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GRAMMYS 2023 FEB. 8, 2023
Dee Barnes Thinks It’s a … Choice to Name Grammy Award After Dr. Dre
By Zoe Guy, a news writer who covers film, TV, music, and celebrities
Dee Barnes. Photo: Paul Archuleta/FilmMagic
Hip-hop businessman Dr. Dre received the Grammys’ inaugural Dr. Dre Global Impact Award on February 5, an honor given to an individual for their remarkable achievements in the music industry. Dee Barnes — a journalist and rapper who says she was assaulted by Dre in November 1990 — thinks it’s odd (to say the least) that the Grammys named the award after him. “Most people without a knowledge of [Dr. Dre’s] history are going to say, ‘Oh, he must deserve that. He must be such a great person for them to put an award in his name,’” she wrote in a Rolling Stone op-ed published February 8. “But they named this award after an abuser.” The Recording Academy’s Black Music Collective, a group formed after 2020’s attempt at a racial reckoning, debuted the Global Impact Award in 2022 and rechristened it after the West Coast rapper this year. “To name an award after someone with that type of history in the music industry, you might as well call it the ‘Ike Turner Award.’”
Dr. Dre apologized to “the women I hurt” in a statement to the New York Times after Barnes spoke out against the 2015 Straight Outta Compton biopic expunging his violent past. Barnes argued that the apology doesn’t mean the Recording Academy and the hip-hop community has reckoned with Dre’s abuse. Though the MC chronicled the genre’s early history with her Fox show Pump It Up! from 1989 to 1991 at just 19 years old, she said the community turned its back on her after Dre threw her down a flight of stairs, kicked her, and slammed her head against a wall at a Bytches With Problems record-release party on January 27, 1991. While Dre went on to earn millions even after he was charged with abuse and pleaded no contest to assault and battery, the same rosy future couldn’t be said for Barnes. Her position in the hip-hop scene suffered after the attack in what she calls a “blacklisting,” an experience that resulted in career stagnation and three years of being unhoused. “There’s a whole network to keep me hidden,” Barnes wrote, so as to not make Dre “look bad.”

“I’m not the bad guy, but I am made into the villain — very much like how they did Megan Thee Stallion during the trial against her attacker, Tory Lanez,” Barnes added. “I watched what happened to my little sister Megan, and it just was heartbreaking to me because we have not changed in all these years.” She claimed Dre refused her offer to sit down on-camera and “hash it out.” “I think that’s going to be the only thing to turn the tide, so to speak — if we have a come-to-Jesus moment in person, in public.” The Grammys didn’t have the come-to-Jesus moment — like in Straight Outta Compton, Dre’s alleged abuse was erased from the ceremony. Vulture reached out to the Recording Academy for comment.
 
Aye man I'm sorry that happened to her.....



But after 30+ years, at a certain point you gotta heal and let it go. The world for the most part doesn't know about that incident and most that do have forgiven him and have moved on. It sucks for her...

But it's the bitter truth
 
She will be throwing tomatoes at this dude until she goes in her grave.

I understand he did her dirty, but he was extremely talented and moved ahead in life. It's killing her inside.
 
That one event traumatized her physically and killed her career and livelihood. And she never got justice, while watching Dre celebrated and earn massive riches. She shouldn't get over it.

^^^

Its like telling black folk get over slavery or jews the holocaust.

You get over losing a child or being raped or being abused as a child.

She was BRUTALLY beaten and abandoned by everyone in her tribe.

And her abuser was held up like a hero AND joked about it in a grammy nominated hit song

And she just supposed to GET OVER IT?

I pray for these dudes hourly
 
^^^

Its like telling black folk get over slavery or jews the holocaust.

You get over losing a child or being raped or being abused as a child.

She was BRUTALLY beaten and abandoned by everyone in her tribe.

And her abuser was held up like a hero AND joked about it in a grammy nominated hit song

And she just supposed to GET OVER IT?

I pray for these dudes hourly
That's the thing. He did the shit (and not just to her but other women after her) but she was the one who was basically blacklisted.

Some messed up logic.
 
^^^

Its like telling black folk get over slavery or jews the holocaust.

You get over losing a child or being raped or being abused as a child.

She was BRUTALLY beaten and abandoned by everyone in her tribe.

And her abuser was held up like a hero AND joked about it in a grammy nominated hit song

And she just supposed to GET OVER IT?

I pray for these dudes hourly

I feel you and I get her POV,

But at this point Dre has too many companies, too much money and the majority of the public on his side.....

