my situation

You know people complain enough about how there are not any great women out there, she isn't bad looking has a great job and loves you, now on the flip tip how many of your traits or what have you that she is overlooking, don't listen to half the he-man woman hater club out here. Have you talked to her and told her how you feel, the real question you need to ask is if something happened to you would she still be around or would she be on the fence like you. And to be honest I guarantee half the motherfuckers who scream the loudest in this thread probably barley if ever workout ever their the type just living off of genes but complain about women who don't workout. Bottom line fam do you, if she is down for you and this is her only flaw try and motivate her or at least alternate her diet, but their are many reasons to cut a good woman this is a weak one
 
You know people complain enough about how there are not any great women out there, she isn't bad looking has a great job and loves you, now on the flip tip how many of your traits or what have you that she is overlooking, don't listen to half the he-man woman hater club out here. Have you talked to her and told her how you feel, the real question you need to ask is if something happened to you would she still be around or would she be on the fence like you. And to be honest I guarantee half the motherfuckers who scream the loudest in this thread probably barley if ever workout ever their the type just living off of genes but complain about women who don't workout. Bottom line fam do you, if she is down for you and this is her only flaw try and motivate her or at least alternate her diet, but their are many reasons to cut a good woman this is a weak one

He already said he will cheat...
What's the point of being with her??
Why do things when you already know the outcome.
 
People will only do things for other people up to a certain point. If she really doesn't want to get in shape and she is doing it only to please you then she will never really be dedicated to losing weight. You will only be able to motivate her so much. She might honestly feel that if you love her enough you will overlook her being fat. What I have found is generally in life you cannot force someone to change they have to want to change for themselves not for you. If you determine she is just going to be overweight and it doesn't really bother her you might want to make her an ultimatum. At least be honest with her. Yes you will seem shallow but the truth is the truth so she won't like it but she will have to respect it.

BTW Asking this question here is difficult because most of these dudes are fat computer geek porn addicts so half of them hate fat chicks because they hate themselves and the other half love fat chicks because their moms are fat.
Yeah, I filter out the idiots cuz I know there are some older cats on here who can give a young dude some knowledge. Yall speak some real shit so I actually listen.
You know people complain enough about how there are not any great women out there, she isn't bad looking has a great job and loves you, now on the flip tip how many of your traits or what have you that she is overlooking, don't listen to half the he-man woman hater club out here. Have you talked to her and told her how you feel, the real question you need to ask is if something happened to you would she still be around or would she be on the fence like you. And to be honest I guarantee half the motherfuckers who scream the loudest in this thread probably barley if ever workout ever their the type just living off of genes but complain about women who don't workout. Bottom line fam do you, if she is down for you and this is her only flaw try and motivate her or at least alternate her diet, but their are many reasons to cut a good woman this is a weak one
that's true but isn't physical appearance important in a relationship? I'll never ask a chick to look like holly Barry.
 
Yeah, I filter out the idiots cuz I know there are some older cats on here who can give a young dude some knowledge. Yall speak some real shit so I actually listen.

that's true but isn't physical appearance important in a relationship? I'll never ask a chick to look like holly Barry.




It is but I'm not saying you should be miserable inspite of that but I'm asking are you overlooking 10 good things all in the name of one, but do the math in your head if the good out weigh the bad you need to suck it up and figure out how to get her motivated or keep fucking that burns calories
 
Take a chance on love because she could eventually come around, dont press it, it can be a real turn off. Plus I've seen the other side when a chubby chick gets dumped and decide to get her body back.:dunno:!!!
 
Your mind isn't ready for true love. Because when you love a person, their short comings matter, but you commit anyway. So move on until you find that perfect person, then you will find out she isn't perfect too or you become un-perfect ie. gain weigh, loss your hair, or maybe loose a limp by accident(God forbid). You will understand love isn't what you see or other's see, but committing to a soulmate who is committed to you, whatever comes down the road in life. Someone who you love being with (period)!!!!
 
THE WRITING IS ALREADY ON THE WALL
WEATHER YOU DECIDE TO ACCEPT THE INFORMATION
OR NOT IS THE QUESTION............
RUN WHILE YOU STILL CAN.....OR PERISH:hmm:

OH ........S/N
DONT BLAME ANYONE BUT YOURSELF WHEN YOU KEEP HER AND PAY THE PRICE
 
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