My Vow Of Celibacy Is Over Now & I Am Ready...

[Ming Fei Hong]

I have decided to resign from celibacy... Having achieved closure with my past and clarity with my present, I am ready... Namaste.
[flash]http://www.youtube.com/v/DzilsqohTeI[/flash]

Selah.​

 

[ladyscorpio]

 

[Ming Fei Hong]

Hmm?

 

[bigirl]

OK you caught my attention

 

[Ming Fei Hong]

OK you caught my attention

Haha... I gather not many brothas take a vow of celibacy.
Everyone assumes I'm joking (i.e. lying), but to the contrary... I'm being for real.

 

[ladyscorpio]

OK you caught my attention

yeah he's got a lil sumtin sumtin


and Ming I actually believe you. We have a thread on here about that. There are a few on here that are going through that phase

 

[bigirl]

Haha... I gather not many brothas take a vow of celibacy.
Everyone assumes I'm joking (i.e. lying), but to the contrary... I'm being for real.

I am one who overstands. Trust me.

 

[Ming Fei Hong]

yeah he's got a lil sumtin sumtin

and Ming I actually believe you. We have a thread on here about that. There are a few on here that are going through that phase

Why, thank you, queen.
Careful... I'm not just barking now.
Don't get yourself bitten! lol

I am one who overstands. Trust me.

Indeed. I actually enjoyed celibacy... a lot!
You'd be surprised how drama free it is in comparison.

 

[bigirl]

Indeed. I actually enjoyed celibacy... a lot!
You'd be surprised how drama free it is in comparison.

Oh I know all too well
Tis a quality control issue for me. If it ain't all that I would rather not have it.

 

[ladyscorpio]

Why, thank you, queen.
Careful... I'm not just barking now.
Don't get yourself bitten! lol



Indeed. I actually enjoyed celibacy... a lot!
You'd be surprised how drama free it is in comparison.

Bredren I told you that you need to stop making me think these things

As for surprise I also know about the vow bredren very enlightening experience no doubt.

Oh I know all too well
Tis a quality control issue for me. If it ain't all that I would rather not have it.

reality

 

[OnSlaught]

How long did you go for Ming? The longest I went for was a year...and you're right, it is very peaceful and drama free.

 

[Ming Fei Hong]

Oh I know all too well
Tis a quality control issue for me. If it ain't all that I would rather not have it.

Let the church say 'Amen!'

 

[Otis Supreme]

thats what i love about BGOL. u get 2 talk w/people who experience and think similar things even if nobody thats PHYSICALLY around u understands. cuz i been thinkin bout this 4 some time now.

 

[Ming Fei Hong]

Bredren I told you that you need to stop making me think these things

As for surprise I also know about the vow bredren very enlightening experience no doubt.

Hmm.. I'll do what I can, but I make no promises.

How long did you go for Ming? The longest I went for was a year...and you're right, it is very peaceful and drama free.

This time was for a year... I've done longer, but found it was overkill.
A year was just right this time. Complete drama free. Loved it, fam!

 

[Ming Fei Hong]

thats what i love about BGOL. u get 2 talk w/people who experience and think similar things even if nobody thats PHYSICALLY around u understands. cuz i been thinkin bout this 4 some time now.

Do it, fam! Trust me and OnSlaught on this one. You won't regret it.

 

[gonzo8402]

Hmm.. I'll do what I can, but I make no promises.



This time was for a year... I've done longer, but found it was overkill.
A year was just right this time. Complete drama free. Loved it, fam!

So during your celibacy do date and just not fornicate, or do you avoid women all together?

Do you start your celibacy calendar over if you masturbate, or is that allowed?

 

[ladyscorpio]

thats what i love about BGOL. u get 2 talk w/people who experience and think similar things even if nobody thats PHYSICALLY around u understands. cuz i been thinkin bout this 4 some time now.

Can I ask why you are thinking on it? Why not simply do. Its takes a lot of strength and will to even think about it. To do it bredren even just for the experience of learning to control your inner self. You learn more and are more aware I found when not "attached" to the physical.

Hmm.. I'll do what I can, but I make no promises.

!

Uhmmm o k as you ready

 

[Ming Fei Hong]

So during your celibacy do date and just not fornicate, or do you avoid women all together?

Do you start your celibacy calendar over if you masturbate, or is that allowed?

I enjoyed the company of women and expressed non-physical intimacy, but I didn't have sexual relations with them. No, masturbation is not a violation of celibacy, but over time you lose the urge to. If done correctly you eventually ascend beyond the need for physical affirmation or release. You eventually reach your 7th chakra... a 7th stage of enlightenment> Peep...

Stages of Enlightenment

The Witness state--

1. No more inner conflict. You witness the mind and thoughts for what they are and experience the world as it is. You live moment to moment in the present.

2. Includes stage 1, but with an ever present feeling of joy.

3. Includes 1 and 2, but with a great silencing of the mind.


The Oneness state--

4. Includes the first 3, but with the permanent feeling of being connected to everything. You no longer feel separate.

5. All of the above but often, or at will, you feel you are the observer, the observed, and the observation. You become the song you hear, the dance you dance, the tree you see, etc.

6. All of the above but often, or at will, you expand into Cosmic Consciousness and encompass all of creation. You feel you have become all of life.


God-Realization--

7. Your Inner Dweller, Higher Self, the God Within, etc., (whatever name you want to call it) comes forth and is very present in your life. Your life is a constant flow of Divine guidance.

 

[gonzo8402]

I enjoyed the company of women and expressed non-physical intimacy, but I didn't have sexual relations with them. No, masturbation is not a violation of celibacy, but over time you lose the urge to. If done correctly you eventually ascend beyond the need for physical affirmation or release. You eventually reach your 7th chakra... a 7th stage of enlightenment> Peep...

