Mismatched sex drives

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Ladies have you ever been with someone whose drive was too much for you?

Have you ever wanted sex more than your mate?

How do you handle that in each scenario?


Men what do you do when your woman doesn't want to have sex as much as you?

Is the lack of a sex drive on your partner's part a legitimate reason to go outside of your relationship?
 
The Problem With Us Is That We Fail To Understand That There Are Always Differences.

My Last One Could Have Been Satisfied With 4 Times A Month. She Actually Told Me That She Would Like To Ask For Sex, And That I Ask Way Too Much. Too Much?
Is Asking/signaling For Sex At Night So You Can Sleep After Too Much?
Is Asking/signaling For Sex In The Morning Cause You Want Her And You To Be As One Too Much?
Is Asking/signaling For Sex After She Gets Out The Shower Or Is Walking Around Naked Too Much?
Is Asking For Sex After A Great Night Out Dancing And Drinking Too Much?

Sex Is Not Everything Until You Don't Get It Enough Then It Becomes Everything.
She Claims After 1 Hour Of Sex She Is Sore. I Understand That But If I Can Only Get One Hour For The Week Is That Too Much Sex?
If I Start To Get It Every Night And Day I Will Then Switch Up And Be Able To Go A Night Or Two Without It. Spending Time With A Woman Is Over Rated.

I HAVE NEVER CHEATED WHEN THE SEX WAS LACKING. I JUST GRUMBLED ALOT AND BECAME VERY SARCASTIC WITH HER AT TIMES. I DID NOT WANT TO DO THINGS FOR HER WILLINGLY. SEX IS NOT A COMMODITY!!!
I NEVER HAD BACKUP PUSSY ON PAYROLL TO MAKE THAT CALL TO FILL IN WHEN I NEEDED PUSSY.
Think About This.... If Everyman Thought About How Much Energy/time He Spent With A New Woman Leading Up To Getting Pussy Would The Return On The Investment (r.o.i.)be Well Worth It?
No, Not At All.
We Put Money, Time, Effort, Feelings Into Being With A Woman. What Do They Put Into It?
Wearing The Jewelry We Brought Them, Eating The Food We Buy At Dinner, Watching The Film We Take Them To, Sitting In The Car Being Taken Where They Want To Go By Us, Cooking For Them, Thanking Us For Running Errands For Them, Spending The Money We Worked To Get.
I Hate A Bitch That Calls Other Men Or Allows Them To Call Her When They Are In A Relationship.
We Are All Fucked Up. I Am Just Going Meet And Greet Woman From Now On. They Get None Of My Business And Time.
Here Are Five Questions I Am Going To Ask From Now On.
1) Are You Working? If So How Much An Hour?
2) How Many Kids, Baby Daddies, And How Do They Interact In The Childs Life?
3) Do You Own A Car, Home Or Condo? If So Are You Able To Pay Your Bills By Yourself?
4) Do You Have Any Black In You? If Not Do You Want Some? (joke)
5) Can You Be Counted On To Strive For A One On One Relationship If Needed?

I Used To Have Someone Who Gave It To Me Night And Day And In Between. SHE USED TO GIVE IT TO ME ON HER PERIOD AS WELL. I GIVE HER SO MUCH CREDIT FOR BEING REAL WITH ME ABOUT HOW MUCH SHE WANTED AND DESIRE ME EVEN WHEN WE WERE FIGHTING. I NEVER HAD ANYONE OFFER ME PUSSY WHILE SHE WAS SO UPSET WITH ME. I REALLY LOVED THAT WOMAN. I TRIED TO CALL HER BUT SHE WON'T RETURN MY CALLS. I KNOW THAT CHAPTER IS CLOSED.
I Still Love Her But We Went Our Seperate Ways.
 
