My girl wants these $895.00 shoes for V-Day...should I?

[Upgrade Dave]

He will be back with some more made up bullshit. Guess what folks will still respond.

Depending on the topic, I will. Lie or not, it kills time waiting for responses in threads I'm more invested in.

I say buy them for her champ... Trust me, if u dont someone else will...

If she makes u happy, why not make her happy? Most of these cats dont have a woman, so they have no idea what it takes to keep one.

If shes good to u, y not?

If another man will buy those shoes for her, let her go be with him.
I have a wife and have had her for more than a decade and a half so I know how to keep her and buying her $900 shoes ain't it.
And this isn't even the nigga's wife, just his "girl". Her even asking for is suspect as hell. No single clothing item should cost as much as your rent/mortgage.

 

[CUB2006]

Depending on the topic, I will. Lie or not, it kills time waiting for responses in threads I'm more invested in.






If another man will buy those shoes for her, let her go be with him.
I have a wife and have had her for more than a decade and a half so I know how to keep her and buying her $900 shoes ain't it.
And this isn't even the nigga's wife, just his "girl". Her even asking for is suspect as hell. No single clothing item should cost as much as your rent/mortgage.

U wouldnt buy them for your wife of 15 yrs?

I'm not saying buying her expensive gifts will make her stay, but not buying her expensive gifts will make her want out sooner than later

 

[Count23]

U wouldnt buy them for your wife of 15 yrs?

I'm not saying buying her expensive gifts will make her stay, but not buying her expensive gifts will make her want out sooner than later

well you win some and lose some i guess if i feel as though i gotta 'rent' a chicks loyalty for the sake of pussy, i may as well trick on a prostitute and cut the bs out.

 

[5th_Ward_Day]

fuck that shit

 

[Upgrade Dave]

U wouldnt buy them for your wife of 15 yrs?

I'm not saying buying her expensive gifts will make her stay, but not buying her expensive gifts will make her want out sooner than later

Buying or not buying expensive gifts doesn't come into the equation when they're figuring whether to stay or go. That's how whores think.

Hell no, I wouldn't buy those shoes or any other for that price for my wife if she asked. I can imagine all the shit I could get her with that same money if I was going to use it to buy gifts.

 

[ballscout1]

those should could cost 99 cents and these dudes going to tell you not to buy them... a lot of tough talk behind them keys

a lot of tough talk from a bunch of mofokrs who would pay damn near 200 for some reissued shit from a mofokr who hasn't played a game in over 10 years.

 

[CUB2006]

well you win some and lose some i guess if i feel as though i gotta 'rent' a chicks loyalty for the sake of pussy, i may as well trick on a prostitute and cut the bs out.

The main reasons chicks sleep around is because they arent getting SOMETHING they want. Be it time, attention, good sex, materialistic things,

What u dont/wont do the next brother will.... The two year affair I had with my sister-law had a lot to do with him not getting her designer bags and shoes. I agree she was a gold-digging whore but again I dont think her and I would have crossed that line had he bought the little things she asked for.. She knew I didnt have a problem doing it so she came to me... She has a closet full of stuff she nor he can afford..

 

[CUB2006]

Buying or not buying expensive gifts doesn't come into the equation when they're figuring whether to stay or go. That's how whores think.

Hell no, I wouldn't buy those shoes or any other for that price for my wife if she asked. I can imagine all the shit I could get her with that same money if I was going to use it to buy gifts.

Good point, but again if you dont/wont/cant get her things she want, she will soon look for someone that will..

 

[Count23]

The main reasons chicks sleep around is because they arent getting SOMETHING they want. Be it time, attention, good sex, materialistic things,

What u dont/wont do the next brother will.... The two year affair I had with my sister-law had a lot to do with him not getting her designer bags and shoes. I agree she was a gold-digging whore but again I dont think her and I would have crossed that line had he bought the little things she asked for.. She knew I didnt have a problem doing it so she came to me... She has a closet full of stuff she nor he can afford..

she prolly would've eventually cuz as u said, she's a gold diggin whore.

 

[ureiman]

Louboutins - $895.

She showed me these in Bloomingdale's this weekend. She wants them, even though I offered to pay the February month's rent instead. Would you get her what she wants or do the responsible thing and hit off the apartment complex w/ a rent check?

