Need woman's Assistance

[THATBOYGENIUS]

How can I get my girl to open up to me and tell me whats really on her mind? She tells me alot, but yesterday she opened up to me a little and told me somethings I didn't really think she felt about me, but then just stopped and was like I shouldn't be saying this or being so critical. Then of course she was like I don't want to talk about it anymore.

 

[Willyum]

How can I get my girl to open up to me.

Damn, she got you!

 

[Adam Knows]

Damn, she got you!

actually i was thinking "he got her" she knows it and is a little shook....

 

[THATBOYGENIUS]

actually i was thinking "he got her" she knows it and is a little shook....

Explain...

 

[followup]

you should just let her share with you what she wants. if there's something specific you want to know--ask.

 

[Noir]

I don't know the context of her initially opening up to you (both of you having serious conversation, her having a few drinks and feeling loose, her being upset at you, or her just randomly started talking, etc.) but the main thing is to continue to communication.

Tell her that you are not upset at her for what she said about you, and that you are actually glad that she was being frank with you. The main thing is to make her feel comfortable and let her know that her feedback (even constructive criticism) is welcome and lets you know areas that you or the both of you need to work on. No matter what she says (even if it does upset you), do not react right away in a manner that will cause her to resent her having spoken her true mind. Just make her as comfortable as possible.

 

[BrownTurd]

How can I get my girl to open up to me and tell me whats really on her mind? She tells me alot, but yesterday she opened up to me a little and told me somethings I didn't really think she felt about me, but then just stopped and was like I shouldn't be saying this or being so critical. Then of course she was like I don't want to talk about it anymore.

She playing mind games with you. This is the classic female mind trick. Don't fall for it.

Your woman is giving you all the ammo you need to get out of EVERY SINGLE ARGUMENT. All you have to tell her is that I can't read your mind...until you open up and tell me what you really are feeling don't hold me or anyone accountable...end convo and walk off

 

[dHustla]

She playing mind games with you. This is the classic female mind trick. Don't fall for it.

Your woman is giving you all the ammo you need to get out of EVERY SINGLE ARGUMENT. All you have to tell her is that I can't read your mind...until you open up and tell me what you really are feeling don't hold me or anyone accountable...end convo and walk off

This nigga!!!

 

[Mo-Better]

I don't know the context of her initially opening up to you (both of you having serious conversation, her having a few drinks and feeling loose, her being upset at you, or her just randomly started talking, etc.) but the main thing is to continue to communication.

Tell her that you are not upset at her for what she said about you, and that you are actually glad that she was being frank with you. The main thing is to make her feel comfortable and let her know that her feedback (even constructive criticism) is welcome and lets you know areas that you or the both of you need to work on. No matter what she says (even if it does upset you), do not react right away in a manner that will cause her to resent her having spoken her true mind. Just make her as comfortable as possible.

Listen to this man he knows.