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RAULDK said:
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you can never just answer a question....you are so, in the words of Flavor Flav...DRAMTICAL! lol

oh yeah

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:lol::lol::lol:
 
Lick My Balls Curious. If This Board Wanted A One Word Answer Then It Would Be Named Hooked On Phonics Sol
 
RAULDK said:
Lick My Balls Curious. If This Board Wanted A One Word Answer Then It Would Be Named Hooked On Phonics Sol
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ummm there is a difference between answer the question and going on a tangential rant

i mean we get the point...ur love sick, miss ur chic, now ur having inner bouts about whether to love again or be a hoe...yadda yadda yadda

we got it the first 19 million times u posted it


RAULDK said:
The Problem With Us Is That We Fail To Understand That There Are Always Differences.

My Last One Could Have Been Satisfied With 4 Times A Month. She Actually Told Me That She Would Like To Ask For Sex, And That I Ask Way Too Much. Too Much?
Is Asking/signaling For Sex At Night So You Can Sleep After Too Much?
Is Asking/signaling For Sex In The Morning Cause You Want Her And You To Be As One Too Much?
Is Asking/signaling For Sex After She Gets Out The Shower Or Is Walking Around Naked Too Much?
Is Asking For Sex After A Great Night Out Dancing And Drinking Too Much?

Sex Is Not Everything Until You Don't Get It Enough Then It Becomes Everything.
She Claims After 1 Hour Of Sex She Is Sore. I Understand That But If I Can Only Get One Hour For The Week Is That Too Much Sex?
If I Start To Get It Every Night And Day I Will Then Switch Up And Be Able To Go A Night Or Two Without It. Spending Time With A Woman Is Over Rated.

I HAVE NEVER CHEATED WHEN THE SEX WAS LACKING. I JUST GRUMBLED ALOT AND BECAME VERY SARCASTIC WITH HER AT TIMES. I DID NOT WANT TO DO THINGS FOR HER WILLINGLY. SEX IS NOT A COMMODITY!!!
I NEVER HAD BACKUP PUSSY ON PAYROLL TO MAKE THAT CALL TO FILL IN WHEN I NEEDED PUSSY.
Think About This.... If Everyman Thought About How Much Energy/time He Spent With A New Woman Leading Up To Getting Pussy Would The Return On The Investment (r.o.i.)be Well Worth It?
No, Not At All.
We Put Money, Time, Effort, Feelings Into Being With A Woman. What Do They Put Into It?
Wearing The Jewelry We Brought Them, Eating The Food We Buy At Dinner, Watching The Film We Take Them To, Sitting In The Car Being Taken Where They Want To Go By Us, Cooking For Them, Thanking Us For Running Errands For Them, Spending The Money We Worked To Get.
I Hate A Bitch That Calls Other Men Or Allows Them To Call Her When They Are In A Relationship.
We Are All Fucked Up. I Am Just Going Meet And Greet Woman From Now On. They Get None Of My Business And Time.
Here Are Five Questions I Am Going To Ask From Now On.
1) Are You Working? If So How Much An Hour?
2) How Many Kids, Baby Daddies, And How Do They Interact In The Childs Life?
3) Do You Own A Car, Home Or Condo? If So Are You Able To Pay Your Bills By Yourself?
4) Do You Have Any Black In You? If Not Do You Want Some? (joke)
5) Can You Be Counted On To Strive For A One On One Relationship If Needed?


I Used To Have Someone Who Gave It To Me Night And Day And In Between. SHE USED TO GIVE IT TO ME ON HER PERIOD AS WELL. I GIVE HER SO MUCH CREDIT FOR BEING REAL WITH ME ABOUT HOW MUCH SHE WANTED AND DESIRE ME EVEN WHEN WE WERE FIGHTING. I NEVER HAD ANYONE OFFER ME PUSSY WHILE SHE WAS SO UPSET WITH ME. I REALLY LOVED THAT WOMAN. I TRIED TO CALL HER BUT SHE WON'T RETURN MY CALLS. I KNOW THAT CHAPTER IS CLOSED.
I Still Love Her But We Went Our Seperate Ways.
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the bold and italicized = tangential rant
the bold, italicized and underlined = ur usual love sick tangential rant

everything else = actual answer to the question
 
I Am Sorry, Hold on..... ( Run Around The Block)... I Am Back....
Lick My Now Sweaty Balls.
Curious
 
femmenoire said:
Ladies have you ever been with someone whose drive was too much for you?
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nope....but, there was this one guy i was interested in that talked about how he's not really into having sex more than 4x's a week and i was like :confused: lol.

