My ex keeps trying to start a fight...

[Dannyblueyes]

So I'm about to send the following e-mail:

Dear A*****,

You know I care about you. When you called me up for advice on cashing bad checks the first thing that crossed my mind was G******. I kept thinking
"This talented potential millionaire has fucked up once again." There's a part of me that wants to worry and save you and a part of me that says
"let her fuck up and learn." I chose the latter.

So far so good. Then you take issue with the words "good luck" in my text. Said issue turn into a fight. Now we have two intelligent adults fighting over bullshit. When the dust settles I asked myself, "why would a woman who hated drama go out of her way to spark some?" Then I remember that you're writing a docudrama about your life. Unfortunately every 18 year old has a similar story. Unless you cure cancer, fuck Barack Obama, or I come up with a Jay-Z style dynasty nobody is going to care.

Now that would be a damn shame. You have the artistic talent and skill to make Aaron McGruder sit on your lap. Instead you present yourself as one of the girls that J****** and I would laugh and toast a beer over. Please show me I'm wrong because I would hate to dismiss you completely. I would like to testify that "I knew A***** J****** back when...." instead of saying "She didn't catch it from me...."

The new woman in my life is pissed off about the attention I give you. All things considered she has a point. If she had simped over some dude the way I cupcake over you I probably wouldn't have fucked with her in the first place. Nobody wants to be a romantic interlude.

I would like to think of you as a friend. However, if you're actions interfere with my happiness then I have to deny you. Please don't make this necessary.

I'm wishing the best for you this year. Don't let me down.

Sincerely,
D***** M******


Ladies, if you got this letter from an ex-boyfriend what would you think?

 

[sean69]

That's your EX right?


Just checking dude, just checking ...

 

[watchin]

Entirely too much energy spent. That email only gonna fuel more arguments and keep your attention focused on each other. Meeeyyybe that's what you want?

 

[MCP]

Just let sleeping dogs lie.

Don't re-stir up any more arguments.

 

[DeSiRe]

unless she has totally moved on or hates your guts often times women find ways to keep ties

asking for help or for you to do random bullshit just to have you around/keep tabs on you

she might even do things to get a rise out of you

some people still dont know the difference between negative and positive attention

if your ex still has feelings for you, and you have moved on im pretty sure this is going on

recognize whats going on and nip it in the bud....dont fall for her sorry attempts for attention...if you give her attention...positive or negative its going to fuel the fire and it will continue...IGNORE IT

 

[Dannyblueyes]

unless she has totally moved on or hates your guts often times women find ways to keep ties

asking for help or for you to do random bullshit just to have you around/keep tabs on you

she might even do things to get a rise out of you

some people still dont know the difference between negative and positive attention

if your ex still has feelings for you, and you have moved on im pretty sure this is going on

recognize whats going on and nip it in the bud....dont fall for her sorry attempts for attention...if you give her attention...positive or negative its going to fuel the fire and it will continue...IGNORE IT

We broke up about 2 months back, but we still dated up until a couple weeks ago. I have a new woman in my life now, and although we ain't official I can see how having my ex around could cause problems, especially since they used to be friends.

That being said I would hate to cut her off completely. There's still a chance that things could fall apart with this new lady. Also, being cool with my ex has had a lot of positive benefits as well.

 

[ladyscorpio]

That's your EX right?


Just checking dude, just checking ...

 

[DeSiRe]

We broke up about 2 months back, but we still dated up until a couple weeks ago. I have a new woman in my life now, and although we ain't official I can see how having my ex around could cause problems, especially since they used to be friends.

That being said I would hate to cut her off completely. There's still a chance that things could fall apart with this new lady. Also, being cool with my ex has had a lot of positive benefits as well.

so u are entertaining your ex because you are scared u and your new boo wont work out

what are these positive benefits you speak of

 

[Dannyblueyes]

so u are entertaining your ex because you are scared u and your new boo wont work out

what are these positive benefits you speak of

More or less. This new lady is a friend of mine that started fucking one day. That could change in a heartbeat. If it does I need to make sure that there are other women in my life. Otherwise I'm going to be alone for a long, long while. The stank of loneliness doesn't get any better with time.