If you would visit M's house with your 8 year old son and let him sleep in Michael's room, and you could not go to that room without calling first; and then let M take the boy on tour and sleep in M's room while you had to sleep in a different room on a whole different floor and you would do all of this after M would call your son on the phone and talk for hours telling your son how much he loved your 8 year old son...raise your hand.