Have you ever wanted sex more than your mate?
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Yup...well I don't know if i wanted it more or i just beat him to the punch lol cuz everytime he was down

How do you handle that in each scenario?
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I initiated it


Men what do you do when your woman doesn't want to have sex as much as you?
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n/a

Is the lack of a sex drive on your partner's part a legitimate reason to go outside of your relationship?
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nope. if yall are mismatching that much and its REALLY affecting you...bring it to their attention. if that fails and you feel like ur gonna cheat then u need to end it
 
RAULDK said:
The Problem With Us Is That We Fail To Understand That There Are Always Differences.

My Last One Could Have Been Satisfied With 4 Times A Month. She Actually Told Me That She Would Like To Ask For Sex, And That I Ask Way Too Much. Too Much?
Is Asking/signaling For Sex At Night So You Can Sleep After Too Much?
Is Asking/signaling For Sex In The Morning Cause You Want Her And You To Be As One Too Much?
Is Asking/signaling For Sex After She Gets Out The Shower Or Is Walking Around Naked Too Much?
Is Asking For Sex After A Great Night Out Dancing And Drinking Too Much?

Sex Is Not Everything Until You Don't Get It Enough Then It Becomes Everything.
She Claims After 1 Hour Of Sex She Is Sore. I Understand That But If I Can Only Get One Hour For The Week Is That Too Much Sex?
If I Start To Get It Every Night And Day I Will Then Switch Up And Be Able To Go A Night Or Two Without It. Spending Time With A Woman Is Over Rated.

I HAVE NEVER CHEATED WHEN THE SEX WAS LACKING. I JUST GRUMBLED ALOT AND BECAME VERY SARCASTIC WITH HER AT TIMES. I DID NOT WANT TO DO THINGS FOR HER WILLINGLY. SEX IS NOT A COMMODITY!!!
I NEVER HAD BACKUP PUSSY ON PAYROLL TO MAKE THAT CALL TO FILL IN WHEN I NEEDED PUSSY.
Think About This.... If Everyman Thought About How Much Energy/time He Spent With A New Woman Leading Up To Getting Pussy Would The Return On The Investment (r.o.i.)be Well Worth It?
No, Not At All.
We Put Money, Time, Effort, Feelings Into Being With A Woman. What Do They Put Into It?
Wearing The Jewelry We Brought Them, Eating The Food We Buy At Dinner, Watching The Film We Take Them To, Sitting In The Car Being Taken Where They Want To Go By Us, Cooking For Them, Thanking Us For Running Errands For Them, Spending The Money We Worked To Get.
I Hate A Bitch That Calls Other Men Or Allows Them To Call Her When They Are In A Relationship.
We Are All Fucked Up. I Am Just Going Meet And Greet Woman From Now On. They Get None Of My Business And Time.
Here Are Five Questions I Am Going To Ask From Now On.
1) Are You Working? If So How Much An Hour?
2) How Many Kids, Baby Daddies, And How Do They Interact In The Childs Life?
3) Do You Own A Car, Home Or Condo? If So Are You Able To Pay Your Bills By Yourself?
4) Do You Have Any Black In You? If Not Do You Want Some? (joke)
5) Can You Be Counted On To Strive For A One On One Relationship If Needed?

