Name a (not-so-obvious) sign that a woman has a diva complex.

[HAR125LEM]

When they get all sanctimonious and shit by proselytizing God, Religion, and Church, calling everyone else "HEATHENS", while they (continue to) do stupid shit, and have some weak-ASS excuse for it.

And yeah...
Lots of those church-going, Tyler Perry-loving Sistas are on this trip.
It ain't about bashing Black women.
It's the TRUTH!

 

[M.H.C.]

"(Sigh)... now can you entertain me please."

I am sorry but that is something I would say..........

WTF? Entertain? Sounds like she thinks she in a circus or something.




It's a test bruh. I think a lot of women think that but just don't say it. Just assert yourself. Look at it as the woman asking you to make her feel better. Every woman wants her dude to make her feel better right? Some women like that can actually easily be wrapped up because they like your assertiveness and "manliness".

Not to sound cocky but I had a female admit that she "was on my dick" and she considered herself to be a "diva". It's just a test. Most dudes will hear "entertain" and automatically think "this bitch done lost her mothafucking mind".

Wrap these "divas" up and keep it pushing.

 

[Jane & Finch]

I am sorry but that is something I would say..........

I just didn't care for her tone very much. She was on some "*clap clap*, Send in the clowns" type shit!.

It's a test bruh. I think a lot of women think that but just don't say it. Just assert yourself. Look at it as the woman asking you to make her feel better. Every woman wants her dude to make her feel better right? Some women like that can actually easily be wrapped up because they like your assertiveness and "manliness".

Once she got hung up on she calmed down but I was done with her.

She moved to Toronto from a small town, so I guess she was a diva over.. Just not over here tho.

 

[onyxfemme]

I like you...You hit this one right on the head.....Sounds like something my dude would say..And mean it

WTF? Entertain? Sounds like she thinks she in a circus or something.




It's a test bruh. I think a lot of women think that but just don't say it. Just assert yourself. Look at it as the woman asking you to make her feel better. Every woman wants her dude to make her feel better right? Some women like that can actually easily be wrapped up because they like your assertiveness and "manliness".

Not to sound cocky but I had a female admit that she "was on my dick" and she considered herself to be a "diva". It's just a test. Most dudes will hear "entertain" and automatically think "this bitch done lost her mothafucking mind".

Wrap these "divas" up and keep it pushing.

 

[LoneStar29]

Umm,Lone. He wasn't referring to you, you said you had no idea of what a 2009 Diva is and he gave you "his" definition. I don't know about the other times you two get into it, but he wasn't referring to you.

You're right you don't know

 

[Crown&Coke]

Most women that are truly divas or independent or whatever you wanna call it never have to say a word about it, its already known and can be seen just by dealing with them. Most of the ones running around screaming they are a diva are the ones that are tryin to convince themselves and other people that they are something they aint.​

 

[max-dawg]

When a woman says, "I LET you take me out. I ALLOWED you to spend time with me."

i chased one years ago and ended-up with a chance. i knew i was in trouble around christmas time:

max: hey baby, i got you a christmas gift... a nice bottle of armani for women.
her: thank you, thank you soooooo much.

*30 min pass by... we discuss various shit about the holidays.

max: uh, damn... you didn't get a nicca nothing for christmas?
her: sure. i'm spending time with you. i'm giving you the ability to buy me something for christmas... that's your christmas present right there. just being here with you isn't enough?
max: damn, that's selfish.
her: uh, excuse me.
max: you are excused. and please take the perfume with you... cause your shit does stink.

 

[onyxfemme]

Real Talk here

Most women that are truly divas or independent or whatever you wanna call it never have to say a word about it, its already known and can be seen just by dealing with them. Most of the ones running around screaming they are a diva are the ones that are tryin to convince themselves and other people that they are something they aint.​

 

[M.H.C.]

i chased one years ago and ended-up with a chance. i knew i was in trouble around christmas time:

max: hey baby, i got you a christmas gift... a nice bottle of armani for women.
her: thank you, thank you soooooo much.

*30 min pass by... we discuss various shit about the holidays.

max: uh, damn... you didn't get a nicca nothing for christmas?
her: sure. i'm spending time with you. i'm giving you the ability to buy me something for christmas... that's your christmas present right there. just being here with you isn't enough?
max: damn, that's selfish.
her: uh, excuse me.
max: you are excused. and please take the perfume with you... cause your shit does stink.

I know that every situation isn't the same but sometimes women like that are testing your mettle. In reality, she was right. Her time with you was your gift, you just didn't make it your gift.

See, you should've been very forward at that point(see as how you were probably angry it would''ve been easier) and tried to make the time valuable.

No matter how she act, she probably just one of those girls that wanted you to take it. You should've made "her time"=sex because that's what she probably wanted and that's all she had to give in my opinion. Girls like that will respond better to actions that depict your "aggressive side" She didn't have the material gifts that you wanted(assuming that you wanted a material gift) but she did have a physical gift that she probably wanted to see if you had the "balls" enough to take.

Just my 2 cents. I could be very wrong.

