpoint (and tools and guidelines for healing). It's difficult to be successful in a new situation, if you carry your old habits, scars and baggage into a new relationship. Unfortunately for many, loneliness and the desire to love and be loved takes precedence over the very necessary need to take time to heal and self-assess.
I haven't really traveled that Serena thread as it didn't particularly interest me. Dudes actually micromanaged her husband's groomsmen?
OK I'll bite. Maybe it wasn't a defect on her husband's part nor Black men rejecting his friendship. Obviously his family is white, so that would likely cover a good portion of his groomsmen. His best friends might be non-Black as well. Those are the most probable reasons for his not having Black groomsmen. So what though? So the dude was supposed to get some Brothas to be tokens just for visuals? LOL
She was with who she was with by choice of course. Five or six Black men on BGOL don’t speak for all or even most Brothas. Seeing as Halle is a millionaire and still is one of the most beautiful women in , I can’t see a lot of guys outright rejecting her purely on the basis of her having been with a white man.
And BGOL? Lol every guy on BGOL in their real lives only chooses “dimes”.
I don't know Halle Berry, but I would be hesitant to allow myself to fall for her her based upon her chaotic love life, in general. She's been married three times - never longer than two or three years. There are many public stories she's confirmed about her failed relationships. She is 51 now. At some point, fault has to fall on her for either poor choices, some things in her own personality that prevents her from finding one decent dude and keeping him in her life - or both. From here, I could only speculate the reasons for that.
I will say though that in life often people get in unsuccessful relationships and come out damaged. They then seek a new relationship with which to medicate which in turn also fails.
There is great value in self-assessment. There is equal value in taking time away from dating to heal, connecting with the Creator, seeking to unwrap the lessons embedded in one's past experiences, reassessing one's methodologies, choices, criteria and expectations and maybe even getting licensed professional counseling to provide a competent objective viewpoint (and tools and guidelines for healing). It's difficult to be successful in a new situation, if you carry your old habits, scars and baggage into a new relationship. Unfortunately for many, loneliness and the desire to love and be loved takes precedence over the very necessary need to take time to heal and self-assess.
I haven't really traveled that Serena thread as it didn't particularly interest me. Dudes actually micromanaged her husband's groomsmen?
OK I'll bite. Maybe it wasn't a defect on her husband's part nor Black men rejecting his friendship. Obviously his family is white, so that would likely cover a good portion of his groomsmen. His best friends might be non-Black as well. Those are the most probable reasons for his not having Black groomsmen. So what though? So the dude was supposed to get some Brothas to be tokens just for visuals? LOL
I don't disagree with any of this, but the ones who make those types of comments are the ones complaining. They want to have it both ways.
They didn't only micromanage the groomsmen, since her dad wasn't at the wedding, they said that white folks were sending a subliminal message by having the dog in picture represent her dad because they think black folks are dogs. SMH. Now we have 20 million threads around here about white folks treating their pets like humans and part of the family but they had to go there. (The groom was holding a little toy dog) Unbelievable. They were just LOOKING for reasons to be offended. I was ctfu. It was like a freaking Chappelle skit.
Trust, I believe in black love too. I married a black man and will (soon) bring a young black prince into this world. I used to wince at the idea of a black man with a white woman. But, as I stated earlier in this thread, I know there are situations that are born our of genuine love and not disdain for the black woman...I don't have time to differentiate the two situations because, well, it doesn't affect my life and my relationship.
That's what's up.
Congratulations to you and your husband for your new gift. I pray good health and blessings upon your family.
Why, thank you! Gotta say, I never saw myself being a mother, let alone raising a boy - thank God he's a good man, cause I'm going to need all of his help lol
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