I Used To Have Someone Who Gave It To Me Night And Day And In Between. SHE USED TO GIVE IT TO ME ON HER PERIOD AS WELL. I GIVE HER SO MUCH CREDIT FOR BEING REAL WITH ME ABOUT HOW MUCH SHE WANTED AND DESIRE ME EVEN WHEN WE WERE FIGHTING. I NEVER HAD ANYONE OFFER ME PUSSY WHILE SHE WAS SO UPSET WITH ME. I REALLY LOVED THAT WOMAN. I TRIED TO CALL HER BUT SHE WON'T RETURN MY CALLS. I KNOW THAT CHAPTER IS CLOSED.
I Still Love Her But We Went Our Seperate Ways.
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Damn nigga, YOU TALK TOO FUCKING MUCH. And you and JU need to get together.
 
femmenoire said:
Have you ever wanted sex more than your mate?
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Yes. All the time.


femmenoire said:
How do you handle that in each scenario?
Men what do you do when your woman doesn't want to have sex as much as you?
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Wait till she falls asleep.

femmenoire said:
Is the lack of a sex drive on your partner's part a legitimate reason to go outside of your relationship?
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:hmm: Fifth. :lol:

Seriously, it's ONLY legitimate if the partner misrepresented their sex drive. And I'm not talking about situations where life gets in the way (working / pregnancy / period / sick child / kids in general / sick parent / death in the family stress / medical conditions )


RAULDK said:
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Nigga, you type too much. You could have just answered the question and moved on. Now we got to hear bout ur broken heart.
 
I have been on both ends of the spectrum.

When I was the one lacking the drive I just held on the best I could and sucked up and fucked that girl. I think females should be rewarded when they are aggressive because they aren't usually. So if one turns that aggression on for me I just go along with the flow.

When I was the one with the high drive I was stepping out like a muthafucka. She wasn't my girl but she was/is my number one. I couldn't maintain a relationship with someone that doesn't at least match my sex drive or tries.
 
I have been with women that wanted it more than me and thats alot considering how much I like sex. I just tried my best to keep up, I never said no to sex with her. I would fuck all day everyday if the woman I was with wanted it that much.

I have also been on the other end of that where I was wanting it more and it was terrible. Its not a legitimate reason to cheat, there never really is one but you have to be with someone whose sex drive is somewhere around the same level as yours or one of u will be unhappy.​
 
This is one of the more trying parts of a relationship. I always seen to be on wanting more side of a relationship. But you have to understand if your woman is working, shopping then coming home and cooking she may be too tired.

This subject has led to many breakups but I think the way around this is by compromising. It worked for me. But we had no choice. We had to compromise since 2 times a day sometimes wasn't enough for me. So I had to help with the workload at home. So there are ways to around all this.

As for the "legitimate reason to go outside of your relationship" it doesn't exist. You knew early on in your relationship what your partners sex drive was like. So if it didn't match early on then was the time to move onto someone else.
 
It Is This Simple.
When You Meet You Are Sexing Like Rabbits, Everyday If Possible.
As The Relationship Goes On, She Slows Down Like Friday Traffic To The Gwb.
You Complain, She Bitches And Shuts Down Even More, It's Her Body She Says.
The Next Time She Says No In Any Way Shape Or Form, Jack Off Right Where You Are And Cum. Then Say "damn I Should Do This All The Time".
If You Do It Enough Times She Will Get Jelous Of Your Hand And Your Ability To Satisfy Yourself Anytime And Possible Put Her Out Of The Business. She Will Think Twice About Not Upping The Pussy To You When You Want It.
 
It sucks to be with someone who wants sex more/less than you...

For an insecure person who wants it more, it could make them feel unsexy/desperate to their partner...

For me, eh... I've wanted it more in a past situation, but eventually I just got over it and tried to enjoy other ways to enjoy my partner rather than just having sex, like doing romantic things together, sharing private moments, etc.
 