It's one of those what she WANTS vs what she NEEDS situations.

$895 rent vs shoes

I refuse to buy shoes that cost that much and I'm paying rent instead of a mortgage payment. Remind of of back in the early 90s when me and my homies would buy Beamers and Benzes and was still living at home with momma.

 

[CUB2006]

a lot of tough talk from a bunch of mofokrs who would pay damn near 200 for some reissued shit from a mofokr who hasn't played a game in over 10 years.

C/S either these dudes dont have serious relationship or they are lying and coping expensive gifts just like the rest of us..

I admit, I done way too much spoiling but then again, my chicks were spoiling me just as well.. I have $1,000 louis sneakers I got last year from a chick..

 

[CUB2006]

she prolly would've eventually cuz as u said, she's a gold diggin whore.

I dont know bro..

 

[Cannibal]

A good woman that knows you and knows your finances would make her gift wishes fit your circumstance. If you're a baller, sure, no questions asked I'll get them. If you're just an average guy living check to check, well then she doesn't have your best interest at heart now does she. She doesn't mind seeing you struggle to pay that bill off. It also shows how materialistic she is and what kind of wife she will be. I don't know her, she could very well be a partner at a law firm and could easily buy her own shit, but you need to be careful with someone asking you to slap down $900 gifts especially shoes. If it was a MAC book or something of true worth that you will use everyday, sure... but shoes you will wear once or maybe twice a month that will sit in the closet or under the bed 99% of the year. Ha.

I make good money, I'm married and I have thousand in the checking account. My wife wouldn't dare fix her lips to ask for something like this. Look to the future my brother, you might be opening a can of worms.

 

[husband73]

Only if she invites her girlfriend and her fine azz cousin to fuck every Saturday for a month straight. If says i don't go that way!!!!! Say well neither does my wallet for those shoes[ which she would not wear in 2 years because something 'better will come out'

 

[Rock'Em Sock'Em Jones]

C/S either these dudes dont have serious relationship or they are lying and coping expensive gifts just like the rest of us..

I admit, I done way too much spoiling but then again, my chicks were spoiling me just as well.. I have $1,000 louis sneakers I got last year from a chick..

OR maybe some dudes just actually have decent, intelligent women who don't think like chicken heads and hood rats and actually have enough sense to know when something is a bad financial decision or bad investment.

 

[CUB2006]

OR maybe some dudes just actually have decent, intelligent women who don't think like chicken heads and hood rats and actually have enough sense to know when something is a bad financial decision or bad investment.

You're pretty broke if one pair of $1,000 shoes to show your main girl u love her is "a bad financial decision or bad investment"

U cant tell me u have a real relationship and you dont spend at min $1,000 a year on her

She's cheating on you big dog...

 

[dredstar]

Aint no pussy no pussy that good, and I know she aint letting you pack that ass, and she's still gonna have you pay the rent!!!!!! Tell that bitch to put put a rubber band around her head and snap out of it!!!!!!

 

[ballscout1]

My woman wants a 2012 Jeep Cherokee with a luggage rack for Valentines Day.

Should I buy it for her ?

One question I have is why she specifically ask that it have a luggae rack ?

Like she is going to go somewhere.

 

[Darrkman]

The OP is an attention whore.

That said there is nothing wrong with a luxury purchase IF YOU CAN AFFORD IT. My wife likes bags so I got her one expensive bag for Christmas. The second came out of her pocket.

Sent from my EVO Shift

 

[voodoo]

hell yes. if you love her...

 

[trick20]

just curious does she already have shoes in this price range?

 

[Upgrade Dave]

Good point, but again if you dont/wont/cant get her things she want, she will soon look for someone that will..

If she was a whore, she would and I would be blessed to have a chick like that gone.
It's not a case of me not getting things my wife wants and needs, I do all the time but somethings are beyond the pale and out of the question and $900 shoes is one.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

You're pretty broke if one pair of $1,000 shoes to show your main girl u love her is "a bad financial decision or bad investment"

U cant tell me u have a real relationship and you dont spend at min $1,000 a year on her

She's cheating on you big dog...