Stages of Enlightenment

The Witness state--

1. No more inner conflict. You witness the mind and thoughts for what they are and experience the world as it is. You live moment to moment in the present.

2. Includes stage 1, but with an ever present feeling of joy.

3. Includes 1 and 2, but with a great silencing of the mind.


The Oneness state--

4. Includes the first 3, but with the permanent feeling of being connected to everything. You no longer feel separate.

5. All of the above but often, or at will, you feel you are the observer, the observed, and the observation. You become the song you hear, the dance you dance, the tree you see, etc.

6. All of the above but often, or at will, you expand into Cosmic Consciousness and encompass all of creation. You feel you have become all of life.


God-Realization--

7. Your Inner Dweller, Higher Self, the God Within, etc., (whatever name you want to call it) comes forth and is very present in your life. Your life is a constant flow of Divine guidance.

Very interesting...good drop

 

[Ming Fei Hong]

Very interesting...good drop

Thanks... I skipped an illustration:

 

[gonzo8402]

Thanks... I skipped an illustration:

is this a religion or just some kind of spiritual thing? Got links?

 

[OnSlaught]

Let me ask you this Ming without sounding homosexual, what was the longest you went without masturbating? I went without for 4 months, but I haven't been able to break past that barrier. If you've gone longer, you must tell me your secret. AlexandMorgan and I have had a similar discussion about this...

 

[Ming Fei Hong]

is this a religion or just some kind of spiritual thing? Got links?

Not a religion... a way of life. Your diet, fitness, philosophy, discipline, mentality, etc.. all fine tuned to be in harmony with all and all with you. It sounds corny, I'm sure, but trust me when I say it works. Hmm? As for links... There's a cross section of philosophies, disciplines and spiritual guides that I follow, so it will be a bit of a cocktail. Let me see what I can collect for you.

 

[Ming Fei Hong]

Let me ask you this Ming without sounding homosexual, what was the longest you went without masturbating? I went without for 4 months, but I haven't been able to break past that barrier. If you've gone longer, you must tell me your secret. AlexandMorgan and I have had a similar discussion about this...

Trust me fam, you don't have to qualify your words to me, I'm not on that homophobic youngin' trip most of these cats are on around here. This is grown man business we're talking... lol. Why do you think I posted this over here, instead of the main board? Any way, I'm gonna keep it real with you.. I lost track of how long it's been since I masturbated. Between the physical disciplines of exercise, working out, outdoor activities, sometimes fasting and mixed martial arts... I'm good. In my line of work there's some much temptation all around me that it ceased to be tempting. I talked a lotta shit, because I'm just a smart alec that way, but women eventually figured out I wasn't going to chop... which depending on the woman always had 'interesting' results. lol

 

[Hollywoodheat]

I went two years ending back in October...You truly do get a sense of mental tranquility.

 

[mcguyver]

that means all the stores gonna be out of keri lotion.

 

[Ming Fei Hong]

I went two years ending back in October...You truly do get a sense of mental tranquility.

Yes, indeed!

that means all the stores gonna be out of keri lotion.

LOL! Nah, it's not like binging after a diet...
It's still all gravy, just chillin'.
Letting it come to me.

 

[whoalilmomma]

I was celibate during the school months of my freshman and sophomore years in college. Eight and nine months each of focusing on getting my education right Plus, it's fun to laugh when everyone else is going through the silliest drama due to sex. I'll probably start again for my first year of law school...

 

[Ming Fei Hong]

I was celibate during the school months of my freshman and sophomore years in college. Eight and nine months each of focusing on getting my education right Plus, it's fun to laugh when everyone else is going through the silliest drama due to sex. I'll probably start again for my first year of law school...

 

[swiftandsilent]

Interesting to say the least.

 

[BenQ]

I have decided to resign from celibacy... Having achieved closure with my past and clarity with my present, I am ready... Namaste.
[flash]http://www.youtube.com/v/DzilsqohTeI[/flash]

Selah.​

 

[Chicutie]

Good for you Ming!!!!

I'm entering my 4th month of celibacy and the urges are starting to fade. Feels good

 

[Ming Fei Hong]

Interesting to say the least.

Yep!

Good for you Ming!!!!

I'm entering my 4th month of celibacy and the urges are starting to fade. Feels good

Good for YOU, Chicutie!

 

[OnSlaught]

Trust me fam, you don't have to qualify your words to me, I'm not on that homophobic youngin' trip most of these cats are on around here. This is grown man business we're talking... lol. Why do you think I posted this over here, instead of the main board? Any way, I'm gonna keep it real with you.. I lost track of how long it's been since I masturbated. Between the physical disciplines of exercise, working out, outdoor activities, sometimes fasting and mixed martial arts... I'm good. In my line of work there's some much temptation all around me that it ceased to be tempting. I talked a lotta shit, because I'm just a smart alec that way, but women eventually figured out I wasn't going to chop... which depending on the woman always had 'interesting' results. lol

I feel you Ming. I've staved off the need or the urge for physical contact, but I still get sexual urges too which kills me 'cause I just think man, if I could conquer that, then I'd feel on top of the world. Like the post with the Chakras, it would be the ultimate discipline. I work out and exercise, I have laboratory work and research that keeps me busy, however it's the free time that gets me. I think I might have to reserve most of my free time to meditation if it starts to get too out of hand. Oh, and one last question...how did you deal with that knowin' you'd be on BGOL? I swear a new vid or them damn pics would send me over the edge.

 

[Izayoi]

that means all the stores gonna be out of keri lotion.

You aint right!

Ming I'm so happy for you finding this important closure.