RAULDK said:
It Is This Simple.
When You Meet You Are Sexing Like Rabbits, Everyday If Possible.
As The Relationship Goes On, She Slows Down Like Friday Traffic To The Gwb.
You Complain, She Bitches And Shuts Down Even More, It's Her Body She Says.
The Next Time She Says No In Any Way Shape Or Form, Jack Off Right Where You Are And Cum. Then Say "damn I Should Do This All The Time".
If You Do It Enough Times She Will Get Jelous Of Your Hand And Your Ability To Satisfy Yourself Anytime And Possible Put Her Out Of The Business. She Will Think Twice About Not Upping The Pussy To You When You Want It.
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Damn Nigga, why does it Hurt so bad?????
 
I've also been on both sides of the fence. When I wanted it more, my ex-wife was into some serious "rationing" of the puzzy:smh: That was a bad time in my life. My ex gf actually wanted it a lil more than I did, for a brief period. I think I had something going on that slowed down my libido. Also, I think she just wasn't as sexual, or sexy as I liked. Unfortunately, I found out after we got together. I'll never forget her trying to initiate sex, a few times, and I was faking like I was asleep:lol::lol: I look back on it now and laugh, but she just wasn't turning me on, so I wasn't interested.
 
LeroyDibiase said:
Damn Nigga, why does it Hurt so bad?????
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NIGGA, I'M NOT HURTING, I'M TELLING IT LIKE IT IS.
I HAVE ALWAYS GIVEN A LADY WHAT SHE WANTED. AND IF I COULDN'T I WOULD ALWAYS FIND A SOLUTION TO HER PROBLEM.
I NOW KNOW THAT DOING SUCH WAS MY PROBLEM. WHEN DID A FUCKING LADY EVER LOOK OUT FOR MY BEST INTEREST? NEVER. I HAVE BEEN IN SOME LONG ASS RELATIONSHIPS EVEN MARRIAGE. THEY ALL WANT WITH NO RETURN.

I REALLY FUCKED UP ON ONE WOMAN AND I NOW KNOW HOW SHE FELT WHEN HER BEST INTEREST WAS NOT LOOKED AFTER. I WAS SO FUCKED UP BY WHAT WOMEN DID TO ME I COULDN'T TREAT HER WITH A CLEAN SLATE. I BROUGHT ALL THE FOUL SHIT A WOMAN DID TO ME AT HER.

LIKE I SAID, I AM JUST TELLING IT LIKE IT IS.
PUSSY IS LIKE WATER TO ME. I CAN DROWN IN IT IF I DON'T KEEP MY HEAD ABOVE IT.
 
RAULDK said:
NIGGA, I'M NOT HURTING, I'M TELLING IT LIKE IT IS.
I HAVE ALWAYS GIVEN A LADY WHAT SHE WANTED. AND IF I COULDN'T I WOULD ALWAYS FIND A SOLUTION TO HER PROBLEM.
I NOW KNOW THAT DOING SUCH WAS MY PROBLEM. WHEN DID A FUCKING LADY EVER LOOK OUT FOR MY BEST INTEREST? NEVER. I HAVE BEEN IN SOME LONG ASS RELATIONSHIPS EVEN MARRIAGE. THEY ALL WANT WITH NO RETURN.

I REALLY FUCKED UP ON ONE WOMAN AND I NOW KNOW HOW SHE FELT WHEN HER BEST INTEREST WAS NOT LOOKED AFTER. I WAS SO FUCKED UP BY WHAT WOMEN DID TO ME I COULDN'T TREAT HER WITH A CLEAN SLATE. I BROUGHT ALL THE FOUL SHIT A WOMAN DID TO ME AT HER.

LIKE I SAID, I AM JUST TELLING IT LIKE IT IS.
PUSSY IS LIKE WATER TO ME. I CAN DROWN IN IT IF I DON'T KEEP MY HEAD ABOVE IT.
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Nah bruh, for real, you in pain my man.
 
Damn Femme you read my mind with this post. When i am single and celibate i want sex at least once or twice a day but when i am involved with a woman i can slow my role and do less i guess.

I am a serial monogamist so i do not use back up nor do i want my lady to have a back up for me. If i want sex three or four times a week and she wants it three or four times a month then if talking can not solve it then walking will.:hmm:

Sex and intimacy are a natural part of a relationship and if the lady does not want that aspect then we can be friends.:yes: If she does not enjoy sex wid me or at all then why are we wasting each others time.

