So I been messing with this chick for about a year and we mad close, goin on dates, fuckin all that shit. However, she been goin with some dude for 2 years now. I just found out that dude been fuckin around to with some chick I know. Now I cant decide what to do with that info, holmboy think I should catch him admittin to it then tell my chick. What yall think
Need some advice
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Why would you want someone to be your "main girl" who is showing that she is a cheater? She's been "going out" with some other guy for 2 years...and ya'll been kicking it for like a year.... 
What do you want from her? If you want it to be more.. do what you need to do.. if you comfortable with the status quo... leave it be...
What do you want from her? If you want it to be more.. do what you need to do.. if you comfortable with the status quo... leave it be...
Why would you want someone to be your "main girl" who is showing that she is a cheater? She's been "going out" with some other guy for 2 years...and ya'll been kicking it for like a year....
What do you want from her? If you want it to be more.. do what you need to do.. if you comfortable with the status quo... leave it be...
and let it end here
Why would you want someone to be your "main girl" who is showing that she is a cheater? She's been "going out" with some other guy for 2 years...and ya'll been kicking it for like a year....
What do you want from her? If you want it to be more.. do what you need to do.. if you comfortable with the status quo... leave it be...
This is funny when you think about it she's really been cheating on the other dude with this guy. But your right, why would anyone want to make a cheater their one and only. Also she obviously wasn't as close you him as he believed.
Believe me I've thought on the fact she cheatin on her dude with me and she cheatin on me with her dude. Its just somethin about the connection I got with her makes me wanna make her my main chick nah mean. Im mad close with her fams too, dukes love me and constantly sayin me and chick should have kids.
Ok maybe I am lost..."Main Chick"? Does that mean that there are others?
I understand that you are close w/ her an situations arise...But Is this really who you want? Her dude is cheating, She is cheating...Everybody is fucking somebody else???
Wait....How old are ya'll?
I understand that you are close w/ her an situations arise...But Is this really who you want? Her dude is cheating, She is cheating...Everybody is fucking somebody else???
Wait....How old are ya'll?No young cub-
Not dogging you just want you to think about what you are asking.
I was honestly confused when you said you wanted her for your main chick.
But your not messing w/ anyone else but she is?? Excuse me your not fucking no one else, but she is fucking the dude she is with and you? And he is fucking someone else?
That is an playette move if I ever seen one...
You do know you are her side piece/jump off/emotional support right?
Not dogging you just want you to think about what you are asking.
I was honestly confused when you said you wanted her for your main chick.
But your not messing w/ anyone else but she is?? Excuse me your not fucking no one else, but she is fucking the dude she is with and you? And he is fucking someone else?
That is an playette move if I ever seen one...
You do know you are her side piece/jump off/emotional support right?
If this chick been with this other dude for 2 years and is cheating on him with you. What makes you think she won't cheat on you with someone else or the same dude in the future if she is your No.1 girl?
Your not thinking clearly. At 21 your much too young to be limiting your options anyway. You've yet to discover who you are. If you want to stay with this girl then do it but only as a sex partner, not your steady. That's all you are to her at this time. Don't be a fool she's not looking at either of you seriously.
I will say leave it be man. By telling her you are going to lose her. There is a good chance that she would not believe you. Seems like you are in a great situation so why mess it up? But I repeat do not tell her. Lets say she leaves this dude and she finds the complete package with another guy then your services would no longer be needed. You have to look at this situation objectively. The only reason you are in the picture is because of her dude. He needs to stay in the picture because if he leaves then she would not have a need for you
Sounds like you already made your mind up with this. . .
End thread with this. . .
She's playing you. . . . trust me. . . you need to move on.
Co-SIGN! You should print and frame all of the above. Just remember . . .
Karma is a bitch . . .