It's like me yelling at the Great Wall of China, no matter how I yell.....it ain't moving.

I say she needs to find healing, because 30+ years is too long to let this fester.

She'll never get over it, but how many personal or potential relationships has she walked away from or ruined because she's not healed?

That's how he and "they" win......

I wish her much health and hopefully some healing will enter the equation as well.
 
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I feel you and I get her POV,

But at this point Dre has too many companies, too much money and the majority of the public on his side.....

It's like me yelling at the Great Wall of China, no matter how I yell.....it ain't moving.

I say she needs to find healing, because 30+ years is too long to let this fester.

She'll never get over it, but how many personal or potential relationships has she walked away from or ruined because she's not healed?

That's how he and "they" win......

I wish her much health and hopefully some healing will enter the equation as well.

I understand what you saying and kinda agree

My thing is it aint for US to say get over it to her or judge her at all

and basically pat Dre on the back cause no matter HOW you flip it? That's what you doing when you tell her to get over it.

Maybe she WAS over it

then the song comes out

then the video

then the grammy nomination

and the BILLION dollars

and the hit movie

and awards

and the constant jokes to the point people trying to act like it NEVER happened.

You stronger than me bro and I think a WHOLE lot of other people to be able to just "get over that"

when people constantly throw it your face and then act like it never happened?

We got prisons and graveyards filled with folk who couldn't get over something

hell we got dudes on this BOARD still mad over old posts.

I'm saying yeah you should TRY and ASPIRE to do that.

Saying something and actually doing it is never as easy as folk think.
 
I understand what you saying and kinda agree

My thing is it aint for US to say get over it to her or judge her at all

and basically pat Dre on the back cause no matter HOW you flip it? That's what you doing when you tell her to get over it.

Maybe she WAS over it

then the song comes out

then the video

then the grammy nomination

and the BILLION dollars

and the hit movie

and awards

and the constant jokes to the point people trying to act like it NEVER happened.

You stronger than me bro and I think a WHOLE lot of other people to be able to just "get over that"

when people constantly throw it your face and then act like it never happened?

We got prisons and graveyards filled with folk who couldn't get over something

hell we got dudes on this BOARD still mad over old posts.

I'm saying yeah you should TRY and ASPIRE to do that.

Saying something and actually doing it is never as easy as folk think.

Healing and "get over it" are two different things.

You can know who your enemy is, how they move and not be so triggered whenever they are mentioned.

I can't tell her or any other victims what their healing experience should be, however I can say as an outsider what it doesn't look like.

She seemingly is still puzzled and astonished that so many people/ companies fuck with him and how she ended up in the position she's in......

Almost like she questions the world we live in. He was a Black man making white people/ companies millions that lead to them making billions of dollars......

This world has been on that type of time since money entered the equation.......
 
Healing and "get over it" are two different things.

You can know who your enemy is, how they move and not be so triggered whenever they are mentioned.

I can't tell her or any other victims what their healing experience should be, however I can say as an outsider what it doesn't look like.

She seemingly is still puzzled and astonished that so many people/ companies fuck with him and how she ended up in the position she's in......

Almost like she questions the world we live in. He was a Black man making white people/ companies millions that lead to them making billions of dollars......

This world has been on that type of time since money entered the equation.......

Now that is a very very interesting observation that really has me thinking.

I gotta meditate on that.

Again I can't argue your point.

But even healing... if you feel the world keeps ripping the scab off?

I can't fault you

Cause as black man KNOWING how cold this world is? I still feel that way myself at times.
 
You can know who your enemy is, how they move and not be so triggered whenever they are mentioned.
This.
She probably can't understand why, especially during this fem-centric era in this country, hasn't someone come to her aid and helped her finally take him down?
It's really killing her inside.
 
I can definitely understand her issue being that he's had a history with a couple of domestic violence incidents against women.
 
Just wondering, if say Mc Lyte beat the breaks off her 30 years ago and then 10 years later Lyte ruffed up Lil Kim in the ladies room at the B E T awards, would it be the same as Dre putting hands on her.
 
Nobody cares because Dre makes dope beats. I'm not sure why no one cares but they don't.


Nicole Young, while initiating a divorce from Dre, said in court filings that her then-husband “held a gun to her head on two occasions, once in 2000 and again in 2001,” ET reported at the time. “She also claims that he punched her in the head/face twice, as well as kicked down the door to her bedroom when she was allegedly ‘hiding from his rage in 2016.

https://newsone.com/4220090/dr-dre-abusive-past-super-bowl-halftime-show/
 
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