You know there's a difference between spending $1000 on a woman over the course of a year and dropping that much on a single pair of shoes. If she's not going to expect or want anything else all year, buying those shoes is a great deal.
Spending that much money on any one thing is an investment and a financial decision.

 

[jwilliam85]

You're pretty broke if one pair of $1,000 shoes to show your main girl u love her is "a bad financial decision or bad investment"

U cant tell me u have a real relationship and you dont spend at min $1,000 a year on her

She's cheating on you big dog...

This nigga.

 

[rph2005]

Louboutins - $895.

She showed me these in Bloomingdale's this weekend. She wants them, even though I offered to pay the February month's rent instead. Would you get her what she wants or do the responsible thing and hit off the apartment complex w/ a rent check?

It's one of those what she WANTS vs what she NEEDS situations.

Have you ever purchased anything that expensive for her before?

 

[ballscout1]

You know there's a difference between spending $1000 on a woman over the course of a year and dropping that much on a single pair of shoes. If she's not going to expect or want anything else all year, buying those shoes is a great deal.
Spending that much money on any one thing is an investment and a financial decision.

you never brought your wife a fur coat ?

a piece of jewlery not her wedding ring ?

sent her on a trip ?

i think the price has to be in the context of the persons finances.

that might be over the top for a mofokr working in retail but not for me.

I spent more than that on each kid for xmas.

 

[Lick]

It depends on how things are with you and her and how you feel about her... It's only $900.00 bills and if you can do it I say go for it. But if it is going to cause you to miss a payment anywhere then you need to do some thinking about how you spend your money and your girl and the type of girl you have in your life.

Stay up Bruh!

 

[Bad Andy]

just curious does she already have shoes in this price range?

This is the best question here & what does she drive? I can see giving her $1000 towards tuition, $1000 she about to get evicted, $1000 she need a new transmission, yeah man up. There's something wrong with her homie. $900 shoes does she have any kids? Does she have a job?

 

[Lick]

you never brought your wife a fur coat ?

a piece of jewlery not her wedding ring ?

sent her on a trip ?

i think the price has to be in the context of the persons finances.

that might be over the top for a mofokr working in retail but not for me.

I spent more than that on each kid for xmas.

Or a grill, power tool or rims for your ride... I know cats here drop paper to fix up their rides.

 

[Lick]

Louboutins - $895.

She showed me these in Bloomingdale's this weekend. She wants them, even though I offered to pay the February month's rent instead. Would you get her what she wants or do the responsible thing and hit off the apartment complex w/ a rent check?

It's one of those what she WANTS vs what she NEEDS situations.

Yall paying rent... I don't think you want my advise.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

you never brought your wife a fur coat ?

a piece of jewlery not her wedding ring ?

sent her on a trip ?

i think the price has to be in the context of the persons finances.

that might be over the top for a mofokr working in retail but not for me.

I spent more than that on each kid for xmas.

We live in NC so there are fewer wastes of money than a fur coat (I guess snow tires would be a bigger waste).

I've bought her several pieces of jewelry but jewelry doesn't wear out like shoes.

You're right about the price and the context but for me, I still wouldn't do it. I bought into the concept of "It's not how much you make but how much you save."
No matter how much a person makes, I can't see how you spend that much on one pair of shoes. You mean to tell me, and this is what I would tell her, you can't find a great pair of heels for under a grand?

 

[J.E.T.S]

Buy them gay ass nigga.

I would do the same for a female who I love and done for me without a second thought if I was able to without putting me in the red.

But as of now... These worthless hoes I've been chilling with ain't getting shit but dick and a dinner maybe.

 

[2jzmk3]

Well it depends.. i cant really talk shit about getting her shoes that cost that much, when i have damn near 4k worth of Joradns in my closet.

those exact shoes are wack, but if they were nice, i would get her something like that.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

Buy them gay ass nigga.

I would do the same for a female who I love and done for me without a second thought if I was able to without putting me in the red.

But as of now... These worthless hoes I've been chilling with ain't getting shit but dick and a dinner maybe.

 

[F-king]

I say buy them for her champ... Trust me, if u dont someone else will...

If she makes u happy, why not make her happy? Most of these cats dont have a woman, so they have no idea what it takes to keep one.

If shes good to u, y not?

I feel the same way bout this comment. But priorities first.