 

[max-dawg]

I know that every situation isn't the same but sometimes women like that are testing your mettle. In reality, she was right. Her time with you was your gift, you just didn't make it your gift.

See, you should've been very forward at that point(see as how you were probably angry it would''ve been easier) and tried to make the time valuable.

No matter how she act, she probably just one of those girls that wanted you to take it. You should've made "her time"=sex because that's what she probably wanted and that's all she had to give in my opinion. Girls like that will respond better to actions that depict your "aggressive side" She didn't have the material gifts that you wanted(assuming that you wanted a material gift) but she did have a physical gift that she probably wanted to see if you had the "balls" enough to take.

Just my 2 cents. I could be very wrong.

you are wrong.

1. i ain't taking no woman's pussy.
2. it wasn't about giving her a gift for a physical exchange... that's whoring.
3. the broad had MAJOR attitude... like the world revolved around her. sometimes, it's what you say AND how you say it.
4. she was fine as frog hair, but her attitude stunk to high hell.
5. all that "aggressive side" bullshit gets men in trouble daily with broads who aren't sure what they want.

i don't know if you're a male or female, but i'm in my 40's, and i don't play those games. spending $25 on a christmas gift for someone you just met is nothing... it's the thought.

copping a nasty attitude like you're blessing me with your presence will get you to the door.. on the way out.

 

[M.H.C.]

you are wrong.

1. i ain't taking no woman's pussy.
2. it wasn't about giving her a gift for a physical exchange... that's whoring.
3. the broad had MAJOR attitude... like the world revolved around her. sometimes, it's what you say AND how you say it.
4. she was fine as frog hair, but her attitude stunk to high hell.
5. all that "aggressive side" bullshit gets men in trouble daily with broads who aren't sure what they want.

i don't know if you're a male or female, but i'm in my 40's, and i don't play those games. spending $25 on a christmas gift for someone you just met is nothing... it's the thought.

copping a nasty attitude like you're blessing me with your presence will get you to the door.. on the way out.

@the highlighted portion.

I got you. Every situation is different. Your 3rd point is what I meant by that. Now, a lot the females my age are not really that "stank". They just like to play games when at the end of the day all they want is a display of dominance. Like testing your manhood. That's just how they work. I've hated games since middle school so I agree with you.

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

You're right you don't know

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

when they put star,sexy, princess or beauty in their name.

.Fuck you,Im attractive not a diva. Total difference

 

[LoneStar29]

when they put star,sexy, princess or beauty in their name.

S...T...F...U...

 

[M.H.C.]

when they put star,sexy, princess or beauty in their name.

.Fuck you,Im attractive not a diva. Total difference

30 day members trying to be funny.

 

[SickMyDuck]

Eh it is what it is...It's all cute to me though..I like men who want to know about what a Diva is and again generalize...It makes me chuckle that some of you know the meaning more than I do!

Onyx... If I may... I think what smoove is talking about when he says "diva complex" is totally different that what you're talking about. Now, I don't know you outside of BG/SOL, but I'd be willing to bet that you, melon, Lone, SS, Jo, Izzy & others ARE NOT what smoove was talking about. Your definition is in the more literal sense. What smoove was getting at is the slang perception of the word "diva" that is used to describe women that TRY to be your definition, but don't come close. And more times than not... end up diluting the word and embarrassing themselves.

This is a definition that I found online that in no way represents you, but is more of what smoove was talking about.

1. diva: Noun pl. divas or dive
A woman that must have her way exactly, or no way at all. Often rude and belittles people, believes that everyone is beneath her and thinks that she is so much more important than what she really is. Selfish, spoiled, and overly dramatic.

And this could be used to describe a woman of any race... this isn't a bash black women party. We love y'all!

 

[hoodlikegaza]

Most women that are truly divas or independent or whatever you wanna call it never have to say a word about it, its already known and can be seen just by dealing with them. Most of the ones running around screaming they are a diva are the ones that are tryin to convince themselves and other people that they are something they aint.​

/eof

 

[hoodlikegaza]

Real Talk here

Most women that are truly divas or independent or whatever you wanna call it never have to say a word about it, its already known and can be seen just by dealing with them. Most of the ones running around screaming they are a diva are the ones that are tryin to convince themselves and other people that they are something they aint.​

You called yourself a diva earlier in this thread... So your opinion is not credible in this debate.

 

[OnSlaught]

You called yourself a diva earlier in this thread... So your opinion is not credible in this debate.

Pardon me, I'm just

 

[Duece]

pointless youtube videos
threads about bgol members being bisexual
big red font

 

[LeroyDibiase]

Pardon me, I'm just

Me too my nigga, me too.

(no offense)

 

[hoodlikegaza]

Yeah the real issue is confidence vs. conceitedness. You can be confident, without being condecending or pretentious.

Most younger (black) women can't distinguish what the difference is. I'm only generalizing black women here because that's my preferance in women. I really can't speak on white women...

Older (black) women more or less, are often more down to earth. Not always, but certainly more than the 20 somethings I've run into (early and mid twenties are usually the worst).

 

[thoughtone]

whne they can't laugh at themselves about ANYTHING.

That's not a diva that’s just a female. Just post some jokey. jokey shit on SOL. That post will get a million ninjas responding and absolutely no females.