P.S some people will try to adapt to their new lovers schedule or habits even though it conflicts with their own to allow the relationship to be cemented but that is wrong. Portray the real you at all times and never front because lying can never bring anything good.

A relationship is a give and take and sometimes sacrifices are necessary for both persons to be happy.
 
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I AGREE, WALKING OUT OF A RELATIONSHIP IF SEX IS NOT ENOUGH IS A VERY HARD THING TO DO. WE TEND TO BACK DOWN IF WE CAN'T HAVE WHAT WE NEED (I KNOW THE DIFF BETWEEN WANT & NEED).
I NEVER HAD A PROBLEM WITH SEX UNTIL MY LAST RELATIONSHIP. I FELT SHE WAS THE ONE FOR ME AND WE WERE SEXING EVERY DAY UNTIL LATER ON SHE STARTED SLOWING DOWN. I KINDA OVERLOOKED IT FOR A WHILE BUT THEN I FELT LIKE I WAS BOTHERING HER WHEN I WANTED SOME. i HAD THE CONVO WITH HER AND SHE SAID SHE COULD HAVE IT ABOUT ONCE A WEEK. I SAID WHAT THE FUCK HAPPEN TO 10 TIMES A WEEK LIKE WE USED TO DO. SHE SAID HER BODY GET SORE FROM HOURS OF LOVEMAKING. WELL I HAD TO PUT AN END TO THAT. I BOUNCED.
 
femmenoire said:
Ladies have you ever been with someone whose drive was too much for you?

Have you ever wanted sex more than your mate?

How do you handle that in each scenario?

Is the lack of a sex drive on your partner's part a legitimate reason to go outside of your relationship?
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Yes. That was hard, but I prefer it that way. It's easier for me to do the do as much as he likes, instead of hoping that he's in the mood when I want some.

Yes. This is a tougher situation for me than the reverse. I pretty much had to handle mine a lot more than usual :D

I have not had a reason to go out of any relationship. If I'm not feeling the situatioon then I get out. It's really not rocket science.
 
RAULDK said:
As The Relationship Goes On, She Slows Down Like Friday Traffic To The Gwb.
You Complain, She Bitches And Shuts Down Even More, It's Her Body She Says.
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I hate to say this, but... My parents are still going at it :( It's really about how much you want to take care of each other. Maybe your ex wasn't committed to doing what you needed at the time
 
RAULDK said:
Spending Time With A Woman Is Over Rated.
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Big dog i'm not even gonna call you gay.... you're just a very miserable person. A person is gonna be trifling or loyal and steadfast no matter what! If you find a dude who cheats and you throw the pussy at him what does that say? If you find a woman who can suck the O off the a stop sign and doesnt even let you put in work... just lets you lay there and she rides you and she still cheats? Then what is that? People are gonna be trife no matter what and people are gonna be stead fast.
But on the real you got too much baggage right now for a woman.
 
LogicBlack said:
Big dog i'm not even gonna call you gay.... you're just a very miserable person. A person is gonna be trifling or loyal and steadfast no matter what! If you find a dude who cheats and you throw the pussy at him what does that say? If you find a woman who can suck the O off the a stop sign and doesnt even let you put in work... just lets you lay there and she rides you and she still cheats? Then what is that? People are gonna be trife no matter what and people are gonna be stead fast.
But on the real you got too much baggage right now for a woman.
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True, I am off women for a minute. I got to tell you though, I don't miss em at all. I must have saved so far about $900 bucks by not going to a wedding with my ex ( She needed a dress for herself and shoes for her daughter, She wanted to give $200 for the wedding gift, She needs a audio rack for the 7.1 htib i got her, all the wires look like shit and it is sitting on the floor, her car note is overdue and most likely the rent as well. Her computer needs some software that i downloaded for it).

What do I need from her? nada. I am good.

I have this honey who wants to give me the pussy but she is looking for a boyfriend. I am passing up pussy? Wow, now you know I am in control.
 
femmenoire said:
Have you ever wanted sex more than your mate?
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Yes, especially when I was in my late teens ~ early 20's.
Fortunately for me at that age I'd date women who's sex drive was as out of control as mine, I'd have sex on average about 3~4X a day and often it didn't even matter where we were or who was around at the time.

This doesn't happen as much anymore since I've slowed down to 1~2x a day, but if it does then I try and figure out if this is how she is normally or just an indication of us not being on the same page in some other way?

femmenoire said:
Men what do you do when your woman doesn't want to have sex as much as you?
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Most women I've met weren't necessarily on the same page when we've first met, but I have the tendency of turning most women into freaks. :dance:

femmenoire said:
How do you handle that in each scenario?
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I can honestly say that I've never met a woman who wanted sex more often that me, but if the opposite were the case then I know it's time to move on... Sexual incompatibility is something that keeps becoming a bigger and bigger issue the more energy you put into it. :(

femmenoire said:
Is the lack of a sex drive on your partner's part a legitimate reason to go outside of your relationship?
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No, sex is never a reason to betray the commitment you make with another person, being dishonest is detrimental to any relationship regardless of it's basis.
 
RAULDK said:
True, I am off women for a minute. I got to tell you though, I don't miss em at all. I must have saved so far about $900 bucks by not going to a wedding with my ex ( She needed a dress for herself and shoes for her daughter, She wanted to give $200 for the wedding gift, She needs a audio rack for the 7.1 htib i got her, all the wires look like shit and it is sitting on the floor, her car note is overdue and most likely the rent as well. Her computer needs some software that i downloaded for it).

What do I need from her? nada. I am good.

I have this honey who wants to give me the pussy but she is looking for a boyfriend. I am passing up pussy? Wow, now you know I am in control.
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Dude she's not your ex~girlfriend, she's more like your daughter, A healthy relationship is based on equality not need.
I'm not saying it's wrong to help out someone your in a relationship with, but you can't help someone who can't stand on their own 2 feet, she is a train wreck waiting to happen. :smh:

PS: Your not passing up on pussy, in reality your passing up on the possibility that you get yourself in another relationship before your ready to handle it. :yes:
 
MrLove said:
Dude she's not your ex~girlfriend, she's more like your daughter, A healthy relationship is based on equality not need.
I'm not saying it's wrong to help out someone your in a relationship with, but you can't help someone who can't stand on their own 2 feet, she is a train wreck waiting to happen. :smh:

PS: Your not passing up on pussy, in reality your passing up on the possibility that you get yourself in another relationship before your ready to handle it. :yes:
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see that's part of the issue...he doesn't see relationship...he sees constant flow of pussy

and I agree w/ Logic...you have a lot of baggage....I hope you sort thru them successful and find inner happiness and clarity b4 u step into another one
 
I Just Have To Find A Woman That Can Pay Her Own Bills. Don't Let My Money Go To Your Head? Period!!
No Relationship Is Worth The Headache Of Not Getting Pussy.
A Long Time Ago We Just Took The Pussy, No Questions Asked. Western Civilization Changed The Ways And Now We End Up Bartering For Pussy.

I Just Go With The Flow Now. No Pussy, No Action, No Action No Support Of Any Kind, No Support Of Any Kind = Bye Bye
 
Have you ever wanted sex more than your mate? Yes... Almost all of the time.:(

How do you handle that in each scenario? It depends on the issue… Sometimes I just say fuck it and let it go and other times I beat my shit. :( Men what do you do when your woman doesn't want to have sex as much as you? I pull out every trick in the book to get her in the mood… And I start as early as I can and I start with her mind… It is very rare that I get her in the mood with out getting her thinking about love play:yes:
Is the lack of a sex drive on your partner's part a legitimate reason to go outside of your relationship? :hmm:
 
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