BTW, notice how the "divas" come out of the woodwork when a thread like this is posted.

nuf said!

 

[thoughtone]

quackas.

Where is Blunt!

 

[thoughtone]

whne they can't laugh at themselves about ANYTHING.

Umm,Lone. He wasn't referring to you, you said you had no idea of what a 2009 Diva is and he gave you "his" definition. I don't know about the other times you two get into it, but he wasn't referring to you.

 

[thoughtone]

I am sorry but that is something I would say..........

I attract more men between 35-50 and they always tell me how down to earth I am.

Them ninjas under 30 think I'm an uber-bitch...

Fuck em...they still on they Mammy's titties anyways..

diva, when you make a general statement and they try and make the conversation about them specifically, and they think it is cute!

 

[Mello Mello]

When a woman says, "I LET you take me out. I ALLOWED you to spend time with me."

Dang I dated a woman a ways back that used to talk like that.

And she had framed pictures of herself all over her crib, The first time I went to her crib was like..

"This is me in Cuba", "this is me and Aruba", "this is me in El Salvador" etc.

The last straw with her was one day her boss was giving her a hard time at work and she called me to tell me about it and somewhere in the convo she said.. "(Sigh)... now can you entertain me please."


I just hung up...... BUT.... The pu$$y was STARSHINE and MOONBEAMS lolol so I can see why she was on her dive kick.

 

[DAYNE]

Yeah the real issue is confidence vs. conceitedness. You can be confident, without being condecending or pretentious.

Most younger (black) women can't distinguish what the difference is. I'm only generalizing black women here because that's my preferance in women. I really can't speak on white women...

Older (black) women more or less, are often more down to earth. Not always, but certainly more than the 20 somethings I've run into (early and mid twenties are usually the worst).

the only reason for that is because they ain't got niggas trying to fuck them as much as they use too- less options

Thats not really how they are, they are forced by time and nature to be humble, meaning the shit ain't genuine.

Thats why I shake my head at kats fucking older bitches, the bitch is a 85 Oldsmobile with 500,000 miles on her, she can't do nothing but cooperate. Nobody wants to drive a 85 Oldsmobile....

 

[hoodlikegaza]

the only reason for that is because they ain't got niggas trying to fuck them as much as they use too- less options

Thats not really how they are, they are forced by time and nature to be humble, meaning the shit ain't genuine.

Thats why I shake my head at kats fucking older bitches, the bitch is a 85 Oldsmobile with 500,000 miles on her, she can't do nothing but cooperate. Nobody wants to drive a 85 Oldsmobile....

That's a pretty stupid generalization. It's obvious the way some of ya'll talk about women, you've never dealt with anything but hoodrats in your time.

Me on the other hand, have had and will always have options...

Step your game up homey, there are quality women all around you.

 

[DAYNE]

That's a pretty stupid generalization. It's obvious the way some of ya'll talk about women, you've never dealt with anything but hoodrats in your time.

Me on the other hand, have had and will always have options...

Step your game up homey, there are quality women all around you.

That ain't no stupid generalization you fucking simp.
I don't deal with hoodrats ass.
A woman hits the wall at 30 regardless of who she is.
You want a pass for fucking old bitches that everybody already stepped on- ain't going to give it to you with yo low expectation settling having ass

 

[KTD]

quackas.

______^^^^__________________________^_______________________________________

 

[hoodlikegaza]

That ain't no stupid generalization you fucking simp.
I don't deal with hoodrats ass.
A woman hits the wall at 30 regardless of who she is.
You want a pass for fucking old bitches that everybody already stepped on- ain't going to give it to you with yo low expectation settling having ass

The more you talk, the dumber you sound. You must be some kind of extra ordinary loser in life. Any kind of rational response to this ignorant gibberish would be pointless.

This internet thug thing suits you better. But I should tell you....

You're not scary.

 

[CT's Finest]

.Fuck you,Im attractive not a diva. Total difference

Onyx... If I may... I think what smoove is talking about when he says "diva complex" is totally different that what you're talking about. Now, I don't know you outside of BG/SOL, but I'd be willing to bet that you, melon, Lone, SS, Jo, Izzy & others ARE NOT what smoove was talking about. Your definition is in the more literal sense. What smoove was getting at is the slang perception of the word "diva" that is used to describe women that TRY to be your definition, but don't come close. And more times than not... end up diluting the word and embarrassing themselves.

This is a definition that I found online that in no way represents you, but is more of what smoove was talking about.

1. diva: Noun pl. divas or dive
A woman that must have her way exactly, or no way at all. Often rude and belittles people, believes that everyone is beneath her and thinks that she is so much more important than what she really is. Selfish, spoiled, and overly dramatic.

And this could be used to describe a woman of any race... this isn't a bash black women party. We love y'all!

This makes sense. I agree with what you have said here...

 

[LoneStar29]

thoughtone .....................................................................................................................................................................eat a dick up

 

[thoughtone]

thoughtone .....................................................................................................................................................................eat a dick up

I must admit, I love when you talk nasty. But I prefer to eat a pussy up!